Continued from previous post... sigh...
gettinjiggywithit said: When I see you get lop sided and present one side of the issue then yes, you may see me come in a present the other side to keep the view of the BIG full picture in frame.
The reason my opinion is LOPSIDED, and only presents ONE SIDE oh literate one, is because I ONLY HAVE ONE OPINION on this matter. At least it is MY opinion.
FEW IN THIS PARTICULAR THREAD, HAVE ADDRESSED THE OTHER SIDE.
I'm NOT going to offer BOTH SIDES. I only occupy ONE SIDE. The people who DISAGREE WITH ME take the OTHER SIDE. And so far... FEW OF THEM HAVE SPOKEN UP, IN THIS THREAD. If THEY exist, they should REPLY to BALANCE THE ARGUMENT. QUICK! Before jiggy gets mad at me for not arguing FOR THEM!
Trust me, you don't want me arguing THE OTHER SIDE!
It is called the OTHER side, because OTHERS argue it. 
gettinjiggywithit said: I don't know if you ever considered that mods suited for a spirituality forum (have experience with the intangible nature of spirit) have been wanting to look out for other members who do as well and can understand how they feel when their intangible beliefs ideas and experiences get attacked, ridiculed and bashed. They aren't robots and can feel for others as themselves.
Thank YOU for the lesson in Moderation.
gettinjiggywithit said: Your "sensitive remark" to Wiccan clearly shows that you have no understanding of "the sensitive". News flash; the world is filled with sensitive to hyper sensitive people. It's nobodies job to "toughen them up". I have researched it for years and have a hyper sensitive daughter, and any act to toughen them up is damaging and the cause of what will turn them into insensitive abusive people.
Actually it shows this:
I am aware Wiccan can become SO passionate he can miss the forest for the trees. I am ALSO aware, Wiccan himself is aware of this. In fact, on MANY occasions we have laughed because we SHARE THIS QUALITY... and usually but not always, we fall on the SAME SIDE OF THE ARGUMENT.
I KNOW Wiccan, and he KNOWS how argumentative I am.
This is not the first time we've disagreed. We are BOTH able to change our minds, and opinions, after discussing things in detail.
When we disagree, the truth we crave often lies between our opinions. I have LONG used Wiccan as a barometer for my thoughts, as he has done with me.
We are BOTH writers, and we BOTH are on the same path, learning how to communicate BETTER then we did, the day before.
Wiccan is one of my favorite people here. Keep that in mind when I say he is biased towards Swami.
I do not overlook all of Wiccan's great qualities, this is simply NOT THE PLACE TO DISCUSS THEM.
gettinjiggywithit said: Any attempt may throw them into withdraw, mistrust and eventually depression and or drug or alcohol abuse to ease and escape from the pain of "feeling" the hate and cruelty in this world.
If THAT is true, they should not be Moderators.
However, I believe these three have bigger balls than that.
They're just biased towards ONE MEMBER. If they fix that, they will re-establish TRUST in most, if not all, of this community.
This is really SIMPLE to fix, in my eyes.
gettinjiggywithit said: Thats a completely different consideration from the one where some people went to far and want help getting a grip and grounding. They can get that sort of help in S&P.
However, often, those who went to far are typically natural born sensitives to hyper sensitives who went to far to escape the pain, hate and cruelty of this world in the first place.
Lost me on that last paragraph.
gettinjiggywithit said: Either way, a forum where people can experience a little more love , kindness and 'feel good" and connect with other sensitives who can relate to them is a good thing. That can help to bring some back as well. Many people live in abusive environments off the net. It can help them to know that the whole world isn't out to abuse them and that there are places for them to feel okay and safe to be who they are. Then, they have a chance to build some confidence and self esteem back up.
I agree, this is why we have The Pub. 
gettinjiggywithit said: The saddest part that many who are more known for being abusive to others here were abused themselves by insensitive intimidating parents who were by theirs and the chain goes on.
Lost me again...
gettinjiggywithit said: They come here thinking they found the cure for the cause. They teach people to just shut down the feeling center, go on guard and trust no one. Kill or be killed is the motto of the warped version of reality they were raised and bred in.
I'm still lost, but I assure you, both Wiccan and I are connected to our emotions.
gettinjiggywithit said: That's a BAND AID. The cure for the cause is to heal the chain of abuse. We are feeling beings by nature and to deny and shut off that vital aspect of the whole being is not healthy.
Still lost...
gettinjiggywithit said: You've made it clear that you don't give a damn to help heal any of it and want to keep the chain going.
Bullshit.
Read the Sig, then actually READ my posts. You are way off the mark, kiddo.
gettinjiggywithit said: Joe hits Bob so Bob kicks Jake, Jake starts crying, so Joe hits Bob for kicking Jake and the cycle repeats.
Yes, but "Joe" is a Mod, and sworn not to hit defenseless "Bob"
gettinjiggywithit said: I'd rather see this forum close then have it become the appearance of a safe place to open up and see people get caught off guard and abused. Thats worse then S&P that at least gives fair warning to put your guard up. Is there any chance this forum can stay and get the chance to thrive as a healthy constructive environment to be in?
Yes, as long as people like you keep posting in it.
gettinjiggywithit said: I realized weeks ago, my replies to you in these threads fall on deaf ears. I put them out for anyone who cares to get other perspectives on the issue at hand. I put them up because I think if enough people care to make it such a place, there is a chance it can become one.
What, deaf ears?
The reason I don't reply to ALL your posts line by line, is they are usually FAR off the mark, and I don't like having to address such posts, in such a sensitive forum.
Also, you strayed from the topic of THIS thread for 2/3 of your rant. I try to stay closer to the subject matter when I write such lengthy posts. But you apparently think THAT is precisely when I am attacking the defensive.
You can only OFFEND the DEFENSIVE... because they're DEFENSIVE.
They must decide when to stop taking OFFENSE... or ALL my posts will appear offensive to them.
I can't help how you REACT to what I write... and I don't have to respond to your thoughts EVERY time you react to me.
-------------------- Fiddlesticks.
Edited by Rose (10/31/05 01:54 AM)
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