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Anonymous #1
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Hating how you look?
#12006013 - 02/10/10 10:41 PM (14 years, 1 month ago) |
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Does anybody else here hate absolutely everything about how they look?
I'm a female and I want to punch a mirror every time I see myself in it. I fucking hate every single thing about how I look. Sometimes I feel like I would rather die than live another day with this hideous body/face. I'm this fucking tall (5'11) awkward mess, I have no tits or ass and a busted ass face. I would do anything just to be pretty. It eats me up inside every day. I try putting on make up and wearing cute clothes but nothing works. I'm 20 and I've never even had a boyfriend. Guys aren't attracted to me, the best they want from me is a quick lay. I just don't know how live like this. I want to get plastic surgery and change everything about how I look, but I couldn't deal with that level of fake-ness, I don't even feel comfortable wearing a lot of makeup. I feel like I'm going to end up alone my whole life, because no guy could ever get past my ugly looks and maybe find that I'm a little prettier on the inside.
Sorry, I'm just on a bunch of drugs and I'm depressed as fuck. Does anybody else feel this way?
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Anonymous #2
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yea sometimes but just look up mang
Edited by Alan Rockefeller (07/22/23 06:46 PM)
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Anonymous #3
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i'm male and i feel that way. sometimes people are still attracted to me. even halfway decent looking people. not often but it happens.
i'll let you in on a secret. attraction is like 70% easily alterable things. cute clothes and maybe a tiny bit of make up goes REALLY FAR. the rest is all posture, tone of voice.
believe me with proper body language and vocal stuff you can land someone pretty decent...
i dunno. i don't try and attract people. i dress like a mess and i let myself be ugly. and girls don't like me and i sit at home and cry about it, but i'm not gonna change.
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Anonymous #3
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oh, also just don't be fat. you said you had no tits and ass and were pretty tall. that doesn't matter at all, just don't be fat.
in fact i've been wanting to get with a really tall girl. i was thinking like 6 somethin though.
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #2 said: yea sometimes but just look up mang
Edited by Alan Rockefeller (07/22/23 06:46 PM)
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Anonymous #5
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maybe your cute, but have been too sexually/mentally abused to see that
i dunno if i was ugly id fuck a shit ton of ugly girls too
j/kj/k
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Anonymous #6
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I could easily get past your appearance. Believe it or not, there are men out there who aren't entirely hung up on image. However, I might have a hard time getting past your insecurity.
If you are ugly, fine. That's something you have no control over. You do however, have control of your attitude. Nobody wants to be around a bitter and insecure person regardless of appearance.
Learn to be happy with what you have. Maybe it's not the best, but it works and that's enough to be thankful for.
Work on developing other aspects of yourself. Try to see the benefits of being ugly. Nothing is "good" or "bad". Being ugly can grant you perspective and depth (among other things).
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Anonymous #7
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post pics so we can judge how ugly you are or are not. only by becoming confident in your physical appearance will you be able to improve it.
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Anonymous #8
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If/when you finally do get a man, you'll at least know he likes you for your personality.
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Anonymous #8
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Until then, live for yourself. It is much easier to show your love and attract a mate when you first love yourself, truly.
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Anonymous #9
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Anonymous #6 said: You do however, have control of your attitude. Nobody wants to be around a bitter and insecure person regardless of appearance.
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Anonymous #10
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Sort yourself out properly.
First, goto a proper expensive hairstylist. Let them do whatever the fuck they want with your hair.
Second, Ring a decent department store and arrange to use their personal shopper. Its free and they will help you shop for shit that suits your body type.
Third arrenge for a makeup consultation with a professional make up artist. Again, if you are gonna buy their products the consultation is normally free. You could arrnage it for after your personal shopping at the same store. What you need is a set of products that are teh right shades and tones to suit yoru complexion. Simply put, if you feel you are wearing makeup you're doing it wrong.
You only have what you were born with but Posture and Confidence make up for an awfull lot of what you may naturally lack.
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Anonymous #11
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How ugly are you? Are you butch or just Fugly?
Quit bitching, lots of people have it worse than you, sister. Looks aren't everything anyway. I suggest you go to a physchiatrist and get your fucked up mental problems solved first, miss psycho bitch. No man's gonna want an emotionally fucked up girl, 'specially one as Fugly as you are.
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Anonymous #12
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if looks aren't you thing, there's always guys who personality
although most guys prefer looks, there are those who prefer personality, im one of those rare ones
anyways, you should look at yourself in the mirror and call yourself beautiful
there's guys who will disagree but there will be a quiet guy who wont say anything because he's scared of what you might say or how you react and hell..i dont blame em
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Anonymous #13
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There are certain fixable things about the way you look.
I have discovered from past girlfriends that taking birth control seems to enlarge your bust size. Get on the pill and see if your boobies get bigger.
No ass? Start hitting the gym and tone that ass up. Would also benefit you to have overall tone and a healthier body. Exercise will also make you feel generally good and less depressed.
Face you can throw some makeup on to help a bit.
You really should post a picture if you want to get a proper assessment / advice.
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Anonymous #1
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Thanks for all the advice guys, I feel a bit better. I think I'm going to set aside a day this weekend and go out and buy some good makeup and some flattering clothes that might make me feel better. I suppose I should just learn to accept myself, it's just hard sometimes when you see gorgeous girls everywhere and you can't help but just wish you looked like them.
I don't feel comfortable posting my picture. I would PM it to anyone who wanted to see but I really don't want to reveal who I am
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Anonymous #14
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Anonymous #1 said: Thanks for all the advice guys, I feel a bit better. I think I'm going to set aside a day this weekend and go out and buy some good makeup and some flattering clothes that might make me feel better. I suppose I should just learn to accept myself, it's just hard sometimes when you see gorgeous girls everywhere and you can't help but just wish you looked like them.
I don't feel comfortable posting my picture. I would PM it to anyone who wanted to see but I really don't want to reveal who I am
Itll get better! Fucking media is the problem. My advice, quit watching TV and reading mags. Be yourself.
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Anonymous #15
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All you have to do is meet someone that doesn't have standards for women based on their looks.
I really don't see that it matters unless you're fat. Fat people just piss me off, because there is always something they can do about it. If you're ugly that is no fault of your own and I think there are more out there like me that really don't care that much.
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Anonymous #6
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Anonymous #1 said: Thanks for all the advice guys, I feel a bit better. I think I'm going to set aside a day this weekend and go out and buy some good makeup and some flattering clothes that might make me feel better. I suppose I should just learn to accept myself, it's just hard sometimes when you see gorgeous girls everywhere and you can't help but just wish you looked like them.
I don't feel comfortable posting my picture. I would PM it to anyone who wanted to see but I really don't want to reveal who I am
PM it to two_rivers if you feel comfortable doing so. My girlfriend and I will take a look and provide honest feedback.
I wouldn't focus too much on clothes and make-up like someone else suggested. That's sort of like putting a band-aid on a broken leg. Sure, you want to maintain an image of some sort to garner some basic level of respect from your peers, but I wouldn't focus on that too much or think of it as a solution.
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Anonymous #16
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People are so greedy now days. I want I want I want. At least you ain't a 50 pound skeleton in africa who'd kill just to have a decent meal and some water that isn't contaminated with raw sewage.
At least you weren't born with a crippling disease and your body can't grow and you break at least 10 bones every year.
Think about all the people even in the U.S. who don't have arms or legs, some don't have a bottom jaw and are probably looked and pointed at every time they go to walmart.
Stop being emo.
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Anonymous #17
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girls are so funny. i've met quite a few girls who say similar things that are actually really attractive. you post on the shroomery too, so you've gotta be cool.
post some pics! blur out your face if you are really that uncomfortable.
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Anonymous #15
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You can also pm Aser a picture if you want and I'll give you a rating on your looks. I really doubt you are as bad as you say.
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Anonymous #18
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Chances are your no where near as unattractive as you think! Looks are as much how you look as how you see yourself. Chances are the reason you've never had a boyfriend is theis negitive self image it's kinda like the fat bitch in highschool that had screwed half the school and always had a boyfriend. She had personality and though she was all that so people were attracted to her. Perk up, make your self feel beautiful and people will think your beautiful..
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Anonymous #5
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Dont wear make up all the time too, it makes you look like a tool..
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Anonymous #15
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Pretty much as long as you aren't an ugly fat chick that thinks she is desirable, you have enough to get with some one.
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Anonymous #19
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op.. pass a pic this way.. evildee125.. ill send you one of mines if it makes you feel better
Edited by Anonymous (02/11/10 07:26 PM)
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Anonymous #20
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pm 'klimt' -- and I'll send you one back. Maybe we'll fall in love.
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Anonymous #16
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agreed, fatchicks have no justification whatsoever to have ego.
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Anonymous #17
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yeah. it's cool to be a fat dude because you can still get laid if you have money/drugs. if you're a fat chick though, you're pretty much out of luck.
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Anonymous #21
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Pretty people don't have to work for anything and so their lives end when they're no longer pretty.
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Anonymous #17
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that is also true, but only for women. men can continue to pwn until they are into their 80's thanks to the miracle of viagra.
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Anonymous #22
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ill give you some dick
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Anonymous #23
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The uglies get all the sympathy in the world from me. The fatties on the other hand... GET ON A FUCKING TREADMILL
i'll give you some dick too and some cuddlin afterwards
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Anonymous #7
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OH MY GOD I JUST GOT OP'S PICTURE!!!!!!
thanks guys!
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Anonymous #23
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Anonymous #15
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I want OP picture...
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Anonymous #1
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OP never posted/sent picture. Sorry guys
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Anonymous #24
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Anonymous #2 said: yea sometimes but just look up mang at least your not black
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Anonymous #1 said: Does anybody else here hate absolutely everything about how they look?
I'm a female and I want to punch a mirror every time I see myself in it. I fucking hate every single thing about how I look. Sometimes I feel like I would rather die than live another day with this hideous body/face. I'm this fucking tall (5'11) awkward mess, I have no tits or ass and a busted ass face. I would do anything just to be pretty. It eats me up inside every day. I try putting on make up and wearing cute clothes but nothing works. I'm 20 and I've never even had a boyfriend. Guys aren't attracted to me, the best they want from me is a quick lay. I just don't know how live like this. I want to get plastic surgery and change everything about how I look, but I couldn't deal with that level of fake-ness, I don't even feel comfortable wearing a lot of makeup. I feel like I'm going to end up alone my whole life, because no guy could ever get past my ugly looks and maybe find that I'm a little prettier on the inside.
Sorry, I'm just on a bunch of drugs and I'm depressed as fuck. Does anybody else feel this way?
Damn girl. You sound hot to me. I like tall awkward girls with tiny titties. I bet your hot but I'm too old for you. I'm 45.
Hang in there. Your only 20. Things will get better. Life can be really fucked up sometimes when your young.
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Anonymous #6
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Anonymous #1 said: OP never posted/sent picture. Sorry guys
I would have been creeped out by everyone wanting to see a picture too. Anyway, I hope you were just having a bad night and you are starting to feel better about yourself.
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Anonymous #25
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Anonymous #16 said: People are so greedy now days. I want I want I want. At least you ain't a 50 pound skeleton in africa who'd kill just to have a decent meal and some water that isn't contaminated with raw sewage.
At least you weren't born with a crippling disease and your body can't grow and you break at least 10 bones every year.
Think about all the people even in the U.S. who don't have arms or legs, some don't have a bottom jaw and are probably looked and pointed at every time they go to walmart.
Stop being emo.
qft
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Anonymous #26
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this thread has MOTH written all over it
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Anonymous #27
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Anonymous #3
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this thread isn't moth at all.
maybe the asexual thread is moth.
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Anonymous #28
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There are some pretty good replies in here.
OP, here's an honest and serious suggestion that will likely change your life for the better.
How your face looks is how it looks. But your body, now that's another thing.
Being tall is not an issue. But you mentioned being tall and awkward so that tells me you aren't carrying yourself how you should be. You need postural adjustment, and you need to learn how to move properly. You need an increased sense of space and time, and the physical environment around you. You also need to develop a strong sense of self-worth, and begin to truly love yourself.
You can develop these skills and qualities, and you can do it with a mixture of resistance training and some combat training. Seriously. first you need to add some muscle mass to your frame and grow yourself some delicious female muscular legs and ass. The weight training will help rid you of that scrawny ass and improve your posture. Your movement will evolve.
Then the combat training will not only also help you evolve further into the physical perfection of your movements, but it'll train you to become a master of your mind.
Then you will become a sexy fucking bitch. Your face might be somewhat bust, but if you are a fearless, confident woman, with a strong body, and a strong mind, with compassionate values (due to your current low self-esteem hardship), you will become a voice for good in this world and help other girls like you uprise and become strong sexy girls. A beautiful person inside and out.
Build yourself a strong body, learn how to move, and you will, I guarantee, you will become one sexy bitch and hell if you do all these things I would love to go out with you. You will surely love yourself immensely, for you will be a valuable person and strong inside and out.
Good luck.
Edited by Anonymous (02/14/10 01:03 PM)
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Anonymous #29
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Anonymous #16 said: People are so greedy now days. I want I want I want. At least you ain't a 50 pound skeleton in africa who'd kill just to have a decent meal and some water that isn't contaminated with raw sewage.
At least you weren't born with a crippling disease and your body can't grow and you break at least 10 bones every year.
Think about all the people even in the U.S. who don't have arms or legs, some don't have a bottom jaw and are probably looked and pointed at every time they go to walmart.
Stop being emo.
Self righteous bullshit, fact of the matter is the biggest impulsion of almost all living creatures is to breed, so no matter what someone says, they care about being attractive probably a lot more than they care about people in some far away place dieing.
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Anonymous #30
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Anonymous #16 said: agreed, fatchicks have no justification whatsoever to have ego.
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Anonymous #31
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There are so many dorky socially retarded guys out there, even if you are ugly and awkward you can find a decent looking guy. Put in some foot work. Also, usually the people bitching about there looks are the ones that look fine, they just want people to tell them they are wrong. Really ugly people are too embarrassed to complain about it.
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Anonymous #32
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Anonymous #31 said: Really ugly people are too embarrassed to complain about it.
This.... it's true because I am one ._.
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Anonymous #15
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Anonymous #32 said:
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Anonymous #31 said: Really ugly people are too embarrassed to complain about it.
This.... it's true because I am one ._.
Sucks to be you then, and you won't get any sympathy from me.
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Anonymous #30
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Anonymous #31 said: There are so many dorky socially retarded guys out there
There are probably even more dorky socially retarded girls, most of which who think that they are cool BTW.
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Anonymous #33
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i farted
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