Anonymous #10 said:

But you want to.

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Anonymous #6 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

Because she was abused alot in her life. Pretty much everyone she ever involved herself with has either raped or molested her, or neglected her for drugs.

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Are the "trophies" you find online of the same caliber and class?

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Anonymous #7 said:

Anonymous #8 said:

See, you aren't the one talking these girls into anything. They're sitting there, needing attention from a male, and you sit there, running your BS, giving them what they need, and then they give you what you need, which is an illusion.

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I think this paragraph rings true. We don't seek pleasure in this life, we seek happiness. Pleasure is the illusion of happiness.

The fact too that you're asking us about it, there is something deep down inside disturbing you about this, a sign that I would take that something isn't right here. So you have to figure out what that is.

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Anonymous #6 said:

So basically troll the internet, looking for girls who were molested, abused, addicts, etc.  Then get them to show you their tits, then fall asleep next to your abused, molested, etc. wife...

And this is what fuels your ego and makes you think you are gods gift to women?

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Anonymous #7 said:

This isn't a question whether you should have the right to do this or not. That's a given, you have the individual freedom to do what you like. This isn't a question whether it's creepy or not either.

If you are worried about hurting your wife and kids feelings and respect, than the question is, what is more important?

1. Your family's feelings and respect?
2. Chatting the girls up for a show?

If you care for your family's respect, than your life could and should go without chatting. You have two paths to choose and a big part of life is choosing which fork you should continue down as your path.

How important is chatting to you? Do you need to do it or do you want to do it?

Do you love your wife? Do you love your marriage? Do you love your kid? Do you love chatting strangers?

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Anonymous #1 said:

Its the use of my wits to get them to do what I want. Its the hunt.

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Thank you for taking this serious.
I think maybe deep down it may be a self-confidence issue. I feel I NEED to do it, this thread has shown me that now. I wish I could fight the urge.

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Aw, well, I'm going through something similar, only it's just with pornography itself and I am single, but I've been debating whether it's truly worth my time. I didn't suddenly think porn was evil, it's more like: I've been looking at it for 6 years with an average of 3 times a week. Sometimes more during the week, sometimes less.

The many hours I've spent seeking pleasure when there is a greener pasture on the other side is fruiting in front of my eyes though. I've learned some good things from porn about what I am comfortable with along with others. I've been using the excuse, "Well there could be more things that I can learn from it." That's just me fooling myself though because I know I've gotten everything I wanted out of it.

I have noticed that smoking weed has helped a little. I smoke, feel aroused, watch something, but right as I am done, I instantly realize I am back at my same old problem. Weed just heightens my senses in every manner, both physically and mentally.

Quitting is hard because it's something I've been doing for so long. I know the answer and what I want, it's more like, "When do I have the motivation to truly stop?" So talking to you about this is helping me out as well. I've came to accept it's a healing process as long as I make progress.

I've been trying to quit for about 1-2 years off and on. Coming up with excuses on why to look at it. I don't feel guilty, just more like, when is enough enough? If I were to die tomorrow, would one of the last things I did on earth was spend a solid hour masturbating to some chick online?

Open love and sex is different one someone else is benefitting with you. I've come to learn that porn is a one way street, and is that how I want to live my life? Other people can do as they want and as far as I am concerned, people will only stop based on their inner voice, and feel like I've made progress considering I've spent many years not questioning it.

Step 1: Recognizing the problem
Step 2: Ending the problem.