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OfflineBrukan
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Sex & Relationship Advice
    #1015796 - 11/02/02 12:33 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

I'd like to start a discussion so we all can share our stories and advice about building great relationships with our sexual partners and how to enjoy our bodies during sex.  This can get very exciting :laugh:...anything goes!  And please, do be kind to others :grin:...we will all be sharing some sensitive and personal stories.  So keeping that in mind, I'll start:

Male Masturbation:
I wrote a post here (  LINK  ) that you can read.  And this one (  LINK  ) for some good reading on male masturbation.

Female Masurbation:
Visit this talk (  LINK  ) I started about female masturbation.

General Health:
This is a very good site (  www.healthnet.com  ) that shares info on human health.  It has sections on womens health and teen health...worth a look :wink:

...more to come :wink:...

Edited by Brukan (11/02/02 01:55 PM)

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Re: *Official*....Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1015963 - 11/02/02 01:46 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

> *Official*

Official, eh? Ahem... Cough, cough... :wink: :grin:


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OfflineBrukan
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Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Papaver]
    #1015969 - 11/02/02 01:52 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

> Official, eh? Ahem... Cough, cough... 

HAHA, yeah I know...a little corny...I want to grap peoples attention... 

-EDITED ORIGINAL TITLE [I didn't want to get a lot of shit for that...I'd like to keep this talk good and worth reading :wink:]  thanks ..

Edited by Brukan (11/02/02 01:56 PM)

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Re: *Official*....Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1015972 - 11/02/02 01:54 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

hi mr sex and relationship advice d00d, i want to know some surefire ways to pick up a girl that don't include roofies.


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OfflineBrukan
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Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Eightball]
    #1015975 - 11/02/02 01:58 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

> ...i want to know some surefire ways to pick up a girl that don't include roofies.

HAHA. Can you share with us some typical things you may say to a woman? aka, "pick up lines."

Starting conversations with women can be tricky...well, it depends where you are. Starting talk at a club or bar can be tough...choose wisely! "Hi, having a good time...enjoying the show?" (that's something I normally start off...oh, and smiling is good!) But, what I generally like to do is to say something funny and witty...and honestly, my initial intentions are not just to leap into the woman?s pants...I strike conversation so I can get to know her. If the conversation goes well, I may ask more personal questions. "So, where do you live? How long? Any funny stories?"...stuff like that...

The best scenario I like to be in when trying to start conversation with women is during small group hangouts...someone?s house, bonfire on the beach, amusement park. Conversation is easier to start there (IMO). I find I can just talk about anything in these scenarios...

Edited by Brukan (11/02/02 02:13 PM)

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1015978 - 11/02/02 02:01 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

"bitch get in the car ho"


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OfflineBrukan
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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: BowlKiller]
    #1015999 - 11/02/02 02:18 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)


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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1016526 - 11/02/02 07:06 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

i completely agree with you, brukan... a woman feels more secure in a small group, especially if she knows someone that knows and invited you, that proves you are a trusty person... i dont find it hard to talk to a woman... it can be tricky, but well... thing is i never go anywhere saying "im gonna get a girl tonight, or im going to get laid!" (this cretaes expectations and pressure, not good at all)... i go to places to have fun, be it with a girl or not... most times i meet girls just happens out of "coincidence" (there is no such thing as a coincidence, imo... but well) ... it looks like this... im at a club/bar/whatever having fun, and i notice a girl i like, and find attractive and interesting... and the first thing i do is start eye contact with her... eyes tell so much about people, its impressive... i do this to get a feel of the girl, what kind of a person she is... and then i just smile... an honest, open smile is always the best... normally by now i can tell if she is interested in me, or not... she smiles back, or just turns away... or looks at me for some time... well depending on the results of the eye contact i walk over to her and just start talking... ask her how she is doing... how come shes there... offer her a drink, or a smoke... or just introduce myself... i like to say nice, honest things like "you have lovely smile" or "you look pretty happy tonight, its good to see people having fun" or "i love your tool t-shirt... its a GREAT band =o)"... girls like this, they like hearing honest nice things... it makes them feel comfortable and it shows you are interested in her and not in her pussy (maybe you are or may be later, but its not the main focus)... and they also love to see a self-confident person... just talk to her as if you were talking to a friend... dont ask yourself if shes gonna like you... or get all nervous... its a human beeing, and human interaction is a beautiful thing... anyways, that is what i have to say about it... i have a girlfriend, but i still get to know a lot of woman just by talking to them... actually it makes things easier, because i know i dont want anything from them just to know them, and have a nice conversation... and girls feel that... anyways the bottom line is... dont focus on getting in bed with her, or even get physical in any way with her... just focus on a nice conversation you'd have with a good friend, and things will work out fine... this is my opinion on the matter... thank god i have a girlfriend and dont have to go through the "getting girls numbers" stuff no more... love is a beautiful thing...


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OfflineBrukan
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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: In(di)go]
    #1016736 - 11/02/02 08:21 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

> ... thing is i never go anywhere saying "im gonna get a girl tonight, or im going to get laid!" (this cretaes expectations and pressure, not good at all)... i go to places to have fun, be it with a girl or not...

Yeah, I find that to be a great approach. I've heard of guys goin "hunting" or are "on the prowl." What is this...open season on women? C'mon, women are just like men is a sense...we both want love, companionship, friendship, someone to goof off with. See, if I'm with my group of friends and I'm introduced to a women...I gotta start the relationship off on a friendship level...and talk, and laugh...and see where it goes. Unnecessary pressure is hard to work with when you meet someone new, regardless of sex (IMO).


> eyes tell so much about people, its impressive...
I have a small (very small) degree of disagreement with that. I agree if you are engaged in conversation that yes...the eyes do convey sincerity of what the person is saying (are they focuses or looking at other people)...but if you glance over at a woman and try to read their eyes...without speaking...it's dam hard...for me anyway. I need to be talking to a woman to get a sense of how it's goin.

> ... girls like this, they like hearing honest nice things...
Ah, and so do I...

> ... and they also love to see a self-confident person...
And so do I...

> just talk to her as if you were talking to a friend...
Yes!

I liked what you wrote Lozt Soul! And I suggest to some men out there to play it slow...don't rush a woman into a relationship...take time to get to know each other...let it happen...and don't be sad if it ends, we are always changing and growing...

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1017441 - 11/03/02 12:52 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

not intended to flame feminists. Im just reporting strategy tatics learned thru the years.

Work methodically to cover all angles.. Never get caught up in a girl so bad you sit there weaping thinking about calling her every 5 minutes.

Meeting in groups is hard. If it is a party where theres been alota drinkin and stuff its possible, but thats no good way to start something off. Start off with some eye contact, making her think you are judging her. She will be intrigued and respond back. Dont show interest or flirt. When approach her, speak in a voice that is going to get an answer back. try not to tremble, and be as smoothe as possible without showing interest.. She'll be wanting to get to know you .

When dating begins, wait a day or two between calls, keep it somewhat brief, but very friendly. Keep this up till she starts wanting to talk to you more and more. Than you know shes getting emotial, and you can move into other depatments..

You ultimately want the girl to be constantly offering you a piece of the apple from the sacred tree in her attempts to get you to commit. During this stage, you get the best sex ever. Keep it going as long as u can till she forces you to commit or shes gonna leave.. Than its your choice..

just my bias opinion

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1017630 - 11/03/02 02:44 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

^^^^^

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OfflineBrukan
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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1017850 - 11/03/02 07:32 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

> ..Never get caught up in a girl so bad you sit there weaping thinking about calling her every 5 minutes.

HAHA, yeah...theres some truth there  :grin:


> Meeting in groups is hard. If it is a party where theres been alota drinkin and stuff its possible, but thats no good way to start something off. Start off with some eye contact, making her think you are judging her.

I'd like some collective elaboration on what this "making her think you are judging her" is all about...I feel some understanding can come from that... :smirk:


> You ultimately want the girl to be constantly offering you a piece of the apple from the sacred tree in her attempts to get you to commit. During this stage, you get the best sex ever. Keep it going as long as u can till she forces you to commit or shes gonna leave.. Than its your choice..

And I'd like a collective discussion on how long one may need to wait prior to having a sexual relationship with a partner.  I have some personal biases myself of one should wait for an appropriate amount of time...get to know each other...have some fun before the sex... 

Edited by Brukan (11/03/02 07:33 AM)

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1018246 - 11/03/02 11:42 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

I'd like some collective elaboration on what this "making her think you are judging her" is all about...I feel some understanding can come from that...

ok, well if the girl knows your into her, you are submitting to her mercy. She than decides if your good enough for her.. Your job is to turn the tables. let her prove shes good enough for you. this will encourage her to give you a taste of thie pie she has to offer. She will try to convince you by showing you how good it can get. And this is what you want.

Dont show jealousy atall. Let that bitch go wherever she wants. Most the time they threaten to go out with other guys to get a rise out of you. If you show you really dont care, you successfully took away her advantage to make you jealous.
She will be confused, and she will find theres no point in going out with other guys because when she does, all she thinks about is you.

If you ever ask a girl her past sexual experiences, never never throw it back in her face. Girls know that gets guys jealous, so she may opt to tell you things in feeble attempts to get u jealous. Flip the tables again, and say "Tell me your naughty school girl stories tonight when were alone." You just foiled her last advantage of jealousy. You took a matter that will make 90 out of 100 guys jealous, and used it for your pleasure..


{And I'd like a collective discussion on how long one may need to wait prior to having a sexual relationship with a partner. I have some personal biases myself of one should wait for an appropriate amount of time...get to know each other...have some fun before the sex...}

If your initially looking for a relationship, tight friends is good. Making a girl laugh is definitly a plus. But dont be a sap.
The method i discussed is not to try to find true love. My method is curved to use a womans natural advantages against her to aquire success and sex.

waiting is primarilary up to the girl. Never refuse it unless if ir jeopardizes your manhood. what i mean by that is if she says "Ill sleep with you only if were a couple." dont aGREE to be a couple for sex. You just sold out on being a man..

Other aspects in the sex field are extremely important also. Tables can get turned easily.. But all this is designed to be a cold hearted babe layer.


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OfflineBrukan
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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1019209 - 11/03/02 07:33 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Wow, appreciate you sharing CrabbyAss...very cool!

> ..Your job is to turn the tables. let her prove shes good enough for you. this will encourage her to give you a taste of thie pie she has to offer.

Would this be considered a form of foreplay? Or more like a game?


> ... Most the time they threaten to go out with other guys to get a rise out of you. If you show you really dont care, you successfully took away her advantage to make you jealous.

I think that is a game...


> waiting is primarilary up to the girl. Never refuse it unless if ir jeopardizes your manhood. what i mean by that is if she says "Ill sleep with you only if were a couple." dont aGREE to be a couple for sex. You just sold out on being a man..

Wow, I find that very insightful...like you let us understand how you work on a certain level...but I feel we have some differences on what being a man is.

So I ask you CrabbyAss, does this work? Can this all make one happy?

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OfflineCrabbyAss
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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1019320 - 11/03/02 08:15 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

its all good dude. Im not swiping your chicks, actually I just have one. I treat this girl with the manner you speak of. Gentle, Kind And Loving. And your right 100% that is the best way. to that i agree and commend you.

I dont see anything wrong with highering ones self-esteme and asking yourself if a girl is good enough for you. Cause everyman deserves the best.

I am fully against raising your voice to a woman, hitting a woman, making a woman do something against her will, etc. A woman has the option to leave at anytime. I dont advise lying to a woman.

As far as the games go, I didnt invent the playing board. You will encounter a few mean loops while in a relationship. I was simply suggesting killing the big hinderances from the get-go. SUch as the jealousy thing. I believe we have the power of free will, and life is what we make of it. So we better make it good:)

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1019416 - 11/03/02 09:01 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Hi. - OoD

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Anonymous]
    #1019433 - 11/03/02 09:06 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Hello

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OfflineBrukan
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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1019465 - 11/03/02 09:19 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Great response man...I appreciate your enthusiastic honesty...refreshing!

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1022235 - 11/04/02 07:46 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)



Sex, Love, and Relationships forum on Bluelight


Just put it in your favourites right away. Dont bother evaluating it, because its simply the best forum for advice in the universe. =P

Trust me. =]



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Re: Sex & Relationship Advic...GOOD TALK [Re: RuNE]
    #1023778 - 11/05/02 10:09 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Awesome...thanks for that reference!

Some interesting and related discussions have been on Shroomery...here are a few I like:

- "Female advice needed... ", by Sterile ( LINK )

- "Sex and Middle Management", by OracleOfDelphi ( LINK )

Edited by Brukan (11/05/02 03:01 PM)

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1025540 - 11/05/02 07:36 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Crappyass advice is stupid in my opinion, he is playing into the whole ego, i'm better look at me type of shit. If a girl wants to play those ridiculous games, then I don't even want to bother. Why are there rules to mind playing? A girl will think highly of you if your honest from the start and don't try to play mind games. If I have a lot of feelings for a girl, she knows.. I don't try to hide it. Sex before getting in a relationship is awkward.. its like there is nothing special, if its just to impress the other person, honestly what kind of human bonding is going on from the start?

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: ]
    #1027226 - 11/06/02 06:50 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Looner don't lose the plot mate! Getting it together in a relationship should be full of fun, excitment and mystery, no-one wants things given to em on a plate, if their honest with themselves. Imagine you meet a girl and that very night your in bed with her. Great...but for how long? The novelty is soon gonna wear off, and you'll probably respect her alot less for dropping her knickers so quickly. Playing the game keeps interest levels high for both male and female. Make em laugh, show em your sweet side, ie make em "awwww", be honest with them and yourself and things will be rolling.

Lozt soul I gotta say I don't ever buy a girl a drink the same night I meet her, no way! Yes it's a friendly, generous offer but some girls like to play hard, and by that I mean they like to see how many guys they can get after them, buying drinks for them, fighting over them... If she ain't gonna give me the time unless I buy her something forget it!

Right now I'm gonna go and check those links that bukan left a page back or so.
Good thread, lets see how it turns out. :smile:
       


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OfflineCrabbyAss
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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: ]
    #1027715 - 11/06/02 10:43 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Looner, how many times have you seen a girl leave a boyfriend to return to her ex who treated her like dirt? If you havent seen it before, im sure you will. They wouldnt have it any other way..

Would you rather have a woman who is with you because you are nice and she has nothing to complain about, Or would you rather have a chick who desires you more than anyone else she has ever met? By implying that you are unsure if she's good enough for you will most likely result in her wanting you bad.

Call it a game if u must, but i call it objective thinking. I have an objective and I have a planned strategy.

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Roger_irrelevant]
    #1027774 - 11/06/02 11:08 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Re: LoOnEr
> ...If a girl wants to play those ridiculous games, then I don't even want to bother.
Eh man, that's cool.  Not every woman wants to play these games...and I'm sure you can find a woman like this.


> ...Why are there rules to mind playing?
I find the rules are very flexible...wit, charm, and respect for the lady are the rules I play by (and so do my close male friends).


> Sex before getting in a relationship is awkward.. it?s like there is nothing special, if its just to impress the other person, honestly what kind of human bonding is going on from the start?

Well sometimes people can be like this.  I know this really cool woman...she's a shroomerite (but I don't think she's on Shroomery) and talks to me about sex w/o commitment.  To her is an easy distinction to make...and she says that she's had deep relationships and short flings that were all about sex.  She' s cool with that, because her and her partner know this from the start.  Well, it's not literally spoken of when they meet...but can be implied if you know what I mean.  I love talking to this woman about relationships...and she's taught me a lot about the female ego...

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Re: Roger_irrelevant
> Playing the game keeps interest levels high for both male and female.
Yes I agree...but there are many games people can play...


> Lozt soul I gotta say I don't ever buy a girl a drink the same night I meet her, no way!
What!  C'mon man, that's a nice gesture...I always by a lady a drink...kind of tells me what she's like (ie. what does she drink...beer, liquor).  I like beer drikin ladies :wink: 


> ...but some girls like to play hard, and by that I mean they like to see how many guys they can get after them, buying drinks for them, fighting over them...

Ah, another game I don't like to play.  I'm pretty good at seeing if this is happening when I offer a woman a drink.

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1027823 - 11/06/02 11:21 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Would you rather have a woman who is with you because you are nice and she has nothing to complain about, or would you rather have a chick who desires you more than anyone else she has ever met?  By implying that you are unsure if she's good enough for you will most likely result in her wanting you bad.

AH!  A great question!  Man I'm torn.  I want both...I think that's what I try, but I end up being the nice guy she has nothing to complain about.  IMO, the second status can be a lot of work...putting strain on my male ego.

Your second statement about her being not good enough for you...I donno man.  I don't think that's a good approach.  I feel it creates unnecessary levels of dominance...where...say the male is "hotter" than the woman, or the female is very eager to be with a "popular" male.  Again, I think this feeds the male ego junk food!

But I do appreciate you sharing CrabbyAss!  It's a good discussion. :grin:

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OfflineRoger_irrelevant
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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1028084 - 11/06/02 12:57 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

In reply to:

If a girl wants to play those ridiculous games, then I don't even want to bother. Why are there rules to mind playing?




I wouldn't even take it personally, it's biological. If we want to name this game lets call it The Mating Game. Look at mammal mating behaviour patterns (*'patterns'*) and in many instances you'll notice that the larger, showier, dominante males are the ones who are preferred by the females because they can:
A. Be good providers
B. Produce strong young that will carry on the family genes

Yes there are probably exceptions, as there in in our own society but the point I am trying to make is that courtship and mating are by nature ritualistic and our actions are governed by this age old drive and as such are somewhat predetermined. Darwins theories are cold and automatic. Ideally we would want love and companionship to be based on more...but is it?


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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Brukan]
    #1028730 - 11/06/02 03:28 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

In reply to:

Lozt soul I gotta say I don't ever buy a girl a drink the same night I meet her, no way!
What! C'mon man, that's a nice gesture...I always by a lady a drink...kind of tells me what she's like (ie. what does she drink...beer, liquor). I like beer drikin ladies





I don't think money has any place within the bounds of the first meeting. If she needs to know how generous I can be she needs to come out on a date with me. Plus what if you don't hit it off with that girl you approached and bought a drink for? Are you gonna move on to the next and buy another drink?
That could turn into alot of drinks friend. Ok you don't have to buy a drink untill your sure your in there I guess, but like to be doublely sure... I'll be the gentlemen when I get that 1st date.


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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1028803 - 11/06/02 03:59 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Would you rather have a woman who is with you because you are nice and she has nothing to complain about, Or would you rather have a chick who desires you more than anyone else she has ever met? By implying that you are unsure if she's good enough for you will most likely result in her wanting you bad.

Why can't a girl want and desire a nice guy? In my optimium scenario, a girl will love me for who I am, not the games I play. This leads to greater respect, greater trust... and deeper feelings. Instead of making a girl think she is not good enough for me, I will make her know how truly amazing SHE is. Then she will want me just as much, even more so.. then the shallow girl who wanted your ego.

Edited by LoOnEr (11/06/02 03:59 PM)

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    #1029402 - 11/06/02 06:20 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1029541 - 11/06/02 06:44 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Crabbyass, I really hope you are right about relationships.

If you are- I will be able to feel much better about spending the rest of my life alone.

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: Xibalba]
    #1029768 - 11/06/02 07:38 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Hahha my thoughts exactly =)

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: ]
    #1029968 - 11/06/02 08:37 PM (21 years, 5 months ago)

OK, here are all your answeres...


www.sosuave.com go there, it could change your like, seriously


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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: CrabbyAss]
    #1031996 - 11/07/02 09:57 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Before you study the girls behavior, one must study his own behavior. Have any of you guys ever been in love with a girl who treats you bad? Im sure alot of you guys have, and some may even be in that position now..A Well theres logic behind it. We all follow patterns in life and dont even know it.

Hey, you guys gotta admit...CrabbyAss does have some good ideas. This happened to me. I was dating a rather outgoing...good looking...egotistical woman a whiles back. I noticed that my cuteness, and kindness was mistaken for weakness...and she liked to walk all over me (ie. make me driver her everywhere, pay for everything, this kind of shit). But be aware our "relationship" didn't last. I set myself for this IMO. It was my behavior...more so my self-esteem at that time of my life...I felt so luck to be with such a woman (relating to something else CrabbyAss said a few posts back). Like she was too good for me. Man, I'm glad that's over...but I can "pick out" these sorts of women in a crowd with very little difficulty due to this experience.

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: shrooming4fun]
    #1032014 - 11/07/02 10:05 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks for the reference shrooming4fun. The name does scare me a little, but I'll give it a read.



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Roger_irrelevan said:
I don't think money has any place within the bounds of the first meeting. If she needs to know how generous I can be she needs to come out on a date with me. Plus what if you don't hit it off with that girl you approached and bought a drink for? Are you gonna move on to the next and buy another drink?
That could turn into alot of drinks friend. Ok you don't have to buy a drink untill your sure your in there I guess, but like to be doublely sure... I'll be the gentlemen when I get that 1st date.




You know what...that's dam smart man. I see what you mean now. I need to keep an eye on my expenses these days...

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Re: Sex & Relationship Advice [Re: shrooming4fun]
    #1035819 - 11/08/02 10:50 AM (21 years, 5 months ago)

Must say that sosuave site is pretty damn good!


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