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Afraid of commitment?
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I was in a 3 year relationship, which ended in april... kinda unexpected and really traumatic for me (saying traumatic makes me seem like such a pussy, doesnt it?  oh well... its the best word i could come up with).  Ive been struggling with getting over him, and moving on, and i think im now finally ready to start dating again, but everytime someone asks me out or shows any interest(even since we broke up) I make up some excuse or get out of the situation where something could happen (even if i really want to be with the guy!)

In the past, Ive never been the one to turn down any guy (within reason) for a date when Im single, but lately ive been avoiding getting involved like the plague.  I mean, i still have crushes, and like guys, but everytime anyone shows any interest, i run away and hide, blowing almost every opportunity i get. 

Is there something wrong with me (like fear of commitment now)? or am i still not over my last relationship yet?

I know theres plenty of people who have been thru this before me... hopefully you can give me some words of wisdom that might help. 

thanks :heart:


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Re: Afraid of commitment? [Re: ShroomieGirl]
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Stop being so uptight,no disrespect.You seem like your waiting for your ex to come back.


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Re: Afraid of commitment? [Re: avidpicker]
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no, i know hes not gonna come back... were friendly and talk like friends, but hes all the way across the country now, and ive come to terms that we wont be toegther again


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Re: Afraid of commitment? [Re: ShroomieGirl]
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I was in a relationship for 10 years,we broke up last march.It took me a while to start dating again.I think the reason was, i was used to being with that person for so long i didnt want change.When the time is right you'll know it.


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Re: Afraid of commitment? [Re: avidpicker]
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hmm... yeah... thats true.  ...change  :undecided:

maybe i dont wanna put in the effort to get to know someone new either :shrug:
it took so much time to get to know my ex that i dont wanna go thru that again to just lose it or be hurt again


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Re: Afraid of commitment? [Re: ShroomieGirl]
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Maybe you dont,only you know that.Just take it one day at a time,and go with the flow of things,and see what happens.Life is not a destination,its a journey.


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Re: Afraid of commitment? [Re: avidpicker]
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:smile:  well put


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