BargainBab said:

If the other person think you love them it'd be manipulative, but it's a different kind of relationship to be sexually interested but not emotionally involved with your partner, like so many high school/college relationships. I've been in a few situations like that, and it usually ends well if one of the partners isn't trying to make more out of it, even if they are hollow relationships.

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circastes said:

Love is fo' real.

We may be insignificant but we are still magnificent natural beings.

One thing our brains or consciousness can do is create a whole world inside two people.

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that's kind of what i'm envisioning.. do you have anything else to say on that matter? hahah

dustinthewind13 said:

I'd rather be in a sexual relationship with someone I'm not psychologically attracted to than someone I'm not physically attracted too. Psychological attraction is for friendships and physical attraction is for sex. Combine both and you have what all of us are looking for.

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owls said:

circastes said:

Love is fo' real.

We may be insignificant but we are still magnificent natural beings.

One thing our brains or consciousness can do is create a whole world inside two people.

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that's kind of what i'm envisioning.. do you have anything else to say on that matter? hahah

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Not really, except that I'm meeting this gorgeous girl next week.

We've spent hours on the phone talking, 3 hours last night. We're like, ARE YOU ME?! It's that sort of common ground and interests.

Just look at dreams. Your brain can create a whole universe inside your head. What if your partner is like a dream come true? Imagine what you could experience in eachother's presence.

And even alone driving around and visiting places I've been in whole different frames of mind that make life awesome. So I'm curious, thrilled, to see what two lovers can do.

circastes said:

^lol dude, look elsewhere. The world's not ALL crazy.

owls said:

circastes said:

Love is fo' real.

We may be insignificant but we are still magnificent natural beings.

One thing our brains or consciousness can do is create a whole world inside two people.

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that's kind of what i'm envisioning.. do you have anything else to say on that matter? hahah

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Not really, except that I'm meeting this gorgeous girl next week.

We've spent hours on the phone talking, 3 hours last night. We're like, ARE YOU ME?! It's that sort of common ground and interests.

Just look at dreams. Your brain can create a whole universe inside your head. What if your partner is like a dream come true? Imagine what you could experience in eachother's presence.

And even alone driving around and visiting places I've been in whole different frames of mind that make life awesome. So I'm curious, thrilled, to see what two lovers can do.

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Uh oh.  The Soulmate Syndrome.

OrgoneConclusion said:

13% of soulmates who marry end up killing their spouse - disappointment and failed expectations and all that. If you go into marriage expecting to be nagged, bored silly and have an awful sex life, then there usually is no problem.

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