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about a girl.... someone help?
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ok so I just got back from S.A., and i started talking to this girl that ive known for a while.  She told me how she was down to chill out, offering to blaze with me if i ever wanted. (on msn).  So on friday night I saw her at this little get together, and was obviously a little inhebriated, and I was on my way to getting wasted.  So anyway we see each other and she comes to me and gives me a big hug, kisses me on the cheek, says that its too bad i just got there, because she was about to leave.  She also had kissed my bicep because i got this new tat in S.A.  So then obviously I realize this girl is really glad im back and is feeling me now.  Maybe the nice tan and shit but whataver.

Now I always had a thing for this girl but never made a move, because frankly im the laziest person youll ever meet.  Just smoke too much herbs.  I mean I had tried before to get with her but gave up quickly because she just has this personality that youre not sure what she might be thinking.  The way she talks just isnt so suggestive about her emotions. (i hope u understand what i just said.)  SO i never asked her out.  Besides Im the one night stand type of guy.

well, I dont want to be a one night stand guy... i simply want a girl.  someone who i can just hold and kiss and kickback with.  I just want a girl, and now I realize that I really want this girl to be mine.  So anyway, yesterday, I met up with her and some other friends.  She told me she was gonna drink some beer, and so i was like "nice!" why not It helps loosen me up alot anyway, if she drinks, then ill drink :smile:.  So anyway we go, and have some beers, I played poker and lost, but no worries.  We moved to another friends house, and this is where I was like "alright this girl is MINE!", so anyway I asked her if she wanted to have a smoke, she said yea and got ready to go out in the cold.  We both went, and soon enough everybody else came out to smoke with us.  Perfect!  So we stand there joking around, talking, and by this time im just pissed everyone came out.  so anyway, she goes back inside, and leaves me and everyone else.  I'm like fuckin great now she left, so I go back inside because by this point I knew we were into eachother, so what was I doing wasting time waiting for the right moment to kiss her?

I go down to the basement, and get her attention by throwing some clothes at her. (she was chillin with 2 people i really didnt care to see.  one of the people was a girl i had sex with a few years back, and the other dude was her ex). sso i was like fuck this im getting her attention so she comes to me.  She reacts to the throwing of the sox after a minute or so, and come out of the room.  "hey was that you?", yep.

so now were kissing, and im so happy because this is the girl I could see being my girlfriend.  Not just some hoe, I mean she has nothing super special about her, but in my eyes she just does something to make my heart pump a little fast.  Its her smile... and i like irish gurls too! so were making out, and meanwhile Im telling her everything, about how I really like her,  and that all i want is a nice girl that i can hold... blah blah etc...
i was jsut being honest, with the help of some beers.

so anyway we stop making out and go to sit down to play duck hunt for regular nintendo.  were chilling there, shes resting on me and everythings good.  I could def feel the connection, we were holding hands playing with my fingers... like most couples do when theyre really inlove.

then it was time to leave, and i told her id call her today.  I kissed her when we split, but soon enough my friend ended up dropping them off at the station with me in the van.

So after that i was feelin all good, and hoping i can develop a nice relationship with this girl.  A girl that I always had a thing for but never really had the balls to be upfront with.  :laugh:

but today, i didnt call her till the evening, around 530 or so. (now, shes 18, and still in high school. im 19, and just graduated last year.)  I get a hold of her, but right away she tells that shell have to call me back because shes got a volleyball game or something.  so im like ok call me back at my buddies house.  she didnt call back.  So i went home and fixed up the basement, because I had planned to ask her to come over for a movie all day.  so i call her back around 700, figuring the games probably done, and im not at my buddies anymore.  she doesnt pick up, so i leave a message, saying how i wanted to meet up with her soon.  Basicaly I called another 2 times with no word.

Later on, I went on msn and she was logged on so I sent her a msg saying something like "hey u there?? hope u had a good game and i wanna see you again!!", she didnt answer, so i left my msn on hoping she would right something back while I was gone. she didnt.

Now im stuck here thinking about her, wondering... hey? does this girl like me or what?? or is she just a tease and isnt into relationships and like making out with random guys.

I dont know what to think really, but I know that I should probably tell her how I feel about her, with no beer involved, just an honest "i like u alot and i want u to be my girl...".

I need some advice dudes... whats this girl tyring to tell me? (i didnt talk to her all day although god knows i tried)

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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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Maybe she's still out.


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: The_Hobbit]
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hobbitcg said:
Maybe she's still banging other guys.


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: DNKYD]
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hahahah :stoned:

thats right im high


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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you sound desperate. gotta play it cool, im in the same circumstances right now, but i got my girl... i just dont know wether i should chase her.

Sucks thinking too much.


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: PDU]
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the way i see it is i dont want to let her slip by, for the simply fact that i actually like her. if i try to play it cool (like what i do when im high) and like dont call her and just sit around, then maybe shell be like oh hes not into me... peace!


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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Show interest, but dont obsess. Ask her to hang out, if she doesnt answer after 2 calls and message, give her a few days.. or try to bump into her, mention you'd like to hang out after your already talking to her and feeling her out.


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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Ginseng1 said:
so were making out, and meanwhile Im telling her everything, about how I really like her, and that all i want is a nice girl that i can hold... blah blah etc...[b/]
It seems like your first problem is being a gigantic pussy.  I'd stop that "I want to hold you..." shit real quick.  "I love kissing you", "You are a good kisser", "You are so hot"... etc, thos are acceptable. Enjoy and compliment the moment, don't act like you are in love with her... which brings me to point number two...
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I could def feel the connection, we were holding hands playing with my fingers... like most couples do when theyre really inlove.



Don't use the word "love" to describe your feelings for a PERSON until you've know them for a while.  Certainly not some girl that you are just hooking up with.  "really in love"  = You need to drop your nuts out of your body
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  so im like ok call me back at my buddies house.  she didnt call back. 



If you called her and left a message and directions of where to call back, the ball is in her court. If she doesn't call for a day or so, call her back, or try to arrainge to see her somewhere that you know she'll be.
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she doesnt pick up, so i leave a message, saying how i wanted to meet up with her soon.  Basicaly I called another 2 times with no word.



Thats FOUR calls man, FOUR CALLS.  IN ONE DAY... thatas WAY TOO MUCH.  It's MASSIVE overkill.  IT's one thing to show you are interested, four calls is WAY WAY WAY too much, unless it's intermixed with a few times of her calling you
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Later on, I went on msn and she was logged on so I sent her a msg saying something like "hey u there?? hope u had a good game and i wanna see you again!!", she didnt answer, so i left my msn on hoping she would right something back while I was gone. she didnt.



I'd probably have said something else, but that sounds OK.  Leaving your MSN on is a bit much, really.  You've got a phone, she has your number, I'd have just gotten on, said that you hope she had a good time tonight, then logged off.  If she REALLY wants to call you, shes going to.  Four calls and a IM constitute you having done more than your part.
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Now im stuck here thinking about her, wondering... hey? does this girl like me or what?? or is she just a tease and isnt into relationships and like making out with random guys.



Ho's gotta eat too.
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I dont know what to think really, but I know that I should probably tell her how I feel about her, with no beer involved, just an honest "i like u alot and i want u to be my girl...".



After playing duck hunt and making out one night?  Ask her out somewhere, tell her you want to SPEND TIME WITH HER, don't aim for any commitment yet, or even in the near future.  After my first two weeks of really hanging out with a girl a few times a week, I always take a week off just so I can see how things are when I return. 
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I need some advice dudes... whats this girl tyring to tell me? (i didnt talk to her all day although god knows i tried)



I almost read that as "cried", and I'd have had to wired chuck norris to roundhouse kick you in the face.  If you called her four times and sent her an IM, it's up to her.  I'd recommend if you talk to her again, avoid phrases like "There is something I"ve just got to tell you" or "lets be girlfriend/boyfriend", I'd just tell her how pretty she is, how you had a great time the other night and how you'd like to go out sometime More than that is pushing the limit
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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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Ginseng1 said:
and meanwhile Im telling her everything, about how I really like her, and that all i want is a nice girl that i can hold... blah blah etc...


you fail.

bitches LOVE mystery.
you spilled the beans too soon motherfucker.
all you did was make out with her.
dont spill the beans too goddamn fast next time....think of it as premature ejaculation.

ahhah


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: 40oz]
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updates?


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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1st thing slow down!~

Don't scare the girl away!~

Take your time and let her call you.

If she doesn't call you in 3 days...call her and just talk chill.

maybe you scared her already...who knows?

Relax more with women...show interest but don't show all the cards in the deck too fast.

Never come off as too needy...women like confident men.

good luck!~


tc


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Roadkill]
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i hoped this thread would contain the the song in the title... :banghead:

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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: creamrocks]
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update us d00d!

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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Jack_Flash]
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The mating dance is so funny to me. This is 100% the same to me as, 'the beetle walks around the female, letting her know his interest in mating' People follow such a standard rhythm.

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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: TheCow]
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hahaha.. I see this shit the same way. It's great :smile2:


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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I don't know what she's trying to tell you , but all you need to know is she's a Senior in High School , what do you expect ? I've dated some myself , that's just how they are , lol .

Good Luck

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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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Way too desperate.

Chill out. If you know anything about high school girls, most of them just fuck around anyway, one night stands and cheating then leave you.


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: HippieChick]
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HippieChick said:
I don't know what she's trying to tell you , but all you need to know is she's a Senior in High School , what do you expect ? I've dated some myself , that's just how they are , lol .




You dated chics in high school sisi?

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Now thats HOT!~

:heart: ya!~


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Ginseng1]
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Ginseng1 said:
The way she talks just isnt so suggestive about her emotions. (i hope u understand what i just said.) 


i get this with every girl, especially the ones i like. its like he moment you get interest in them, you become blind to any suggestions or hints she might make towards the way she feels.  :confused:


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Re: about a girl.... someone help? [Re: Roadkill]
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I still have been know to date a chick or two in High School . I was talking about last summer , LMAO . Have some fun , but don't expect too much . She's rebelling from her parents right now with her new found freedom . Don't hound her like her parents do or she'll rebell against you .

Peace,Love,Happiness and Harmony
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