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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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looks dont matter as much to girls as they do to guys
she already said that you have the perfect personality for a guy
that means you should go for it

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Update, went out with my friends tonight, and they both were saying that she was definitely flirting with me, which was weird because I really didnt pick up on anything. It may just be them messing with me, but in a week or so we are going to go golfing or bowling with the girls, and hopefully something will happen...

Well see, I had an extreme rush of euphoria when I was told that, so lets hope it actually is true.


:thumbup::thumbup::thumbup:

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Anonymous #6 said:
#1, you sound like an insecure and self centered coward. You are a mess man! Read your posts for God's sake. I'm not flaming you here. I was feeling where you were coming from at first, but after you talked more and more, the REAL issues began to shine through. You need to wake up dude, and I mean this in a kind way.

It's either that, or you are awful at putting down how you really feel on the interwebz.

Go read what you've written and get over yourself!!!!


Yeah. Look, I don't know what advice to offer you, but the above is right. The problem is you. You don't have the honesty to go up to her and say you love her. Clearly you do, otherwise you wouln't be fretting so much.

So go tell it to her. "Hey, I love you, that's why I was acting so weird." If she runs to you and embraces you, great. If she blows chunks, it wasn't meant to be.

There's been girls I wish I could have had, and heartbreaking as it is to be rejected by the object of ones desires, I've always seen it as their loss.

That's worked for me, as I now have a girl who I love deeply, and she loves me in kind.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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why do i feel like i've read this before??

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Im not really into that stuff. Like I said, I can TALK to her fine, but I dont want to let my guard down and even give a hint that im interested for fear of rejection and embarrassment.



There's your problem right there. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. Just do it. Have the balls to be honest and sincerely tell her your feelings for her. Honesty is an attractive virtue.

You can then go on to explain that yes, you were aprehensive about admitting your true feelings to her. You didn't want to upset your friend (although, this is not your decision, it's up to her who she wants to be with, so you can't make that for her) and you feared rejection.

It's either that, or you'll wonder "what if?" for the rest of your life. You do not want to be one of those cunts that sighs and wonders "what if?"

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #16]
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Yea, something is definitely bound to happen next week, I think we are all going to do something on Thursday and hopefully I can get more of a green light.

Im not going to just say I love her, thats kind of creepy since we never really talked before the past few times weve hung out, Ill just try to ease into it. Ill keep you guys updated, whoever cares.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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DSHSB

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Yea, something is definitely bound to happen next week, I think we are all going to do something on Thursday and hopefully I can get more of a green light.

Im not going to just say I love her, thats kind of creepy since we never really talked before the past few times weve hung out, Ill just try to ease into it. Ill keep you guys updated, whoever cares.


Then find a euphanism. "Hey, I don't love you, but I totally do. You want to hang out together alone?"

Something! It's not creepy to be honest with people. Unless the honesty is cutting, but in my world, people would be honest no matter what. It'd be a simpler world.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #16]
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dont sya you like her unless she says it first unless she like likes you then you need to buy a new sheild but don't get the wooden ones the fire bats crave wood to nest on, it's the things they can't have that they ever so desire.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #13]
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waddle waddle

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #17]
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nom nom nom nom shield eater my ASSS!!?!

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #13]
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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #17]
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Hows this for a smooth line?

We chat about music, and then I remark on how similar we are, but then I say "Wow I wish you werent so attractive so I could have a shot with you. lol"

Eh?

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Hows this for a smooth line?

We chat about music, and then I remark on how similar we are, but then I say "Wow I wish you werent so attractive so I could have a shot with you. lol"

Eh?


Eh, close enough.

She'll either think you're cute in an awkward way, and realise you're shy around her, or is too dense to get it and will think you're weird. Which you are, but that's besides the point. Weird people deserve love to.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #16]
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I am weird.

That is a little too forward.

I guess Ill just get really get baked before we go minigolfing and hope im as funny as I can be.

Personality is really my only weapon, I kinda suck in the looks unless she is attracted to people who dress like her.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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It's okay, as long as you know you're a lonely pussy.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Yea, something is definitely bound to happen next week, I think we are all going to do something on Thursday and hopefully I can get more of a green light.

Im not going to just say I love her, thats kind of creepy since we never really talked before the past few times weve hung out, Ill just try to ease into it. Ill keep you guys updated, whoever cares.


Ask her if she'd like to do something with you, even just meet up for coffee or something. You don't need to profess an all-revealed version of your feelings to her, those will show in the little things along the way. Getting into a relationship isn't an all-on vs all-off thing. The situation after the moment of securing a hook up with her should be like the situation the moment before, +1. It grows gradually, and if you dump your inner thoughts out there all at once, you'll likely find yourself at a loss of what to do next.

Saying that you love her would definitely be an example of dumping waaaaay (+ a few more "aaaa"s) too much. Tone your feeling of a need to perform down extremely. It takes about as much effort as it does to hang out and talk with a regular buddy. That's pretty much all that's expected.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Dude I think you need to chill out a little.  Sounds like you are obsessing over this girl too much.  You gotta have a little restraint and avoid making it obvious you are super into her.  Play it cool!  It's nice that you are hyped to hang with this chick but don't scare her off.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #11]
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#16 is giving horrible advice. Professing your love to her? Yeah great idea. Then 16 goes on to say that she's going to think you're weird if you say "Wow I wish you werent so attractive so I could have a shot with you." :nonono:

I thought your line was very decent. Try to think of ways she may respond if you said it. She may not like being put on the spot like that, but it's a good way to gauge how she feels towards you.

#19's advice was excellent. Play it cool and treat her like any other person you enjoy being around. Let us know how it goes broseph.

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Re: Im such a pussy... [Re: Anonymous #20]
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And mostly stop being such a pussy. Talking to a girl isn't gonna kill you... unless by talking you mean fucking and she has AIDS.

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