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LunarEclipse
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Having Some Balls
#5908373 - 07/28/06 09:03 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I was watching the HBO Series Cathouse and a couple of the hookers were having some fun with a transexual and they asked her how was the operation.
"It's the kind of thing you'll only have the balls for once" was her reply.
In addition to making me laugh, it made me think about the reality of what this person went through to become the kind of person they had felt they were since age 4.
Namely, a woman...
All the confusion, the guilt, the shame, the mocking by many peers, the parents who didn't understand or couldn't accept, etc. over many years.
The decision to look into it, the research, the consultations, the large chunk of change required, and the "balls" to actually go through with it.
The owner of the brother commented that it's not unusual for such a person to actually end up with women having lesbian sex, which took them right back to where they started but with different equipment.
The transexual disagreed and commented that sex as a woman was vastly superior to sex as a man.
Comments?
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Edited by LunarEclipse (07/28/06 09:09 AM)
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Gomp
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Only a man got the balls to become a woman!?
Cool post!
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Gomp]
#5908456 - 07/28/06 09:53 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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There is sexual depravity in the world, stemming from extreme self-hatred and the tendency to self-abuse. This needs to be watched for by the medical community, and we need to stop letting people with severe psychological problems slip through the cracks while we're busy convincing ourselves and everybody else that we're open minded, tolerant people.
I'm not saying that's the case with this individual, however when somebody is so alienated from their own body that they would make such dramatic cosmetic alterations of it, I think it's pertinent to ask why.
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Ped]
#5908478 - 07/28/06 10:03 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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snip, snip
just like back in Nam, Just wack off the scrotem sack, and show it as
momento of your acomplishments, they also work good as change pouches
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: capliberty]
#5908679 - 07/28/06 11:26 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Change pouches. Yep when you lose your pouch that's a change.
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you people are funny.. in a good way.. heh heh peace
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ewwww.. you mean.. POST-op? now thats just wrong..
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Ped]
#5909236 - 07/28/06 03:14 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ped said: There is sexual depravity in the world, stemming from extreme self-hatred and the tendency to self-abuse. This needs to be watched for by the medical community, and we need to stop letting people with severe psychological problems slip through the cracks while we're busy convincing ourselves and everybody else that we're open minded, tolerant people.
I'm not saying that's the case with this individual, however when somebody is so alienated from their own body that they would make such dramatic cosmetic alterations of it, I think it's pertinent to ask why.
Just FYI, a person is not legally allowed to get a sex change until they go through YEARS of gender therapy, to make sure the operation is right for them. They don't let just anyone get a sex change.
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Silversoul]
#5909633 - 07/28/06 05:42 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Silversoul said: They don't let just anyone get a sex change.
Exactly, you can't just be anyone, you have to be someone, you have to be someone you're not. 
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Silversoul]
#5910078 - 07/28/06 09:06 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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"It puts the lotion into the basket"
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i often feel like i am a woman and am disappointed with the functionality of the male anatomy, especially since my male anatomy was stripped away from me without consent as an infant... like most of us Americans.
on the whole I don't feel like either..... women are strange, but men are strange...... I'm somewhere in between and could probably use sexual healing but what can you do......
a lot. but somehow i'm not doing it.
i'm not entirely attracted to either sex, either.... most definitely it is women I prefer, but I am not "turned on" by them or anything.
but i'm definitely not at all in the slighest turned on by men either.
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Edited by leery11 (07/31/06 12:17 PM)
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: leery11]
#5918453 - 07/31/06 12:38 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Very interesting.Could be hormonal.
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Edited by Icelander (07/31/06 12:39 PM)
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Icelander]
#5918573 - 07/31/06 01:27 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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might be hormonal but it stems from psychology
i reject the masculine values of this society in search of warmth and tenderness, openess to the appreciation of beauty and the expression of feelings. sublime sanguine immersion versus impersonal taking and giving.....
yin.
so i've become female. there is a drawback though, in that, my will to be assertive and confident must be nurtured.
unfortunately as far as sexuality goes, i currently think that i should be a female..... and question why i ever masturbate in the first place.it's like someone dying of thirst viciously chugging down a liter of mountain dew. perhaps if i trained myself in kegels it would be more rewarding.
somehow women seem more holy to me as well.
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Edited by leery11 (07/31/06 01:29 PM)
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: leery11]
#5919131 - 07/31/06 04:52 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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I like being a male, and take pride in my white, Russian ancestry.
I am a natural leader, and exercising the same control as I do would be a burden if I was a female. However, in my next life, I'd really like something that would surpass the decay of the human body. Another species would be nice, something vastly superior to a human physiologically, and telepathy, I DEMAND TELEPATHY.
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Fospher]
#5919360 - 07/31/06 06:04 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fospher said: I like being a male, and take pride in my white, Russian ancestry.
I am a natural leader, and exercising the same control as I do would be a burden if I was a female. However, in my next life, I'd really like something that would surpass the decay of the human body. Another species would be nice, something vastly superior to a human physiologically, and telepathy, I DEMAND TELEPATHY.
the trick is no next life. ultimate freedom.
but i concur. this place is pretty lifeless, even at the "peak" of civilization. or maybe this is the worst of civilization, and more primitive living is happier.
or maybe there is no peak, maybe in 3000 we are living out the fantasies of star trek.
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: leery11]
#5920704 - 08/01/06 12:54 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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leery11 said: the trick is no next life. ultimate freedom.
Ah, but it is so hard to attain impeccability in this short visit!
I'd like to surpass the futility of my human body, that's all. Be born in a later time date, surf the galaxies on my hoverboard, from one parallel universe to another.
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Icelander]
#5921239 - 08/01/06 08:18 AM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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Very interesting.Could be hormonal.
I saw a show on PBS about brain sex. The researcher had somehow figured out a correlation between the ratio of the length of your ring finger and index finger and the amount of testosterone you got in the womb during the period of development of said fingers also corresponded to how male or female your brain sex is. The longer the ring finger vs. the index finger, the higher the ratio and the greater the amount of testosterone. The higher the ratio in a particular individual, the more likely they will have male traits and emotional make up, the lower the ratio the more they will have female type traits and be more empathetic for example.
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reflecting on it a bit, being male is quite alright.
but it leaves something to be desired in terms of sensitivity [partially fault of western culture's practices] and orgasm functioning. giving birth and having a period = nono!
also being expected to solicit your body around in order to look "normal" and all the gaudy makeup and such being an object.
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: leery11]
#5922594 - 08/01/06 05:47 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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also being expected to solicit your body around in order to look "normal" and all the gaudy makeup and such being an object.
Entirely optional.
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Re: Having Some Balls [Re: Veritas]
#5922707 - 08/01/06 06:26 PM (17 years, 5 months ago) |
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kind of like how wearing shoes or listening to music is entirely optional.
everyone gets sucked into something. i was sucked into a lot of things society was selling me, myself.
the depressy-gothy culture for 1.
thankfully tool put an eventual stop to that, or i don't know where i'd be now.
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