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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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It's all good dude. I just think it's worth pointing out to you and others who might share that mindset that it's toxic and detrimental to you most of all.

Recognizing what other people are doing even when they don't is a useful skill. But so is forgiveness. You've admitted you made some mistakes and that's the big step.


My point is she's technically using you, yes, but it's such a common socially acceptable way to use someone... Most people don't even view it as wrong. Either as the user or the one being used.

Until there is a grudge.


For your own wellbeing (and anyone in a similar situation) it's best to just make peace with it and move on. Neither one of you could offer the full package the other one wanted and that is okay. Just part of being human.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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You're the one being manipulative, trying to do anything you can for sex. I wonder why that may be considered a turn off.

It sounds like she is being honest with you about how she feels about you. So what if she just wants to be friends after banging you once? Get over it. Be happy she's being honest and wants to be friends with you.

Don't let her walk all over you, but wanting to be friends with someone is not a crime.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: NightLurker]
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What indications are there that she truly does want friendship and not just a drug hookup?

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: psi]
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The concept of the “friend zone” is a toxic and sexist construct used by weak men who think women owe them sex and have no uses besides sex.
This coming from a lesbian, who’d be more affected by “the friend zone” than most.

Sounds like you have some growing up to do, OP, she probably saw this too.

Edited by SARAtonin (06/12/19 11:32 AM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: SARAtonin]
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yeah all good advice... ill try to do my best... i was the psychedelic hookup from a start, so...

lets see what happens

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Terminology aside she does sound like a real piece of work from what you describe.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 2
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Why do so many men want or even hang out with this type of woman/person? There are males that do this too straight and gay and in between. Airdog, get away from this kind of person, fast!


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming *DELETED* [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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please dont send her our way.

Just ignore her man.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: bodhisatta]
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bodhisatta said:
Which is some kid shit.



Bod speak for "modern"?


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: NightLurker]
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NightLurker said:
You're the one being manipulative, trying to do anything you can for sex. I wonder why that may be considered a turn off.

It sounds like she is being honest with you about how she feels about you. So what if she just wants to be friends after banging you once? Get over it. Be happy she's being honest and wants to be friends with you.

Don't let her walk all over you, but wanting to be friends with someone is not a crime.


SHe asked, whats up now, we are 2 adults..propossing sex was the only thing 2 we could have done in a starry night at the beach.... that is somewhat of a teaser question... if she would not want to bring up such proposals, she might as well just plain tell me that i should drop her off at her place.... withoug making so openly vague questions... she told me we could leave the sex pending for other day...

Im not doing any manipulation... manipulative would be if I say ok i will givie you what you want, and take you shrooming but only if we bang again... or trying to bang or make any sexual approach while we are out there shrooming...

trying to be friends is not a crime... even after you banged someone who you made into believeng you had a chance with them by being overly flriting isnt also considered a crime but its called leading on, or stringing on, and using you to take them on a vacation to spend the night on the beach, and pay for everything...and then to refuse to give you the sex they had already provided in the past... well, its not a felony either but i dont think its a behavior that evokes holyness or good attitude... 

Its like they are trying to figure out if they can make a pet or an ATM out of you, without giving nothing in return, but so called "friendship".

And last its making fun of you, because you believe they are your friends like they said and you shared some problems of views about yourself, and they say things like thats so funny, im lmfas right now... and when you say you dont find that funny they tell you gotta go sleep im tired... that is shitty and friends wont do that...

espcecially when they know that you are kinda emotonally compromised towards them... but some people just love having all the power over members of the opposite sex

I know where I stand, I know my worth, i know im different from all the other fuckton of guys that are actively pursuing, giving attention or even banging the lady...

or maybe im just trash... we are all droplets of the same soup, only that the top layer of the soup is where mold grows first

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Ohh, ok. Just noticed the mexico flag too. Listen, no matter how good looking a person is, somewhere someone is tired of their shit! No matter how good looking, flirtatious, and a good lay someone is sooner or later all the looks and sexual stamina and such wane and/or go away. All that matters is the mental connection really, and when you connect with a person on a mental level and a sexual level there is nothing like it, ever. Try just letting the person you're interested in know exactly how you feel/think and want things to be. I am 54 so I've been in places I am VERY happy to be out of, and at ages I am VERY happy to be done with. Look deep into the eyes and mind, if it doesn't feel right, move along.

Looks are surface, they don't really matter too much, only a small bit (IMHEO). This is easy for me to say as I found someone who likes me for who I am and not for who they think I should or could be, or tries to make me be.If you want a relationship and want it a certain way, state that in the very beginning if you like the initial meeting. Knowing how this person was and still trying to just get some pussy was wrong in my opinion. You both are playing stupid head games and trying to out fox the other one. Fuck all the fucking games and just spill it all out from the get go, you'll weed several people out and more than likely find a like minded person who shares your interests and likes it the way you do.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
please dont send her our way.


:mindexpanding:

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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tyrannicalrex said:
All that matters is the mental connection really, and when you connect with a person on a mental level and a sexual level there is nothing like it, ever. Try just letting the person you're interested in know exactly how you feel/think and want things to be.


it was all there or at least in appearance she was all into me... she said she liked the hobbies i had, the sports, everything I dunno what scared her off probably my lack of alphaness when I told her i cared for her and had developed feelings, when she probably likes to be treated like shit... in sex she was pretty submissive and liked to be roughed, you know strangled, spank and dirty talk...

by now probably she is now banging someone elses husband who doesnt give a shit for her.... which is none of my fucking business but lol....

probably i have issues too... that im really into older women than me

Edited by AIRDOG (06/12/19 04:12 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Man, run very fast away, far and away, unless you like that.:shrug:


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: MadValley]
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MadValley said:
bodhisatta said:
Which is some kid shit.



Bod speak for "modern"?


Friend zone came from the sitcom friends which was around when I was a kid still in the 90s so no. Just something only kids believe in. Once you grow up you realize how ridiculous the concept of friend zone is


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: bodhisatta] * 1
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bodhisatta said:
MadValley said:
bodhisatta said:
Which is some kid shit.



Bod speak for "modern"?


Friend zone came from the sitcom friends which was around when I was a kid still in the 90s so no. Just something only kids believe in. Once you grow up you realize how ridiculous the concept of friend zone is


I believe its not that ridiculous... mostly its a lingo to easily define in 1 word where you stand in a womans eyes... that you dont attract them sexually but would like to keep you around, for favors, and benefits which are mostly unilateral...

I mean you could get out of being friends and escalate things with effort and shit... but its hardly achievable and its just better moving away,

I might be a kid, I might need to grow up and mature more, I might be ridiculous but this ridiculous kid has its worth well defined. And wont be let being bossed, played around by no one, not even the president

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Ever think that mindset might be fucking with your game?


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: bodhisatta]
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I think you are suggesting that game should not even be considered and just let things flow, or am i wrong?

from your self prespective about slang, the term "game" is also ridiculous

Edited by AIRDOG (06/12/19 06:21 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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I have an absolutely radical, crazy, ludicrous idea! Try not putting ANY emphasis on getting laid! I know it's fucking crazy and absolutely insane, but who knows what can happen?:smirk: How about getting inside their head instead of the vagina? How about getting to know them as a human being? Weird I know.


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