Veritas said: I had an interesting experience with some Jehovah's Witnesses about 10 years ago.
They knocked on my door, wanted to come in and discuss God's plan (or something like that). I told them that I was not religious, and that I was quite happy with my belief system AND my long distance service, so I was not interesting in switching over at this time. I was not rude to them (I'm sure they were shocked), and they were brave enough to inquire as to what my beliefs were.
I explained my ideas about the energetic nature of material life, and the ways in which I enact those ideas in my daily activities. I said that I felt quite fulfilled in my "best guess" version of Why We Are Here and What is the Meaning of IT All.
They were very respectful, and said that they wished me well, and that I was welcome in their church anytime. They left without leaving any pamphlets or offering ANY sermons.
A few weeks later, I was moving & they happened by again. Not only did they refrain from any mention of religion, they offered to help me move! They even said that they would call members of their church to come over and help. I had six friends coming over already, so I declined, but I was impressed by their attitude.
They seemed entirely accepting of my professed beliefs, and dropped their agenda once they knew that I was not "lost" and searching. They also generously offered aid at a later date, knowing that I was not a seeker who would join their flock.
Very Christ-like, IMO.
For some, religion is less a belief structure and more a society of good will.
I'd bet they were still hoping to draw you in.. but the way they were doing it, in my mind, makes it ok. They would be good people, and if by doing so you became interested in spending time with more kind, good people, so be it. If not, they're still good people, right?
Quote: Well, no good reason.
... well, no ALLOWED reason ;D
Anywho.
I've an issue with mocking people's beliefs. Gasp, I know. I do try not to -- because honestly, if they do believe what they say they do, they shouldn't be mocked. They should only be mocked if they don't believe what they say, yet say they believe it anyway. Self-deception gets off light with only mockery.
I've been trying lately to not push my own beliefs on others. It's actually fairly hard, explaining what you think and believe without stating things as truth and fact and you-are-wrongs.
At this point I'll gladly -- eagerly -- discuss things with someone, if they begin to believe something similar to what I do.. but I absolutely refuse to try and convince anybody, to win anybody to my side. That's the wrong way to go about things. State your case, allow others to make what you perceive to be mistakes.. knowledge, growth, belief, these cannot be forced upon you, but only can be discovered on one's own. If forced, or coerced, into a new belief system.. well, where's the growth in that? Where's the honesty?
I for one, in the past, have contemplated may belief structures and found that even the idea of falling in line with any but the one that is mine makes me feel ill -- I can't lie to myself and say I believe something merely out of convienence, or out of fear, or out of confusion, or out of coersion. That means I really shouldn't make anyone else believe something because of any of those reasons, either.
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