tryptkaloids said:

How are things? Idk about living separately that long, but seperate bedrooms forsure sounds ideal lol

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1NFIN8 said: Alone vs lonely is an interesting discussion.

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tryptkaloids said:

How are things? Idk about living separately that long, but seperate bedrooms forsure sounds ideal lol

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tryptkaloids said:

Not necessarily. Being able to calm yourself in the moment is a skill to develop.

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Simply existing as a part of the world and not in opposition to it takes a lot of time and work.

GenesisCorrupted said:

BeefSupremeJr said:

im someone who requires an uncommon amount of alone time.  You can always tell a loner... they have skills that can only be honed alone.  i can whistle like a bird, for example. 

It's a slippery slope and it's not always fair to demand so much solitude from a lover. I'm trying to learn to be... less cold

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When you’re feeling up to it.
You need to answer some questions about how you got your Dahlia so enormous.

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Headass said:

Not saying alone time is better but time apart is part of it? I don’t know, sometimes I feel suffocated.  It’s definitely in my head but I don’t know how to calm down except when I’m alone, is that a bad thing?

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ThurmanMurman said:

Headass said:

Not saying alone time is better but time apart is part of it? I don’t know, sometimes I feel suffocated.  It’s definitely in my head but I don’t know how to calm down except when I’m alone, is that a bad thing?

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Same dude. I can't hold a relationship down, partly bc of this. And probably moreso bc I try to give her what she wants and be together more than I'm comfortable with and then come undone trying to fit in that box.

My love doesn't look typical. Makes things difficult, but oh well. Im to a point of acceptance with it.

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