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Scared of commitment? Or raging hormones?
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Hey guys. I'll try to cut the nonesense from my post and just givr.

Been with a girl for a few days shy of a year, we never fight and courted for almost a year before that. She's totally cute, loving, cooks and cleans (she has a passion for cooking and cleaning!) and she was a complete virgin when I met her. Never touched a guy asides from a drunken peck... and did I mention that she's smokin???

Now, I feel pretty mixed up with things because I'm looking at other girls. Mine puts out, which is great. But she's not too wild. I'm able to give her orgasms and she's loosening up in bed.... but still, there's lots of other girls in the world. I haven't slept with many because she's my second, real and longterm relationship. I've had a one-night stand, a 1 year relationship and this one....... so that's not many girls!

I love my girl to bits and feel bad that I look at others, but I'm a guy. I will probably always want to fuck other woman really badly, but this time it's getting to the point where I'm almost willing to drop what I have now, just to literally chase another peice of tail. I love what I have now with all my heart, and I don't want to loose it. But I want to be honest, I'm almost 20, I'm young as fuck and really mature beyond my years. I never drink or get rowdy, I haven't had any wild one-nighters.. what's wrong with me? Anything?

I know I won't fuck around behind my girls back, and I always end up realizing how dumb it would be to cut the ties with her. But how can I get past this? There's so many hotties in Canada, you guys! I go to the gym, the beach, the mall and all these girls look me up and down. I'm finally starting to look more like a man. I finally have straight teeth, and more money and a backbone! I was loved throughout highschool, but always just a friend to the girls. I never stood out beyond being an awesome friend, a hilarious dude to chill and smoke with and generally the guy everyone likes. But I feel messed up.

What kind of relationship tips can you guys pitch my way? I don't really know what to do? I only feel like this sometimes, which leads me to beleive it could be testosterone building up. I mean, I'm probably starting to peak, I'm working out lots too... so that's a possibility. But I also want to chase tail, badly. I wanna meet a chick at the river or the mall, chat it up and get her in my bed. I have to hold back a lot when girls start flirting with me because I don't want to be put in a position where things could happen. I'm not a stupid kid. I could slay a million woman a day if I didn't have a girlfriend, but I love her so much. Why do I feel like this?? Am I really just a dick? I thought I was more of a modest, clean and chivilrous(sp? I don't care..) guy.

Anyone have any tips that could spice things up? It's almost our one-year and I'm kinda broke and stressed out. We don't really get super stoked on things like anniverseries but rather remind eachother of our love spontaniously. I'm sure lots of people think we should both ram our heads into walls because we're lovesick puppies and shouldn't be worrying right now... but still. I worry about my unquenchable desire to just fuck, fuck, fuck! Talk about brutal honesty. Don't be afraid to be brutally honest with my guys, I'll take any opinions with a grain of salt. I could use any moral support right now. :thumbup:


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maryjane is the only thing that makes the pain stop

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Re: Scared of commitment? Or raging hormones? [Re: browndustin]
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you're 20. Go chase some girls.  :thumbup:


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
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Re: Scared of commitment? Or raging hormones? [Re: Icelander]
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you can always inflate that small part of bisexuality which is inherent in every woman and in time, if your persuasion tactics are good, you may get a nice threesome going.
Then you can have all the fun in the world going to bars shopping for that special trois.

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Re: Scared of commitment? Or raging hormones? [Re: browndustin]
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Normal stuff. You two aren't married, so go ahead and chase other women. If you'll feel guilty, then leave her.

On the other side, I want you to read this again "She's totally cute, loving, cooks and cleans (she has a passion for cooking and cleaning!) and she was a complete virgin when I met her. Never touched a guy asides from a drunken peck... and did I mention that she's smokin???". Now read it one more time. OK, good. That is some rare shit that should probably be held on to, but not certainly. There are plenty of other beautiful women that cook and clean out there. Trouble is finding one. And you will almost certainly not find one that is "untouched"(if that matters to you).

To me it's like this...are you willing to commit yourself to the pursuit of another winner? Or are you content with living single and just nailing whoever you like? If so, have at it. If not, ah well, more for everyone else.

Tell you're girl she needs to step up her freak game. For every one that won't, there's ten that will. Keep it pimpin.


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Re: Scared of commitment? Or raging hormones? [Re: daimyo]
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That's completely right, man. I know how lucky I am. And I'm a real picky person when it comes to my girls. I like them clean. I know it's almost unrealist at this point in time, but I would rather find an incredibly clean girl or virgin.. for a relationship that is.

I really love my girl, I just have problems some times. I used to get incredibly depressed and full of anxiety but it's passing. Yeah, I was just sketching out, it happens. Thanks for the reassurance, guys.

I think I'll stick it out, and yes, try to bring out her inner freak. Like I said, she was a virgin when I met her and I have no doubt about it. She was insecure about her body and wouldn't want me to open my eyes when we made love! She's so hot, of course I peaked but she never knew. Well, she's having her monthly right now but come wednesday she'll be over it. And she just got on birth control again, so that'll probably quell my concerns. :sun:

I'll see what happens though. I'm young. I've always wanted a woman like her, but I'll be realistic about things and mindful of her feelings as well. I have to respect the both of us, even if it means breaking up at some point. Life goes on!! :heart:


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maryjane is the only thing that makes the pain stop

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Re: Scared of commitment? Or raging hormones? [Re: browndustin]
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If you lose her and shes as good as you say;
don't expect to find anything better.

I bet you'll kick yourself when your old if you leave her!

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Re: Scared of commitment? Or raging hormones? [Re: SneezingPenis]
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psilocyberin said:
you can always inflate that small part of bisexuality which is inherent in every woman and in time, if your persuasion tactics are good, you may get a nice threesome going.
Then you can have all the fun in the world going to bars shopping for that special trois.


listen to me, browndustin. Psilocyberin clearly has some sort of Jedi powers that most men don't possess. Whatever you do, I wouldn't take his advice.

Psilo, PM me if you are looking for a pupil to train.  :cool:


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but government at its best is but a necessary evil 
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Re: Scared of commitment? Or raging hormones? [Re: gluke bastid]
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Leave her now. If I were her and you left me later, I would have no respect for you at all. I couldn't look at you.

You don't really love her. If you did, you wouldn't have those thoughts.

That's my opinion. If you love someone, you don't crave someone else(especially not just anyone else)


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