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So There's This Girl...
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that i like very much. i have told her this countless times when she told me that she liked me very much also. i never persued it though because there was other things going on in my life. well now she never calls me or really talks to me much and she said it's because i never showed any interest, but i did and i let her know i was interested.

i have been letting her know that i want to hang out with her, but she is always doing something. i want to show her that i really do like her, much more than i have ever liked any girl. i want to do something for her, but i just don't know what. i want to take her to do something, but i don't know what either. her b-day is coming up as well, but i don't know!!!!

i don't know how she can go from loving me sooooo much to acting not interested as soon as i start pursuing her. it's kind of tearing me apart.

maybe you guys can help me with this one. anything i can do? thanks.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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easy, somebody caught her attension, now you have to compete,

which goes to show it doesn't pay to be slow,

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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should of smacked that ass when you had a chance. she probably checking some one else out now. sorry

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: durban_poison]
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yeah dude you missed your chance flat out... tard face

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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Its kinda funny in a way... only because I've been in the situation before.

If someone is interested in you, and you feel the same way... pursue it right away. If you don't, then you run the risk of either becoming wedged into a "just friends" slot or the risk that the other person's feelings for you might change. Saying that the reason you haven't pursued anything is because you've had other things going on with your life is just a silly excuse. Imagine that from her end... "I'm interested in you, I like you a lot, but I have more important things to worry about than you" If you're afraid, let it go.

With that being said, put forth the effort. Do something nice for her. Re-affirm your interest and ask how she feels about you now.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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Aww that sucks..kinda reminds me of back in high school -- this girl I liked but had no confidence and never would've thought she'd like me told me a year later, drunk, at a party.. that she had a crush on me throughout the previous year :lol:

And then added that I missed my window, as her boyfriend picked her up.  So yeah, that sucks man.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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You lost your chance. You're done. It's over. Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, and they all stink. If a woman is interested in you, she will ALWAYS be available to you. She will make sure she is. If she's ALWAYS busy, she's not interested. Plain and simple.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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download this - your approach is wrong and it is alienating her.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Vvellum]
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1.ok lock yourself in your closet.
2. spin in a circle and don't stop
3. the whole time your in here say out loud what you like about this women and what you should have done and didn't do.
4. take your right hand and cover your eyes
5. masterbate 12 times during all this with your left hand.
6. open the door and run to the phone and call her right away after the 12th inning. And tell her you want to go have coffee together.
7. take all the coat hangers off your elbow before you leave the house.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: makaveli8x8]
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haha you guys are harsh. she's not always busy, just this past 2 weeks, partly because one of her friends committed suicide. i told her recently about the whole situation and how i felt.

this past monday we hung out during the day until she had work at 5. then later on after work, i called her to see what she was doing and we met up and kicked it all night at a friend's house. i took her to her car at 12 30 am because i needed to get home and get some sleep (rave this past weekend) and she had made plans to pick her friend up named devon. he was some guy, a friend of hers, who needed a ride earlier but she couldn't pick him up. so she goes over to his house after i drop her off. i don't know what this means, but keep in mind almost all her friends are boys. she doesn't really hang out with girls at all except her mother and sister, except when she's around them and the girls are there (she doesn't ever call girls up to make plans).

the next day we talk on the computer and stuff, but she went off and did stuff until work again and then came home because there was nothing to do. she didn't call me once that day or night though. just came home and talked to me on the computer. i told her to call me tomorrow as she headed off to bed. and now this morning some guy made plans with her to go to the beach, so she was off and told me over the computer that she would call me if she didn't go. sure enough i got a call and we hung out today. i bought her some food, smoked her out, and watched movies at my house. i didn't make any moves on her though. i'm saving that for a different time since we haven't hung out much.

what are some things i should do to win this girl over???!!!! i think i may be competing with every single guy she knows, which sucks. all her fucking friends are guys. she goes to raves, so all guys of course are gonna hit on her. fuck that was a lot of writing, sorry. :mushroom2:


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Edited by mushiemountain (06/28/06 09:46 PM)

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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i didn't make any moves on her though. i'm saving that for a different time since we haven't hung out much.


Wrong idea, it probably would have been a good time to make a move. That was probably her last chance to have you confess to her before she goes and opens her legs to Devon. And no, I'm not being too harsh, whats the difference between friendship and relationship? Sex, that's right.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Idiot]
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no, I'm not being too harsh, whats the difference between friendship and relationship?  Sex, that's right.


Exactly.  You need to make a move on this girl or you will be FOREVER put in the friends zone.  Make a move fast to let your intentions be known.  She's testing you to see if you really want what you talk about.  Stop talking and start groping. :mad:


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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dude if anything you can always try to kiss her putt moves doesnt mean you have to fuck a kiss will tell her your interested. by the type of kiss you should be able to tell if your gonna get some or not dont be afraid to get shot down it isnt all that bad


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Dobie]
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Getting shot dowm sucks. Or maybe not in this case.

Anyway drugs make for a softer landing. IMO


:sun:


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: KaptKid]
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i have kissed her before, but just a peck on the lips to say good night. i just haven't yet because it is still awkward after kinda getting in a argument with her about our relationship. so the next time we hang out i will make the move.

can anyone give me some ideas on what i should do for her? or give me some ideas on what i should do for a day with her?


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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Take her some place relaxing.  Chill out, talk, maybe an activity or two.  Go for a walk in a park or something and then rape the bitch.  :grin: 


**And by rape I mean make your move.**  :thumbup:


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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ask her if she likes oral sex...

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
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Penguarky Tunguin said:
Take her some place relaxing.  Chill out, talk, maybe an activity or two.  Go for a walk in a park or something and then rape the bitch.  :grin: 


**And by rape I mean make your move.**  :thumbup:


That's a good move making maneuver I remember the move I made on my current girlfriend happened something like that....not the rape part we were smoking and she blew a hit in my mouth then I did the same and kissed her at the sametime. I thought it was a good one because I had been interested in her since middle school and this was after high school graduation. She actually slapped me because she spent all that time with other guys that were dicks and she could've been with me. I guess I got lucky by getting her when I did.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
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she's probably fucking devon because he can get the job done.

you're coming off as needy and unconfident.
and she sees you as powerless.


do yourself a favor and see my link.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Vvellum]
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maybe she likes alot as a friend that would be my guess


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