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possible to love two girls at once?
    #2906083 - 07/19/04 07:02 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

is it possible to be in love with two girls at once? or is that complete bullshit? i feel like an asshole right now cause i love my girlfriend very much, but also like a close friend of mine alot. and i think she likes me as well. anyone lend some wisdom?


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906110 - 07/19/04 07:10 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Pick one.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ChiefThunderbong]
    #2906115 - 07/19/04 07:12 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

its hard man. i like em both for different reasons, my girl loves me and treats me right, so i feel like an asshole. but the other one's hot and chilled out.

i'm just worried i'll make a horrible mistake either way. its a paradox of sorts i guess maybe i should just shutup and deal with it.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906140 - 07/19/04 07:20 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

make sure that you're in love and not in lust. there is a big difference and if it's lust you could be making a big mistake.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: discoabe]
    #2906168 - 07/19/04 07:27 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

i've been thinking about that alot.  i donno, i just can't stop thinking about this girl.  i like her alot as a friend, and i'm really attracted to her, i think she's got a real cute personality.  she's been sexually abused and never really treated right by a guy.  i've already slept with her way back, and we dated for about a month before i cheated on her and she on me.  i just want to treat her right, ya know?  do i sound like i lust after her? i really don't know...

besides, she's got a real nice rack. :grin:


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906180 - 07/19/04 07:31 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

It's hard to say really, it's possible that you're lusting for her cause you can't have her right now. How long have you known her? and how long have you been with your g/f?


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906181 - 07/19/04 07:31 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

sounds like lust.

you cheated on her, and mention her rack.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906189 - 07/19/04 07:33 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Congratulations your normal


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906267 - 07/19/04 07:52 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Yes, you can love two girls at once, but unless they're ok with the whole polyamory thing, you're going to have to choose. I'm still in love with my ex, but I know there can be no relationship between us. Love, in its truest form, is selfless.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: silversoul7]
    #2906282 - 07/19/04 07:56 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

women. sometime's i think it's better to stay single and love them all.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906393 - 07/19/04 08:42 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

for guys, I think it usually starts as lust and then turns into love over time... or maybe I'm just demented.

definitely.. pick one.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: Shroomism]
    #2906398 - 07/19/04 08:43 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I usually start with infatuation, which turns to love over time.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906489 - 07/19/04 09:24 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

I'm sure you can love two girls at once, it happened to me before, but,definatly make sure its love and not lust. i think siversoul7 gave some really good advice when he said to make sure they are both ok with the whole polyamory thing, but I think all three of you would have to love each other the same way for that to work. and unless all three of you become really good friends and then become really good 3 way lovers,meaning the two girls would have to love each other too, your better off just picking one or the other. Less problems that way.I guess jelousy would be the main issue in trying to hold a relationship like that together, But what do I know I'm drunk as hell right now. :faded: :cheers:


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906550 - 07/19/04 09:54 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

what is it about each that you think you love?


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: chinadoll]
    #2906642 - 07/19/04 10:32 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

i love my girl cause she's great to me. but we fight alot over mindless bullshit.

i love the other girl cause she's chill and i know i could love her and treat her right and really show her what love is.

sure i lust after her, but i got genuine feelings for her as well. she gives me butterflies (something i haven't felt in a long time)

i would feel awful leaving my girl for another, cause she doesn't have much besides me. i feel guilty as hell about the thoughts i'm having.

then there's a third girl that i lust after, and i'm just generally a bastard when it comes to women. just got back from hanging out with her and i almost put the moves on her, (i've slept with her too).

i think i'm just getting bored with my girl and agree with funkymonk. its easier to stay single! i want to break it off with my girl, but i don't want to see her with anyone else. goddamn it. this sucks i should really just shutup.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906676 - 07/19/04 10:46 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

You obviously have problems with commitment, and shouldn't be in a relationship. Break it off with your girl and say you want to see other people. Maybe you can still be friends with benefits, which can sometimes be even better than an actual relationship.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: ]
    #2906806 - 07/19/04 11:53 PM (12 years, 9 months ago)

now you're talking about 3 girls......


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: funkymonk]
    #2907061 - 07/20/04 01:30 AM (12 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

funkymonk said:
women. sometime's i think it's better to stay single and love them all.




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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: 40oz]
    #2941359 - 07/29/04 06:13 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

man, jeleously is some bullshit. if you want her to accept the fact that your gonna be hookin up with other girls, then you have to be able to accept the fact that shes gonna be hooking up with other guys. I don't know about you but love and sex are two completly different things. love means something, but sex is just fun. think about it, you could easily fuck a girl you hate but you could never love a girl you hate, cause if you did you wouldn't hate her anymore. sex only has meaning if you give meaning to it, its the love that really matters. it all works out as long as everyones safe, everyones cool with it, and no one gets hurt.


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Re: possible to love two girls at once? [Re: silversoul7]
    #2941378 - 07/29/04 06:18 PM (12 years, 8 months ago)

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You obviously have problems with commitment, and shouldn't be in a relationship. Break it off with your girl and say you want to see other people. Maybe you can still be friends with benefits, which can sometimes be even better than an actual relationship.




Good advice! I would say the same thing. Enjoy yourself.


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