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Anonymous #1

Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself?
    #27239829 - 03/06/21 11:10 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Hey guys of the shroomery,

recently I got into the Tinder-thing, because of lockdown and the need to have the sex again - and yes, maybe to find someone for long term, who knows what can/will happen?

I had to face a huge problem: Fat women.
I met four women and two of them just straight lied via their pictures about their body size.

Let's get to the core: One of those women would have been my favourite because of her extraordinary beautiful mind.
But I dumped her, because I just couldn't find myself being attracted to that huuuuge body of hers.

Fat body is zero percent attractive to me. I tried, like I REALLY tried to find something positive about it and even watched some BBW-porn with really huge women, but that did not work.

Am I an arrogant asshole - or is it legit to say: No, that is a no-go, no matter how beautiful the mind?

Things come to my mind when thinking about big women like: It disgusts me the imagine all the food that went through her mouth and intestines.
That bodyfat is so unhealthy and eventually will bring them to a early grave.

I mean everything I say. Judge me, if you have to, but I just need some input from outside.

In the next days I will have a date with another woman and since she only has pictures of her face online, I'm straight assuming she will be a big one, too.
I'm afraid to ask her weight, since it's considered to be very rude. Although I think, maybe betraying a guy into dating via a haze is also rude.
I dunno, dudes.

Thanks in advance!


Edited by Anonymous (03/06/21 11:16 AM)


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Anonymous #2

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #27239846 - 03/06/21 11:51 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Am I an arrogant asshole - or is it legit to say: No, that is a no-go, no matter how beautiful the mind?




If you don't find her attractive then tell her that you don't feel a connection and move on, there is nothing wrong with that and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. Despite what views modern society tries to oppose on people, attraction is pretty simple and either you are attracted or you aren't.
I don't want to get into the whole double standards thing, but you should ask yourself why men are shamed and women aren't shamed for being picky in modern society.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27239863 - 03/06/21 12:45 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Fatness isnt attractive in todays society. It means the person is lazy, overeats, or both. (or obviously has a condition that makes them fat)

Its just a simple fact. Not moving around and having a higher calories in than calories out produces fatness.


You should get with who you want to get with. Them not showing accurate representations of themselves is a negative that they produced. You shouldnt feel guilt if they look different in person. Thats on them.

It is likely due to their insecurities but at some level they know what they are doing. They know they are trying to trick a guy into thinking they are more attractive than they are.

But I guess thats what makeup is.



Just fuck who you want. Fall in love with who you want.


Outrageous to think ANYONE should be shamed/guilt-tripped into being with someone. That is called rape. And you should have self-worth mate.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3] * 1
    #27240402 - 03/06/21 08:48 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Outrageous to think ANYONE should be shamed/guilt-tripped into being with someone. That is called rape.




:lolwut:



ps. fat chicks give the best blowjobs


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Anonymous #5

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27240489 - 03/06/21 09:49 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Most people don't like big girls. I think fat is a normal thing to be repulsed by, but it's also becoming more socially normal to not be. I remind myself not to give a shit about societal norms and remember what I want: a healthy chick. Doesn't mean I hate fat people, but I am not sexually attracted to rolling around with a big ole sloppy girl. Can't help that. And there's no need to force it.

If you get catfished your choices are to respectfully play out the date and don't call her back, or you can be a dick and let her know how you feel. I'm a fan of being honest, but that's a tough one. It's happened to me once, and my brain's response was not to hurt her feelings because she felt insecure enough to lie and hoped I would see her differently in person than she sees herself. Once again, I am not sexually attracted to big girls and I can't change that. It's not your responsibility to either. They'll find someone else if they want to, and so will you. Everyone has their taste in partner and I think it's stupid to placate somebody you aren't interested in just because someone might think you're rude for not wanting to fuck them.

Walk the line


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Anonymous #6

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27240502 - 03/06/21 10:01 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:

recently I got into the Tinder-thing, because of lockdown and the need to have the sex again - and yes, maybe to find someone for long term




This says it all. You're looking to get your rocks off and if it becomes less superficial than that, nice.

You have the same attitude to relationships as she has towards food, why spend an hour on a gourmet meal when a tub of ice cream hits the spot with zero effort?

Quote:

am I an asshole or just myself?




Yes.


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Anonymous #7

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #6] * 1
    #27240564 - 03/06/21 11:03 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

When it comes to sexual relationships....you gotta have some attraction. You're not an asshole at all imo :justdontknow:

that line about watching BBW porn in an attempt to enjoy fat women made me giggle :loldongs:


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Anonymous #8

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27241987 - 03/07/21 11:14 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Nah, you're not an asshole. Everyone has their preferences. I dont like big women neither. Petite BBW's is as big as I wanna go. Ive been with a big woman before. Luckily they weren't huge. It was not that enjoyable. Full regret. Oh well, life goes on.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #27242046 - 03/08/21 12:04 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Tinder is super hard for finding a hot chick with little baggage/not an absolute loser/or psychotic.  YMMV
Best I've done is like fairly attaractive and good personality.  Never have I ever had a date with a super sexy chick with a good/compatible personality off of tinder.


Edited by Anonymous (03/08/21 12:06 AM)


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #9] * 1
    #27242049 - 03/08/21 12:06 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

i bet the same goes for you for even using tinder.. the baggage and loser status, i mean.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27242103 - 03/08/21 01:05 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I'm doing ok anyway tho.  I got myself a good one
Not from tinder lolol


Edited by Anonymous (03/08/21 01:05 AM)


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Anonymous #10

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #27243411 - 03/08/21 11:20 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Guy is on a drugs site but he’s repulsed by what fat chicks are putting into their body.

It’s okay not to like fat chicks, but there’s a good chance that your dumbass isn’t a model of health either


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #27244524 - 03/09/21 04:14 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Health is totally different for different people.  Some people are super grossed out watching someone stuff their face, and eating mushrooms and smoking cannabis to complete excess are far less appalling than becoming obese.  Think about all the nasty shits they have to take to maintain that gross body of theirs?  If they didn't pipe all that shit into their body they wouldn't be fat


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Anonymous #10

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #27244630 - 03/09/21 05:28 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

The definition of health isn’t variable, stupid


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Anonymous #11

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27251564 - 03/14/21 01:14 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Fatness isnt attractive in todays society. It means the person is lazy, overeats, or both. (or obviously has a condition that makes them fat)






Why can i just not be biologically attracted to fat? Blaming everything other then your self is also unattractive.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #27251820 - 03/14/21 06:29 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #10 said:
The definition of health isn’t variable, stupid




What is health to some is nonsense to others, pull your head out of your ass and wipe the poop crust from your eyes and you may be able to see others that are not cardboard cutouts of you....


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27251914 - 03/14/21 08:24 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #10 said:
The definition of health isn’t variable, stupid




What is health to some is nonsense to others, pull your head out of your ass and wipe the poop crust from your eyes and you may be able to see others that are not cardboard cutouts of you....




Naw I think you are objectively wrong. It is not healthy to be overweight. Even by 10 pounds. The further over you are the less healthy you are. Its just science bud.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27251916 - 03/14/21 08:25 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

And if fat is something youre not attracted to theres nothing you can do about it.

Just like gays be interested in the same sex. Or any of the other sexual interests.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27251918 - 03/14/21 08:26 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Its so sad that we cant just state facts in this world. What is the world coming to? Meh.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27251951 - 03/14/21 09:06 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #10 said:
The definition of health isn’t variable, stupid




What is health to some is nonsense to others, pull your head out of your ass and wipe the poop crust from your eyes and you may be able to see others that are not cardboard cutouts of you....




Naw I think you are objectively wrong. It is not healthy to be overweight. Even by 10 pounds. The further over you are the less healthy you are. Its just science bud.





So who gets to determine what 10lbs overweight is? Your perfect weight is not my perfect weight. The problem with "medical science" is that you must concede a certain set of facts before you can even have a meaningful discussion on the topic....just like religion.

True science is scarce in the medical industry, in fact it is so scarce that they have needed to change the name of their industry to "Healthcare" instead of medical treatment. This is blatant indoctrination, and most people who argue otherwise are those that have been successfully indoctrinated.

Like any of those people really give a shit about anything but reaffirming their world view and obtaining more of whatever it is they believe has value. The medical industry is a for profit industry. You believing that there is a certain "healthy" weight for everyone that fits your own personal world view exemplifies your indoctrination in their schemes.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27251985 - 03/14/21 09:53 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Rage rant. Just respect Doctors and Nurses. They are Heroes.


Edited by Anonymous (03/14/21 11:19 AM)


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Anonymous #13

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27252125 - 03/14/21 03:26 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

If you’re not attracted you’re not attracted and that’s ok friend. You can be friend with a beautiful mind and not have to fuck it.


Don’t feel and obligation then you’re giving up your autonomy.


And if girls gave false advertising cause of angles, that’s on them not you.


I don’t wear make up, I don’t wear tight clothes, I don’t follow any fads, I’m not what is advertised on Instagram or main stream media as attractive but I am attractive to those attracted to me and that’s all that matters.


If someone doesn’t find me attractive, cool. Just don’t be a bully.


And reverse for men.


I am attracted to only in shape white males. Does this make me racist? No. But some people in THEIR opinion would say so.


I went black once, and I went back. It’s just not my jive.



You’re good, just be chill and enjoy the journey.


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Anonymous #6

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27252169 - 03/14/21 04:32 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

I am attracted to only in shape white males. Does this make me racist? No. But some people in THEIR opinion would say so.


I went black once, and I went back. It’s just not my jive.





..because the one experience with a random black guy is decisively indicative of what sort of experience you would have with any black male.

You're not racist, you just dismiss a whole race of people based on an adverse experience with one of them, and declare yourself exclusively interested in one specific race.

Its not racism, is preference based on race. I'm articulate like that.  :specialralph:


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Anonymous #14

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #27252177 - 03/14/21 04:40 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

More cushion for the pushin


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27252249 - 03/14/21 05:54 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Rage rant. Just respect Doctors and Nurses. They are Heroes.




So are police (pigs) and soldiers (hired murderers) if you believe your indoctrination. Fuck these assholes right along with all doctors and nurses that pad or fake a file for a couple extra dollars from the insurance companies, these assholes are criminals, however lots of people have criminals for heroes. 

Doctors & nurses are human, that means there are both good and bad, to blanket them with hero worship suggest that you do not think for yourself.

- Back on topic, you like what you like op, if you like fat chicks in leather slapping your ass and running you in with a strapon that's your thing, no biggie. If you like skinny girls in missionary position, that's your thing. You like what you like. Unless you're into rape, or little kids, your sexual preferences are not really any big deal to anyone but you and maybe some uptight idiots that never have the sex they want anyway.


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Anonymous #13

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #27252452 - 03/14/21 09:25 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #6 said:
Quote:

I am attracted to only in shape white males. Does this make me racist? No. But some people in THEIR opinion would say so.


I went black once, and I went back. It’s just not my jive.





..because the one experience with a random black guy is decisively indicative of what sort of experience you would have with any black male.

You're not racist, you just dismiss a whole race of people based on an adverse experience with one of them, and declare yourself exclusively interested in one specific race.

Its not racism, is preference based on race. I'm articulate like that.  :specialralph:





Oh no. It wasn’t an adverse experience at all, I just learned that just like a guy can’t get a boner if their not attracted I couldn’t get wet for him cause I wasn’t attracted.


I dismiss a whole race cause I’m not attracted and I’ve been called racist for it before. I just only get wet for a specific type of male, to each their own.


Also edit: I tried to date other races as well, just didn’t jive. :smile: don’t think one interaction dictated my whole life, I was born this way.


Edited by Anonymous (03/14/21 09:26 PM)


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27252701 - 03/15/21 12:38 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Rage rant. Just respect Doctors and Nurses. They are Heroes.




So are police (pigs) and soldiers (hired murderers) if you believe your indoctrination. Fuck these assholes right along with all doctors and nurses that pad or fake a file for a couple extra dollars from the insurance companies, these assholes are criminals, however lots of people have criminals for heroes. 

Doctors & nurses are human, that means there are both good and bad, to blanket them with hero worship suggest that you do not think for yourself.

- Back on topic, you like what you like op, if you like fat chicks in leather slapping your ass and running you in with a strapon that's your thing, no biggie. If you like skinny girls in missionary position, that's your thing. You like what you like. Unless you're into rape, or little kids, your sexual preferences are not really any big deal to anyone but you and maybe some uptight idiots that never have the sex they want anyway.






Sorry I prefer to talk to people who have consistent patterns in their thoughts. Also prefer to talk to people who came to their opinions through careful consideration of facts and evidence rather than personal anger at status quo.



Your first post doesnt go along with your second post. And your irritation at doctors and nurses can only exist in america. There are many other countries on earth. And even in the states many nurses and doctors are good.


Its so stupid. You can only have this argument because I made a superlative statement of "doctors and nurses are heroes" and you can argue "not all are good" and we have no idea what percentage you think are good or bad but you can argue it because there of course will be some that are bad.



This entire convo is just fucking stupid. Its semantics at its most basic level.




Fat people are unhealthy.

Doctors and nurses see horrible shit that you wouldnt be able to handle. And if you were able to handle it..... you definitely wouldnt talk shit about them after you saw what they deal with.



Try fucking losing a few kids on the table bud. Give that a go. Tell me how you feel after.'



And its not like this is a RARE occurrence. You realize their line of work this is their daily fucking life? Maybe not for a plastic surgeon. But for an ER Doctor? Every day! A huge percentage of nurses see it all the time as well.



And then you got king kong mega idiots who start arguing with basic science. How quaint is it that you dont argue when they pump the opiate into you after you get ejected from your car and skid across the asphalt with massive roadrash all over your body. Suddenly that science fucking works right? Or the magic voodoo Xray machine that tells them how to put your arms or legs back together. Or the consistently higher death rate a fat person has to a skinnier person.

You gonna argue that smoking doesnt cause cancer next?


You dont even offer a retort with science. You just say "Healthcare bad cuz I dont trust it". If youre gonna remove what most people consider fact from play..... you have to replace it with your own science. You dont get to just topple shit over because you "dont like it".


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Anonymous #7

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #27252711 - 03/15/21 12:48 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #10 said:
Guy is on a drugs site but he’s repulsed by what fat chicks are putting into their body.

It’s okay not to like fat chicks, but there’s a good chance that your dumbass isn’t a model of health either




I mean that is a fair point but some of us kinda care about not dying young :justdontknow:


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27252851 - 03/15/21 02:55 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:

This entire convo is just fucking stupid. Its semantics at its most basic level.




This statement coupled with a huge off topic rant has earned you the title of fucktard #3 for the duration of this thread. I will respond to your nonsense no further and apologize to the other posters in this thread, :chillpill: #3





Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #6 said:
Quote:

I am attracted to only in shape white males. Does this make me racist? No. But some people in THEIR opinion would say so.


I went black once, and I went back. It’s just not my jive.





..because the one experience with a random black guy is decisively indicative of what sort of experience you would have with any black male.

You're not racist, you just dismiss a whole race of people based on an adverse experience with one of them, and declare yourself exclusively interested in one specific race.

Its not racism, is preference based on race. I'm articulate like that.  :specialralph:





Oh no. It wasn’t an adverse experience at all, I just learned that just like a guy can’t get a boner if their not attracted I couldn’t get wet for him cause I wasn’t attracted.


I dismiss a whole race cause I’m not attracted and I’ve been called racist for it before. I just only get wet for a specific type of male, to each their own.


Also edit: I tried to date other races as well, just didn’t jive. :smile: don’t think one interaction dictated my whole life, I was born this way.




I definitely agree, I have had situations "fade" due to a primal instinct to "just leave it alone".

I have a very specific type to whom I  am attracted, and I've been around the block at least twice... So it sounds very reasonable to me. :shrug:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27252890 - 03/15/21 03:51 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I dont wanna talk to anyone who puts "medical science" in quotes as if its not science LOL.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #27252946 - 03/15/21 04:45 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #7 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #10 said:
Guy is on a drugs site but he’s repulsed by what fat chicks are putting into their body.

It’s okay not to like fat chicks, but there’s a good chance that your dumbass isn’t a model of health either




I mean that is a fair point but some of us kinda care about not dying young :justdontknow:





Only the good die young.

:getstoned:


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Anonymous #15

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27257548 - 03/17/21 11:43 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

If they only have face pics, start sending full body pics of yourself and ask them if they have any. If they dont, they are hiding something. I actually prefer the fatties and wont date thin girls. We all have our preference. They have their preferences too. Its just the way things are. No need to feel ashamed of your preferences.


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Anonymous #16

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #15]
    #27257587 - 03/18/21 12:05 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Nope, not an asshole. You're attracted to what you're attracted to.

My ex asked me what body weight I wanted her, she wanted to look good for me. She also asked that I worked out and looked good for her, so we could fuck for longer and enjoy each others bodies.

Rather than be weirded out, I loved that honesty (and her body was really fucking hot).


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Anonymous #17

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #16]
    #27258224 - 03/18/21 08:31 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

So many people have never been out of the city. Using social media to find companionship is like searching the landfill for unbroken eggs that haven't soured.

Fuck the "new normal"! Get out there and talk to people and dance. There are "speakeasies" popping up all over the place. All this fear of death garbage getting in the way of people fucking like they ought to is lame. Grow some balls, or just learn to like fat chicks...


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Anonymous #18

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27258253 - 03/18/21 09:35 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

If you are true to yourself and the potential partners you meet then I would say no, not an asshole.

Stay safe and stay honest. Maybe check out bumble if you think you are a catch. Not advertising because I have stock in it... Just sayin. 😂

Also, you can just be friends with a woman. If you find her mentally stimulating that's an opportunity for a great friendship.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #18]
    #27258256 - 03/18/21 09:37 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

buying stock in a dating app seems like a good investment. people need to fuck and they need an app to facilitate that. brava!


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Anonymous #17

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27258709 - 03/18/21 07:56 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Yeah and fat chicks have skinny friends.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #17]
    #27259678 - 03/19/21 07:51 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

While we are on the subject I'll go ahead and admit that I have fucked plenty of fatties and plenty of skinnies and plenty of in between.

Is it just me or do the thicker girls tend to have tighter pussies and the bone thin girls have the loosest pussies around? I mean seriously, I have fucked fat chicks that are total sluts and have some really tight pussy, on the other hand I've worked and worked to get into a skinny girl's panties only to feel like I'm fucking an empty pickle jar.


I will tell you guys a story about this guy I always looked up to, he was a few years older and fucking a different fine ass chick at least every week. One day he shows up with this super fat chick and they are just laughing and having fun, he is telling her how sexy she is and giving her the exact same treatment he gave all these super hot chicks. I saw him a couple days later and ask him what the deal was, and since he was kind of my getting laid mentor at the time he sat me down and gave me a good talking to. He really dropped the wisdom on me, he said first thing is that big girls need love too, second thing is that you always want to stay in practice. Thirdly fat chicks are more likely to throw in on a sack or even pay for the dinner. Basically pussy was pussy to him and he also said fat chicks were usually nicer and didn't bitch about shit the way the fine girls do.


Another guy I used to know had his own saying:


There are two kinds of pussy, big ole good pussy and good old big pussy.


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Anonymous #13

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12] * 1
    #27262796 - 03/21/21 02:23 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

LOL at Post above.

Where do you live so I can come smack the dog shit out of you?!


How rude. What are you, 12? Women are not commodities to be bought and compared. Let me see your dick bitch. I’ll give you a free dick rate


Edited by Anonymous (03/21/21 02:26 PM)


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27262959 - 03/21/21 05:52 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
LOL at Post above.

Where do you live so I can come smack the dog shit out of you?!


How rude. What are you, 12? Women are not commodities to be bought and compared. Let me see your dick bitch. I’ll give you a free dick rate




You get on some real sex-orientated sites and you get to see what women really think.

Women want a muscle guy who is tall with a big dick.

Thats what they want.

2 of those things arent something you can change about your body.


There are of course exceptions.... but Id wager a lot of those exceptions are women settling for what they CAN get rather than what they want. And if they tell themself a "dad bod" is what they like enough times they start to believe it.


Put a sexy heroic big muscle 6 foot 4 guy in front of them with a massive dick that is DESPERATE for her and she will go for it.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27263153 - 03/21/21 08:54 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
LOL at Post above.

Where do you live so I can come smack the dog shit out of you?!


How rude. What are you, 12? Women are not commodities to be bought and compared. Let me see your dick bitch. I’ll give you a free dick rate





if you're talking about about smacking me during sex I won't mind as I have an extremely high tolerance for pain, maybe if you also talk dirty I'll get more turned on. The more turned on I get the bigger the dick gets, true story.

I was referring to experiences when I was 16-18, I'm a little older now. I would post a dick pic if I have one, I think I still owe down anyways, let me check...



Best I can do right now.

Apologies if I offended you, but we are anon so I'm speaking freely.


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Anonymous #2

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27264248 - 03/22/21 06:06 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
LOL at Post above.

Where do you live so I can come smack the dog shit out of you?!


How rude. What are you, 12? Women are not commodities to be bought and compared. Let me see your dick bitch. I’ll give you a free dick rate




What are you, 12? Women and men compare the opposite sex all the time based on physical features but also materialistically. You seem like a very inexperienced guy.


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Anonymous #13

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #27266402 - 03/24/21 01:50 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
LOL at Post above.

Where do you live so I can come smack the dog shit out of you?!


How rude. What are you, 12? Women are not commodities to be bought and compared. Let me see your dick bitch. I’ll give you a free dick rate




What are you, 12? Women and men compare the opposite sex all the time based on physical features but also materialistically. You seem like a very inexperienced guy.






SOUNDS LIKE YOURE ASSUMING MY GENDER


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Anonymous #13

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27266407 - 03/24/21 01:53 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I pushed two babies out my vagina naturally >:O


And I’m tighter than I was before. You males have no idea what the FUCK you’re talking about.


You got a loose girl? Tell her go do her kegels. It has nothing to do with body size. >:O


Fucking pigs. You’re lucky you’re getting laid at all with those attitudes. Who is your mother?! I want to talk to her


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27266594 - 03/24/21 04:39 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
IWho is your mother?! I want to talk to her




Long dead, but thank you for thinking about her.


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Anonymous #13

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27266653 - 03/24/21 05:27 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Always think about the moms >:O

I know what it’s like to carry one of you fucks. Three weeks late. Twice >:O

May she Rest In Peace.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27266867 - 03/24/21 09:49 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Thanks. I was 10lbs at birth. So I know mom must have loved me an awful lot to go through that and still keep me.


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Anonymous #13

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27266975 - 03/24/21 02:40 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Oh fuck yeah

You double digits are terrifying.

Means she loved you a lot while pregnant too. Probably was super healthy and ate really good.


My biggest was 8 lbs 4 oz the other was 7 lbs 9 oz. both girls though, so a big fat boy like you... I can only imagine how much you ate once you came out too.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27277953 - 04/22/21 06:45 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

^^^
The ramblings of a depressed fat mom


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #27278639 - 04/23/21 06:25 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

^^^^^ the post of some guy who can't get laid so he demeans random women online.


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Anonymous #19

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27278649 - 04/23/21 06:36 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

When the apocalypse comes you will wish you did.  I like chubby but not morbidly obese if that makes sense. :thumbup:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27282987 - 04/27/21 02:29 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
^^^^^ the post of some guy who can't get laid so he demeans random women online.




As a fat dude who lost weight.... No one just showered down from above to give me sex or a relationship. I dieted and went to the gym. Now womens eyes catch me when I walk into a room.


Dunno what else to say if you want to literally reject reality.


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27283055 - 04/27/21 03:43 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

If you can't get laid as a fat guy the issue isn't your body fat. This is especially true when you're getting into the 25-45 range.

Also speaking as a fat dude who lost weight.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27283265 - 04/27/21 07:33 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Fat dude who lost weight gained it back lost gained list gained.

If you can't get laid, then you can't get laid. I have gotten laid 3 times in one weekend, I have also struck out with every girl in the bar. You will never get laid if you don't put yourself in the position to get laid.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12] * 1
    #27283288 - 04/27/21 08:00 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
You will never get laid if you don't put yourself in the position to get laid.




sage wisdom, my friend.


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Anonymous #19

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27283355 - 04/27/21 10:45 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

I haven't had sex since 2016.. I feel like shit. All the time.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27283363 - 04/27/21 11:02 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
You will never get laid if you don't put yourself in the position to get laid.




sage wisdom, my friend.




This is not sage wisdom. Its stupid. Its just..... so stupid. Sigh.

Being attractive matters. It doesnt matter what your bullshit emotional wishes were about the fairness of the world. A girl will be more attracted to muscles and a big dick. Thats why the super models that are popular and the porn stars that are popular and the people hired to strip for bachelorette parties are "attractive". Thats why the word "attractive" exists.


This is an absolute MADNESS discussion. My dating partners went from being fat to skinny. I fuck a LOT. All the fucking time. When I was fat too. I have a sex addiction. I pull hotter women now. Its just a fact. When I walk into a room women LOOK at me. I can SEE them looking. They STARE. I remember when it started happening. I had lost weight built some muscle and finally switched over to new tighter clothes. Immediately I started getting eyes like that.

And you guys drawing me out to say stuff like "I pull hotter women" makes it easy for you guys to respond with "WOW what an egotistical guy who doesnt care about emoooootions." But these are the facts.


The world ISNT fair. I'm sorry its not. A 400 kilo dude is less likely to find love than Jason Mamoa. There ARE notable exceptions of fat people finding more attractive partners with charisma and a good personality. But an exception to a rule doesnt disprove it. If a fat dude and a muscular dude are walking shirtless into the beach the women arent looking at the fat dude thinking "Mmmmm I wanna touch his body."



And you know what the fuck else? Neither are you! You act so perfect and shit. You see a fat person of the gender you find appealing and a muscular one next to it or a fit one next to it. Youre gonna look at the fit one if they are all half naked.


So shut the fuck up with your bullshit. This is exactly like fucking catholic priests preaching all this nonsense while they fuck little boys behind the curtains.



Grow up.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #19]
    #27283365 - 04/27/21 11:05 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #19 said:
I haven't had sex since 2016.. I feel like shit. All the time.





Having sex changes the way our brains work. Chasing a partner down does too.

I dont know what your issues are. But proper diet and exercise will make life better. And chasing a relationship will too.

We are animals. We are meant to procreate. The body senses the lack of vitality and tells the organism to die.


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Anonymous #19

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27283372 - 04/27/21 11:14 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Yeah I'm exercising again and been sober for awhile. I feel like I have to get my shit together first.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #19]
    #27283379 - 04/27/21 11:22 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #19 said:
Yeah I'm exercising again and been sober for awhile. I feel like I have to get my shit together first.




I found the biggest factor for me with losing weight was stopping the god damn alcohol.


It has SO MANY things that stops you from winning.

Its got calories. It fucks up your digestion. It makes it hard to work out the next day. Knocks you off balance. It makes you depressed.


Alcohol is almost objectively a fucking shit thing. I hate the stuff. Everytime I drink it I am ruined for my regiment for a day or two.



Glad youre working on you mate.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27283621 - 04/27/21 05:42 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
You will never get laid if you don't put yourself in the position to get laid.




sage wisdom, my friend.




This is not sage wisdom. Its stupid. Its just..... so stupid. Sigh.

Being attractive matters. It doesnt matter what your bullshit emotional wishes were about the fairness of the world. A girl will be more attracted to muscles and a big dick. Thats why the super models that are popular and the porn stars that are popular and the people hired to strip for bachelorette parties are "attractive". Thats why the word "attractive" exists.


This is an absolute MADNESS discussion. My dating partners went from being fat to skinny. I fuck a LOT. All the fucking time. When I was fat too. I have a sex addiction. I pull hotter women now. Its just a fact. When I walk into a room women LOOK at me. I can SEE them looking. They STARE. I remember when it started happening. I had lost weight built some muscle and finally switched over to new tighter clothes. Immediately I started getting eyes like that.

And you guys drawing me out to say stuff like "I pull hotter women" makes it easy for you guys to respond with "WOW what an egotistical guy who doesnt care about emoooootions." But these are the facts.


The world ISNT fair. I'm sorry its not. A 400 kilo dude is less likely to find love than Jason Mamoa. There ARE notable exceptions of fat people finding more attractive partners with charisma and a good personality. But an exception to a rule doesnt disprove it. If a fat dude and a muscular dude are walking shirtless into the beach the women arent looking at the fat dude thinking "Mmmmm I wanna touch his body."



And you know what the fuck else? Neither are you! You act so perfect and shit. You see a fat person of the gender you find appealing and a muscular one next to it or a fit one next to it. Youre gonna look at the fit one if they are all half naked.


So shut the fuck up with your bullshit. This is exactly like fucking catholic priests preaching all this nonsense while they fuck little boys behind the curtains.



Grow up.




Something tells me you wouldn't be having such a hissy fit if you believed this bullshit on the 100.

Whatever you have just spewed is a very narrow view sold to you by bud light and Pepsi, you sir are the idiot.

Fat ass dude, and I'm talking makes me look fit fat ass who lives across the street from me has a super hot model looking wife, I see him maybe twice a year and see her maybe 6 times a year, she always smiles and waves, he is a douchebag with a grumpy look, and has to be at least twice her age. Word is he has tons of cash, so Mr. Broke ass know-it-all, you forgot about the money factor, if you have boatloads of cash you will get more ass.

  Also, there are people that are attracted to overweight persons.  My cousin for example, 6'3" blond hair blue eyes, fit as a fiddle and never met a girl that didn't want to fuck him but he is always with the biggest woman he can find, I talked to him about it and he said he can't explain it, he is just attracted to big women.

So once you come out of your corporate shell and pull your head out of your ass, or out of that case of diet coke, you may realize that your opinions, or the opinions of the corporate indoctrinated individuals, are not necessarily a law of life carved into your DNA. Grow the fuck up dumbass. Different strokes for different folks and variety is the spice of life.

Whatever your situation is, I know you are not content or happy or you wouldn't feel the need to berate others who are not like you. And I'll bet every time you ever got laid you first put yourself in a position to get laid, FACT!

Now, on the real, go pound a chunky bitch, they are generally nicer,  more giving, appreciative, and many of them know how to cook!

:dumbass:

:bigyesnod:


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12] * 1
    #27283779 - 04/27/21 08:06 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Let's be real, the bigger girls give better head :naughty:


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27284020 - 04/28/21 12:06 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #20 said:
Let's be real, the bigger girls give better head :naughty:




:highfive:

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:




ps. fat chicks give the best blowjobs




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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27284049 - 04/28/21 12:33 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

I have sex about 1-3x a day :douchewink:  but then again I eat colorful good food so maybe that's why my thyroid hasn't failed yet? :justdontknow:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27284615 - 04/28/21 12:38 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Interesting cognitive dissonance.

Apparently we shouldnt care about weight..... but ALSO fat women are more loving and caring.


You sure youre not just trying to be the righteous one and refusing to see things as they actually are?


Its easy to say the things that make everyone love you. Like children for example..... after a divorce if you give your kids cookies and let them stay up late.... youre the good parent.

Sometimes you need to be spanked. Need your games taken away. Need structure.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27285526 - 04/29/21 03:16 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

So come on down off of the high horse and give yourself all the structure you need.

And what does that have to do with the subject matter of the post? So you don't like my advice? It rubs you the wrong way? Your interpretation is not correct? Perhaps you are the one that needs a spanking and you also need a big boned women to do it?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27286056 - 04/29/21 01:17 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
So come on down off of the high horse and give yourself all the structure you need.

And what does that have to do with the subject matter of the post? So you don't like my advice? It rubs you the wrong way? Your interpretation is not correct? Perhaps you are the one that needs a spanking and you also need a big boned women to do it?





I'm not sure what your point is.


Fat women taking sneaky pictures making it look like they arent fat so they can pick up men who wouldnt respond to them if they didnt take sneaky pictures = lying and manipulating.


The mere fact that they DO take sneaky pictures proves the entire point. Otherwise they'd send non-sneaky pictures if being fat didnt matter.



It does. Sorry if that hurts your feeling bud.



And your "some people like fat people" bit doesnt mean anything. If you were born with a horn on your forehead that would turn on some people. Doesnt mean having a horn on your head wouldn't repel potential mates.




What is your point? Do you have a point? Or is it just that I'm an asshole for having the opinions that I have? How dare the big mean anon 3 say all these meanie mean mean things!



With a simulator we could send you in as a fat dude into a bar and then send you in as a muscular dude. Muscular dude gonna get more attention. Its fucking OBVIOUS. Like jesus christ. Having a mustard stain on your shirt would make you less appealing vs not having a mustard stain.


There are simple realities. I wont join the deluded party just so I can feel superior that my belief system is considered inclusive of all peoples and get little gold stars from others. I try to think whatever is accurate to the best of my abilities.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27286062 - 04/29/21 01:23 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Not even for a participation trophy?
It's way better than a gold star sticker bruh
:somefunnyshit:


Edited by Anonymous (04/29/21 01:24 PM)


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Anonymous #21

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #27286675 - 04/29/21 11:21 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Lol man.. I was looking at some old pics of ex gfs, and damn were they skinny. I was into it at the time, but now I'm like damn, you need to eat girl. Then there was the chick who I totally blew off cuz i thought she was too fat... she actually looked pretty bangin.

Point is it's all subjective.

And that's your problem #3, you're in here all :luvdemshrooms: as if your opinion is 100% objective absolute truth, when, it's just not.

Attractiveness is way more complicated than a binary ideal of fat or not fat.
More muscles = more attractive? Lol, bud, I've heard girls say "Ew, him? He looks like a gorilla" So, no. Maybe your reality is a little too simple.

There is no grand conspiracy to get gold stars or whatever the fuck nonsense you're on about. Nobody is trying to tell you what body type you have to be attracted to. You're the one demanding that only your subjective ideal is valid.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27287006 - 04/30/21 03:56 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #21 said:
Lol man.. I was looking at some old pics of ex gfs, and damn were they skinny. I was into it at the time, but now I'm like damn, you need to eat girl. Then there was the chick who I totally blew off cuz i thought she was too fat... she actually looked pretty bangin.

Point is it's all subjective.

And that's your problem #3, you're in here all :luvdemshrooms: as if your opinion is 100% objective absolute truth, when, it's just not.

Attractiveness is way more complicated than a binary ideal of fat or not fat.
More muscles = more attractive? Lol, bud, I've heard girls say "Ew, him? He looks like a gorilla" So, no. Maybe your reality is a little too simple.

There is no grand conspiracy to get gold stars or whatever the fuck nonsense you're on about. Nobody is trying to tell you what body type you have to be attracted to. You're the one demanding that only your subjective ideal is valid.





Naw mate. Its just true.

The issue is.... you guys can say things like "I know a person who likes X" or "Well I kinda like Y"

But fatness does not benefit you in the dating world. Just because you could locate 10 people to stock a bar with that would like a fat version of you doesnt mean shit. A bar will deny a fat person. Or online profiles.


It is literally the exact reason this chick the OP talks about takes fake profile pictures with weird angles.



Denying this is just stupid. Plain and simple.


Its also fucking unhealthy to be fat.



When people like me.... let idiots like you guys run off with the "everyones pretty in their own special way" lines..... eventually you get motherfuckers on mainstream channels like Oprah arguing that being fat isnt unhealthy. And it becomes a douchebag move to even suggest being fat leads to heart disease and shit.



Its fucking stupid. You shouldnt be fat. You shouldnt have any pounds at all over ideal. If you do..... its a problem. 5 pounds isnt that much of a problem. 15 pounds is a little worse. 50 pounds is pretty bad. 100 pounds is super bad. 200 pounds is really really bad.

And so on.



Its VERY simple. You are making it complex and hiding in the nuance. Dont be fat. If you are... its a problem. You can choose to accept that problem because you like food and dont like exercise..... the same way people ride motorcycles or base jump. Just dont come around saying riding a motorcycle is safe and base jumping doesnt have risks.




Its just so stupid. Who are the people fucking nonstop? Attractive men and women. Its because they are attractive. Porn stars. Super models. Even famous actors and shit are typically hot.


We even have a word "Hot" or "attractive". When someone goes from no muscles to having muscles... people that knew that person go "GOD DAMN! Wow!"


I am LITERALLY just pointing out common sense.




Its like me saying "Men are stronger than women physically." Even that is getting attacked nowadays.


Shut the fuck up with your load of bullshit. You fucking fake reality living morons. Wake up to yourself.


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287011 - 04/30/21 04:01 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

You're pretty confident with yourself pretending you know what people like and don't like. There's a whole wide world out there, filled with people whose views most certainly align with yours when it comes to the dating world. You're obviously pretty young but you're gonna find out soon.

Life isn't black and white. People are attracted to who they're attracted to, and fat isn't always a hindrance. THAT's the truth.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287014 - 04/30/21 04:02 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Here. Here. Here.

I've got it.


Argue with this point:

Creating a profile on an online dating site with a muscular guy will get more messages from women that are attractive.


Creating a profile on an online dating site with an overweight out of shape guy will get less messages overall and more messages from unattractive women. (if they get any messages at all without first sending a message)


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27287020 - 04/30/21 04:04 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #20 said:
You're pretty confident with yourself pretending you know what people like and don't like. There's a whole wide world out there, filled with people whose views most certainly align with yours when it comes to the dating world. You're obviously pretty young but you're gonna find out soon.

Life isn't black and white. People are attracted to who they're attracted to, and fat isn't always a hindrance. THAT's the truth.





You can mock what you think my age or maturity levels are all you want. Reality doesnt give a fuck about your feelings.


I am NOT wrong. And I won't pretend some bullshit reality just so YOU dont think I'm arrogant or immature. My goal isnt to IMPRESS you. Its to be as accurate as I can with my worldview.


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287034 - 04/30/21 04:16 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I think Reality should get some ice for that boo boo on your feelings :shrug:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27287042 - 04/30/21 04:20 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #20 said:
I think Reality should get some ice for that boo boo on your feelings :shrug:




I talk like this about anything I'm talking about.


But hey if my points are too valid for you to make a response thats cool bud.


Delusional land always a happier place. I remember being there years ago :smile:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27287058 - 04/30/21 04:35 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Oooo I got another one youre not going to like.


Having a mental illness is unattractive.

Or a physical deformity.



Both unattractive. People without mental illnesses can pick up more women. And people without physical deformities can pick up more women.



Ooooo I got another one! People that are black are more able to pickup black people as a date. People that are white are more able to pickup white people as a date.



I bet those bug the hell out of you :smile: :smile: :smile:


Gotta love how facts dont care about feelings.


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Anonymous #21

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287360 - 04/30/21 09:53 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Define "fat"
Define exactly the point where someone becomes unattractive.
You can't.
Because it's subjective.

You've got someone 200lbs overweight, and you've got an extreme athlete. Survey says: Yea, you're right, generally speaking folks will say the athlete is more attractive.

But how about: You've got someone 5lbs overweight, and someone 15lbs overweight. One carries it in their breasts, the other in their butt. One is blonde, the other brunette. One has a great smile, the other has a great laugh.
Survey says: who the fuck knows, because all of these things contribute to how attractive one appears. Only a psychopath would make the distinction based on the numbers from a scale.

Most people are average, and date other people who are average.

You're arguing from extremes to create "facts" that are just generalizations. Nobody gives a shit.
Is it good advice for most people to hit the gym and lose a couple pounds? Sure. But it ain't everything.
A whole lot of fat, old, nasty fucks are getting it on RIGHT. NOW. Does that make you uncomfortable?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27287387 - 04/30/21 10:59 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #21 said:
Define "fat"
Define exactly the point where someone becomes unattractive.
You can't.
Because it's subjective.

You've got someone 200lbs overweight, and you've got an extreme athlete. Survey says: Yea, you're right, generally speaking folks will say the athlete is more attractive.

But how about: You've got someone 5lbs overweight, and someone 15lbs overweight. One carries it in their breasts, the other in their butt. One is blonde, the other brunette. One has a great smile, the other has a great laugh.
Survey says: who the fuck knows, because all of these things contribute to how attractive one appears. Only a psychopath would make the distinction based on the numbers from a scale.

Most people are average, and date other people who are average.

You're arguing from extremes to create "facts" that are just generalizations. Nobody gives a shit.
Is it good advice for most people to hit the gym and lose a couple pounds? Sure. But it ain't everything.
A whole lot of fat, old, nasty fucks are getting it on RIGHT. NOW. Does that make you uncomfortable?




It does not make me uncomfortable. My relevance to this issue is non existent.

You say on one hand a two hundred pounds over weight person would not be as attractive as an athletic person. On the other hand you say someone who thinks in terms of numbers on the scale is a psychopath. So which is it?


The variance of 0-30 pounds or even more depending on the body does come down to body proportions and aesthetic. It definitely however does negatively impact health.


I can't tell you where between 0 pounds overweight and 400 pounds overweight they become "less" attractive. Clearly though the transition does take place.


I would argue it starts at 0.5 pounds based on body proportions. Some women of course would look more attractive with extra weight if it was sacrificing their breasts for example. Additionally fully emaciated people tend to be less attractive as well.


It would appear..... As a common sense bystander..... Having athletics and a bit of muscle.... With little to no fat..... Is the ideal.


In the exact same way I visually see that women tend to be less strong than men. I am merely stating the obvious here. And I'm a pariah! How mad is this?


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Anonymous #21

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287428 - 04/30/21 11:59 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

You're a pariah because you're confusing YOUR ideal for THE ideal.

I'm not that into "Hot" chicks, I like "Cute" chicks, but not "Cutesy" chicks. What's the difference between those? Couldn't tell ya, not in a meaningful way. It's defined by a collection of perceptions that only exist in my head.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27287477 - 04/30/21 02:18 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #21 said:
You're a pariah because you're confusing YOUR ideal for THE ideal.

I'm not that into "Hot" chicks, I like "Cute" chicks, but not "Cutesy" chicks. What's the difference between those? Couldn't tell ya, not in a meaningful way. It's defined by a collection of perceptions that only exist in my head.





See heres the problem mate.


You are saying I am confusing my ideal for the ideal. Then youre using your own ideals as a reason for why I am wrong.


Few things are an issue there.

1. Your ideals dont create the general "best".
2. Even you dont know what your ideals are. You could be limiting yourself due to lack of choice for example. Deluding yourself into believing you like something "inferior" so that you dont have to feel bad that youve just accepted the lesser choice.



I am purely stating what is basic common sense.


Whats crazy to me.... is that you, and a lot of other people here, dont seem to understand that the very thing youre accusing me of is what you yourselves are doing.

I dont care very much. I just wanna have sex often until I eventually find a wife. (who I can have sex with often lol)


And I can tell ya..... definitely better to not be fat. Muscles definitely give women a female hardon. Having a big dick definitely a factor. (I am not saying I have a big dick)

I can also tell you that having big tits (obviously, how fucking SAD is it that I have to say this?) a good ass, and no fat rolls on the stomach or rolls on the thighs, or a double chin are factors for female attractiveness.


Literally go into ANY place of courtship and see which women have 10 men on them and which man takes the girl home at the end of the night. Its fucking OBVIOUS. Your dreams of what is fair do not mean a damn thing.



There are simply things that dont sound nice to hear.... that arent pleasant.... but are true.




I refuse to believe anything that is false. I wont do it. Even if I end up seeming like the old 80 year old racist on their rockingchair with a shotgun.


How about that generalization? Old people tend to be more likely to be racist?



Theres a fuck load of them. And damnit they mean "something". And being able to semantically argue that "My grandpas not racist so your point is wrong." is fucking stupid.



You will ALWAYS be able to argue this kind of shit.

You could say your grandpa isnt racist but how do you know if he is racist?
You could argue what the definition of racist is.... and how racist you have to be in order to be considered racist.
You could argue that since he doesnt know hes racist hes not racist.
You could argue that since he doesnt kill minorities hes not racist.


Theres always SOME method you could use to argue a generalization.


It gets to the point where we cant even say "Men are stronger than women" because ronda rousey exists.



4 year olds know these facts. What is teaching people that is making them not have the same understanding a 4 year old can plainly see?





I am NOT here to brag about my big muscles or big cock or any of that stupid irrelevant shit. I dont believe in God. I dont think I matter. I am just an organic machine capable only of 1's and 0's. The person that I am is purely a construct based off the reflections of my enviornment. I do not have the capacity to love myself. I ALMOST hate myself.

I want to fuck and pretend I'm not mortal. Live for the "sins of the flesh" as they say. Anything at all to stop me from drowning myself in booze and drugs trying to temporarily escape reality.



So dont go off on some tangent like I'm this big bad jock who is just spouting non-thoughtout beliefs. I am ANYTHING but a jock. I fucking hate trying to be cool. I dont follow any fucking path. Just try to exist and state my thoughts to people.



For some reason just stating my thoughts in the most logical possible way...... bothers both conservative and liberal sides of the spectrum on a myriad of topics.


For example I think the multiple gender thing is fucking stupid. I also think healthcare should be free. I think black people theres systematic racism. I think giving them money isnt the cure though.


Just fucking all over the place with my belief system. But I feel like I have done my best to view everything logically.




Also LOL at this massive pointless block of text basically explaining "I'm not a jock."


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287480 - 04/30/21 02:23 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Hahaha just endless long ramble.

I shoot stuff out super fast inbetween work. Ive got a weird job where I can just look at phone for 10 mins and nothing matters.

No ones EVER gonna read that. Hahahhaa.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27287482 - 04/30/21 02:25 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

#3 is a very needy person imo, and his needs are not getting filled in this thread so he keeps returning expecting to see how everyone has realized that his wisdom is divine and we should respect it. However he fails to realize that his view is not anyone else's view just like my view is mine alone and your views are yours alone.

You may not be able to fix stupid but that will never stop anyone from working on it.

:themoreyouknow:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27287538 - 04/30/21 04:00 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
#3 is a very needy person imo, and his needs are not getting filled in this thread so he keeps returning expecting to see how everyone has realized that his wisdom is divine and we should respect it. However he fails to realize that his view is not anyone else's view just like my view is mine alone and your views are yours alone.

You may not be able to fix stupid but that will never stop anyone from working on it.

:themoreyouknow:




You, like so many before you, assume that this specific issue is somewhere where I act like this.

What you fail to realize is I act like this all the time about everything.


I once had a 6 hour long contest about who would type "goodbye" last in a text message to some random chick. We both knew we were just stubbornly trolling. But you bet your ass I had the last text.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287773 - 04/30/21 08:36 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

You r n IDIOT BRO
If anyone would agree with you it's the troll trolling "fat moms" (ME)

I don't tho bc u have the attitude of an 18 yr old

You are delusional.  The only fact in dating is that morbid obesity is generally disgusting and until you hit about 50-100lbs "overweight" the point everyone is making is entirely 100% true;  just because you would pick someone who is closer to ideal weight without any regard for any of the other features that make up a persons entire "persona" or "presence" (feeling you get from being with them)  also that "point of no return" where someone is tooo fat to be attracted to is different for everyone.  20 lbs overweight or 10lbs overweight your gonna pick the "lighter"  woman EVERY TIME?  Regardless of her nasty teeth?  Or disgusting pussy?  Or would you rather be with the one with something to squeeze and hold onto while you have fun?  Or would you prefer to just be alone and whack-a-dick to the "ideal" woman who will never talk to you anyway.  YOU ARE CLEARLY PROJECTING and it's hilarious


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287776 - 04/30/21 08:40 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #21 said:
You're a pariah because you're confusing YOUR ideal for THE ideal.

I'm not that into "Hot" chicks, I like "Cute" chicks, but not "Cutesy" chicks. What's the difference between those? Couldn't tell ya, not in a meaningful way. It's defined by a collection of perceptions that only exist in my head.





See heres the problem mate.


You are saying I am confusing my ideal for the ideal. Then youre using your own ideals as a reason for why I am wrong.


Few things are an issue there.

1. Your ideals dont create the general "best".
2. Even you dont know what your ideals are. You could be limiting yourself due to lack of choice for example. Deluding yourself into believing you like something "inferior" so that you dont have to feel bad that youve just accepted the lesser choice.



I am purely stating what is basic common sense.


Whats crazy to me.... is that you, and a lot of other people here, dont seem to understand that the very thing youre accusing me of is what you yourselves are doing.

I dont care very much. I just wanna have sex often until I eventually find a wife. (who I can have sex with often lol)


And I can tell ya..... definitely better to not be fat. Muscles definitely give women a female hardon. Having a big dick definitely a factor. (I am not saying I have a big dick)

I can also tell you that having big tits (obviously, how fucking SAD is it that I have to say this?) a good ass, and no fat rolls on the stomach or rolls on the thighs, or a double chin are factors for female attractiveness.


Literally go into ANY place of courtship and see which women have 10 men on them and which man takes the girl home at the end of the night. Its fucking OBVIOUS. Your dreams of what is fair do not mean a damn thing.



There are simply things that dont sound nice to hear.... that arent pleasant.... but are true.




I refuse to believe anything that is false. I wont do it. Even if I end up seeming like the old 80 year old racist on their rockingchair with a shotgun.


How about that generalization? Old people tend to be more likely to be racist?



Theres a fuck load of them. And damnit they mean "something". And being able to semantically argue that "My grandpas not racist so your point is wrong." is fucking stupid.



You will ALWAYS be able to argue this kind of shit.

You could say your grandpa isnt racist but how do you know if he is racist?
You could argue what the definition of racist is.... and how racist you have to be in order to be considered racist.
You could argue that since he doesnt know hes racist hes not racist.
You could argue that since he doesnt kill minorities hes not racist.


Theres always SOME method you could use to argue a generalization.


It gets to the point where we cant even say "Men are stronger than women" because ronda rousey exists.



4 year olds know these facts. What is teaching people that is making them not have the same understanding a 4 year old can plainly see?





I am NOT here to brag about my big muscles or big cock or any of that stupid irrelevant shit. I dont believe in God. I dont think I matter. I am just an organic machine capable only of 1's and 0's. The person that I am is purely a construct based off the reflections of my enviornment. I do not have the capacity to love myself. I ALMOST hate myself.

I want to fuck and pretend I'm not mortal. Live for the "sins of the flesh" as they say. Anything at all to stop me from drowning myself in booze and drugs trying to temporarily escape reality.



So dont go off on some tangent like I'm this big bad jock who is just spouting non-thoughtout beliefs. I am ANYTHING but a jock. I fucking hate trying to be cool. I dont follow any fucking path. Just try to exist and state my thoughts to people.



For some reason just stating my thoughts in the most logical possible way...... bothers both conservative and liberal sides of the spectrum on a myriad of topics.


For example I think the multiple gender thing is fucking stupid. I also think healthcare should be free. I think black people theres systematic racism. I think giving them money isnt the cure though.


Just fucking all over the place with my belief system. But I feel like I have done my best to view everything logically.




Also LOL at this massive pointless block of text basically explaining "I'm not a jock."



Didn't read :burke:


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Anonymous #19

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27287807 - 04/30/21 09:13 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

You can date a curvy girl that isn't "fat". C'mon guys you know I'm right. There's girls out there that are a little big but not fat. Yanno what I'm saying? Tell me I'm not alone in this. Chunky girls are hot to me.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #19]
    #27287977 - 04/30/21 11:54 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #19 said:
You can date a curvy girl that isn't "fat". C'mon guys you know I'm right. There's girls out there that are a little big but not fat. Yanno what I'm saying? Tell me I'm not alone in this. Chunky girls are hot to me.



:solidnod::cophappy:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27288569 - 05/01/21 10:18 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Fatness is less attractive than not being fat.

If you got fucked up teeth and skinny vs a fucked up teeth and fat the skinny gonna pull more partners.

You can all semantically argue what "fat" means all day long. You can make non sense points as well. Like..... Talking about fucked up teeth or whatever.


I'm not wrong. It doesn't matter if you think I sound arrogant too. That doesn't mean anything in regards to the topic. An arrogant person could argue for civil rights.


I'm correct. Fat is obviously not attractive. Its so stupid that this is a convo. The chicks ass you look at at the beach is a hot one.


Word it however you want to word it. You are able to pick up more sexual partners and potential life mates the more attractive you are. And fatness is a less attractive variant. Just like bad teeth or a mustard stain on your shirt.


I guess I'm saying it in an arrogant tone though!!!! So quick! Disagree with him and insult him! Lol.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27288742 - 05/01/21 03:44 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

U r n idiot bru


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27288850 - 05/01/21 05:30 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Fatness is less attractive than not being fat.

If you got fucked up teeth and skinny vs a fucked up teeth and fat the skinny gonna pull more partners.

You can all semantically argue what "fat" means all day long. You can make non sense points as well. Like..... Talking about fucked up teeth or whatever.


I'm not wrong. It doesn't matter if you think I sound arrogant too. That doesn't mean anything in regards to the topic. An arrogant person could argue for civil rights.


I'm correct. Fat is obviously not attractive. Its so stupid that this is a convo. The chicks ass you look at at the beach is a hot one.


Word it however you want to word it. You are able to pick up more sexual partners and potential life mates the more attractive you are. And fatness is a less attractive variant. Just like bad teeth or a mustard stain on your shirt.


I guess I'm saying it in an arrogant tone though!!!! So quick! Disagree with him and insult him! Lol.




Seems like your stuck on repeat bruh, we heard you, nobody really agrees with you 100% deal with it and move on, I accept that I am different and it doesn't bother me, I also accept that your stuck and it doesn't bother me.

However you didn't address the rotten pussy factor:

Only two girls to choose from, a super fine ass chick who has a snizz you can smell from across the room do you still try to get with her, or do you hit on the girl with the big nose and crooked teeth who is about 30lbs overweight? BTW, it's the end of the world and you HAVE TO choose one.

Go.


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Anonymous #21

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27289309 - 05/01/21 11:48 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Hate to break it to ya bud, but,
Going to the gym might get you some more hits on tinder,
but it doesn't guarantee that people will like you.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27289511 - 05/02/21 03:24 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

:whathesaid:


:micdrop:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27289874 - 05/02/21 12:01 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #21 said:
Hate to break it to ya bud, but,
Going to the gym might get you some more hits on tinder,
but it doesn't guarantee that people will like you.





Alright so? I'm right then?

Hitting the gym will get you more hits on tinder. Or potential pickups at the pub.


If the personality is exactly the same for both variants of body type.... the healthier will pull more?



No one is even making an argument here and yet I am an absolute pariah lol. Its hilarious. Virtue signalling all over the place.


I walked down the street as a fat person. I've heard people mutter under their breath "Wow hes so huge" "How does he walk?" "Wow too much maccas".


Its like you guys are pretending racism doesnt exist just because they say it under their breath.


Being fat is shit. Being healthy is amazing.


Women LOOK at me when I go into pubs now. I can SEE their fucking eyes looking at me. It is LITERALLY a change.



You guys are demonstrably 100 percent undeniably unarguably wrong.




I remember back when I WAS fat and people would always give me the olive branch. They'd try to make me feel better about my current weight at the time. All that shit did was delude me into not working hard and getting shit done.


Even if women didnt exist..... being healthier is WAY better. I can run up fucking mountains. I can walk places and not be out of breath. I can bend down and pick shit up. If I fall I can get up fast. I can pick up heavy things.

And probably the best thing? I will live longer. I dont have weird acid reflux and the whole host of medical issues that come along with bad health choices.




I dunno what else to say? How is it even possible that I'm wrong? What am I wrong on?


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27289998 - 05/02/21 04:04 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:




I dunno what else to say?




Say that then.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27290069 - 05/02/21 05:02 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:




I dunno what else to say?




Say that then.




ZING!

That make you feel tough?


Not needing a point just getting to get a jab in there lol. I remember still talking like that years ago.



Weren't you the one arguing that being fat isnt unhealthy? And that nurses and doctors and the entire health industry is wrong on being fat means being less healthy?


Your america-centered mindset is also apparent. You think that just because in America they prescribe all sorts of drugs to anyone and that they make a boatload of cash doing it..... that the entire world operates that way.

Newsflash: Theres more countries in the world than just America.


All of them reckon being fat = unhealthy.


Also.... its kinda self-evident. The whole heavy breathing.... heart attacks in their 40s.... and the myriad of health illnesses they suffer from.



Reality does not care about your feelings. I'm sorry fat people die young. I wish they didnt.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290164 - 05/02/21 06:16 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

im attracted to both skinny and fat girls.

show of hands if you got love for the big girls

:ghandi:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290170 - 05/02/21 06:20 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
im attracted to both skinny and fat girls.

show of hands if you got love for the big girls

:ghandi:





Are there more people attracted to skinny than fat?

What percentage would you say that is?


You really reckon its not in the 80-90 percentile region?



And just because you say you like fat girls doesnt make it true. Hell even you THINKING you like fat girls doesnt 100 percent make it true.

People convince themselves that that is all they can get. So to make their situation feel better they say they prefer it.




Regardless.... outside of what you like #4. Obviously the healthier you look the more hits on tinder youll get. And the more people youll pick up at pubs. Assuming the personality is exactly the same.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290209 - 05/02/21 07:12 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

lol :mel:

something tells me you havent been laid in many, many years


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290229 - 05/02/21 07:27 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
lol :mel:

something tells me you havent been laid in many, many years





Just because you feel like that would be the fair reality to live in where someone who talks like me doesnt get laid..... does not make that the case.


Sex is not difficult to acquire. Its even easier if you are fit.


But how often I have sex does not impact the debate at hand. This is just a quip to make you feel more content within your own mind without producing any form of a debate.



Let me try your method:

OH YEAH?!?!?! Well youre stupid!!!!!





How'd I do?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290246 - 05/02/21 08:01 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I reckon yall just dont like the WAY I'm saying shit lol. Youre too arrogant to admit to being wrong.


I've been wrong several times this week. I just admit it when I'm wrong. It instantly takes the wind out of peoples sails.


I discovered for example just the other day that beef mince has drastically fewer calories if you have less fat content. A fact that should be obvious but it evaded me. Did you guys know 70 30 beef mince has 1660 cals and 80 20 has 1270 and 90 10 has 860?!?!?!

I was SHOCKED there was this much variance in calories and was just always getting 80 20 and being irritated by how many calories are in it.



I also had a heated exchange about motorcycles. I believed motorcycles to only be 2x or so more dangerous than cars. We argued for a good hour and then he showed me some statistics and I realized I was reading inaccurately. I was reading something like ownership of a motorcycles is 2x but KM's driven is like 30-60x more dangerous in motorcycles.

Its always funny to see the face of someone who is ready to fight you to the death over an argument and then all of a sudden you go "Oh I see yeah I was wrong. Its X."



It happens SO RARELY that people have no idea what to do when it happens.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290253 - 05/02/21 08:06 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

So really whats the point in arguing when people wont admit to being wrong just on principle? Lol. Let alone even the argument in question.


It seems like in every direction you look nihilism reigns supreme!


But fuck you nihilism! I will find my own meaning!!!!! You aint nothin but a bitch nihilism!


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290266 - 05/02/21 08:12 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

you seem pretty upset. id say youre not doing well


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290277 - 05/02/21 08:20 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
you seem pretty upset. id say youre not doing well





No one is upset online brotato. (use that phrase colloquially as I'm sure SOME people are upset)

We are all just using this as a pass time.



But if you imagining I'm over here frothing at the mouth losing my fucking mind kicking my dog and considering shooting up a school helps you think your inaccurate views are right.... I mean who is stoppin ya?


Being fat isnt unhealthy right?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290285 - 05/02/21 08:24 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Oh and did you not get the humor I was throwing out in my last post about nihilism? I'll explain.



So I was saying that people wont even admit to being wrong in an argument just because it would hurt their feelings to do so. So whats the point of arguing much less trying to find a valid point?


And things like that seem to be the case with everything. That theres no point. That nihilism seems to be in control on all fronts. We are all gonna die for example. We are insignificant in terms of time in the universe. In terms of size. Both directions on size. And with the assumption that we will probably kill ourselves we can assume both directions on time too lol.



So what I was making a joke about was..... even though nihilism seems to be trying to smother us all with "Nothing matters" we should say "Fuck you nihilism!!!! You wont get me!!!!" Kind of like a funny trolly joke.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290290 - 05/02/21 08:28 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

:lolwut::joneswtf:

you need counseling :cookiemonster:


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #27290293 - 05/02/21 08:31 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

meltdown initiated, please evacuate the premises and await further instructions


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27290306 - 05/02/21 08:47 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #20 said:
meltdown initiated, please evacuate the premises and await further instructions





What meltdown? Lol.

I am a quarantine security worker. I gotta sit here for 12 hours. I'm bored as shit.



I will talk about paint drying.



You guys arent making any arguments. Zero. You just went from saying I'm arrogant, to I dont have sex, and now to I'm super angry.


You're wrong on all counts.



But it doesnt matter does it? Youre just gonna run through the fields smelling your own farts lol.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290308 - 05/02/21 08:49 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

How can someone even have that line of convo and not realize how stupid they are? Lol.


Not a single point made just: Youre arrogant. You dont get laid. Youre mad!



Lol. I cant even wrap my mind around being that unaware of self.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290315 - 05/02/21 08:53 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

And to reiterate, these are the points you guys are vilifying me for:


Being fat is unhealthy and can lead to illnesses and early death.

Being fat is less physically attractive to the vast majority of the dating pool if we assume personality is exactly the same.




^^^^ Apparently that is ULTRA controversial! And Anon 3 is a MADMAN!!!! Call the police! Call ghostbusters! Call GOKU! Goku is the only one with the righteous heart able to save us all!!!


(I've been watching DBZ clips for some reason last few days)


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290321 - 05/02/21 08:58 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

youre mad and celibate


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290322 - 05/02/21 08:59 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

and repetitive


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290326 - 05/02/21 09:02 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Triple and even quadruple posting is a sure sign of being upset in some way. I can safely assume you've never had your dick sucked by a passionate fat girl so I understand you might be a little tense. Opening your mind can be rewarding sometimes :sun:


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27290331 - 05/02/21 09:05 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

:emotionalmoment:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27290342 - 05/02/21 09:16 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #20 said:
Triple and even quadruple posting is a sure sign of being upset in some way. I can safely assume you've never had your dick sucked by a passionate fat girl so I understand you might be a little tense. Opening your mind can be rewarding sometimes :sun:





Naw post four times in quick succession can also mean boredom. I literally do nothing for 12 hours sometimes for as many as 14 days in a row. Lol.


I have also had a fat chick suck my dick. Several. I had one that was crazy good at sucking dick. I had several that were reeeeeeally bad. Like they hadnt had much sex in their life. (Gee I wonder why)


Can I just ask this..... so you reckon fat chicks have higher odds of sucking better dick. Isnt that kinda contrary to the belief that fatness has any impact on sexual natures of things?


Isnt that believing two conflicting beliefs simultaneously?



Or no? Is it just easier to dismiss me as the angry guy youre laughing at through the interwebs?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290345 - 05/02/21 09:19 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I'm not in America. Maybe America doesnt have quarantine hotels. Do you know what quarantine hotels are?


Basically people fly into the country and they gotta stay at a hotel for 14 days. Security guards man the place. We just sit in the foyer and wait for 12 hours making sure no one leaves and no one enters.


Basically we do noooooooothing. And are totally isolated and alone (obviously).


But the pay is way higher than other shit so how can you NOT do it?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290348 - 05/02/21 09:21 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Plus I mean I kinda feel like I'm helping which is pretty cool. Not just throwing drunks out of pubs. And definitely far far far away from healthcare security. Terrible shit over there. I worked with nurses and doctors the last few years in remote high-risk communities. Saw some fuuuuucked up shit. Haunted by it.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290349 - 05/02/21 09:23 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

why would anyone engage you when you are so determined to prove everyone to be "wrong"?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290362 - 05/02/21 09:30 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
why would anyone engage you when you are so determined to prove everyone to be "wrong"?





My goal is not to prove everyone wrong. I want to be as accurate as I can be.


I suppose I'm also fickle though? Change from day to day. Some days I will watch someone slip on the banana peel some days I will say "Look out! Theres a banana peel!"


So I cant holistically define the being that I am.



I assure you though. I simply feel like I stated very basic facts as they appear to me to be. I know that I cannot ever know a truth to anything except for cogito ergo sum and various math problems.


But I'm sorry. I simply do not see how you guys have a leg to stand on. Fatness does appear to heavily impact the dating life. Its also unhealthy to be fat.



So I dunno where to go from here?



I legitimately feel like you guys are basically arguing that racism doesnt exist or water doesnt expand when it freezes.






Also I mean.... I'm quite bored. I'm sure other people would have just not continued the convo further.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290369 - 05/02/21 09:34 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

And who knows where our failure to accurately communicate our thoughts and the others failure to receive those thoughts are some how creating a barrier between our minds? Especially through text!


If only we could bring our minds together as one and investigate the full depths of our understandings then again divide into our respective beings to merely nod our heads at each other in understanding and continue about on our own paths.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290372 - 05/02/21 09:38 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I dont think you guys are bad people.

Hell I dont even believe people can be bad.



I reckon whatever you are or whatever I am is just a concept of a being capable of receiving environmental stimuli. I exist in this form as a result of the circumstances I have experienced. As do you guys. Our meeting on this forum was inevitable from the beginning of the universe. Whatever initial effort was exerted into the system that began the universe..... had a destination of this point and a continuation of inertia to wherever it is we are going to.



I dont believe in the self. Or personal responsibility. Or good. Or evil.


I am not an individual so much as a collection of memories in an organic machine capable only of 1's and 0's.


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290391 - 05/02/21 09:46 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

:catfrog:


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27290402 - 05/02/21 09:51 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #20 said:
:catfrog:





Why is this cat inside a frog costume?



Or OMFG is that a CAT being EATEN by a FROG?!?!?!?!!?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290403 - 05/02/21 09:54 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

The cat does not look very happy.

But he could either be unhappy because hes in a frog costume..... OR because hes being eaten alive.


There appears to be a small black void at the bottom middle of the Frog. That would potentially indicate to me that this is indeed some sort of a mask / costume.



I hope this cat is safe. But I think..... if I'm hoping the cat is safe....... that means I'm hoping the frog does not have sentience.

So really..... I wish the frog was eating the cat but the cat escapes. That way 2 lives are saved.



But I mean ..... animal nature. Shit eats shit. To be alive is to consume.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290413 - 05/02/21 10:00 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

it sounds like you've lightened up a bit, bud. thats good.

i hope you realize that your point-of-view matters, but understand that we all have different tastes, experiences and fetishes.

im a man who sleeps with men and woman of all shapes and sizes.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290423 - 05/02/21 10:06 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
it sounds like you've lightened up a bit, bud. thats good.

i hope you realize that your point-of-view matters, but understand that we all have different tastes, experiences and fetishes.

im a man who sleeps with men and woman of all shapes and sizes.





Your experiences fetishes and sleeping habits are irrelevant to the point though.


You for example could be turned on by people with no teeth. I think this could be considered a fairly reasonable turn on considering the impact of a blowjob and teeth.


But that doesnt mean being without teeth isnt a net negative on your dating life.




And the difference between you thinking I'm mad in some posts and you not thinking I'm mad in others..... is probably that youre getting the trolls in them. I wouldnt call them a troll though. More like how you doodle on a piece of paper ya know? Just kinda ramble shit out.





But yeah. Youre using anecdotal evidence to disprove me. How about talking about likes on tinder? Or pickups at a bar?


Do you even agree that on Tinder youd match with healthier people if you yourself look healthy?




I mean you can keep trying to insinuate I'm a bigot all you want. My goal is purely to be accurate. Even if I sound like a bigot. Cuz my goal isnt to not be a bigot. Its to be accurate. Ya dig?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290425 - 05/02/21 10:09 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I mean if we cant even agree on having better matches on tinder the better you look.... lol.



We cant even get into REAL nuance. Like how if you look TOO good on tinder people wont bother liking or messaging you because they will assume youre a bot.



Youre not even getting past stage 1 of common sense. Its blocking you from further and deeper understandings of things.





But I mean nothing matters in the end. Theres no point progressing further. Wisdom is but a burden. And we all gonna die. So why carry a load?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290431 - 05/02/21 10:12 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Women INTIMATELY know the reality of "looking good" and how it matters in the dating scene.


Women can tell when guys are after Jessica and not them. And they can very easily identify the days by when or when not they are wearing makeup. Or tight form fitting clothing.


Eyes will be on them one day and off them the next.



Its not fair that it is this way. But it is.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290432 - 05/02/21 10:13 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

:zoneout:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290438 - 05/02/21 10:16 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Why always run away when presented with valid points? Lol.


Do you agree that women get more attention when they spend an hour putting on makeup perfectly in the morning?


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290444 - 05/02/21 10:22 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

no. women need no help getting attention. wanted or unwanted. makeup doesnt matter


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290451 - 05/02/21 10:29 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
no. women need no help getting attention. wanted or unwanted. makeup doesnt matter





Dude are you living in some kind of fantasy land? Seriously.


Just go talk to women. The ones who wear makeup. Not the ones who dont. Which I think is what? 80 percent of women? What percentage of women do you think wear makeup?



I personally like a woman without makeup. I find makeup unattractive.


But that doesnt change the facts of the case. I try to not let my personal beliefs influence the way I view the world. I fail sometimes of course but I give it a try.





How in the world can you say "makeup doesnt matter"? You could have 2 identical women start their first shift at work together. One with makeup the other without. The eyes of the men would be ALL over the one with makeup.



Legit just go talk to women lol.





I think the reason we are having this back and forth is honestly because you have the blinders on mate.


Just fully in the upright position.



How are we supposed to have a conversation if you honestly believe:

1. Being fat isnt unhealth
2. Makeup doesnt help women attract mates
3. Being fat doesnt impact dating scene




REAL talk. I am talking to you human to human here. HOW can you say these things? What life experience has led you to honestly believe them?


Are you saying them because its the nice thing to say? Because they are beautiful things. I dont want them to impact the world. I am just acknowledging their existence in the world.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290460 - 05/02/21 10:36 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

quarantine has made you cuckoo for cocoa puffs


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290466 - 05/02/21 10:42 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
quarantine has made you cuckoo for cocoa puffs




You believe these 3 things:

1. Being fat isnt unhealth
2. Makeup doesnt help women attract mates
3. Being fat doesnt impact dating scene



That is coocoo for coco puffs mate.


How old are you? I've known a few older people in my days who managed to cling on to these kinds of bizarre ideologies. Very few. Almost all of them are in the 16-22 age group. And Shroomery I just kind of assume everyone is older than me. I'm 30.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290467 - 05/02/21 10:43 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
quarantine has made you cuckoo for cocoa puffs





What science are you using to determine that being fat isnt unhealthy?


What medical professionals are you citing or what personal tests have you performed to settle on this opinion?


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290477 - 05/02/21 10:52 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
quarantine has made you cuckoo for cocoa puffs





What science are you using to determine that being fat isnt unhealthy?


What medical professionals are you citing or what personal tests have you performed to settle on this opinion?




plz show me where and when i ever said that


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290505 - 05/02/21 11:06 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
quarantine has made you cuckoo for cocoa puffs





What science are you using to determine that being fat isnt unhealthy?


What medical professionals are you citing or what personal tests have you performed to settle on this opinion?




plz show me where and when i ever said that






Ah I guess it was Anon #12 that said that.


So we can agree then being fat is unhealthy? Lol.



How insane is it that I have to point something like that out to figure out where a person stands? Hahahha.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290522 - 05/02/21 11:12 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
quarantine has made you cuckoo for cocoa puffs





What science are you using to determine that being fat isnt unhealthy?


What medical professionals are you citing or what personal tests have you performed to settle on this opinion?




plz show me where and when i ever said that






On the subject matter of fat being attractive or not.


Is there any experiment that could be done..... that in your mind.... could either prove or disprove this theory?



For example.... would making a fat person tinder account and a muscular person tinder account be sufficient evidence? Or would we need real world results?

Would 2 identical speaking personalities.... possibly the same person in a fat person costume..... going into a library or something and asking women out work? Or would the fact that he speaks to different women at different times interrupt the validity of the experiment?


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290530 - 05/02/21 11:17 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

depends on the individual.

i will agree that being obese is an unhealthy lifestyle, yes.

what about thin and fit people that are unhealthy? are they automatically unnattractice to you if you find out they have a blood illness or cancer? being skinny doesnt always mean healthy.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290533 - 05/02/21 11:22 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

why do you keep reducing everything to tinder hits? its just an app and people misrepresent themselves all the time. how is that your baseline for dating?


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Anonymous #22

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290543 - 05/02/21 11:30 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

What? You want someone that looks healthy and active?  :wellthatsweird:


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290546 - 05/02/21 11:32 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
why do you keep reducing everything to tinder hits? its just an app and people misrepresent themselves all the time. how is that your baseline for dating?





I suppose I reduce stuff to tinder hits and misrepresenting people who are on there because thats what the OP was posting about lol.


But we can move away from tinder. The point is just tinder is a fairly simple way of being able to determine that looking fit = more hits.




I am using the term "unhealthy" to kind of help you guys semantically. Because if I say "skinny" that would include being UNDERweight and looking like a skeleton which is unattractive. I get pushed in a corner because I have to say things in a VERY specific way because you guys wont allow colloquialism whatsoever. Youll jump on it if it goes at all into any direction you can pick at.



I have to say something like this (and take note at how pedantic it becomes having to account for you):

Being overweight at a certain degree somewhere between 5 pounds and 50 pounds depending on height proportions and muscular definition of an individual as well as location of body that fat begins building at first also depending on if the subject is male or female and if the fat is making the breasts or ass enlarged....... starts to begin making a person less attractive to the general population.



Like.... just look at that mess. That mess is what happens when people cant say the basic truth of: Being fat is less good than being skinny when it comes to seeking a mate.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290607 - 05/03/21 12:20 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

you pretend to be so mature but you cannot accept that some folks are more attracted to fatties. thats a fact and you can quote me.

i understand you are not one of those individuals that chases the chub, but you dont speak for all of us :cookiemonster:


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290609 - 05/03/21 12:26 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

you will stay single and sexless for as long as you remain thinking you know everything about human attraction and believing everyone should agree with your assumptions.

no matter how fit and athletic your body may be, your brain is pretty fucked.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290730 - 05/03/21 02:04 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
you pretend to be so mature but you cannot accept that some folks are more attracted to fatties. thats a fact and you can quote me.

i understand you are not one of those individuals that chases the chub, but you dont speak for all of us :cookiemonster:





You are equating "Some people like fatties" with me saying "Being fat lessens the playing field".


Be more specific with your interpretation of reality.


What percentage of people do you think are turned on by fat people? Its not very high. Its very very low.


Its the same exact thing as saying "Some people are attracted to people with no teeth".


Having no teeth would not be good for your dating capabilities.





Do you see what I am saying? Can you tell me your approximate guess for percentage of people who would be turned on more so by fitter people than by less fit people? Assuming personalities were the same.



I know its impossible to determine an exact percentage. But what would you guess?


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290735 - 05/03/21 02:07 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I agree that some people like fatties. It is obviously true that some people do.


Thats not my argument though.



Though I would say a percentage of those people who like fatties are doing so because they have accepted thats all they can get. Personally I'm cynical I would guess that percentage is above 50 percent. But I could potentially see how that number could be 30 percent.

But this isnt the argument though. I'm just stating everything in my head.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290753 - 05/03/21 02:21 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

youre arguing statistics but have failed to cite any actual data to support your own statements. furthermore, i couldnt care less about what the "general population" deems attractive. the general population is full of idiots and if you favor their opinion i would consider you an idiot as well :shrug:

i think its foolish to keep going back and forth on this because we obviously disagree. i would say we are both right, in our opinions.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290784 - 05/03/21 02:37 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
youre arguing statistics but have failed to cite any actual data to support your own statements. furthermore, i couldnt care less about what the "general population" deems attractive. the general population is full of idiots and if you favor their opinion i would consider you an idiot as well :shrug:

i think its foolish to keep going back and forth on this because we obviously disagree. i would say we are both right, in our opinions.





Well you can not care about the general population. Thats fine. But I am making guesses at what the general population would think. Not what you think.



I'm sorry if I've backed you into a corner. But god damnit I am not stating anything that controversial. Being fat will make it harder to pick up a partner in the general population.


You can argue that the general population is not smart. Or they are materialistic. Or judgemental. Or whatever. But it is definitely a hell of a lot easier to pick up a partner if you are fit vs if you are overweight.



I am not saying anything controversial. Its just plain to see by anyone.



Same with the makeup. Women put makeup on because they get noticed. People wear revealing clothes or tight fitting clothes because they get noticed.


Women dont NEED makeup. But if they put it on there will be more eyes on them when they go places.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290795 - 05/03/21 02:45 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Can I ask you this?


Have you ever argued with like.... a flat earther?


Someone who is most definitely wrong on what they are arguing about..... but they throw out all these reasons why they arent wrong.... and no matter how hard you try you cannot convince them otherwise? Like.... they have opinions that are absolutely laughable but you cant possibly get through to them?


Flat earthers are absolutely mind boggling. I had this one dude I talked to for like 2 hours that was CONVINCED that when you got on a plane to australia that it turns around half way through the flight and that australia doesnt exist.

He started explaining angles and degrees and had all these examples..... it is baffling.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290797 - 05/03/21 02:49 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:

it is definitely a hell of a lot easier to pick up a partner if you are fit vs if you are overweight.






okay? why are you stressing this? who gives a shit


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290828 - 05/03/21 03:08 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:


Have you ever argued with like.... a flat earther?




yea, its a lot like debating with you. you can tell them anything you want but they're only trying to hear what they want to hear, and as soon as you dismiss them they act like the victim claiming they're "just telling THE TRUTH!!!11"

same shit with you bub :shrug:


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27290899 - 05/03/21 04:01 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #20 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:


Have you ever argued with like.... a flat earther?




yea, its a lot like debating with you. you can tell them anything you want but they're only trying to hear what they want to hear, and as soon as you dismiss them they act like the victim claiming they're "just telling THE TRUTH!!!11"

same shit with you bub :shrug:




Arguments of personal taste equated with another argument nobody has proof of, well at least the flat earthers and the globe heads both have pictures to support their claims, what have we seen from #3 or anyone else to to support theirs?  Words on a screen, it's all we are, but is it all we will ever be?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27290901 - 05/03/21 04:04 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:

it is definitely a hell of a lot easier to pick up a partner if you are fit vs if you are overweight.






okay? why are you stressing this? who gives a shit





Why am I stressing that? That is the point I am making and have been making.

Thats what everyone is arguing with me over.


Are you saying you agree that it is easier to pick up a partner if you are fit vs if you are overweight? Assuming the personalities are the same? And that you are dealing with the general populace?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27290904 - 05/03/21 04:07 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #20 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:


Have you ever argued with like.... a flat earther?




yea, its a lot like debating with you. you can tell them anything you want but they're only trying to hear what they want to hear, and as soon as you dismiss them they act like the victim claiming they're "just telling THE TRUTH!!!11"

same shit with you bub :shrug:




Arguments of personal taste equated with another argument nobody has proof of, well at least the flat earthers and the globe heads both have pictures to support their claims, what have we seen from #3 or anyone else to to support theirs?  Words on a screen, it's all we are, but is it all we will ever be?





This guy right here by the way.... that is defending you guys and talking negatively of my views....

He literally believes that being fat is not unhealthy compared to losing the weight.


That is the side you guys are on right now. PURELY because I sound like an asshole.



Sounding like an asshole does not mean someone is wrong lol. I have defended many an asshole because their points were correct.




Like god damn. I feel like I should go to a public forum and argue something I dont agree with just to convince the world to do the opposite! Hahaha.


"RACISM ...... IS GOOD! Now let me explain why!"


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27290911 - 05/03/21 04:11 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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The definition of health isn’t variable, stupid




What is health to some is nonsense to others, pull your head out of your ass and wipe the poop crust from your eyes and you may be able to see others that are not cardboard cutouts of you....




Naw I think you are objectively wrong. It is not healthy to be overweight. Even by 10 pounds. The further over you are the less healthy you are. Its just science bud.





So who gets to determine what 10lbs overweight is? Your perfect weight is not my perfect weight. The problem with "medical science" is that you must concede a certain set of facts before you can even have a meaningful discussion on the topic....just like religion.

True science is scarce in the medical industry, in fact it is so scarce that they have needed to change the name of their industry to "Healthcare" instead of medical treatment. This is blatant indoctrination, and most people who argue otherwise are those that have been successfully indoctrinated.

Like any of those people really give a shit about anything but reaffirming their world view and obtaining more of whatever it is they believe has value. The medical industry is a for profit industry. You believing that there is a certain "healthy" weight for everyone that fits your own personal world view exemplifies your indoctrination in their schemes.





Look at this quote by #12 lol. He used quotes to define medical science.


Hes like..... "The problem with 'medical science' is...."



This the guy you got on your side right now lol. I dont know what else to say.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3] * 1
    #27290919 - 05/03/21 04:15 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Have you ever argued with like.... a flat earther?




yea, its a lot like debating with you. you can tell them anything you want but they're only trying to hear what they want to hear, and as soon as you dismiss them they act like the victim claiming they're "just telling THE TRUTH!!!11"

same shit with you bub :shrug:




Arguments of personal taste equated with another argument nobody has proof of, well at least the flat earthers and the globe heads both have pictures to support their claims, what have we seen from #3 or anyone else to to support theirs?  Words on a screen, it's all we are, but is it all we will ever be?





This guy right here by the way.... that is defending you guys and talking negatively of my views....

He literally believes that being fat is not unhealthy compared to losing the weight.


That is the side you guys are on right now. PURELY because I sound like an asshole.



Sounding like an asshole does not mean someone is wrong lol. I have defended many an asshole because their points were correct.




Like god damn. I feel like I should go to a public forum and argue something I dont agree with just to convince the world to do the opposite! Hahaha.


"RACISM ...... IS GOOD! Now let me explain why!"



what are you even going on about? I think you're taking this discussion just a little too seriously. maybe take a break from triple posting for a couple days.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27290924 - 05/03/21 04:16 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Triple posting means a lot to you doesnt it? Its a real indicator in your mind of the psyche of an individual.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290927 - 05/03/21 04:17 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I also notice a lot of flailing trying to insult me as a person.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290928 - 05/03/21 04:18 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Instead of making a point to the contrary of what I am saying and have been saying this whole thread.




Being fat lowers your chances of picking up partners in the general dating pool. Assuming personality is the same. And other factors such as having teeth or not having teeth.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290936 - 05/03/21 04:22 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

i already made my points :shrug: since the discussion has made zero progress, im just here to watch the entertainment unfold before me.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27290952 - 05/03/21 04:30 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #20 said:
i already made my points :shrug: since the discussion has made zero progress, im just here to watch the entertainment unfold before me.





The only two points youve made are:

"You're pretty confident with yourself pretending you know what people like and don't like. There's a whole wide world out there, filled with people whose views most certainly align with yours when it comes to the dating world. You're obviously pretty young but you're gonna find out soon.

Life isn't black and white. People are attracted to who they're attracted to, and fat isn't always a hindrance. THAT's the truth."


And that fat girls give better head.



So to confirm you say "fat isnt always a hindrance" that is in line with what my argument is. Its not always a hindrance. But it is a hindrance some of the time. I would argue if you are fat its a hindrance MOST of the time.


You hide behind the shield of not saying a rough estimate. Your statement "its not always a hindrance" is correct. But if you believe its very rarely a hindrance? Then thats just false.


Fat people are mocked by skinny people. Muscular bodies are envied. Fat bodies are not.


They arent mocked by ALL skinny people in the ENTIRE world. But they are mocked. Muscular bodies arent envied by ALL people in the entire world but they are envied. Fat bodies I'm sure there are a tiny sliver of the population who envy them but its unbelievably small.


To get fat in the hopes of getting more sex appeal is just madness. You lose weight to do it.







Also for the next 9 days during the hours of 9 AM to 9 PM American Central Standard time.... I'll be on here posting. Over and over and over. Come watch my doodles as I talk with the "flat earthers" about how being fat does in fact negatively impact your dating life.


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Anonymous #22

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290954 - 05/03/21 04:32 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Sir, the man has made his points. This case is rested.  :courtjudge:


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290956 - 05/03/21 04:34 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

And if that chat stops on this post I'll make another post reiterating my point and becoming the OP.



And if the chat stops there I'll find some other location on this forum to chat about.



I'll also be killing time refreshing ebay for some buys and sells I do for extra money. And youtubing. And "reading" audiobooks. And watching shit movies. And chatting on discord about stupid shit.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290961 - 05/03/21 04:36 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

And then I'll be off for 3 or 4 days. Maybe even just 2 days! And straight back into another 14 day swing!


9am to 9pm american central standard time. Quarantine security guard! Throwing that logic out and refusing to let anyone pretend logic doesnt reign supreme!


Conservatives? Liberals? Doesnt matter to me! Just speak logically or else! I'll get you! I'll come for you! I'll type endlessly! Mewahahahahahaha!!!


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290967 - 05/03/21 04:40 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

You cannot identify as a non human entity! You are still human!


Gender and Sex are the same thing!


Its okay to be gay!


Pigs must be killed or they will overpopulate the earth and destroy all our crops and starve the human race!


We should spend more money on technological innovation!


Getting off Earth to another planet / solar system should be one of our top if not our number 1 priority!


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290970 - 05/03/21 04:41 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Smoking is bad for you!

Playing video games is a waste of time!

Diet and exercise lead to a happier life!

Government regulation is a vital component to a thriving government / society!

Frequent sunburns can lead to cancer!


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27290977 - 05/03/21 04:47 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

i'll try it one more time. attractiveness entirely depends on people, and each person is different from another. fat is sometimes a hindrance because some people simply aren't attracted to fat, like you. however, sometimes fat isn't a factor in how a person determines if a person is attractive - whether they don't care about fat, or if the fat person has a rich personality.

so it is incorrect to objectively say fat is unattractive because attractiveness is entirely subjective.

now, get this. there are girls out there - and i've met them, and i've seen this for myself - some girls actually find muscle unattractive. I'm talking about a lot of muscle, like professional bodybuilder levels of muscle here - quite a few women actually find huge muscles repulsive. in some cases, muscle might actually be a hindrance to forming a relationship with certain people.

having said this, would it be correct for me to say muscle is unattractive? no, it wouldnt. that would be silly. because some people dig muscle. some people dig fat (trust me, the market is there), and some people don't care about either of these.

in my experience, having been fat, skinny, fat with muscle, and now skinny with a splash of muscle (my current state), the absolute biggest part that is attractive to other people is your personality. crazy, I know.

hopefully this post clarifies things, and that the point doesn't fly over your head like a fighter jet.

edit - jesus dude, another triple post. settle down :lol:
edit 2 - actually its a quadruple post. yikes bro, not a good look. LOL.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20] * 1
    #27291028 - 05/03/21 05:11 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Did I just read that humans will starve because there's too many pigs?

I'm vegetarian and even I'm like what


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #22]
    #27291038 - 05/03/21 05:18 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

anon 3 has truly gone fishing.. toys in the attic..



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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #27291074 - 05/03/21 05:37 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

wait until he's fishing for those big girls once he figures out what they're really about :naughty:


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27291412 - 05/03/21 01:08 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #20 said:
i'll try it one more time. attractiveness entirely depends on people, and each person is different from another. fat is sometimes a hindrance because some people simply aren't attracted to fat, like you. however, sometimes fat isn't a factor in how a person determines if a person is attractive - whether they don't care about fat, or if the fat person has a rich personality.

so it is incorrect to objectively say fat is unattractive because attractiveness is entirely subjective.

now, get this. there are girls out there - and i've met them, and i've seen this for myself - some girls actually find muscle unattractive. I'm talking about a lot of muscle, like professional bodybuilder levels of muscle here - quite a few women actually find huge muscles repulsive. in some cases, muscle might actually be a hindrance to forming a relationship with certain people.

having said this, would it be correct for me to say muscle is unattractive? no, it wouldnt. that would be silly. because some people dig muscle. some people dig fat (trust me, the market is there), and some people don't care about either of these.

in my experience, having been fat, skinny, fat with muscle, and now skinny with a splash of muscle (my current state), the absolute biggest part that is attractive to other people is your personality. crazy, I know.

hopefully this post clarifies things, and that the point doesn't fly over your head like a fighter jet.

edit - jesus dude, another triple post. settle down :lol:
edit 2 - actually its a quadruple post. yikes bro, not a good look. LOL.





Okay okay okay. You seem like you legitimately are interested in this conversation. Or at least willing to put forth an argument.


Now may I take what youve said and respond?


So you are saying that some people find muscle repulsive. Some people find fat repulsive. Some people find being short repulsive. Some people find being tall repulsive.

Those are all totally fine statements. I have never disagreed with them. I know that some people will be turned on by just about anything.


But that is not my point.


My point has been that being fat is vastly more detrimental to securing a relationship or a fuckbuddy than any of those other things youve mentioned.


Additionally when I say "has muscle" I dont mean they are a walking hulk. I mean their biceps are visible if male. Have a bit of tone on them. Look like a rock climber or something like that. An athlete.


Female by "not fat" I guess I mainly mean rolls on their stomach. Or flabby big thighs / arms. Probably mostly rolls on their stomach.


These are unattractive compared to not having them in the bulk of the general population.


This is assuming personality is exactly the same. You keep bringing up personality. Its irrelevant. We are assuming that the physical traits are the things that are changing not the personality.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #22]
    #27291418 - 05/03/21 01:13 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #22 said:
Did I just read that humans will starve because there's too many pigs?

I'm vegetarian and even I'm like what





Yeah each of the things I've said piss a group of people off. The pig one was targeted at vegans and lo' and behold a vegetarian shows up.

Yeah bud 100 percent we HAVE to kill pigs. They would take over the earth FAST as FUCK if we didnt kill them. They are fucking ferocious and relentless. They would destroy all the farm land and be roaming through major cities foraging in a matter of years if we suddenly never killed pigs.


Go look the information up. It'll really make you question your stance on not killing animals. Or at the very least pigs.



Whats even worse for you is that they kill thousands and thousands of these pigs and just leave the body to rot. Its just not feasible to carry the meat back because of how many they are killing.


Have you ever killed a pig before? Its a TON of meat. And eating pork every day gets old suuuuuper quick. I've killed one once. Never again.


Personally I eat everything that I kill. Thats the line of morality I draw.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291571 - 05/03/21 04:49 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

>Says you can't tell other people what to believe and to stop making assumptions

>rags on me for being a vegetarian even though I was just making an ironic statement about how I could eat pigs if it came down to it

You're just looking to argue with anyone about anything aren't you?
What a sad life you must live.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #22]
    #27291575 - 05/03/21 04:57 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #22 said:
>Says you can't tell other people what to believe and to stop making assumptions

>rags on me for being a vegetarian even though I was just making an ironic statement about how I could eat pigs if it came down to it

You're just looking to argue with anyone about anything aren't you?
What a sad life you must live.





Naw naw naw mate you misunderstand.


I was just stating things in a trolly fashion that came to mind as talking points I have had people argue with me about.


I am purely just not surprised a vegetarian has come to light that is bothered by my pig statement.



Personally I think we eventually as a human race will turn to veganism. I dont think we are going to do it in our lifetime though.


I also know that as a meat eater I am killing animals and eating them purely because they taste good. Which is wrong. I accept that as a wrong doing.


I have no qualms with a vegetarian. In fact my issue would be towards meat eaters who would refuse to kill an animal for their food but are totally fine with eating packaged red cubes from the supermarket.



Morally I rank a vegetarian at number 1, followed by a hunter at number 2, and in last place are meat eaters who would refuse to kill an animal.




All I'm doing is bringing to the light the pig epidemic for you. I'm curious what your thoughts on the pig subject are? Were you aware of the massive pig problem a lot of countries have? Such as America and Australia?


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3] * 1
    #27291588 - 05/03/21 05:04 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

your "trolly fashion" is what prevents you from having any real conversations here


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27291612 - 05/03/21 05:18 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
your "trolly fashion" is what prevents you from having any real conversations here




That is likely true my good sir.

Anon is my safespace. I just ramble and ramble. I need a place to let it all go ya know?


Have arguments. Make valid points. Debate. And randomly be weird just for the sake of being weird.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291635 - 05/03/21 05:35 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I never said I was bothered by your pig statement.

In fact, I said that there would be plenty of pigs to eat so no one would starve.

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
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Anonymous #4 said:
your "trolly fashion" is what prevents you from having any real conversations here




That is likely true my good sir.

Anon is my safespace. I just ramble and ramble. I need a place to let it all go ya know?


Have arguments. Make valid points. Debate. And randomly be weird just for the sake of being weird.




We should work more on the making valid points and debating part of all of this. And mindlessly trolling for the sake of getting a rise out of people to seemingly make yourself feel better somehow is hardly being "randomly weird for the sake of being weird". It really just looks sad.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #22]
    #27291700 - 05/03/21 06:20 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #22 said:
I never said I was bothered by your pig statement.

In fact, I said that there would be plenty of pigs to eat so no one would starve.

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
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Anonymous #4 said:
your "trolly fashion" is what prevents you from having any real conversations here




That is likely true my good sir.

Anon is my safespace. I just ramble and ramble. I need a place to let it all go ya know?


Have arguments. Make valid points. Debate. And randomly be weird just for the sake of being weird.




We should work more on the making valid points and debating part of all of this. And mindlessly trolling for the sake of getting a rise out of people to seemingly make yourself feel better somehow is hardly being "randomly weird for the sake of being weird". It really just looks sad.





Naw bro I'm not trying to get a rise out of people. I'm just being weird occasionally.


I have no interest at all in upsetting people. I dont get a thrill out of that.


But I guess its up to you to interpret me as a being who is like that since you cant believe just my words.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291721 - 05/03/21 06:33 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I love how you like to label yourself as weird.
The fact that you're trying to get people to interpret how they perceive you by labeling yourself as "weird" instead of some depressed troll.

The fact that you're so defensive and immediately give rebuttals that are so concerned with how people are interpreting your actions and the way you insecurely try to play it off like you're not obsessed with it by making statements such as "But I guess it's up to you to interpret me..." says a lot about the psychology of why you act this way.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #22]
    #27291756 - 05/03/21 06:54 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #22 said:
I love how you like to label yourself as weird.
The fact that you're trying to get people to interpret how they perceive you by labeling yourself as "weird" instead of some depressed troll.

The fact that you're so defensive and immediately give rebuttals that are so concerned with how people are interpreting your actions and the way you insecurely try to play it off like you're not obsessed with it by making statements such as "But I guess it's up to you to interpret me..." says a lot about the psychology of why you act this way.




Does it?


Do you reckon your want for me to be some how not normal is driving your analysis of me?


Not normal in such a way that I am "bad" in some definition of the word "bad". Such as trying to get a rise out of people. Or that I am so lonely depressed person with no life.


Isnt it a very common retort for people when faced with an online "battle" that people say "Hey you are just a lonely loser!"



Can we remove ourselves from the confines of this debate and not agree how common that analysis is of another person and how likely it is that its not true?



It would require more than a few hundred comments on a random post in an anonymous thread to define a persons psyche. I reckon.



But why am I on the medical table for dissection? What has made who I am relevant to any topics I speak of?

Ya know what I'm saying? It just feels lazy. Like a cop out.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #22]
    #27291760 - 05/03/21 06:56 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #22 said:
I love how you like to label yourself as weird.
The fact that you're trying to get people to interpret how they perceive you by labeling yourself as "weird" instead of some depressed troll.

The fact that you're so defensive and immediately give rebuttals that are so concerned with how people are interpreting your actions and the way you insecurely try to play it off like you're not obsessed with it by making statements such as "But I guess it's up to you to interpret me..." says a lot about the psychology of why you act this way.






Also a huge problem always plaguing us all.... is when I say "I'm weird because I post things." theres probably a few posts you think of that come to your mind that you think I am referring to. But its unlikely the posts that I was trying to be weird in.


The main one that comes to my mind is my reference of Dragon Ball Z for example. Thats a very weird reference to make to me. Its an anime cartoon that has been a standard planted in the ground saying "I am young" my whole life. But now I'm 30 and its not really "I am young" any more. Its beginning to mean "I am old."


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291761 - 05/03/21 06:57 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

And when I say "a huge problem plaguing us all" I mean the lack of preciseness in human communication.

People cannot perfectly convey their thoughts and other people cannot receive those thoughts perfectly as well. It allows for a disconnect between peoples.


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Anonymous #22

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291778 - 05/03/21 07:08 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I didn't read because your multiple posts are annoying.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291779 - 05/03/21 07:09 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

you said it yourself, yesterday. youre bored and looking for some stimulation. well thats all fine and dandy but it doesnt give you the right to be a dick. im not saying every post was that way, but a lot are. yes, its anonymous here. that means you dont reveal your identity. it doesnt mean you can say stupid shit and expect us to accept it because you are acting "weird". 

:zoneout:


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27291794 - 05/03/21 07:17 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
you said it yourself, yesterday. youre bored and looking for some stimulation. well thats all fine and dandy but it doesnt give you the right to be a dick. im not saying every post was that way, but a lot are. yes, its anonymous here. that means you dont reveal your identity. it doesnt mean you can say stupid shit and expect us to accept it because you are acting "weird". 

:zoneout:





I mean thats valid. But I dont think I was mean to people? Not intentionally or with that as the purpose of a comment.


What comes to mine as things I have said that could have been mean was when I was shocked people were thinking in such a way. Or that we have to first include "being fat is unhealthy" as a precursor to a convo.



I think if anything.... the calling of me as a depressed lonely person.... or someone who doesnt have sex.... or whatever else was said about me.... was the mean stuff. It seems like those were direct attempts to belittle me for no reason other than belittling.


And is that alright? Because I am the pariah here?




But yes I am quite bored and using this as a passtime while I work. I have an unbelievably boring task of 12 hours alone at a desk. My only job is to not let people in and not let people leave. But no one ever comes out or in so I literally do nothing. Lol. Its mind boggling how crazy this job is.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291799 - 05/03/21 07:19 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
And when I say "a huge problem plaguing us all" I mean the lack of preciseness in human communication.

People cannot perfectly convey their thoughts and other people cannot receive those thoughts perfectly as well. It allows for a disconnect between peoples.




:lolwut:

if english is your native language than it is perfectly understood.
you are not misunderstood, friend.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291800 - 05/03/21 07:20 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

But I dont get it. WHY does it matter who I am? Lol.


Ive only gotten here because I said losing weight will make your dating life easier.


And then refused to let people bully me into false logic. I truly believe that anyone who disagrees with that statement is living in a fairytale land. I cannot see how it is possible to think that that is not the case. It is made clear time and time again in every area of dating out there. I guess the only part its not made clear in is when a girl or a guy refuses a partner and doesnt clearly state "Its because youre fat." Because youd have to be a fucking monster to say that lol.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291801 - 05/03/21 07:20 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

your perception is not shared by everyone. just because you dont think your being mean, doesnt mean the person you are being mean to feels the same way. understand?


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #27291804 - 05/03/21 07:22 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
And when I say "a huge problem plaguing us all" I mean the lack of preciseness in human communication.

People cannot perfectly convey their thoughts and other people cannot receive those thoughts perfectly as well. It allows for a disconnect between peoples.




:lolwut:

if english is your native language than it is perfectly understood.
you are not misunderstood, friend.





Dude its totally not perfectly understood.


If I say "Its hard to get a job in America." People can interpret the word "hard" in a million ways for example.


And that kinda shit happens over and over and over in normal communication.



I reckon it would be very difficult to have an argument with someone if both people could perfectly explain their positions.


I wouldnt be surprised if we could end all arguments and just walk around nodding at each other with no conversation needed if we could all do that.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27291806 - 05/03/21 07:22 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

yes, i said mean things directed at you. i will own that.

you dont get a free pass because you didnt think your comments hurt anyone


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27291809 - 05/03/21 07:25 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
your perception is not shared by everyone. just because you dont think your being mean, doesnt mean the person you are being mean to feels the same way. understand?





I obviously know people think differently. That is not some incredible piece of wisdom that I am not aware of. The whole snowflake metaphor used a billion times.


But there are definitely some factually true statements at least within the scope of human capacity.

And I dont think hiding in the nuance of "what ifs" and things that happen a tiny percentage of the time helps in human discourse or in our advancement.

Generalizations can be useful tools!


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27291810 - 05/03/21 07:25 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
And when I say "a huge problem plaguing us all" I mean the lack of preciseness in human communication.

People cannot perfectly convey their thoughts and other people cannot receive those thoughts perfectly as well. It allows for a disconnect between peoples.




:lolwut:

if english is your native language than it is perfectly understood.
you are not misunderstood, friend.





Dude its totally not perfectly understood.


If I say "Its hard to get a job in America." People can interpret the word "hard" in a million ways for example.


And that kinda shit happens over and over and over in normal communication.



I reckon it would be very difficult to have an argument with someone if both people could perfectly explain their positions.


I wouldnt be surprised if we could end all arguments and just walk around nodding at each other with no conversation needed if we could all do that.





and thats another thing.. i guess it is hard to "understand" you when you are constantly going of on tangents of random, speculative thoughts.

its exhausting


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27291892 - 05/03/21 08:13 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
And when I say "a huge problem plaguing us all" I mean the lack of preciseness in human communication.

People cannot perfectly convey their thoughts and other people cannot receive those thoughts perfectly as well. It allows for a disconnect between peoples.




:lolwut:

if english is your native language than it is perfectly understood.
you are not misunderstood, friend.





Dude its totally not perfectly understood.


If I say "Its hard to get a job in America." People can interpret the word "hard" in a million ways for example.


And that kinda shit happens over and over and over in normal communication.



I reckon it would be very difficult to have an argument with someone if both people could perfectly explain their positions.


I wouldnt be surprised if we could end all arguments and just walk around nodding at each other with no conversation needed if we could all do that.





and thats another thing.. i guess it is hard to "understand" you when you are constantly going of on tangents of random, speculative thoughts.

its exhausting





Yeah I feel that brother. I'm sure I'm not joy to read.


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Anonymous #22

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292136 - 05/03/21 11:05 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

What's funny is I don't even disagree with some of the things you were saying. I just thought the statement about starving with millions of pigs roaming the streets was funny and then you started trying to attack vegans and vegetarians out of nowhere. And that kind of unnecessary arguing and confrontation is the baseline of why you're having such a difficult time communicating and getting your main points across.

Just my two cents but I'm not saying it's accurate either. I don't know you.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #22]
    #27292150 - 05/03/21 11:10 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #22 said:
What's funny is I don't even disagree with some of the things you were saying. I just thought the statement about starving with millions of pigs roaming the streets was funny and then you started trying to attack vegans and vegetarians out of nowhere. And that kind of unnecessary arguing and confrontation is the baseline of why you're having such a difficult time communicating and getting your main points across.

Just my two cents but I'm not saying it's accurate either. I don't know you.





Some pretty valid thinking there. Sounds like youre trying to be accurate. I dig it.


I will say though I'm not attacking vegans. I got no issue with em. I just think its an interesting thought experiment for a vegan to realize that pigs need to be killed in order for the human race to thrive. Life would be extremely difficult for humans if we stopped killing animals.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292176 - 05/03/21 11:25 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #3 said:
I think its an interesting thought experiment for a vegan to realize that pigs need to be killed in order for the human race to thrive.




please, in your own words, explain how this is true. no youtube links

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Life would be extremely difficult for humans if we stopped killing animals.




im interested to hear how this is possible. please, in your own words.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27292212 - 05/03/21 11:47 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
I think its an interesting thought experiment for a vegan to realize that pigs need to be killed in order for the human race to thrive.




please, in your own words, explain how this is true. no youtube links

Quote:

Life would be extremely difficult for humans if we stopped killing animals.




im interested to hear how this is possible. please, in your own words.





Hmm? They breed very quickly. And they destroy everything they touch. Stuff doesnt regrow easily after they forage it. They go around in massive packs and clear-out huge swaths of land.

If left to themselves they'd just keep increasing in numbers. They are pretty much held back through culling.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292221 - 05/03/21 11:51 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

And theres other animals that need to be killed. For example in South Texas you have a massive deer population. They are responsible for the deaths of many drivers. They also cause problems with farmland because they forage as well.

If they arent killed through hunting seasons they too would cause serious problems to human life.




The problem is natural predators arent around anymore in the numbers they used to be at. Humans have removed them for the most part. So theres not enough things killing these wild animals.


Plus I would imagine humans not hunting very often is a problem as well. I wonder what kind of numbers humans killed animals in before modern civilization. Of course there was less human population back then so it could be more hunting done nowadays.



Either way... theres too many pigs and too many deer. Lots of animals theres too many of.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292235 - 05/03/21 11:58 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Personally I believe that if humans stopped killing all wildlife.... pigs would conquer any country without a land predator. Australia for example would be nothing but pigs and crocodiles. And then all the pigs would die out as the food sources ran out. And then the crocodiles? Or maybe they'd eat fish.


In countries with a land predator the pigs would increase in size and so too would the land predators. The land predators would increase in size enough to hold back the growth of pigs and probably allow for a balance in the ecosystem. But man the amount of land predators needed to fix that pig imbalance would be NUTS. There'd be fucking mountain lions everywhere.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292246 - 05/04/21 12:02 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

And when I say "increase in size" I mean the numbers would increase. Not the physical bodies of the animals.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292323 - 05/04/21 12:45 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

okay i see. now can you tell us how youve reached this conclusion? which studies are you referencing that led you to believe this to be true?


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27292329 - 05/04/21 12:47 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

also, what type of college degree do you posses?


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27292395 - 05/04/21 01:30 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
okay i see. now can you tell us how youve reached this conclusion? which studies are you referencing that led you to believe this to be true?





I dunno this is just odd to me that youre replying like this.


Governments around the world pay people to kill wildlife. Especially pigs.


https://www.si.com/sports-illustrated/2020/01/30/feral-pigs-problem-texas-helicopters

Heres just a link from earlier this year. Dunno what you need to prove something like this.
Does the government paying people to do it count as enough proof? Lol.


I've known about this for a while but I worked in a remote area in an at-risk community with lots of violence and shit. Anyways.... there was a dude there I got to know who was paid by the government there to fly around in a helicopter and kill pigs. That was his full time job.

He was a terrible shot too lol. They dont learn how to use guns there so him having guns was unique. We had some shooting contests and I'll tell ya.... I have no idea how he manages to hit a pig from a helicopter.



Why the college question?


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292629 - 05/04/21 03:30 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

did you read that SI article, or no?

humans are soley responsible for the increasing feral hog population in north america.

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Anonymous #3 said:
I think its an interesting thought experiment for a vegan to realize that pigs need to be killed in order for the human race to thrive.




nowhere in that article does it say pigs threaten the human race. they are pests. at best, expesive pests. expensive because they can disrupt commercial agriculture.

Quote:


Stuff doesnt regrow easily after they forage it. They go around in massive packs and clear-out huge swaths of land.




this is just simply not true. show me the evidence? they can cause financial loss to commercial farms. they dont clear out huge swaths of land.

point to a time in modern history where the food-supply chain was disrupted by massive packs of wild pigs.


again, this pig population explosion occurs in north america & australia mostly and was the result of europeans importing pigs to these continents. the pigs themselves were never a threat to anyone until humans disrupted the natural balance of nature.


Quote:

If left to themselves they'd just keep increasing in numbers. They are pretty much held back through culling.




wrong. if left to themselves this whole situation would never have manifested.

humans created the problem.


please provide links to confirm other countries governments have feral pig eradication programs.

as far as your inside source from the funny farm, it doesnt sound credible.


Edited by Anonymous (05/04/21 03:54 AM)


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292681 - 05/04/21 03:57 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
okay i see. now can you tell us how youve reached this conclusion? which studies are you referencing that led you to believe this to be true?





I dunno this is just odd to me that youre replying like this.




odd, why? because i seek the facts?


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27292712 - 05/04/21 04:08 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

You dont believe my story? Interesting.

I didnt read that article I just googled it and linked a website to you.


It does happen.



And youre saying pigs are an invasive species brought their by europeans but also saying they dont cause any problems that arent to commercial farms?


You clearly just dont know anything about pigs bro.

You are wanting your belief system to be correct and trying to find out why its correct. That is not how a scientist thinks. Dont you agree?



The food chain will never be interrupted by a bunch of pigs because we kill them.

We are the alpha. And if they cause a hint of a problem they are killed. Either by a farmer, a hunter, or the government. Depending on how far they get.



And how about the deer in south texas? The government specifically sets up hunting seasons based off the population of deer. Did you know theres a MASSIVE car repair place down there somewhere that primarily fixes deer accident vehicles?



I think you not believing my personal stories is a problem for this conversation. There is definitely a dude who has a whole little enterprise setup shooting pigs from a helicopter. I talked with the guy. Shot cans with him. Youd have to believe I'm full of shit to disagree with me lol.




Theres also a species of frog in aus that needs to be killed. Tons and tons and tons of examples. A lot of them are invasive species. A few of them are non man related invasive but admittedly most are man related.


But whether its man caused problems or not.... its still a problem we have to deal with now. Pigs and deer and shit need to be killed.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27292724 - 05/04/21 04:13 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Just so you know sasquatch has been documented by the FBI as sighted in Ohio. Do your own research.


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Anonymous #22

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292726 - 05/04/21 04:14 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

For the love of god people there's a fucking edit button if you need to add shit to your post. No one wants to scroll through your name 4 fucking times in a row to get to the next person's post.  :astonishedmustache:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27292733 - 05/04/21 04:16 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

And yeah pigs are a pest. They cause tons and tons of damage. They do impact the commercial farming industry and that is how we feed ourselves.

But ask yourself this: What would happen if we werent killing them at all? Dont you see how the problems would get worse?


We kill a fuuuuuuckload of pigs bro. Id love to see the number on how many pigs humans kill a year and leave to rot on the ground. I bet its a fucking huuuuuuuuge number.

Imagine if they all stopped being shot and continued to breed and move into human territory? Imagine if we just let them tear through commercial farms?

What is your solution? put them in crates and ship them far away? Where would they go? Why wouldnt they be able to come back? And how fucking much would it cost to trap that many pigs and ship them?


Have you ever seen a wild pig? They are fucking outrageous animals. They'd kill the fuck out of you if you didnt have a gun. A smart hunter could take one with a knife. Maybe a super smart one could find some other way. Personally I wouldnt go near one without a gun.


They are fucking huge. Mean. Aggressive. And insatiable! Every waking moment of their life is the search for food.


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27293129 - 05/04/21 06:55 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

holy shit this thread blew up. I was only gone for a day.

You need to make a friend, mate


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27293644 - 05/04/21 06:48 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Another piece of the puzzle though is the lack of natural predators throughout the world.

Humans kicked their asses. So now the prey thrive.


What would you do? Help bring back predator population in human populated areas? That would lead to children's deaths. Adults too but most children.
Fucking mountain lions picking up 8 year olds waiting for school lol.


And how about the WAY these prey animals die if we had natural predators come back in numbers? Its a horrible fucking way to die lol. A fucking lion eating you while you're still alive. Taking pieces off the deer.



There's a lot of things to consider ya know?



Also I reckon removing mankind from the nature thing is strange. Its basically saying we don't have a right to exist. Lol. You could always say that whatever area we are inhabiting and no matter how a part of nature we try to be.... We are probably impacting the ecosystem. Even if there's just one of us.


And there's billions of us cunts.

At some point we gotta just agree that human life is worth more than all these peasant animals who would kill us if they had the chance. The goal should be maintaining a quality ecosystem that can thrive and benefit us.

Honestly not even that. The goal should be maintaining the existence of the human race. Make sure we get off the planet. Go to other solar systems. Continue to thrive and innovate. If that includes keeping the earth healthy (which I think it does) then we should keep the earth healthy.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27295515 - 05/05/21 10:18 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)




PLEASE READ


this was published today. thoughts?


average BMI score does not equate a person to having a clean bill of health.

lets agree to one thing: common sense opinion is that an unhealthy looking person is less attractive than a healthy looking person.

what we disagree on: being slightly to marginally overweight hinders on a persons chances to be involved in romantic exchanges.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27295585 - 05/05/21 11:09 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

My thoughts on that is that I'm not subscribed to washington post so I cant read it lol.

But BMI is a terrible standard. A muscular person would have a bad rank on a BMI for example.


But I dont think theres science out there that believes being fat is healthy. I think fat being on your body is unhealthy.



You say we agree on an unhealthy looking person is less attractive than a healthy looking person but I reckon a lot of people here in this thread disagree with that. I obviously agree lol.


Disagreeing on slightly overweight? I dont know. What is your interpretation of slightly overweight? I think visible hanging fat is less attractive than not having it. I think the skin stretching to compensate for fat is less attractive.


I dont think 5 pounds of extra weight is very perceptible. More if they are a taller person or more muscular person.


I dont know where in between 1 pound overweight and 50 pounds overweight a person starts becoming less attractive.



All I know is I see a lot of heavily overweight people being told "Youre beautiful the way you are." Thats cool and all. Theres nothing wrong with that person. But if the goal is to find a dating partner then losing weight is a beneficial route for them. Its not required. But it is helpful. And also if they want to live longer.



I feel like a lot of the arguments on here are similar to someone who smoked for 40 years a pack a day and didnt get lung cancer saying "I didnt get lung cancer so smoking is fine."


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27295610 - 05/05/21 11:30 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

so your qualms are with this new pro-support culture that helps to boost the self-esteem of folks that would have otherwise been regularly ridiculed in the past for being "fat".

now, today, we see it all over:
youre beautiful the way you are.
dont change for others, be yourself.
fat is beautiful
blah blah blah


you say dont be fat because in general youll have more dates and live longer. sure, but thats not everyones goal. not every overweight person wishes they had a different body. some are happy the way they are and have the love and support of friends and family for the whole of their life, be it long or short.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27295627 - 05/05/21 11:42 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Well I think my statement and argument is that they would live longer and have more dates.

So its irrelevant what they want out of life. Or even if some people are super turned on by really fat people.

The statement remains correct. Ya know?



I think the pro-support culture as you call it has some pretty significant negative effects. We wouldn't do the same thing with an alcoholic for example.

And as a fat person who has lost weight.... (and I hate to bring myself in as anecdotal evidence) you just FEEL better when youre healthy. No weird digestive issues. Acid reflux. Correct diet and exercise literally makes you happier.



Theres a balance. You dont want fat people terrified to go outside because the second they open the doors theres some government paid guy yelling at them for being a fat piece of shit.

But you also dont want a heavily overweight person who just had a heart attack to be shovelling mcdonalds and ice cream in their mouth and people all around saying "Goodjob!".



I think a good friend. A true friend. Would have a heart to heart with their fat friend and give advice. And then periodically in the future give advice too. Unless the fat person said "I am choosing to be this way. Living less long is cool. I like food." Or something along those lines.

People are allowed to be fat. Just dont tell them its healthy. Or they wouldnt have a better life in a lot of ways if they became healthy.


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Anonymous #21

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27295651 - 05/06/21 12:03 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

The point of body positivity is to say that everyone is deserving of love and respect. Some nit-wits may construe that to mean that being fat is healthy, but nit-wits gonna nit-wit.

The second half of it is to get people to love themselves. Idea being, if you love yourself, you might be more motivated to take care of yourself.

Some folks get motivated by hating themselves and their body and become determined to change, other folks think 'im a piece of shit, why bother'... Man, motivation is a tough one.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27295697 - 05/06/21 12:30 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #21 said:
The point of body positivity is to say that everyone is deserving of love and respect. Some nit-wits may construe that to mean that being fat is healthy, but nit-wits gonna nit-wit.

The second half of it is to get people to love themselves. Idea being, if you love yourself, you might be more motivated to take care of yourself.

Some folks get motivated by hating themselves and their body and become determined to change, other folks think 'im a piece of shit, why bother'... Man, motivation is a tough one.




It definitely goes both ways. A feel out of the individual would help. I'm SURE some people have killed themselves from being called fat. Or even from a caring friend trying to give advice on losing weight.

Just as I'm sure some people have killed themselves as a result of nurturing behaviour that did not assist in giving the person motivation to lose weight. Perhaps leading to issues in their life leading to their suicide.



And suicide aside.... just general happiness in life. Quality of life. I'm sure it goes both ways probably even both ways for the same people.





A bit of a tangent I am thinking of.

Ive had people slight me in the world world. People of other ethnic backgrounds than myself. They cheated me some how. And when I've told a coworker with my ethic background they immediately go to "Yeah thats how so and so race is. They do that."

And my response isnt this typical love and nurture response of "Oh man thats racist. Dont mock an entire culture like that."
My response is "No fuck that. Dont give him that easy out. He as an individual is a piece of shit for what hes done. THAT guy is a loser." Or whatever way you want to word it.



Thats kind of how I interact I think.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27296163 - 05/06/21 05:25 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

U need a buddy, a hobby, or a girlfriend, preferably all 3
:douchewink:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27296806 - 05/06/21 06:39 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

What are your thoughts on the piggies?


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27296810 - 05/06/21 06:43 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)



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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27296829 - 05/06/21 07:04 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous #4 said:





Get out of my head.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27297340 - 05/07/21 02:20 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I just wanna know. Where is Anon 1? And how can we get him in here on this action?


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Anonymous #20

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3] * 2
    #27298044 - 05/07/21 12:34 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

anon 1, like many anon 1's before him, abandoned the thread before it turned into greatness. he will never know of the words exchanged that would shape the future of humanity. he is busy with his small life, destined to live a life ignorant to his own creation. it only happens too often in this seedy underbelly part of the website.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20] * 1
    #27298102 - 05/07/21 02:41 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I like to imagine hes going on planting more seeds. He doesnt need to know of what trees grow in his wake. Doesnt ever need to spend time in the shade of his creation. Hes just out there.... helping us all become stronger and better people.

God bless anon 1.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27299371 - 05/08/21 06:47 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
What are your thoughts on the piggies?




I need three little piggies to make a piggy pie.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27299855 - 05/08/21 05:29 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

i might choose a gun (no!)

i might choose an axe (yes!)


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27301716 - 05/09/21 11:54 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Did you look up the pig problem? Whats your thoughts on it?


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Anonymous #12

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27301837 - 05/10/21 01:34 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Did you look up the pig problem? Whats your thoughts on it?




My thoughts are that you should make your own thread about it and let this one die an honest death.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27301848 - 05/10/21 01:45 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Did you look up the pig problem? Whats your thoughts on it?




My thoughts are that you should make your own thread about it and let this one die an honest death.





I dunno if I can let that happen. I just got scheduled more days. I'm working the next 14 days in a row. Ive had one day off in the last 3 weeks.


But I was on non-laptop using roles. Soon my love. Soon.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3] * 1
    #27317323 - 05/21/21 06:24 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

All of you... thank you SO MUCH for your input!!

This is of great value to me!

God bless YOU ALL!


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Anonymous #23

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27320238 - 05/24/21 01:45 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Just be yourself.  There's no wrong or right thing here bro.  Just treat people with respect and you'll eventually find someone you might consider longer term than this. 


And....Tinder bro, what did you expect. Tinder girls are questionable to begin with.


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Anonymous #8

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27320478 - 05/24/21 05:06 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

Ive come to the stark conclusion that big girls are not for me. Gotta be petite or "average" weight. Sorry big gals. I cannot.


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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #8] * 1
    #27321108 - 05/24/21 08:30 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

send the fatties to me. i will love on them


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Anonymous #9

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27321281 - 05/24/21 11:24 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

I have a girlfriend with big titties and is nice and thin and white, I'm extremely racist


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