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chisox100
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Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you?
#19598901 - 02/21/14 10:10 AM (10 years, 3 days ago) |
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Alright so i'm in college and a month ago I met my roommate's girlfriend's roommate. We instantly connected and started talking a lot. After knowing her about a week we hooked up and admitted we both liked each other. Several days later she told me that a year and a half ago she had a 5 year relationship end over text out of nowhere. She said she's still scarred from that and doesn't want to force any sort of relationship. She said that there could be something between us in the future but I shouldn't have my hopes up too high.
In the meantime she said she legitimately wants to be friends because she just transferred here and wants to have a group of friends more than anything else. I was pissed about this for several days but now almost two weeks i'm feeling okay and content with being friendzoned. I still have strong feelings for her though.
I'm about 3 weeks away from my first mushroom flush and she said she really wants to try mushrooms. I've done them only 5 or 6 times already so i'm no expert. This is my question for all you shroomers...with me having strong feelings for her and having knowing that at least for the foreseeable future there will be nothing between us could it give me a bad trip? And if I do decide to trip with her would it be better in a group or one-on-one?
Guess i'm just looking for opinions or people with similar experiences
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: chisox100]
#19599008 - 02/21/14 10:32 AM (10 years, 3 days ago) |
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Fuck that man, I don't even smoke with most (non-stoner) girls. Inexperienced drug users are not people I want to trip with, in case shit gets weird for me.
Either both of you take a really low dose or don't trip with her at all.
Also banging a girl requires you being friends with her...unless she's touchin another dude's junk while your in the room i don't see anything that says your in the friend zone if you play your cards right and don't get all desperate for her.
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chisox100
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: jimboob]
#19600784 - 02/21/14 05:33 PM (10 years, 3 days ago) |
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Not quite what i was looking for.
I'm not looking to trip her out with shrooms to fuck her. To me shrooms are a tool to broaden your mind and the more people's minds i broaden the better. We both like each other but are looking for completely different things. My only concern is the slight sexual frustration I feel ruining my trip.
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: chisox100]
#19601171 - 02/21/14 06:49 PM (10 years, 2 days ago) |
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I'd say do it. It might flip the switch to fuck her.
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: Enjoywho]
#19601254 - 02/21/14 07:07 PM (10 years, 2 days ago) |
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i dont think you will have a bad trip if you split and 8th.
with that said just have fun like your with a best friend. no thoughts about hooking up or a relationship just Fun is all
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: Endure]
#19601654 - 02/21/14 09:01 PM (10 years, 2 days ago) |
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Agreed.
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: Enjoywho]
#19601703 - 02/21/14 09:17 PM (10 years, 2 days ago) |
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Lol "friend zones" an stuff dont even exist u guys think too hard just chill take some shrooms an trip out with some chick an sfuff
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: chisox100]
#19605575 - 02/22/14 06:59 PM (10 years, 1 day ago) |
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Just trip with her. She's interested, you have a modicum of experience and can guide her somewhat. DO NOT PRESS SEX. Just trip. She might surprise you. Or not. Relax.
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: chisox100]
#19605711 - 02/22/14 07:32 PM (10 years, 1 day ago) |
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chisox100 said: Not quite what i was looking for.
I'm not looking to trip her out with shrooms to fuck her. To me shrooms are a tool to broaden your mind and the more people's minds i broaden the better. We both like each other but are looking for completely different things. My only concern is the slight sexual frustration I feel ruining my trip.

Enjoy the trip, I'd talk to her before hand and tell her things could get awkward but I'm just looking to enjoy the experience as it is. People get paranoid when they're tripping, I usually tell them "if I have anything to say I'll say it outright".
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: Repertoire89]
#19607048 - 02/23/14 01:19 AM (10 years, 1 day ago) |
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hard to say. if she's legitimately friendzoning you it could be awkward. however, if she has the slightest inkling of interest, shit can get explosive on a trip. the sexual tensions damn near unbearable at times
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: zappaisgod]
#19607194 - 02/23/14 02:37 AM (10 years, 1 day ago) |
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zappaisgod said: Just trip with her. She's interested, you have a modicum of experience and can guide her somewhat. DO NOT PRESS SEX. Just trip. She might surprise you. Or not. Relax.
Solid advice right here. I agree with the do not press sex part, depending on what kind of experiences she's had it might seem overwhelmingly intense and scary for her. Pressing for sex while the both of you are completely fucked up can also lead to somebody regretting the decision when they sober up, even though it may have seemed magical under the influence.
Make it a friendly and non-threatening atmosphere and who knows, maybe she'll realize she is into you.
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chisox100
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Re: Tripping with someone whose friendzoned you? [Re: Crystal G]
#19609213 - 02/23/14 04:53 PM (10 years, 1 day ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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zappaisgod said: Just trip with her. She's interested, you have a modicum of experience and can guide her somewhat. DO NOT PRESS SEX. Just trip. She might surprise you. Or not. Relax.
Solid advice right here. I agree with the do not press sex part, depending on what kind of experiences she's had it might seem overwhelmingly intense and scary for her. Pressing for sex while the both of you are completely fucked up can also lead to somebody regretting the decision when they sober up, even though it may have seemed magical under the influence.
Make it a friendly and non-threatening atmosphere and who knows, maybe she'll realize she is into you.
That's definetly the way to go i think. I'll probably go with a lower dose for both of us just to place it safe and see where it goes. We can always do more another time.
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