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Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming *DELETED*
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Edited by AIRDOG (06/08/19 08:44 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 2
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"I know you're just trying to use me. Don't contact me again unless you have some money." It's not that hard.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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I bet she has a boyfriend and he has put her up to it. You never know with chicks these days.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Antigov]
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stupid bitch, go ho somewhere else >:O

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Jewstress] * 2
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Charge her triple


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: grati]
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She probably stupid enough to pay it too

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Jewstress] * 5
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Why is she a bitch again?  For losing interest in you after you acted "needy and beggy and weak"?

I don't think she is a bitch, I think you need to take responsibility for your self.  You blew it, and got friend zoned.  Relationship over, cease all contact.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Mojo] * 1
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She IS bein a little bit of a bitch with her use of luring tactics

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous #2 said:
She IS bein a little bit of a bitch with her use of luring tactics



^ manipulative af.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming *DELETED* [Re: Mojo]
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Edited by AIRDOG (06/09/19 03:47 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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She sounds like a Schemer. Stay away! Dont fall for those tricks as u already know....

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 2
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You sound incredibly young. How old are you?


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming *DELETED* [Re: pachoo]
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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 4
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Because you used the phrase friend zoned... Which is some kid shit.

If you're worried about friend zoning and don't know how to navigate it as an adult it's because of immaturity towards the opposite sex :shrug:

At least the only dudes I've known in person that say friend zoned are ones with poor skills and low respect in the opposite sex department
Uttering the phrase friend zoned = emotional insecurities


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: bodhisatta]
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bodhisatta said:
Because you used the phrase friend zoned... Which is some kid shit.

If you're worried about friend zoning and don't know how to navigate it as an adult it's because of immaturity towards the opposite sex :shrug:

At least the only dudes I've known in person that say friend zoned are ones with poor skills and low respect in the opposite sex department
Uttering the phrase friend zoned = emotional insecurities


I used the term in the title because its a shortcut... post titles cannot be that long... I know Its use less slang

I know how I could try to navigate it but its so not worth the effort... did you at least read the original post? Maybe you could throw in some pointers in how should i proceed instead of telling me i have emotional insecurities...

i knew i blew up by being emotional, and putting her on a pedestal... but tis lady said she wanted a sensitive, honest down to earth man... and expressing my feelings was something i considered would be something shed appreciate...

one thing is sure... im not letting myself be used, reveal shroom picking locations, and or mocked by any girl, no matter how beautiful or in love i am

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 2
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I did read it any my only real thoughts were grow up.

You got mad at her for being friendly to you after you made it awkward after the first time you scored. How dare someone try to be friends. You see it as being used. That's a shame. Even if she is using you big deal either you have fun together or you don't and move on. What's someone's motivations matter to your own personal happiness?

Just the fact you feel trampled by this is probably half your problems with getting put in the "friend zone"


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: bodhisatta]
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Mhhhh maybe you are right, maybe im childish... I wanted to vent...

I wouldnt mind being used and comply to her wishes if she would also like to use me sexually, or there was some bilateral benefits to getting used or complying...

besides you know the number 1 mushroom hunting rule, you dont show anyone where your good mushroom patches are

any other recommendation besides growing up, and moving on?

Edited by AIRDOG (06/11/19 12:31 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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Quit needing the road to go both ways with sex. being cool and a friend to someone and giving them something like a mushroom trip or adventure is not payment for sex, it's not even karma for sex.
If you're a sex fiend or want to be one you're going to have to find someone who matches your sexual drive as well as finds you sexy otherwise it will absolutely never go the way you want. You'll always use it as a tool for creating animosity and to feel wronged. Some people ain't gonna wana fuck you and some people might only want to once or a few times and some will want to but not often.

Realize this and you'll probably actually get laid way more often.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 2
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Like 90% of people here haven't done the exact same thing. Trying to get drugs where they can get it, even if it was someone you slept with and realized it was a mistake because they got too clingy for you.

You can say no.
And rightfully should.
But the "what a bitch" self pitying resentment is a little over the top.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 4
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yeah... like moths to the flame...

but the lady said she wanted to be friends, but has just been mocking and making fun of me,lying and not being a friend...

instead she is trying to get me to be her puppy, and to do whatever she said... fuck that, that is being bitchy and nobody should take that...

i was just trying to put this as an example for other shroomerites of what is not acceptable...

but any constructive criticism is more than welcome...

thanks for the replies... much love

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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It's all good dude. I just think it's worth pointing out to you and others who might share that mindset that it's toxic and detrimental to you most of all.

Recognizing what other people are doing even when they don't is a useful skill. But so is forgiveness. You've admitted you made some mistakes and that's the big step.


My point is she's technically using you, yes, but it's such a common socially acceptable way to use someone... Most people don't even view it as wrong. Either as the user or the one being used.

Until there is a grudge.


For your own wellbeing (and anyone in a similar situation) it's best to just make peace with it and move on. Neither one of you could offer the full package the other one wanted and that is okay. Just part of being human.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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You're the one being manipulative, trying to do anything you can for sex. I wonder why that may be considered a turn off.

It sounds like she is being honest with you about how she feels about you. So what if she just wants to be friends after banging you once? Get over it. Be happy she's being honest and wants to be friends with you.

Don't let her walk all over you, but wanting to be friends with someone is not a crime.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: NightLurker]
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What indications are there that she truly does want friendship and not just a drug hookup?

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: psi]
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The concept of the “friend zone” is a toxic and sexist construct used by weak men who think women owe them sex and have no uses besides sex.
This coming from a lesbian, who’d be more affected by “the friend zone” than most.

Sounds like you have some growing up to do, OP, she probably saw this too.

Edited by SARAtonin (06/12/19 11:32 AM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: SARAtonin]
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yeah all good advice... ill try to do my best... i was the psychedelic hookup from a start, so...

lets see what happens

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Terminology aside she does sound like a real piece of work from what you describe.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 2
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Why do so many men want or even hang out with this type of woman/person? There are males that do this too straight and gay and in between. Airdog, get away from this kind of person, fast!


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming *DELETED* [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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please dont send her our way.

Just ignore her man.

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: bodhisatta]
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bodhisatta said:
Which is some kid shit.



Bod speak for "modern"?


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: NightLurker]
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NightLurker said:
You're the one being manipulative, trying to do anything you can for sex. I wonder why that may be considered a turn off.

It sounds like she is being honest with you about how she feels about you. So what if she just wants to be friends after banging you once? Get over it. Be happy she's being honest and wants to be friends with you.

Don't let her walk all over you, but wanting to be friends with someone is not a crime.


SHe asked, whats up now, we are 2 adults..propossing sex was the only thing 2 we could have done in a starry night at the beach.... that is somewhat of a teaser question... if she would not want to bring up such proposals, she might as well just plain tell me that i should drop her off at her place.... withoug making so openly vague questions... she told me we could leave the sex pending for other day...

Im not doing any manipulation... manipulative would be if I say ok i will givie you what you want, and take you shrooming but only if we bang again... or trying to bang or make any sexual approach while we are out there shrooming...

trying to be friends is not a crime... even after you banged someone who you made into believeng you had a chance with them by being overly flriting isnt also considered a crime but its called leading on, or stringing on, and using you to take them on a vacation to spend the night on the beach, and pay for everything...and then to refuse to give you the sex they had already provided in the past... well, its not a felony either but i dont think its a behavior that evokes holyness or good attitude... 

Its like they are trying to figure out if they can make a pet or an ATM out of you, without giving nothing in return, but so called "friendship".

And last its making fun of you, because you believe they are your friends like they said and you shared some problems of views about yourself, and they say things like thats so funny, im lmfas right now... and when you say you dont find that funny they tell you gotta go sleep im tired... that is shitty and friends wont do that...

espcecially when they know that you are kinda emotonally compromised towards them... but some people just love having all the power over members of the opposite sex

I know where I stand, I know my worth, i know im different from all the other fuckton of guys that are actively pursuing, giving attention or even banging the lady...

or maybe im just trash... we are all droplets of the same soup, only that the top layer of the soup is where mold grows first

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Ohh, ok. Just noticed the mexico flag too. Listen, no matter how good looking a person is, somewhere someone is tired of their shit! No matter how good looking, flirtatious, and a good lay someone is sooner or later all the looks and sexual stamina and such wane and/or go away. All that matters is the mental connection really, and when you connect with a person on a mental level and a sexual level there is nothing like it, ever. Try just letting the person you're interested in know exactly how you feel/think and want things to be. I am 54 so I've been in places I am VERY happy to be out of, and at ages I am VERY happy to be done with. Look deep into the eyes and mind, if it doesn't feel right, move along.

Looks are surface, they don't really matter too much, only a small bit (IMHEO). This is easy for me to say as I found someone who likes me for who I am and not for who they think I should or could be, or tries to make me be.If you want a relationship and want it a certain way, state that in the very beginning if you like the initial meeting. Knowing how this person was and still trying to just get some pussy was wrong in my opinion. You both are playing stupid head games and trying to out fox the other one. Fuck all the fucking games and just spill it all out from the get go, you'll weed several people out and more than likely find a like minded person who shares your interests and likes it the way you do.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
please dont send her our way.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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tyrannicalrex said:
All that matters is the mental connection really, and when you connect with a person on a mental level and a sexual level there is nothing like it, ever. Try just letting the person you're interested in know exactly how you feel/think and want things to be.


it was all there or at least in appearance she was all into me... she said she liked the hobbies i had, the sports, everything I dunno what scared her off probably my lack of alphaness when I told her i cared for her and had developed feelings, when she probably likes to be treated like shit... in sex she was pretty submissive and liked to be roughed, you know strangled, spank and dirty talk...

by now probably she is now banging someone elses husband who doesnt give a shit for her.... which is none of my fucking business but lol....

probably i have issues too... that im really into older women than me

Edited by AIRDOG (06/12/19 04:12 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Man, run very fast away, far and away, unless you like that.:shrug:


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: MadValley]
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MadValley said:
bodhisatta said:
Which is some kid shit.



Bod speak for "modern"?


Friend zone came from the sitcom friends which was around when I was a kid still in the 90s so no. Just something only kids believe in. Once you grow up you realize how ridiculous the concept of friend zone is


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: bodhisatta] * 1
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bodhisatta said:
MadValley said:
bodhisatta said:
Which is some kid shit.



Bod speak for "modern"?


Friend zone came from the sitcom friends which was around when I was a kid still in the 90s so no. Just something only kids believe in. Once you grow up you realize how ridiculous the concept of friend zone is


I believe its not that ridiculous... mostly its a lingo to easily define in 1 word where you stand in a womans eyes... that you dont attract them sexually but would like to keep you around, for favors, and benefits which are mostly unilateral...

I mean you could get out of being friends and escalate things with effort and shit... but its hardly achievable and its just better moving away,

I might be a kid, I might need to grow up and mature more, I might be ridiculous but this ridiculous kid has its worth well defined. And wont be let being bossed, played around by no one, not even the president

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Ever think that mindset might be fucking with your game?


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: bodhisatta]
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I think you are suggesting that game should not even be considered and just let things flow, or am i wrong?

from your self prespective about slang, the term "game" is also ridiculous

Edited by AIRDOG (06/12/19 06:21 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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I have an absolutely radical, crazy, ludicrous idea! Try not putting ANY emphasis on getting laid! I know it's fucking crazy and absolutely insane, but who knows what can happen?:smirk: How about getting inside their head instead of the vagina? How about getting to know them as a human being? Weird I know.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 2
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Gonna have to add to this discussion that bodihshatta is bias on the defend women side, while maintaining some truth, though kind of weakly supported truth and mostly subjective ideas that basically point to "defend women at all costs" psychology.

OP is leaning in the Incel mad at women side of the spectrum but does have some fairly realistic and well explained points about this womans behavior that do line up with many morally questionable instances between people in real life.

I'd say that bodihshatta is a little clouded by the idea of defending women for bonus points, and OP needs to chill out and realize that it wasn't a big deal and to to drop that ho easy and don't take people like that so seriously. Just fhagett a about em, u still got your mushroom patches to enjoy and plenty of other cooler women out there that'll appreciate your genuine self

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Anonymous #2]
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i think anon 2 is shaperD.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Ill add mine too :lol:
The guy I'm replying to is explaining how they rationalize the things they read other people say. But they think they're explaining it to other people.

I'm a total white knight for the ladies :rofl:


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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tyrannicalrex said:
I have an absolutely radical, crazy, ludicrous idea! Try not putting ANY emphasis on getting laid! I know it's fucking crazy and absolutely insane, but who knows what can happen?:smirk: How about getting inside their head instead of the vagina? How about getting to know them as a human being? Weird I know.


Please, please, please don't leave straight lines hanging out there like that. I'm trying to control. Control. Control. It's just so hard even after all these years of trying and failing. Must take things more seriously. Must.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming *DELETED* [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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Edited by AIRDOG (06/12/19 07:31 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Hate to tell you, this person is very crafty and she knows how to play heavy mind games to use and take advantage of more than likely EVERYONE she is involved with, friends and/or lovers. Probably her family too. Toxic, user, manipulator. It's not worth ANYTHING she may appear to "give" you.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming *DELETED* [Re: tyrannicalrex] * 1
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Reason for deletion: old shit

Edited by AIRDOG (06/12/19 08:55 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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AIRDOG said:
tyrannicalrex said:
Hate to tell you, this person is very crafty and she knows how to play heavy mind games to use and take advantage of more than likely EVERYONE she is involved with, friends and/or lovers. Probably her family too. Toxic, user, manipulator. It's not worth ANYTHING she may appear to "give" you.


thats what i figured out, and she claims to be very spiritual, esoteric, and holistic oriented, but thing is...


I've found women that go overboard on this kind of agenda to generally be on the toxic/manipulative side of the spectrum.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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Jokeshopbeard said:
I've found women that go overboard on this kind of agenda to generally be on the toxic/manipulative side of the spectrum.


Yeah I can relate... i had a girlfriend that was like that, she was like all peace and love, love and light, almost like an angel, but  she was a damn demon in the flesh... she just had some very radiant armor and very very good looks...

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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So like a literal Succubus?

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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AIRDOG said:
pachoo said:
You sound incredibly young. How old are you?


Im 36... shes 10 years older than me

but why does it matter? why I sound young?




Yes. You sound very emotionally immature. But in your favor, so does this chick.

Ranting on the internet flaming someone and spouting insults about her is childish. I'm sorry but I'm just getting so tired of it being on the shroomery and being exercised abundantly like it's normal. It makes me really appreciate the emotionally mature discussions about relationships even that much more.

But saying that, I can def see the hurt this experience this has caused you. And after a few days watching this thread you have given much more input about the situation, along with... what I can only assume... you calming down and become more rational about the situation.

Look, toxic people are all around us. Immature people are all around us. This chick is def one, and so are you. I suggest you learn from the experience and instead be genuine to your emotions and needs. Not what this chick could or could not provide you in your ideal imagining of it. What you really need. Because it is very apparent you were looking for a relationship and this chick def does not want one. And that's her problem and whatever she chooses to do is her business and none of yours. So what if she wants to continue bouncing around from person to person. So what if she has problems. That's her choice and her problems and none of your business. And your choices and problems are none of hers. I get it though, when someone can hurt us, get over on us, or disappoint us... we temporarily lash out. But how long has it been now?

Be a genuine friend with no ulterior motives, but only if completely honest with yourself that you don't want a relationship with her. Or don't. Or be her drug dealer and actually charge her what you would. Or don't. Or cut her out of your life. The choice is yours. Make it and grow with it.


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Reason for deletion: young

Edited by AIRDOG (06/13/19 05:19 AM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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Omg calm down. I'm not trying to attack you, I'm answering your question.

Ok so I re-read and technically you didn't call her anything really but a gold digger, but you asked people if she sounded like a bitch to them. And the wording was definitely you leaning towards calling her one but wanted other people to. So I apologize for that. But dude, don't even act like you didn't judge her for her actions because you did in multiple posts. People are seeing it and reacting.

And it really did sound like you were the main hookup in the area because you were the only one knowledgeable about shrooms and whatever. A reader is only given so much information as the OP gives.

What do you mean you weren't involved emotionally? You considered her a soul mate several times.

Congrats on getting her out of your life. You should ask a mod to close your thread if you're done with it.

This is a hella conflicting thread.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: pachoo]
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pachoo said:
What do you mean you weren't involved emotionally?


I guess there is language barriers as english is not my main... but im really good at it

i guess i missed the word before... i dint cared when she talked about her x's and other guys before i got emotionally invested......

but then i got involved emotionally, and if we where to hang out she would start bringing the other guys into mention... and i dont want to hear about the other guys she is hanging out and prolly banging... especially not while tripping...

tripping with her would definitely be really awkward and prolly a bad idea... things could go south really bad

Edited by AIRDOG (06/13/19 05:24 AM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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Ah yea, tripping with her doesn’t sound like a good time at all. There’s a big risk about it going south, you’re really right about that. And it really does get real old really fast to just constantly hear about her sex life and her taking advantage of other men while she tells you she’s basically looking for someone like you. It’s not a good environment for you man. Glad you’re choosing to get her out of your life. Hopefully if she does reach out to you again, it’s a pleasant experience.

Like tyrannicalrex said perfectly, she’s used to using people. She’s used to manipulating men for her own comfort, even to the extent on cheating with guys like you while getting what she wants with them. But it’s also not my place to assume if she’s genuinely trying to get her cake and eat it too with both emotional and monetary support, like she really feels conflicted knowing she wants someone who actually cares or she’s just using that for attention like getting money. She’s nearly 50 and that’s a long time to be a self proclaimed player.


Good luck man :thumbup:


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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I suggest not even ever talking to her or answering her calls EVER. :peace::heart::mushroom2: You seem like an OK person, move along and take the lesson(s) learned to heart.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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thanx tyrannical and pachoo... i will learn the lesson

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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You're alright, have a great summer/year!:heart:


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: King0fthajuice]
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Are you writing to me?


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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Damn, what did it say?

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Anonymous #2]
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LOL, it was a reference to age and saying that "you must be a fake" or something like that. Oh, and "you need jesus g". I think it was to OP, but WTFK.:grin:


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That edit was quick, JSB is on it like a summer bonnet! (super gay ref, I know, lol)


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Let's not go there please. It was a flame, that's all that needs to be said on the matter.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: stzacrack]
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stzacrack said:
Ok so you did fuck up acting like a pussy, but you did well shutting her out and waiting for her to call

I would only consider it because you mentioned 6 friends, and if they are chicks you could go play "shaman", get their numbers "in case they wanna ride again", and maybe theres a threesome or better in the deal for you if theyre fiends(hot fiends)

Hard to tell a man what to do with his drugs

You fucked her already once tho right?

If yer official in the sack she prolly told her friends about you, so youve got that validation already before you meet them, that they know you already fucked their friend, so naturally they see you as someone fuckable

Try not to get needy, especially with normal girls

You should get a few side girls maybe whores if youre into it so you dont have to expose your weakness to the bitch you want and you get satisfaction from the whore for the tine being, until you get your fulfillment from the normal slut


And this is why women go lesbo.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: stzacrack]
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Damnit Jim! You got me! :nursemaryjane:


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tyrannicalrex said:
stzacrack said:
Ok so you did fuck up acting like a pussy, but you did well shutting her out and waiting for her to call

I would only consider it because you mentioned 6 friends, and if they are chicks you could go play "shaman", get their numbers "in case they wanna ride again", and maybe theres a threesome or better in the deal for you if theyre fiends(hot fiends)

Hard to tell a man what to do with his drugs

EDIT: ahahha i just realized this

You fucked her already once tho right?

If yer official in the sack she prolly told her friends about you, so youve got that validation already before you meet them, that they know you already fucked their friend, so naturally they see you as someone fuckable

Try not to get needy, especially with normal girls

You should get a few side girls maybe whores if youre into it so you dont have to expose your weakness to the bitch you want and you get satisfaction from the whore for the tine being, until you get your fulfillment from the normal slut


And this is why women go lesbo.


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heheheh dude you are funny, im gonna go let go hit her 45 something aged married with kids, friends now...  i know i fucked up with this girl i liked so much...its not common for a girl her age be so hot... but so what?... i have my side chicks, .. but if you mean like a prostitute I dont hang with those... If they can be percived as slutty/super promiscuous I avoid. to everybody else who sees you around with these kinda folk you are an STDS flea market...

the girl is now texting me insisting she really wants to arrange the deemz...soon that shes eager for the experience an so the friends, that she has the money on hand now... she explicity told me their all males(Which is cool), but then she slipped that it was just 1 friend(wich is cool too) who cares)... sometimes we get feelings and we get mocked, forces of nature... im just flesh and bones after all...  its life... 

Im ok now... im ignoring her texts... if she want deemz she needs to almost beg for it... intsead she should learn to make her own, then share with her friends... and if she/they want mushrooms they gotta learn where to pick and how to recognize them... just as everyone did in life? right?

and if they poison themselves, its just darwinism

play shaman yeah sure... i dont play shaman,,,  i can and i know and will have my fun but i know with whom to share the goods

EDIT i have just realized the starcrack jack ass got banned out his insane rant... LOL!

Edited by AIRDOG (06/26/19 11:00 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming *DELETED* [Re: AIRDOG]
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Yeaaaahhhhh, NO!


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tyrannicalrex said:
Yeaaaahhhhh, NO!


Hehe whats that supposed to mean?

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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SARAtonin said:
The concept of the “friend zone” is a toxic and sexist construct used by weak men who think women owe them sex and have no uses besides sex.
This coming from a lesbian, who’d be more affected by “the friend zone” than most.

Sounds like you have some growing up to do, OP, she probably saw this too.


Girls invented the friend zone.  Guys just put a name to it.  I don’t see how that can be called sexist.


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Amanita86 said:
Sui is trying to mod right now.  Kinda like a newborn calf tryin ta stand fer the first time ain’t it..

Edited by lowbrow (06/27/19 10:20 AM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: lowbrow]
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Yeah sara you already mentioned that... I was rtying to get a grasp at tyrannycal yes no thing

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG] * 1
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No to all those crazy bitches in that pic, no to letting them get ANYTHING from you including sex, just NO to the whole fucking thing, lol.


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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LOL, they are fine

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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Not mentally.


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lowbrow said:
SARAtonin said:
The concept of the “friend zone” is a toxic and sexist construct used by weak men who think women owe them sex and have no uses besides sex.
This coming from a lesbian, who’d be more affected by “the friend zone” than most.

Sounds like you have some growing up to do, OP, she probably saw this too.


Girls invented the friend zone.  Guys just put a name to it.  I don’t see how that can be called sexist.


How so?
The idea of the “friend zone” like I said, implies the only use a man would have for being kind or friendly with a woman is to get sex from her. It implies that if a woman is friendly towards a man without having any intention of bedding him, she is somehow doing some great disservice to him, and that the platonic  friendship of a woman is no use to a man and even an insult. If you can’t see how that’s sexiest I’d love for you to enlighten me.



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Plus 1!


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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: tyrannicalrex]
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Im a machine that upon being sexed provides for someone to be locked up at home to clean for me and produce children :lol:


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tyrannicalrex said:
Not mentally.


well i dont think anyone is completely fine in the head..

SARAtonin said:
if a woman is friendly towards a man without having any intention of bedding him, she is somehow doing some great disservice to him, and that the platonic  friendship of a woman is no use to a man and even an insult. If you can’t see how that’s sexiest I’d love for you to enlighten me.


I get you but when there was bedding and some else then they say lets just be friends when they are not even being friendly anymore, instead mock, and make fun of you..  and then wanting to get anything they can out of you.. using charming luring tactics  knowing you have a platonic thing for them is not the sexiest either....

men can also refuse to keep those kinds of "friends", we arent either machines where you can place smiles, flirties and hope to get all what you want, after doing some harm... many ladies can pull with these things with decent or relatively degrees of success.... men can also choose to not give all what women want... many man fail to say no and keep being cool with high hopes they can get the girl again, which will only boast her ego, and destroy his

this is not a gender specific thing... its just about keeping friendships balanced, sex doesnt even need to come into play

I mean sure males can have female friends and be nice to them witouth the banging thing in mind... i have several...

Edited by AIRDOG (06/27/19 01:21 PM)

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: SARAtonin]
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SARAtonin said:
lowbrow said:
SARAtonin said:
The concept of the “friend zone” is a toxic and sexist construct used by weak men who think women owe them sex and have no uses besides sex.
This coming from a lesbian, who’d be more affected by “the friend zone” than most.

Sounds like you have some growing up to do, OP, she probably saw this too.


Girls invented the friend zone.  Guys just put a name to it.  I don’t see how that can be called sexist.


How so?
The idea of the “friend zone” like I said, implies the only use a man would have for being kind or friendly with a woman is to get sex from her. It implies that if a woman is friendly towards a man without having any intention of bedding him, she is somehow doing some great disservice to him, and that the platonic  friendship of a woman is no use to a man and even an insult. If you can’t see how that’s sexiest I’d love for you to enlighten me.




Everyone has an instinct to mate.  Especially guys.  What you think it implies is sexist in itself because a guy can friend zone girls too.  I’ve done it a couple of times, and it pisses them off.

Girls think their the only ones who can friend zone.

A nice guy that enters into the game thinking a white knight mentality is the way to go will get his head kicked in and his heart stomped on just for being himself, a nice guy. 

There are obviously some guys that do think that they are owed sex because they were nice guys, but they weren’t really nice guys to begin with.  And to lump all guys into the same category is the equivalent of me saying ‘all women are gold diggers’ which is categorically false.  Some women are gold diggers, but not all of them.

Friend zone is a term for when a guy or girl woos another individual with friendliness, gifts, or other chivalrous gestures.  It, in itself, does not imply that the wooer believes they are owed anything.  If it works for them, well that’s fucking weird, if it doesn’t, shit happens, they made a friend.

There can be sexist elements to the application, but not all the time.

The term, itself, is not sexist.


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Sui is trying to mod right now.  Kinda like a newborn calf tryin ta stand fer the first time ain’t it..

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Re: Girl who friendzoned me wants me to give her dmt and take her shrooming [Re: AIRDOG]
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OP is perfectly in the clear you guys ,assuming what he says is true, which isnt a far fetched story, we've all seen these scenareos play out in real lifestate commonly. Why does this discussion against OP continue?

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yeah maybe its time to close the thread... mods?

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This thread has been closed.

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