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Sex Problem with Girlfriend
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Now, before I post i ask you to be sincere about this, and not make funny remarks about it, as this is quite an outing for me...

Ive been together with a girl for 1.5 years now. She always says she likes our sexlife, and I insist on her being completely open about any wishes or problems. (but I do tend to want more sex than she does)
Now the problem is, that no matter how long the foreplay, she always gets fairly "dry" rather quickly, and thus it starts to hurt her pussylips after a max of 45 minutes of sex. - but she does come occasionally, which indicates to me that she does like it.
If I get her to cum before intercourse (G-Spot or Clitoral Stimulation) she doesnt want to have sex anymore.So I cant do that...
One thing i do notice however is that when we smoke up together (once every three months) she gets really horny and wet when having sex.
Ive asked her about it, and she doesnt know why either, but assures me she has fun with me in bed.

Any comments, similar experiences, tipps? - Id be really glad,
thanks,
Jazz

P.S: Maybe some Women might want to state on this, as they should no better than the lads!


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JazzMatazz]
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They carry a variety of products at your local pharmacy designed for treating this very issue...

I'm not sure what info you're looking for, but things are as they are, and you'll have to deal with that... so you might as well swing by Walgreens and pick up some AstroGlide.

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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JacquesCousteau]
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yeah, thanks for the "things are how they are". Your right and this helped my self-estime a bit. We are gonna do that next time we see each other (living apart currently) - its just the constant uncertainty if its me or not, you know?!


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JazzMatazz]
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Yeah, I hear you man... that kind of thing can wreak havoc on a guy's ego... but remember: if you trust her to be truthful with you, then you have to believe her when she says it's not you.

Does she have a history of abuse? Sometimes this kind of thing is a sign of a deeper problem...

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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JazzMatazz]
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now, not thy i know of. Shed have told me, I know her very well for 4 years now. Her dad is kind of my prefered dad(it relation to my real dad), and he wouldnt do that.Hes like a big teddybear and really polite, helpful and intelligent.
Oh well, a female friend of mine, says she finds it hard to cum, cause she always has loads of stuff on her mind (school, parents, job...)that she cant relax whilest in bed with her boyfriend. Maybe it similar iwth mine...
Thanks a lot, as youve been really nice and comforting!

En-faite, t' es francais, suisse,cannadien ou qqc d' autre? Mois j'habitai en suisse-romande pour cinq ans puis j' y retourne chaque an pour faire visiter mais parents.Peut-etre par hazard d'habites proche de Gen?ve?!


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JazzMatazz]
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Maybe you to should explore your sexuality and you may just find something that fixes your problem.


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JazzMatazz]
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Its call lube, use it.

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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JazzMatazz]
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Most likely, there is nothing wrong with your girlfriend or you. Some people are just built that way. If fact, quite many people are built that way. She is probably "naturally dry", there are girls who never get really wet, even if they wanted it themselves and had no other problems about it.

Of course it could be that she has something on her mind when having sex, but I doubt it. Or course, if this is the case it tends to have a vicious circle to it: She gets dry for some unknown reason and is embarrassed. The next time you have sex, she keeps thinking "what if I suddenly go dry again", and because of that, she can't relax while having sex and doesn't get wet enough. Bang! A problem that just gets worse.

Here's where the lubricants come into play. You know why the lubricants were made in the first place? Yes, for people who had the same problem as you and your girlfriend. :grin: Go get some lubricant. Silicone-based lubricants are something worth considering, because they don't dry out like water-based ones tend to and they don't irritate skin as some oil-based ones might. They aren't expensive and they definitely will help you.

I hope this answers some of your questions. :smile:


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: kAAk]
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uhm .. let me help when im in vienna :cool:

nah seriously, no clue, sorry man.
peace ohm :mushroom2:


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: adrug]
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I agree with the astroglide suggestion, that stuff is the best non medical lube on the planet. Some women just don't get as wet as others, but since you said she get wet when you're stoned then it leads me to believe it's a psychological issue with her. Maybe try some different positions and see if you can get her more into it. It truely sucks that she doesn't wanna have sex if you make her come before hand, that's just rude, she got her nut, you should get yours. good luck!!

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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JazzMatazz]
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No problem man... I'm glad I could help. You seem a decent fellow.

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En-faite, t' es francais, suisse,cannadien ou qqc d' autre? Mois j'habitai en suisse-romande pour cinq ans puis j' y retourne chaque an pour faire visiter mais parents.Peut-etre par hazard d'habites proche de Gen?ve?!



I don't speak french (how ironic, I know...) but babelfish told me you said this:

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In-made, be French, Swiss for you, cannadien or qqc of other? Month I lived into Switzerland-French for five years then I go back each year there to make visit but parents.Peut-to be by hazard of live near to Geneva?!



Based on that, my response is:

I'm maybe 1/4th french-canadian... and I'm not sure what the rest of that said :wink:

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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JacquesCousteau]
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Quote:
since you said she get wet when you're stoned then it leads me to believe it's a psychological issue with her"


I still doubt it somewhat. Of course it's possible, but weed changes many bodily functions a little, so I wouldn't be surprised if cannabis helped her get wet easier just because it stimulates some pussy juice glands or whatever they have down there. :crazy2:

You should toke and have sex more often? :wink:


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: kAAk]
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How does nitrous work for you guys? That shit is bombing for sex, maybe it will help out too. After all, you can't have too many drugs :smile:


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JacquesCousteau]
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ROLF Babelfish doesnt understand french very well to say the least. :grin:

And for Matt, Id say smoke pot more often, but thatsa just me... I love pot.

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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: Gus]
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Thanks guys this thread has been a great help!!
I actually thought lube was made for people with big dicks and young girlfriends... hehe
The thing with the "pot stimulates pussy juice glands" - Is this clinically proven? (Just out of interest?)

So thanks again you all realy built up my self-esteem,
very much appreaciated!


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: JazzMatazz]
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JazzMatazz said:
The thing with the "pot stimulates pussy juice glands" - Is this clinically proven? (Just out of interest?)


I have never heard about it and a quick google revealed nothing. It was just a thought out of my head, so I wouldn't count on it too much. :laugh: Everything's possible though, and when you least expect it, life usually surprises you.


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Re: Sex Problem with Girlfriend [Re: Gus]
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Gus said:
ROLF Babelfish doesnt understand french very well to say the least. :grin:


Yeah.. it would seem that way... so give me a real translation, frenchy. :wink:

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