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mushiemountain
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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: eligal]
#5820974 - 07/04/06 06:23 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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yeah so she pretty much told me that she didn't know if i had lost my chance with her and that i did in a way lose my chance because i didn't want to go out with her 3 months ago. i even told her 3 months ago that summer time would be better for me to have a relationship and that the relationship would happen.
she said we're still good good friends and that we will see what happens from there. this is bad news to me.
how the fuck do i win this girl back? it's her b-day coming up...
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bobjones
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how the fuck do i win this girl back? it's her b-day coming up...
you don't.
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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: bobjones]
#5821082 - 07/04/06 06:57 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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sucks dude
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demiu5
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I'm lost in the game of action/inaction. My usual response is inaction, so I think I'll try action. The only problem is my current situation is a little bit different...we've split up twice before. She'll be leaving for Europe for an undetermined amount of time in the next 2-4 months, so I think I should try to make a move, but I don't know what she's wanting out of this now that we're talking and friends again.
I feel your pain, brother...I feel your pain.
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mushiemountain
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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: bobjones]
#5826358 - 07/06/06 02:10 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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there's gotta be someway. i want to get her something great for her b-day. she likes elephants, pink floyd, techno/trance, weed, and alcohol. any ideas?
i had flowers in mind already and possibly a stuffed animal elephant. i don't know, she's a good friend regardless.
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Economist
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Here's what you do: find someone with similar tastes to her jewelry to help you pick something for her out.
I don't mean something expensive, I mean something she would LOVE, like something you picked up at an art fair or second-hands store, but something that TOTALLY jives with her style.
You said she likes pink floyd, techno trance, etc. so I think it's fair to bet that she wears some accessories. Those are the best because most guys just go for price (I know I did before I figured out the whole "ask a friend with a similar style" bit), but if you can really get something she loves she'll think of you everytime she puts it on. Even better, other girls are likely to ask "Where'd you get that?" which brings you up even more.
It's kind of time consuming, but if you can really score with some stylish well-thought-out jewelry you'll have her back in no time.
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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Economist]
#5828109 - 07/06/06 03:40 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Economist said: Here's what you do: find someone with similar tastes to her jewelry to help you pick something for her out.
I don't mean something expensive, I mean something she would LOVE, like something you picked up at an art fair or second-hands store, but something that TOTALLY jives with her style.
You said she likes pink floyd, techno trance, etc. so I think it's fair to bet that she wears some accessories. Those are the best because most guys just go for price (I know I did before I figured out the whole "ask a friend with a similar style" bit), but if you can really get something she loves she'll think of you everytime she puts it on. Even better, other girls are likely to ask "Where'd you get that?" which brings you up even more.
It's kind of time consuming, but if you can really score with some stylish well-thought-out jewelry you'll have her back in no time.
No way. I would have to disagree. Depending on the level of their current relationship (which seems nonexistant beyond the friend level), buying a girl jewelry when she isn't your girlfriend can come across as desperate.
If you are buying her a gift, buy her something not so stereotypically "romantic". Has she mentioned she liked something or wanted something in a conversation you had? Girls think it's fucking fantastic when a man remembers a tiny tidbit of information about them. You can forget their phone number, but man, if you remember what country she wants to travel to, her favorite movie, or favorite meal...those are HUGE brownie points. So fellas, listen when the ladies talk to you - it could pay off later. LOL.
Good luck man, and remember - Nothing is sexier to women than confidence. Whatever you end up doing, saying, or buying for her..never lower yourself. Just be confident and true to yourself. If she wants to be with you still, she will let you know. Try asking her out for a casual "date". Don't call it a date though. Just ask if she wants to hang out. Put the moves on her, girls want to feel sexy and like they're wanted. DO NOT try to have sex with her though. Check her out, when she walks up to you, look her up and down. Compliment her, tell her she smells good. The rest is up to her...GOOD LUCK,
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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: ScarletFox]
#5828128 - 07/06/06 03:45 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Fox is right, buy her a piano bench.
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Iamthewalrus
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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: ScarletFox]
#5828133 - 07/06/06 03:47 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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god I am so sick of hearing about girls wanting confidence...its bad enough not having self confidence but then to have it rubbed in your face that its not sexy either lol...
I dunno tho...it almost seems like because I"m so open and honest about everything including the fact that I lack confidence that that in itself comes off as confident...confused? good cause so am I :/
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