Anonymous #1 said:
Well ya I'm a dick that's why I want revenge lol. I think your mistaken on my relationship with him though literally been his best friend since second grade we were really close. Took care of him when he was broke and down. Which is what really is getting to me. I've been waiting for karma to catch up with him but it never does and when he keeps trying to get shit out of me and showing off money taking jabs at the people he owes money to. People come to me since I was closest to him and talk about getting back at him and shit. It just really annoys me how he could be that arrogant and never pay for the shit he's done.
You know what's funny about this, I know a person who goes around telling people that we used to be friends, and that he "took care of me" or "did so much to help me" when in reality we were never friends, and this person had done nothing but screw me over at every chance they got, they never helped me anything what so ever. then when I stopped talking to this person they probably thought that I would tell everybody what terrible things they had done, so in response they would go around telling everybody that I "owed people money" or that I "screwed them over" in some way. IN reality it's all complete bullshit.
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Another situation in which we speak about others’ faults is when we’re angry with them. Here we may talk about their faults for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it’s to win other people over to our side. "If I tell these other people about the argument Bob and I had and convince them that he is wrong and I’m right before Bob can tell them about the argument, then they’ll side with me." Underlying that is the thought, "If others think I’m right, then I must be." It’s a weak attempt to convince ourselves we’re okay when we haven’t spent the time honestly evaluating our own motivations and actions.
At other times, we may talk about others’ faults because we’re jealous of them. We want to be respected and appreciated as much as they are. In the back of our minds, there’s the thought, "If others see the bad qualities of the people I think are better than me, then instead of honoring and helping them, they’ll praise and assist me." Or we think, "If the boss thinks that person is unqualified, she’ll promote me instead." Does this strategy win others’ respect and appreciation? Hardly.
Some people "psychoanalyze" others, using their half-baked knowledge of pop psychology to put someone down. Comments such as "he’s borderline" or "she’s paranoid" make it sound as if we have authoritative insight into someone’s internal workings, when in reality we disdain their faults because our ego was affronted. Casually psychoanalyzing others can be especially harmful, for it may unfairly cause a third party to be biased or suspicious.
http://thubtenchodron.org/2011/06/harmonious-speech/
These people Will try to invent all these reasons to make others hate me, and when you prove they are full of shit, they just make up new lies, and there's absolutely nothing behind it, the only reasons are the ones listed above.
You remind me a good deal of these people, specially when you say they person is not in your life and has nothing to do with you, yet you still want some type of "revenge", when in reality it just do ands like you don't like this person so you are trying to make everybody else not like them as well.
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