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Offlinemushiemountain
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So There's This Girl...
    #5799209 - 06/28/06 12:29 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

that i like very much. i have told her this countless times when she told me that she liked me very much also. i never persued it though because there was other things going on in my life. well now she never calls me or really talks to me much and she said it's because i never showed any interest, but i did and i let her know i was interested.

i have been letting her know that i want to hang out with her, but she is always doing something. i want to show her that i really do like her, much more than i have ever liked any girl. i want to do something for her, but i just don't know what. i want to take her to do something, but i don't know what either. her b-day is coming up as well, but i don't know!!!!

i don't know how she can go from loving me sooooo much to acting not interested as soon as i start pursuing her. it's kind of tearing me apart.

maybe you guys can help me with this one. anything i can do? thanks.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5799222 - 06/28/06 12:35 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

easy, somebody caught her attension, now you have to compete,

which goes to show it doesn't pay to be slow,

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5799223 - 06/28/06 12:35 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

should of smacked that ass when you had a chance. she probably checking some one else out now. sorry

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: durban_poison]
    #5799244 - 06/28/06 12:42 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

yeah dude you missed your chance flat out... tard face

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5799262 - 06/28/06 12:46 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

Its kinda funny in a way... only because I've been in the situation before.

If someone is interested in you, and you feel the same way... pursue it right away. If you don't, then you run the risk of either becoming wedged into a "just friends" slot or the risk that the other person's feelings for you might change. Saying that the reason you haven't pursued anything is because you've had other things going on with your life is just a silly excuse. Imagine that from her end... "I'm interested in you, I like you a lot, but I have more important things to worry about than you" If you're afraid, let it go.

With that being said, put forth the effort. Do something nice for her. Re-affirm your interest and ask how she feels about you now.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5799294 - 06/28/06 12:55 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

Aww that sucks..kinda reminds me of back in high school -- this girl I liked but had no confidence and never would've thought she'd like me told me a year later, drunk, at a party.. that she had a crush on me throughout the previous year :lol:

And then added that I missed my window, as her boyfriend picked her up.  So yeah, that sucks man.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5799393 - 06/28/06 01:25 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

You lost your chance. You're done. It's over. Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, and they all stink. If a woman is interested in you, she will ALWAYS be available to you. She will make sure she is. If she's ALWAYS busy, she's not interested. Plain and simple.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5799404 - 06/28/06 01:27 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

download this - your approach is wrong and it is alienating her.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Vvellum]
    #5799423 - 06/28/06 01:34 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

1.ok lock yourself in your closet.
2. spin in a circle and don't stop
3. the whole time your in here say out loud what you like about this women and what you should have done and didn't do.
4. take your right hand and cover your eyes
5. masterbate 12 times during all this with your left hand.
6. open the door and run to the phone and call her right away after the 12th inning. And tell her you want to go have coffee together.
7. take all the coat hangers off your elbow before you leave the house.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: makaveli8x8]
    #5800540 - 06/28/06 07:45 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

haha you guys are harsh. she's not always busy, just this past 2 weeks, partly because one of her friends committed suicide. i told her recently about the whole situation and how i felt.

this past monday we hung out during the day until she had work at 5. then later on after work, i called her to see what she was doing and we met up and kicked it all night at a friend's house. i took her to her car at 12 30 am because i needed to get home and get some sleep (rave this past weekend) and she had made plans to pick her friend up named devon. he was some guy, a friend of hers, who needed a ride earlier but she couldn't pick him up. so she goes over to his house after i drop her off. i don't know what this means, but keep in mind almost all her friends are boys. she doesn't really hang out with girls at all except her mother and sister, except when she's around them and the girls are there (she doesn't ever call girls up to make plans).

the next day we talk on the computer and stuff, but she went off and did stuff until work again and then came home because there was nothing to do. she didn't call me once that day or night though. just came home and talked to me on the computer. i told her to call me tomorrow as she headed off to bed. and now this morning some guy made plans with her to go to the beach, so she was off and told me over the computer that she would call me if she didn't go. sure enough i got a call and we hung out today. i bought her some food, smoked her out, and watched movies at my house. i didn't make any moves on her though. i'm saving that for a different time since we haven't hung out much.

what are some things i should do to win this girl over???!!!! i think i may be competing with every single guy she knows, which sucks. all her fucking friends are guys. she goes to raves, so all guys of course are gonna hit on her. fuck that was a lot of writing, sorry. :mushroom2:


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5800635 - 06/28/06 08:15 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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i didn't make any moves on her though. i'm saving that for a different time since we haven't hung out much.



Wrong idea, it probably would have been a good time to make a move. That was probably her last chance to have you confess to her before she goes and opens her legs to Devon. And no, I'm not being too harsh, whats the difference between friendship and relationship? Sex, that's right.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Idiot]
    #5800812 - 06/28/06 09:00 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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no, I'm not being too harsh, whats the difference between friendship and relationship?  Sex, that's right.




Exactly.  You need to make a move on this girl or you will be FOREVER put in the friends zone.  Make a move fast to let your intentions be known.  She's testing you to see if you really want what you talk about.  Stop talking and start groping. :mad:


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5800846 - 06/28/06 09:10 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

dude if anything you can always try to kiss her putt moves doesnt mean you have to fuck a kiss will tell her your interested. by the type of kiss you should be able to tell if your gonna get some or not dont be afraid to get shot down it isnt all that bad


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Dobie]
    #5800873 - 06/28/06 09:16 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

Getting shot dowm sucks. Or maybe not in this case.

Anyway drugs make for a softer landing. IMO


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: KaptKid]
    #5800954 - 06/28/06 09:47 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

i have kissed her before, but just a peck on the lips to say good night. i just haven't yet because it is still awkward after kinda getting in a argument with her about our relationship. so the next time we hang out i will make the move.

can anyone give me some ideas on what i should do for her? or give me some ideas on what i should do for a day with her?


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5800970 - 06/28/06 09:50 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

Take her some place relaxing.  Chill out, talk, maybe an activity or two.  Go for a walk in a park or something and then rape the bitch.  :grin: 


**And by rape I mean make your move.**  :thumbup:


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5801005 - 06/28/06 09:57 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

ask her if she likes oral sex...

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5801249 - 06/28/06 11:05 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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Penguarky Tunguin said:
Take her some place relaxing.  Chill out, talk, maybe an activity or two.  Go for a walk in a park or something and then rape the bitch.  :grin: 


**And by rape I mean make your move.**  :thumbup:




That's a good move making maneuver I remember the move I made on my current girlfriend happened something like that....not the rape part we were smoking and she blew a hit in my mouth then I did the same and kissed her at the sametime. I thought it was a good one because I had been interested in her since middle school and this was after high school graduation. She actually slapped me because she spent all that time with other guys that were dicks and she could've been with me. I guess I got lucky by getting her when I did.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5801365 - 06/28/06 11:31 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

she's probably fucking devon because he can get the job done.

you're coming off as needy and unconfident.
and she sees you as powerless.


do yourself a favor and see my link.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Vvellum]
    #5801462 - 06/28/06 11:56 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

maybe she likes alot as a friend that would be my guess


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: JoeCool]
    #5801515 - 06/29/06 12:15 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

maybe she's a nymphomaniac, usually well yeah usually women who hang with only guys are....so hey man start pushin the wagon.

and whenever a women asks you to take her to another guys house, and then you leave...you might as well quite tellin yourself lies man he beat that bush like it was his job or something...oh wait it was!! what about you man you a lesbian or what? gotta get that ball movin quick if you want a peice of the action.

you should ask her stright up if she a nympho, she will get a laugh either way. and would prob be a good line to get things started in that department.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: JoeCool]
    #5801516 - 06/29/06 12:15 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

just do eat. i mean just do it. actually both are true. and Rohypnol too.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Omnicracker]
    #5801583 - 06/29/06 12:35 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

hmmmm did gay germans build the pyramids I never thought about them but it all makes sense now


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5801589 - 06/29/06 12:37 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

2 words: donkey punch

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #5801598 - 06/29/06 12:39 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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KingOftheThing said:
2 words: donkey punch



You go to hell, you go to hell and you die!!!!


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: JoeCool]
    #5801663 - 06/29/06 12:58 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

it's not like i don't know this girl. i have known her for a while. she's not a nympho, she's like one of the guys (tom boy type girl) we were good friends before she liked me.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5801704 - 06/29/06 01:14 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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i bought her some food, smoked her out, and watched movies at my house. i didn't make any moves on her though. i'm saving that for a different time since we haven't hung out much.




this screams 'friends' to me. if you don't do something soon expect to spend alot of time and money on this girl and get nothing but a headache in return.
same thing happened to me not too long ago, trust me you don't want to go there...shudder...


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5801717 - 06/29/06 01:21 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

girls expect guys to make moves on em it kinda flaters em and it lets em know they are attractive which totally turns a girl on


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Dobie]
    #5801719 - 06/29/06 01:24 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

You told her you liked her alot, then she told you the same, then you backed off?.....

Shoulda never told her you liked her, it will be tough to catch her interest again.

Edited by Leanin (06/29/06 01:25 AM)

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Leanin]
    #5801853 - 06/29/06 02:07 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

Once you tell a girl you like her and then make no move, its pretty much over. Don't waste your time/money/energy on this girl, no matter how awesome she is. You will end up getting hurt.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Pirate_Patrick]
    #5802208 - 06/29/06 05:10 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

well, i got a gf for some weeks now and i must say that i quite like her :heart:  everyday some more :laugh:

well she made the move, lol


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: ohmatic]
    #5802746 - 06/29/06 10:34 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

next time i hang out with her i am going to make the first move. the problem is i have always had trouble making the first move that's why it's hard for me to get around to it.any auggestions? i am not going to give up on this one.

i think i am going to ask her if i have any chance of getting her to like me as much as she used to.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5802808 - 06/29/06 10:54 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)


i think i am going to ask her if i have any chance of getting her to like me as much as she used to.


stupid question to ask in my IMO, I doubt she'll know the answer to that, and the question in itself is worthy of the "red flag", ahh no in the back of her head

better to just play it oblivious to any implications, focus on the here and now, act as if you have no insecurities, and you have your own agendas regardless of what happens,

but most importantly, make the move, and if she shoots it down, persist, and if she persists in shooting you down, then persist her ass out of your life, unless you want to hang around for the cool details of her other engagements of her other extracurricular activities

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5802943 - 06/29/06 11:40 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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that i like very much. i have told her this countless times when she told me that she liked me very much also. i never persued it though because there was other things going on in my life. well now she never calls me or really talks to me much and she said it's because i never showed any interest, but i did and i let her know i was interested.

i have been letting her know that i want to hang out with her, but she is always doing something. i want to show her that i really do like her, much more than i have ever liked any girl. i want to do something for her, but i just don't know what. i want to take her to do something, but i don't know what either. her b-day is coming up as well, but i don't know!!!!

i don't know how she can go from loving me sooooo much to acting not interested as soon as i start pursuing her. it's kind of tearing me apart.

maybe you guys can help me with this one. anything i can do? thanks.




Move on.  She was just looking for a quickie romance most likely and you didn't provide. She's moved on but it's no loss as she would have shortly after you both got together anyway. :grin:  Just part of being young. :wink: It's nothing personal. :mushroom2:


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5803397 - 06/29/06 02:06 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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i have kissed her before, but just a peck on the lips to say good night. i just haven't yet because it is still awkward after kinda getting in a argument with her about our relationship. so the next time we hang out i will make the move.

can anyone give me some ideas on what i should do for her? or give me some ideas on what i should do for a day with her?




Should of shoved your tongue down her throat  :eek:

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Dobie]
    #5817872 - 07/03/06 09:54 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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dude if anything you can always try to kiss her putt moves doesnt mean you have to fuck a kiss will tell her your interested.




So, not to be "harsh", but you need the kick in the ass!

JUST FUCKIN' DO EET!

:grin:

If you don't act IMMEDIATELY (and who knows, it may possibly already be too late), your window will surely be gone, and you will be simply another guy friend of hers. There are much worse things in life than finding out that someone doesn't have romantic feelings for you.

So you've got to kiss the girl!


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: absolute zero]
    #5817908 - 07/03/06 10:03 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

The best thing to do is watch a romantic movie. I suggest walk the line. When there's a kissing/sentimental scene, just move closer, lean in, and kiss her right below her ear. It's easier for you to do because she doesn't have to be looking at you, and it's less intimidating. At the same time however, it's more than just a friendly kiss. With any luck, she'll turn her head and kiss you.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5817916 - 07/03/06 10:06 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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mushiemountain said:
the problem is i have always had trouble making the first move that's why it's hard for me to get around to it.any auggestions?




I can sympathize with you on having some difficulty making the first move... I used to feel this way too... My simple advice to you:

Don't try to rationalize it. Hell, don't even really think about it. Just be there in the moment and take a risk.

When I was in Ohio last weekend, I stood at the top of a set of ledges where we all jumped off into the lake. I looked over the edge to what laid below to assure that I would be able to land safely, then walked about 15 feet from it to get a running start. I started to think and consider what I was doing, but instead of trying to rationalize or sit there and wait while the fear silently crept up, I just started to run, and took the leap... This is what you must do.

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i think i am going to ask her if i have any chance of getting her to like me as much as she used to.




You're not serious, are you? Don't ask her, read her body language.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: absolute zero]
    #5817947 - 07/03/06 10:14 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

ah dude I know how you feel about the whole 'too shy to make the first move thing'.

There's this girl that I've had a crush on for the past 2 years and her last BF was a total ego maniac fuck head. I caught her looking at me (even when she was with him) and was just too shy to stare her down. One day on the school bus she came up and said "mind if I sit here?" (next to me) and I said "Sure".

Lol

spent the whole trip looking out the window kicking myself for being such a loser.

This was like a year ago, I'm not sure if she's lost interest because I've caught her looking at me whenever I see her (she works in the supermarket and I see her at parties like once a blue moon)
but I have never said anything more than "hello" to her and it fucking kills me because I know I could have had a chance but was just too pussy to do anything about it.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: absolute zero]
    #5818000 - 07/03/06 10:28 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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JUST FUCKIN' DO EET!

If you don't act IMMEDIATELY (and who knows, it may possibly already be too late), your window will surely be gone, and you will be simply another guy friend of hers.




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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: eligal]
    #5820974 - 07/04/06 06:23 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

yeah so she pretty much told me that she didn't know if i had lost my chance with her and that i did in a way lose my chance because i didn't want to go out with her 3 months ago. i even told her 3 months ago that summer time would be better for me to have a relationship and that the relationship would happen.

she said we're still good good friends and that we will see what happens from there. this is bad news to me.

how the fuck do i win this girl back? it's her b-day coming up...


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5820978 - 07/04/06 06:25 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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how the fuck do i win this girl back? it's her b-day coming up...




you don't.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: bobjones]
    #5821082 - 07/04/06 06:57 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

sucks dude

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5821135 - 07/04/06 07:09 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

I'm lost in the game of action/inaction. My usual response is inaction, so I think I'll try action. The only problem is my current situation is a little bit different...we've split up twice before. She'll be leaving for Europe for an undetermined amount of time in the next 2-4 months, so I think I should try to make a move, but I don't know what she's wanting out of this now that we're talking and friends again.

I feel your pain, brother...I feel your pain.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: bobjones]
    #5826358 - 07/06/06 02:10 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

there's gotta be someway. i want to get her something great for her b-day. she likes elephants, pink floyd, techno/trance, weed, and alcohol. any ideas?

i had flowers in mind already and possibly a stuffed animal elephant. i don't know, she's a good friend regardless.


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: mushiemountain]
    #5826369 - 07/06/06 02:16 AM (17 years, 8 months ago)

Here's what you do: find someone with similar tastes to her jewelry to help you pick something for her out.

I don't mean something expensive, I mean something she would LOVE, like something you picked up at an art fair or second-hands store, but something that TOTALLY jives with her style.

You said she likes pink floyd, techno trance, etc. so I think it's fair to bet that she wears some accessories. Those are the best because most guys just go for price (I know I did before I figured out the whole "ask a friend with a similar style" bit), but if you can really get something she loves she'll think of you everytime she puts it on. Even better, other girls are likely to ask "Where'd you get that?" which brings you up even more.

It's kind of time consuming, but if you can really score with some stylish well-thought-out jewelry you'll have her back in no time.

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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: Economist]
    #5828109 - 07/06/06 03:40 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

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Here's what you do: find someone with similar tastes to her jewelry to help you pick something for her out.

I don't mean something expensive, I mean something she would LOVE, like something you picked up at an art fair or second-hands store, but something that TOTALLY jives with her style.

You said she likes pink floyd, techno trance, etc. so I think it's fair to bet that she wears some accessories. Those are the best because most guys just go for price (I know I did before I figured out the whole "ask a friend with a similar style" bit), but if you can really get something she loves she'll think of you everytime she puts it on. Even better, other girls are likely to ask "Where'd you get that?" which brings you up even more.

It's kind of time consuming, but if you can really score with some stylish well-thought-out jewelry you'll have her back in no time.





No way. I would have to disagree. Depending on the level of their current relationship (which seems nonexistant beyond the friend level), buying a girl jewelry when she isn't your girlfriend can come across as desperate.

If you are buying her a gift, buy her something not so stereotypically "romantic". Has she mentioned she liked something or wanted something in a conversation you had? Girls think it's fucking fantastic when a man remembers a tiny tidbit of information about them. You can forget their phone number, but man, if you remember what country she wants to travel to, her favorite movie, or favorite meal...those are HUGE brownie points. So fellas, listen when the ladies talk to you - it could pay off later. LOL.

Good luck man, and remember - Nothing is sexier to women than confidence. Whatever you end up doing, saying, or buying for her..never lower yourself. Just be confident and true to yourself. If she wants to be with you still, she will let you know. Try asking her out for a casual "date". Don't call it a date though. Just ask if she wants to hang out. Put the moves on her, girls want to feel sexy and like they're wanted. DO NOT try to have sex with her though. Check her out, when she walks up to you, look her up and down. Compliment her, tell her she smells good. The rest is up to her...GOOD LUCK,


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: ScarletFox]
    #5828128 - 07/06/06 03:45 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

Fox is right, buy her a piano bench.  :hehehe:


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Re: So There's This Girl... [Re: ScarletFox]
    #5828133 - 07/06/06 03:47 PM (17 years, 8 months ago)

god I am so sick of hearing about girls wanting confidence...its bad enough not having self confidence but then to have it rubbed in your face that its not sexy either lol...

I dunno tho...it almost seems like because I"m so open and honest about everything including the fact that I lack confidence that that in itself comes off as confident...confused? good cause so am I :/

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