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kit_kat
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: nothing2prove]
#5251044 - 02/01/06 01:13 PM (18 years, 2 hours ago) |
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Practice makes perfect. I've been with a couple of inexperienced guys with similar problems. What you need is a girl that you're comfortable enough with to risk having bad sex. After LOTS of bad sex it will start to get good. The other option is bring home lots of fat chicks you don't care about. Either way you just need to keep plowing.
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Turdy
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: nothing2prove]
#5252774 - 02/01/06 08:32 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I have a problem of ejaculating. I think its because of benzo's and adderal im perscribed to.
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Jaimie
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: nothing2prove]
#5267087 - 02/05/06 07:00 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Stay away from women who care about silly details like that. Not all of us do.
I wouldn't care at all if my lover finished too fast. There are a lot more things that you can do and you can always have more sex later. I think I'd feel flattered that he was attracted to me and turned on by me.
Go slow. Good sex doesn't have to be as hard and fast as you can go.
Good luck with the girl.
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Edited by Jaimie (02/05/06 07:03 PM)
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MushmanTheManic
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: nothing2prove]
#5267170 - 02/05/06 07:46 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Fuck yer penis. Try cunnilingus.
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Dmonikal
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Muscle control is key. I think you may simply not have any control over your orgasm. Relax your pene muscles, maybe you are just really tense from stress or something. You can do all sorts of wierd things if you master your dick. Halfgasms ingasms etc. I really hate halfgasms, uuuuuh-uuhhh-uhhhh awww fuck.
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: Dmonikal]
#5268997 - 02/06/06 10:57 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well they have medicine for this its called SSRI's. Take them and you'll have to work to blow your load. Premature ejaculation is the only thing I would recommend SSRI's for cause they don't work for depression like they're supposed to.
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CosmicJoke
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: kit_kat]
#5269537 - 02/06/06 01:48 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Practice makes perfect. I've been with a couple of inexperienced guys with similar problems. What you need is a girl that you're comfortable enough with to risk having bad sex. After LOTS of bad sex it will start to get good. The other option is bring home lots of fat chicks you don't care about. Either way you just need to keep plowing.
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nothing2prove
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: kit_kat]
#5272730 - 02/07/06 09:44 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Muscle control is key. I think you may simply not have any control over your orgasm.
I think that pretty much sums up my problem, i feel iv learned how to gain control and prolong orgasms. Lets hope when it all comes to the crunch, everything will work out.
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After LOTS of bad sex it will start to get good
That doesn't sound too promising 
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Well they have medicine for this its called SSRI's
I hear bad things about SSRI's, i don't feel i need to turn to such extremes as medication.
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Try cunnilingus.
I wont forget to add that in somewhere, I'm sure this could help alot. 
Thanks again for the support. Although i still have to put all this into practice, i feel i now have the confidence, knowledge and control to "be a good lover". I feel iv gained control over my orgasms and learned how to hold back when the time comes (such as learning techniques as how to correctly flex my PC muscles)
I guess i just need to relax and enjoy what the female body has to over. I mean theres more to sex than orgasms, right? 
I'm sure all this info will come in handy to others who suffer the same problems, really appreciate the advice 
Peace, Mushie Man
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Ego Death
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: cookeman]
#5273319 - 02/07/06 12:42 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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PE doesn't exist.
If somethings premature then its not ready, but a women and a man are always ready to fertalise and make babies - thats nature.
Saying that there is a problem only contributes to it!
Ask your girl - would you be just as satisfied if I make you come with my fingers and tongue - she will reply that she will be MORE satisfied, the same as most men would be!
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MushmanTheManic
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: Ego Death]
#5275049 - 02/07/06 08:24 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Intravaginal coitus is overrated... in my opinion. I've been much more successful pleasing females with my tongue that with my prick.
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nothing2prove
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) *Update* [Re: nothing2prove]
#5331433 - 02/23/06 12:09 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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nothing2prove said:
At this moment in time there's this girl i really like and i know she wants to take things a step further
Well, a few hours ago we did it. I lasted at least 40 Min's+ and didn't even come! Shit, its easy when u concerntrate on what your doing!
If i felt like i was about to blow id pull out, even went down on her once or twice. Best sex ever.
Cheers for the advice, MUCH appreciated!
Peace, Mushie Man
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eligal
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) *Update* [Re: nothing2prove]
#5331569 - 02/23/06 12:49 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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woah! congrats man!
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) *Update* [Re: eligal]
#5331596 - 02/23/06 12:54 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Dude reminds me of the guy from Road Trip. You just need a black gurl, lol.
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Tsinaglou
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) *Update* [Re: nothing2prove]
#5370291 - 03/06/06 09:52 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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breathing: when you get to the fast/shallow or breath-holding phase override the breathing reflex and breath deeply and consciously. Just one more tool.
mushrooms: I've heard some men find ejaculation elusive to impossible on low-dose (.5 to 1gm) mushrooms. If you're young this may not work as well. Probably works like the SSRI's but only for a few hours instead of weeks.
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Tsinaglou
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Re: Afraid of "Sexual Relations" (PE) [Re: Amber_Glow]
#5370299 - 03/06/06 09:56 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Amber_Glow said: You should go gay. Really. PE doesn't matter if you are with another dude!
Godz, Amber, who have you been dating? Most gay guys seem to be in for the whole banquet.
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