Anonymous #1 said:

Hows this for a smooth line?

We chat about music, and then I remark on how similar we are, but then I say "Wow I wish you werent so attractive so I could have a shot with you. lol"

Eh?

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Anonymous #21 said:

Just take her out for some fun and when you drop her off, look her in the eyes and tell her shes so beautiful and you would love to give her a kiss good night. Thats how i got my g/f and she already had a loser guy. i stole her right from him and we have been going steady for 6 years now. we have acondo together and are happy as can be.

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Anonymous #22 said:

Anonymous #21 said:

Just take her out for some fun and when you drop her off, look her in the eyes and tell her shes so beautiful and you would love to give her a kiss good night. Thats how i got my g/f and she already had a loser guy. i stole her right from him and we have been going steady for 6 years now. we have acondo together and are happy as can be.

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Do not tell her she is beautiful.  This is not good advice.  Play hard to get.

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Anonymous #22 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

Hows this for a smooth line?

We chat about music, and then I remark on how similar we are, but then I say "Wow I wish you werent so attractive so I could have a shot with you. lol"

Eh?

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Do not say this.  This would show her you have no confidence, and girls don't want to date guys with no confidence.  Do not tell her she is attractive; in fact, say nothing nice about her.  If you know how to flirt, do this, but act aloof and generally uninterested.

When asking her on a date, say something like "If you're lucky, maybe I'll take you to the movies" or something along those lines.  This will indicate that your not desperate, and that you have control of the situation.  If she's used to guys fawning over her, this will be a nice surprise and a challenge.

Again, don't compliment her, and don't put yourself down.

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Anonymous #16 said:

Anonymous #22 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

Hows this for a smooth line?

We chat about music, and then I remark on how similar we are, but then I say "Wow I wish you werent so attractive so I could have a shot with you. lol"

Eh?

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Do not say this.  This would show her you have no confidence, and girls don't want to date guys with no confidence.  Do not tell her she is attractive; in fact, say nothing nice about her.  If you know how to flirt, do this, but act aloof and generally uninterested.

When asking her on a date, say something like "If you're lucky, maybe I'll take you to the movies" or something along those lines.  This will indicate that your not desperate, and that you have control of the situation.  If she's used to guys fawning over her, this will be a nice surprise and a challenge.

Again, don't compliment her, and don't put yourself down.

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There's nothing wrong with complimenting girls. I do it to my girlfriend all the time, and she's yet to get tired of it.

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Anonymous #15 said:

I think complimenting works best when its sincere and when you're complimenting someone you have an established relationship with.
If you compliment some random woman she probably won't take it as well, because to her it's just another come-on. unless its really sincere, then it may work.
Anyway, you've known this girl for a while so it won't be wierd or bad if you compliment her.

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well put

Anonymous #13 said:

you are what you eat

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Anonymous #21 said:

Anonymous #13 said:

you are what you eat

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?? you ok there man?

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Anonymous #15 said:

Anonymous #21 said:

Anonymous #13 said:

you are what you eat

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?? you ok there man?

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he was making a joke in reference to the thread title.

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Anonymous #1 said:

Haha wow I cant believe this thread is still active. Well long story short, progress was made. I was at a college visit with the dude who is in love with her, and he recently decided to give it up since it was really getting awkward. We were going to hang out with me, him, and two other guy friends (one of who was the one that tried to get with her but failed) and a few of her/our friends who are girls. So he is too embaressed to call her, so I get her number from him (score), and start talking to her, we talked off an on for like 3 hours (texting of course), until she learns the other guy (the one that tried to get with her) couldnt go. So that kind of pissed me off, not her supposed attraction to him, but that she just basically lied to me and implied that me and the other two kids werent interesting enough to hang out with (go golfing, lame I know). So I flew into a fury. I called her on what she was doing and that I was really mad that I lost what could have been a good friend, ect ect. I basically said never talk to me again. So anyway, after awhile of her denying that she has feelings for my friend, she said the reason that she basically lied is she still thinks my other friend would confess his love, but unbeknown to her, he gave up. So I apologized profusely, and she forgave me really quickly. I said I feel like shit and I cant believe I got it all wrong. She responds with "Youre a strange boy", to which I responded, I know... lol. So we just kept sending dumb texts back and forth, and after awhile I felt she was getting bored or had something else to do, so I said that I didnt want to keep her and to have a good night, which she sadly responded that "she had nothing better to do, but whatever". I think that was a mistake to try to get off the phone with her. So apparently were doing something later tomorrow, which Im excited for.

Also, the day before today, I arrived at a grad party nonchalantly on my sport bike, and I "didnt" know she was there... She seemed pretty impressed. She wanted a ride so I gave her my helmet and OMG her snug grip on my waist felt so great. She was nervous so I calmly talked her through it on what to do and gave her some complements when she did a good lean or anything. I kept it slow and kept checking with her.

Im really happy, I think I did a good job.

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do i see obsessive, controlling, geeked out boyfriend material?

Anonymous #1 said:

Haha wow I cant believe this thread is still active. Well long story short, progress was made. I was at a college visit with the dude who is in love with her, and he recently decided to give it up since it was really getting awkward. We were going to hang out with me, him, and two other guy friends (one of who was the one that tried to get with her but failed) and a few of her/our friends who are girls. So he is too embaressed to call her, so I get her number from him (score), and start talking to her, we talked off an on for like 3 hours (texting of course), until she learns the other guy (the one that tried to get with her) couldnt go. So that kind of pissed me off, not her supposed attraction to him, but that she just basically lied to me and implied that me and the other two kids werent interesting enough to hang out with (go golfing, lame I know). So I flew into a fury. I called her on what she was doing and that I was really mad that I lost what could have been a good friend, ect ect. I basically said never talk to me again. So anyway, after awhile of her denying that she has feelings for my friend, she said the reason that she basically lied is she still thinks my other friend would confess his love, but unbeknown to her, he gave up. So I apologized profusely, and she forgave me really quickly. I said I feel like shit and I cant believe I got it all wrong. She responds with "Youre a strange boy", to which I responded, I know... lol. So we just kept sending dumb texts back and forth, and after awhile I felt she was getting bored or had something else to do, so I said that I didnt want to keep her and to have a good night, which she sadly responded that "she had nothing better to do, but whatever". I think that was a mistake to try to get off the phone with her. So apparently were doing something later tomorrow, which Im excited for.

Also, the day before today, I arrived at a grad party nonchalantly on my sport bike, and I "didnt" know she was there... She seemed pretty impressed. She wanted a ride so I gave her my helmet and OMG her snug grip on my waist felt so great. She was nervous so I calmly talked her through it on what to do and gave her some complements when she did a good lean or anything. I kept it slow and kept checking with her.

Im really happy, I think I did a good job.

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