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How to prevent being in friendzone
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Okay obviously if you like a girl you don't want to be in the friendzone.

but

How do you do that without just jumping into sex?

How can you have meaningful conversations with a girl and just spend time with her, without implying that you two are only friends and have that kickstart a relationship?

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Anonymous #2]
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:whathesaid:


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Anonymous #1]
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If she likes you, just talking to her will develop into something. If she doesn't, you'll be in the friendzone which is a polite way of saying she thinks you're not good enough for her.

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Anonymous #3]
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You got to make a move and make it pretty quick or she'll think your not interested in her. If your nervous about doing this because you don't know how she feels about you why don't you read into body languages.

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: gulper2323] * 2
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you need to get physical, which is not always sex. touch her shoulders and like nudge her.you can kiss her too, but that might lead to sex. and then when you talk, flirt and subtly let her know that you're attracted to her

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Anonymous #4]
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This friend zone shit is a beta male concept built around some weird idea of how women should be used. Stop your bs man.

If 98% of the girls you hang with arnt just your friends you are fucking up.
if you learn the game well there will be a few chick friends that want u to be more than friends. This is the natural order, and guys that can't get that get the leftovers.

Men like women less as time goes on, conversely, women like guys they see often more after time passes. It's how it works man. Look at it how it is and you will realize your problems are not based on some cliche, then you can start figuring out how to be a man women will want.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: rodfarva]
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rodfarva said:
Men like women less as time goes on, conversely, women like guys they see often more after time passes. It's how it works man.


ORLLY? :lol: I'm curious how you came to that conclusion.

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Crystal G]
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It's so confusing

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Maybe you should ask her to your high school prom, OP.  fuck.  Man up.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: mpd]
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mpd said:
Maybe you should ask her to your high school prom, OP.  fuck.  Man up.



I wish it were that simple but it's not. Everything else in life you just have to work hard at. This seems to be some weird game people play that involves a lot of trickery and deception rather than just logic and honesty.

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Crystal G]
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Crystal G said:
rodfarva said:
Men like women less as time goes on, conversely, women like guys they see often more after time passes. It's how it works man.


ORLLY? :lol: I'm curious how you came to that conclusion.


Srsly.

not all chicks. probably excluding chicks on male hormone sups. lol

Really is that way tho. Don't say I'm wrong when my attitude works well for me :gethigh:

You arnt going to win an argument with me based on your desire for normal intimate relationships.
Thats not a rip, im down with you having your life, I just doubt you are the voice of reason when
it comes to categorizing the average girl.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: rodfarva]
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rodfarva said:
Crystal G said:
rodfarva said:
Men like women less as time goes on, conversely, women like guys they see often more after time passes. It's how it works man.


ORLLY? :lol: I'm curious how you came to that conclusion.


Srsly.

not all chicks. probably excluding chicks on male hormone sups. lol

Really is that way tho. Don't say I'm wrong when my attitude works well for me :gethigh:

You arnt going to win an argument with me based on your desire for normal intimate relationships.
Thats not a rip, im down with you having your life, I just doubt you are the voice of reason when
it comes to categorizing the average girl.



i doubt youre the voice of reason for the average girl or guy,

if the girl really likes you,
seeing you more will keep her interested,
and I, *i consider my self an average guy,* seeing the girl i like often, makes me like her even more,

the only reason a guy would feel like that is if he were never interested in the first place,
and this poor girl is putting in that unneeded effort ...


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: TheHydrogenBomb]
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TheHydrogenBomb said:
rodfarva said:
Crystal G said:
rodfarva said:
Men like women less as time goes on, conversely, women like guys they see often more after time passes. It's how it works man.


ORLLY? :lol: I'm curious how you came to that conclusion.


Srsly.

not all chicks. probably excluding chicks on male hormone sups. lol

Really is that way tho. Don't say I'm wrong when my attitude works well for me :gethigh:

You arnt going to win an argument with me based on your desire for normal intimate relationships.
Thats not a rip, im down with you having your life, I just doubt you are the voice of reason when
it comes to categorizing the average girl.



i doubt youre the voice of reason for the average girl or guy,

if the girl really likes you,
seeing you more will keep her interested,
and I, *i consider my self an average guy,* seeing the girl i like often, makes me like her even more,

the only reason a guy would feel like that is if he were never interested in the first place,
and this poor girl is putting in that unneeded effort ...


You are really making my point for me about the friend zone bitch out attitude.

Im not an average guy,
I dont get dumped,
I dont have girls in friend only status i secretly love,
and
I certainly dont ponder how to show interest in a girl I like,

:shrug:

dont be intimidated, im trying to offer help.
I am the voice of reason because I am blunt/objective.

Chicks dont generally like to get down with a guy and then act like 'just a friend'.
Chicks that want to hook up based on initial interactions arnt the type for relationships anyway.
I've inferred that a less than traditional girl would have already opened the door to OP for him to
express his horny beta-ness. Also, generally speaking, girls dont go out looking for the "average guy"...

no offence, just observations.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: rodfarva]
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I heard that girls judge you within like the first 10 seconds of meeting you. I don't think that is fair at all.

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous said:
I heard that girls judge you within like the first 10 seconds of meeting you. I don't think that is fair at all.


If it wasn't easy to change a girls mind about something, there wouldn't be that many clothing stores, make-up lines, etc. Women like to be lead sexually. Dom women are a rare breed.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: rodfarva] * 1
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rodfarva said:
Crystal G said:
rodfarva said:
Men like women less as time goes on, conversely, women like guys they see often more after time passes. It's how it works man.


ORLLY? :lol: I'm curious how you came to that conclusion.


Srsly.

not all chicks. probably excluding chicks on male hormone sups. lol

Really is that way tho. Don't say I'm wrong when my attitude works well for me :gethigh:

You arnt going to win an argument with me based on your desire for normal intimate relationships.
Thats not a rip, im down with you having your life, I just doubt you are the voice of reason when
it comes to categorizing the average girl.


I think it's pretty obvious that you have never lived with a girl. If you had, you would have known that girls get just as sick and tired of being around your ass 24/7 as you do of them.

Either that, or you are one of those guys who only goes after women solely based on their beauty, hence you like them less and less as time goes on, as you realize there's not much going on underneath. This is the natural progression that happens to anybody who only goes for looks, as they slowly come to realize there's not a whole lot going upstairs or personality-wise in their partner of choice.

Edited by Crystal G (05/25/13 06:12 AM)

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Crystal G]
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OP, the way i see it, there are 2 kinds of relationships: friends/friendzoned and sexual.
just keep having meaningful conversations w/her and not implying that you want to move things to the intimate level and...tada!...welcome to friendville.
if you can't/don't make a move that will imply the intimate desire you have for her then you better be ok a no-nookie-friendship, or hope that she has the balls you don't and wants more intimacy from you.

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Crystal G]
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Quote:
I think it's pretty obvious that you have never lived with a girl. If you had, you would have known that girls get just as sick and tired of being around your ass 24/7 as you do of them.


I've lived with 3.  Live with my girl currently, and our friend lives with us (also a girl). We like each other more as time goes on, yes blahblah.. we just dont take time out to evaluate it, we just know it feels good.

She didnt like me at first, then I grew on her and she fell in love with me. Shits gravy :awesome:

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Either that, or you are one of those guys who only goes after women solely based on their beauty, hence you like them less and less as time goes on, as you realize there's not much going on underneath.


Wrong again...

She has a whole wall full of degrees, and is an artist on the side. Also speaks 3 languages, and can cook and drive a stick. I should also mention shes a hottie, but I have my choice of good looking girls since I live in s.fla. so I got with a girl I like + has good looks.

Im giving the lads here good advice, whether or not you currently agree.

I sound pretty full of myself and chauvinist until you think about what im sayin and realize loosers talk about chicks that are only friends as if its a bad thing. The extension of which is to say that women are only good for sex.

In addition, Im sick of guys that always try to hang with me so they can snag one of my good looking chick friends. Im not a fucking dating service. Guys with friend-only chicks hanging out with them at parties or at the bar have it good. The group of girls will talk the guy up to chicks hes in to and act as a subliminal character reference; showing that the guy with all those friends (that are also girls) must be half way decent and he doesn't creep them out or act dumb. 

I also think chicks have tried to hook up with me out of pure jealousy against the other girls, but thats a different conversation.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: rodfarva]
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post a picture rodfarva,


i wanna see if your appearance has anything to do with your preachings,

:thumbup:


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: TheHydrogenBomb]
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TheHydrogenBomb said:
post a picture rodfarva,


i wanna see if your appearance has anything to do with your preachings,

:thumbup:


It does.

I dont post pics of myself on here any longer. Im paranoid about it.
I've met a bunch of people from this site in person. They have all been well put together.


Im average looking for Miami

...thats pretty damn good looking elsewhere. lol.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: TheHydrogenBomb]
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TheHydrogenBomb said:








Jesus Christ, whata fucking freak.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: rodfarva]
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rodfarva said:
Im average looking for Miami

...thats pretty damn good looking elsewhere. lol.


ferreals lol :lol:

i consider myself like a 5 out in socal...

that's like a 9 or 10 anywhere else :lolsy:

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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: Crystal G]
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Crystal G said:
rodfarva said:
Im average looking for Miami

...thats pretty damn good looking elsewhere. lol.


ferreals lol :lol:

i consider myself like a 5 out in socal...

that's like a 9 or 10 anywhere else :lolsy:


eh, i'd consider you a 6.5 or 7 honestly, and i'm from Boise Idaho and southern Oregon :shrug: not offense or anything haha i mean yeah your hot. But i've always considered humility a form of mental health


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: psyconaught]
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psyconaught said:
Crystal G said:
rodfarva said:
Im average looking for Miami

...thats pretty damn good looking elsewhere. lol.


ferreals lol :lol:

i consider myself like a 5 out in socal...

that's like a 9 or 10 anywhere else :lolsy:


eh, i'd consider you a 6.5 or 7 honestly, and i'm from Boise Idaho and southern Oregon :shrug: not offense or anything haha i mean yeah your hot. But i've always considered humility a form of mental health


I think you missed the point here...

how women see themselves is at issue in this thread.
Women should stop thinking they're all that until the day your 4 year old daughter tells you
she thinks she looks fat...

something as subjective as looks really doesn't require a comment and analysis from each perspective.

women dont want the guy that cant do any better than her,
they want the guy that knows there are hot girls everywhere, and in a world full of other good options,
he picks her.

Im not suggesting you should blurt that out to any girl,
most are not secure enough to deal with the chance someone else might catch your eye
while in the exact same instant, the girl craves beating the other girls to have you.

My friends, let me introduce you to a female perspective...

Im not claiming to know how women think, ive just seen this play out.

Many chicks would hate being confronted with what ive said but it really boils down to the idea:
if you know how to make a woman happy she will love you.


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Re: How to prevent being in friendzone [Re: rodfarva]
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I want a girl that will see me at a really bad state and still love me for who I am. After I see that then I know that she loves me and I'll do the best for her.

I'd hate for me to be at a really really good stage in my life and then girls start noticing me. I could never trust them.

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