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Toddo
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(first thread in P&S) Strange body/mind/girls accuracy in dreams..
#5380236 - 03/09/06 04:19 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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First off, I want to say hi and introduce myself to everyone in here. (n00b poster here in S&P)
Alright, I wanted to inquire about a recent accuracy in a dream I had last night. Its nothing new, I seem to get them every once in a while.
Ill go with last night, Right before I went to bed... i started feeling really lonely. Not having a girlfriend being the reason. Not wanting sex.. just wanting to be with someone. I went to sleep with that feeling inside.
Well.. as I went to sleep.. I had a dream that I was around my sister and her friend. Her friend was acting like she was really attracted to me. My sister being around us.. i naturally played it off. But I felt this strange sense of .. what i could only call "love" around this girl. It wasn't the a lustful feeling.. not in the least. It was a feeling of calmness.. the feeling of just wanting to be with someone you love with all your heart.
She then snuck up behind me and started kissing my neck.. And it felt like my body FLOODED with endorphins. It felt so good. (but not an orgasam) That one moment.. i felt like I was consumed in love. I was in a feeling that made want to do nothing but smile...and be with her.
Now..Ive have had these kind of dreams before (very rarely) What do you guys think? Subconscious showing me my deepest desires? Anyone else get this type of thing?
When I woke up .. i felt so alone.. very calm and at peace.. but alone. Almost felt like waking up after a heavy smoking sesh. Very calm, thoughtful, and at peace. (but still lonely..if that makes any sense.)
Felt good getting that into writting.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: (first thread in P&S) Strange body/mind/girls accuracy in dreams.. [Re: Toddo]
#5380483 - 03/09/06 08:22 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Do you have these dreams only with your sister's friend? Cause if you do, you might be in love with her. If you don't, then your subconscious is telling you that you need someone to be close with, to have a very strong feeling about somebody, which is perfectly natural.
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Re: (first thread in P&S) Strange body/mind/girls accuracy in dreams.. [Re: Toddo]
#5380741 - 03/09/06 10:26 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hi there, be welcomed !
It is absolutely best to love his/her sister/brother, best if family-members love each others. That includes the physical contact of 'comfort'. Pure sex surely has nothing to do with love, so it has not to be included into family-affairs But, of course, if you love a non-family one, and are loved the same way back, and your body feels attracted, then sex will make the cream upon the pudding 
If a sex-love friend is jealous of your love to family members, how would he/she react to an altruistic love (of you towards other people) ? Is his/her 'love' then not only based on egoistic ownership ?
I think, you just take yourself in your dream, that what you (and everyone) need. And it shows, that sex is no nescessity for 'real' love. But comforting physical contact seems to be, at least you will die after birth after a while, if you were prevented from comforting physical contact of someone living.
(I hope this makes some sense )
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Re: (first thread in P&S) Strange body/mind/girls accuracy in dreams.. [Re: BlueCoyote]
#5380873 - 03/09/06 11:07 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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dream about her more and try to ask her for you two to cross paths in waking life.
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Re: (first thread in P&S) Strange body/mind/girls accuracy in dreams.. [Re: leery11]
#5381259 - 03/09/06 12:59 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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clear some stuff up.. this wasn't my sister i was dreaming about (she was on the side.) And.. i really am not in "love" with this other girl in real life. Hardly know her. And truth be told, find her a bit annoying.
I think mushie trip hit it on the head. You could be right.
Coyote: Your post took some time to read a couple times. Tho I dont get a few parts.. I DID get the first part. haha and I agree with you. I think its VERY importent to have strong bonds with family. They can offer alto of support in life.
Leery: Strange you would say that. I had this same thing happen to me waaaay back in 5th grade. But its would happen alot more often.. and over the same girl.
I fell in love with this girl.. because and only because of these dreams.. i would be consumed in love with just being around her. But soon I realized the girl in my dream and real life where much different. But the point is.. i got to a point where I could start talking to this girl in my dream. I don't remember alot.. but I do remember her being a kind of "comfort" for me. And she told me, she only resided in my mind. I asked her alot of questions..and talked with much like I would talk with anoyone. and the strange thing was I dreamed about her multiple times.
Edited by Toddo (03/09/06 01:01 PM)
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