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OfflineOldWoodSpecter
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sexual tradition..
    #4447646 - 07/24/05 05:43 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

ok, let's supose that you are young again (if you are already married), or if you are young right now, let's just supose then....

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That, you meet this woman, and feel like she is the one you want to be married to (if you are the type that likes to be married), but she being a christian or muslim or any other religion with similar sexual tradition, prefers to wait until you two are married and not have sex before that.

would you.... (vote in the pool, and give us a sign of who you are, or a short explanation)


p.s. If I have been unfair, and there is some third option, let me know, and post your answer in from of your own text

p.s. Of course, I apologize to the ladies, I wrote from a male perspective because most people here are males. If you are female (you can tell by your sexual organs) same goes for you and your male partner
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You may choose only one


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OfflineSneezingPenis
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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4447667 - 07/24/05 05:47 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

those two choices suck. The first one is submissive, and the second one is pretentiously dominant.
Id just say it is against my religious beliefs to ever buy a car without test driving it.

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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: SneezingPenis]
    #4447675 - 07/24/05 05:49 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

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psilocyberin said:
those two choices suck. The first one is submissive, and the second one is pretentiously dominant.
Id just say it is against my religious beliefs to ever buy a car without test driving it.




why do they suck? what other options do you have?


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4447974 - 07/24/05 06:49 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

This isnt really a third option, but I think making it clear what a relationship without sex means to me and then discussing whether or not we would both be happy would be my course of action. While results depend on who I am and who Im dating, I think more friendly less romantic relationship would be the box I would check.


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: LittleBen]
    #4448029 - 07/24/05 07:03 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

there are way more choices than that to get in a girls pants....

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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4448034 - 07/24/05 07:08 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

You should always respect the other person's preferences...if you just can't live with it...dump them. Personally I would never have married any sort of devoutly religious person who is a member of an organized religion...talk about judgemental and trouble...


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4448063 - 07/24/05 07:18 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

Good luck with her Old. I hope she's worth it. :wink:


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4448087 - 07/24/05 07:23 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

first, respect, theres so much time,

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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: SneezingPenis]
    #4448134 - 07/24/05 07:36 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

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psilocyberin said:
there are way more choices than that to get in a girls pants....




the question is wheather to get in her pants or not, you can convince her any way you whish, it all goes under the second option


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: Icelander]
    #4448138 - 07/24/05 07:37 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

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Icelander said:
Good luck with her Old. I hope she's worth it. :wink:




I knew someone will think that :lol:

no, this has nothing to do with me, I'm free as a bird, no females in my life


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: Huehuecoyotl]
    #4448141 - 07/24/05 07:39 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

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Huehuecoyotl said:
You should always respect the other person's preferences...if you just can't live with it...dump them. Personally I would never have married any sort of devoutly religious person who is a member of an organized religion...talk about judgemental and trouble...




:thumbup:


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4448153 - 07/24/05 07:41 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

I'd respect her wishes of course, but I somehow doubt that I would end up marrying such a woman.


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: Silversoul]
    #4448154 - 07/24/05 07:43 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

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Paradigm said:
I'd respect her wishes of course, but I somehow doubt that I would end up marrying such a woman.




perhapse she is all that you want, exept for this little thing (religion)


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4448169 - 07/24/05 07:47 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

I suppose it's possible, but for me, it's not a "little thing." I need a woman who's open-minded and free-spirited, not one confined to such restrictive beliefs.


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4448173 - 07/24/05 07:48 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

This is not such a "little" thing to many people. I doubt it often works out long term if one of the couple is religious and not the other. Waiting until marriage to become intimate is kind of controling. It puts you in the position of going against your personal beliefs.  It's  like her saying my way or the highway.  :frown:


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: Icelander]
    #4448203 - 07/24/05 07:57 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

Every contact between two beings is a compromise, everything from peting your cat, to marriage


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: Silversoul]
    #4448216 - 07/24/05 08:00 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

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Paradigm said:
I suppose it's possible, but for me, it's not a "little thing." I need a woman who's open-minded and free-spirited, not one confined to such restrictive beliefs.




To such people your beliefs are "sinfull" , both of you have a bad name for each others beliefs.


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4448220 - 07/24/05 08:01 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

Yep. But there is a limit where you have given too much of yourself away. Beware.  I don't even believe in marriage. Only love. And the more freedom you give the other to be themselves the more love you can have. :heart: :thumbup:


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: Icelander]
    #4448231 - 07/24/05 08:05 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

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Icelander said:
Yep. But there is a limit where you have given too much of yourself away. Beware.  I don't even believe in marriage. Only love. And the more freedom you give the other to be themselves the more love you can have. :heart: :thumbup:




This limit is relative. What about when you enter a store, there is so much stuff you want, food , drinks etc. You limit yourself and do not take it, to please the society. This is not about postponing something, you will probably NEVER rob a store. Isn't that more limiting than postponing sex for say 2 years?


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Re: sexual tradition.. [Re: OldWoodSpecter]
    #4448380 - 07/24/05 08:41 PM (18 years, 8 months ago)

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OldWoodSpecter said:
Quote:

Paradigm said:
I suppose it's possible, but for me, it's not a "little thing." I need a woman who's open-minded and free-spirited, not one confined to such restrictive beliefs.




To such people your beliefs are "sinfull" , both of you have a bad name for each others beliefs.



Tough shit. I'll go on living in sin while she goes on living in superstition.


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