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Enlightenment -vs- passion
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I've been reading some stuff from Lorin Roche that has backed up some thoughts I've had, yet was afraid in some ways to admit to myself.

The basic mantra: Desire = suffering, lack of desire = no suffering... no suffering = ?

Or to put it another way, in the East, an enlightened person could be described as: One who has lost all desire, has no interest in sex, relationships, passionate expression, competition, wealth, etc.

In the West, a severely depressed person could be described as: One who has lost all desire, has no interest in sex, relationships, passionate expression, competition, wealth, etc.

Even as I have used meditation to enrich my life, and looked there for insight into love, sex, relationships, and meaning in general, I've also noticed that much of what I've read with eager eyes has had an opposing effect one me. Of course, I am the one who decides what goes in, and stays out, yet the attitude of isolation in meditation, which is carried out into the monastic lifestyle seems deeply ingrained into much of what I've read, and it's suggested that being monastic is what leads to enlightenment.

There are a few people who don't teach in this manner, but they are the exception.

Think about it. If you don't want to be a Priest, what's the allure of monk hood?

I have no doubt that meditation can be used to enhance just about any viewpoint, yet over the eons, it's been predominantly associated with the death of passion. Does anyone who meditates really want that?


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rahz

comfort pleasure power love     truth awareness peace I am      I feel      I do     I love  I speak    I see    I know

why there is reality and patterned, law-like consistency at all, rather than noise or non-reality is not a question physics answers. It's a question physics presupposes an answer to in order to provide other answers.

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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: Rahz]
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I think that giving up desire to achieve enlightenment is a misconception.

Its not about having or not having desire. Its about your attachment to your desires.

If you are endlessly pining and worrying over whether or not you'll get the next big raise of yours, that is attachment to your desire, and when you don't get what you desire, you suffer.

It is entirely possible to desire something without being attached to it. Basically, its called patience. You want something, you know what you have to do it get it, and you wait for it to come to you. If you don't get it, you don't feel harmed or fouled, and merely move on.

THAT is enlightenment. It is eternal peace of mind.


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Word to your mom.

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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: BrainChemistry]
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Quote:
I think that giving up desire to achieve enlightenment is a misconception.



U.G. Krishnamurti: "The worst desire is the desire for enlightenment."


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rahz

comfort pleasure power love     truth awareness peace I am      I feel      I do     I love  I speak    I see    I know

why there is reality and patterned, law-like consistency at all, rather than noise or non-reality is not a question physics answers. It's a question physics presupposes an answer to in order to provide other answers.

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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: Rahz]
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Rahz said:
I've been reading some stuff from Lorin Roche that has backed up some thoughts I've had, yet was afraid in some ways to admit to myself.

The basic mantra: Desire = suffering, lack of desire = no suffering... no suffering = ?

Or to put it another way, in the East, an enlightened person could be described as: One who has lost all desire, has no interest in sex, relationships, passionate expression, competition, wealth, etc.

In the West, a severely depressed person could be described as: One who has lost all desire, has no interest in sex, relationships, passionate expression, competition, wealth, etc.

Even as I have used meditation to enrich my life, and looked there for insight into love, sex, relationships, and meaning in general, I've also noticed that much of what I've read with eager eyes has had an opposing effect one me. Of course, I am the one who decides what goes in, and stays out, yet the attitude of isolation in meditation, which is carried out into the monastic lifestyle seems deeply ingrained into much of what I've read, and it's suggested that being monastic is what leads to enlightenment.

There are a few people who don't teach in this manner, but they are the exception.

Think about it. If you don't want to be a Priest, what's the allure of monk hood?

I have no doubt that meditation can be used to enhance just about any viewpoint, yet over the eons, it's been predominantly associated with the death of passion. Does anyone who meditates really want that?



NEVER give up the passion.
I would rather have one passionate night with a woman i feel for, than receive all the knowledge and wisdom the infinite has to offer.
In the end.. when you gain the ultimate .. you look back on your life.
Do you want to be the guy that was acting like a zombie ?

You can be a heroin addict and reach enlightenment if you learn something from your addiction.
Cancer is a learning tool. And no.. i dont feel sorry if someone has it.
I dont feel bad when people die.
And i am not scared of it myself.
I would never have gotten to the point where im at right now if it werent for my overwhelming passion for the truth. For purity. For love.
Also... sex is IMO a very important energy transfer , and represents a very important way of the creator experiencing himself through the interaction with other selves.

The most profound wisdom can be said with one word.
Balance.

People tend to go from extreme to extreme.
When you realize that neither hardcore anal gangbangs ... nor meditating all day and eating rice for the rest of your life works...
You find that middle.. and addiction is behind you. Novelty presents itself in every facet of the universe around you and time diminishes as you realize that the balance between past and future .. is exactly where you are. Always.
You are already enlightened.

NEVER leave the passion !
:heart:


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All my posts in this forum are strictly fictional.
They are derived from an acute mental illness , from which i am forced to lie compulsively.
I have never induced any kind of mind altering substance in my life  and i have no intentions whatsoever of doing anything illegal.
If I have ever suggested such a thing it would have most likely been , due to my personality disorder and i probably do not remember it at all..

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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: jivJaN]
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Nice.:thumbup:

I think though that there is more than a bit of advice to the contrary, and that it wasn't intended for the general public. It was meant for following the path of no desire, which apparently is a popular path to enlightenment in some circles. Most enlightened works came from that lifestyle.


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rahz

comfort pleasure power love     truth awareness peace I am      I feel      I do     I love  I speak    I see    I know

why there is reality and patterned, law-like consistency at all, rather than noise or non-reality is not a question physics answers. It's a question physics presupposes an answer to in order to provide other answers.

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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: Rahz]
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Passion is the result of socio-political inefficiency.


Why would you want to feel passion, anyways, if you didn't need to?


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Well I try my best to be just like I am, but everybody wants you to be just like them. --  Bob Dylan
fireworks_god said:
It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.

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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: Poid]
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It's not so much that I want to have passion, but that I have some. I'm not sure where you're coming from with the socio-political comment, but I see passion as a drive to do something with life, in one form or another.


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rahz

comfort pleasure power love     truth awareness peace I am      I feel      I do     I love  I speak    I see    I know

why there is reality and patterned, law-like consistency at all, rather than noise or non-reality is not a question physics answers. It's a question physics presupposes an answer to in order to provide other answers.

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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: Poid]
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Poid said:
Passion is the result of socio-political inefficiency.




:macdre:


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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: BrainChemistry]
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i agree with the people above me strongly....i would like to add:

the monks and stuff in the east are so enlightened that their enlightenment and connection with god fills all their passion...its different than losing ur passion and being depressed...also desire and passion are different, they still have passion, they just desire different things than the rest of us, to them a naked supermodel or [insert favorite food] is just boring/irrelevant

in the west we can just appreciate passionate things without having to devote ourselves to meditation budist style...we can meditate and be spiritual however we want and we can incorperate as many passions as we want into that spirituality...

monks dont have sex because they dont desire it, we can still keep that desire if we feel it is a good thing for us (which we can all agree on)...basically monks feel that sexual desires and monetary desires lead to conflict, they stop conflict by not desiring actions that cause drama/violence/other bad stuff


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"If the doors of perception were cleansed every thing would appear to man as it is, infinite. For man has closed himself up, till he sees all things through narrow chinks of his cavern." - William Blake

"Psychedelics helped me to escape.. albeit momentarily.. from the prison of my mind. It over-rode the habit patterns of thought and I was able to taste innocence again. Looking at sensations freshly without the conceptual overlay was very profound." - Ram Das

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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: Rahz]
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It doesn't have to be one-or-the-other.
It is not that monastics lose their desires...
they make realizations that the exterior motivations;
money, fame, getting a "promotion", or even making honor roll in school;
truly and fundamentally do not matter.
How could something so man-made make any difference to someone concerned with higher questions.
Koans... one or two of which a monk may spend his or her entire life examining.

I've run into the OP's problem myself, though... not knowing how to realistically integrate my desire for the Truth into my everyday western life.

Easy for the beginner
Hard for the one who understands
Easy for the master


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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: Poid]
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Poid said:
Passion is the result of socio-political inefficiency.


Why would you want to feel passion, anyways, if you didn't need to?



i know what you're saying. it's very few people who can see through the thick layers of bullshit. Have you read Brave New World by Aldous Huxley? Check it out you'd be interested in it.


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Re: Enlightenment -vs- passion [Re: Patisotagami]
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smmu said:
Poid said:
Passion is the result of socio-political inefficiency.


Why would you want to feel passion, anyways, if you didn't need to?



i know what you're saying. it's very few people who can see through the thick layers of bullshit. Have you read Brave New World by Aldous Huxley? Check it out you'd be interested in it.



He's my favorite author of all time; I've read Chrome Yellow, Brave New World, The Doors of Perception and Heaven And Hell, Island, and am currently reading The Perennial Philosophy.


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Well I try my best to be just like I am, but everybody wants you to be just like them. --  Bob Dylan
fireworks_god said:
It's one thing to simply enjoy a style of life that one enjoys, but it's another thing altogether to refer to another person's choice as "wrong" or to rationalize their behavior as being pathological or resulting from some sort of inadequacy or failing so as to create a sense of superiority or separation as yet another projection of a personal fear or control issue.

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