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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: violated]
    #1621558 - 06/09/03 07:31 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

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and yah stop hitting on him thats bloody lame if you ask me, frenchy




Racist remarks will not take you very far in an intelligent discussion.


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: Meph]
    #1621566 - 06/09/03 07:34 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

... or in life for that matter.


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: OctopusDr]
    #1621575 - 06/09/03 07:36 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

It's all good Octopus. I understood what you meant by "fake people", I guess she didn't.

Thanks for clearing it up for her though  :smirk:


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
    #1621583 - 06/09/03 07:38 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

Sloth, I appreciate the backup.  :smirk:

Try to stay clear of insults if you can, though. I don't want this thread locked while it's still alive. 


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: Meph]
    #1621588 - 06/09/03 07:40 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

sorry... it's just that her ignorance was pissing me off.


she need to think before she talks, it's for the good of all mankind i tell ya!


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
    #1633183 - 06/14/03 03:20 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

Oh for god's sakes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU DON'T KNOW MEPH'S EX..DON'T SAY THAT IT DOESN'T LOOK LIKE SHE DIDN'T SHOW REMORSE! you don't know if Meph was even a good boyfriend! you don't know how she feels at all. And I don't really care if my 'ignorance' pisses you off. None of you even know me! See thats what all you people on here do. You probably all hate yourselves deep down inside, so you come onto this little rinky dinky posting thingie and pretend to be the people you wish you were. No one knows you so I can see how it easy it is to become someone else and trick everyone on here, even yourselves into thinking you're cool. See, I know I am in real life so I don't need the false satisfaction of strangers like you all do! Bye! :smile: 


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: violated]
    #1633286 - 06/14/03 04:28 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

how rude


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: violated]
    #1633722 - 06/14/03 09:17 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

You keep posting here ?

Bye bye, we'll surely miss you.  :smirk: 


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: violated]
    #1633762 - 06/14/03 09:42 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

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Oh for god's sakes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU DON'T KNOW MEPH'S EX..DON'T SAY THAT IT DOESN'T LOOK LIKE SHE DIDN'T SHOW REMORSE! you don't know if Meph was even a good boyfriend! you don't know how she feels at all.





She's not talking about my ex. She's talking about your posts, so why do you say that?...

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And I don't really care if my 'ignorance' pisses you off. None of you even know me!





It's what you say that brings convtroversy, not who you are.

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See thats what all you people on here do.





Talk about mass generalization! Plus, how could you know what internet forums are about if you've never used one (and yes, they're called forums, not "little rinky dinky posting thingie")?

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You probably all hate yourselves deep down inside, so you come onto this little rinky dinky posting thingie and pretend to be the people you wish you were. No one knows you so I can see how it easy it is to become someone else and trick everyone on here, even yourselves into thinking you're cool.





Sure, but why would we want to become somebody else to be "cool" if we don't WANT to be "cool" to people we've never met and probably will never meet? The internet is a chance to be yourself: the anonymity forces you to act in a way that you no longer mind what people think about you.

Here, I can post my thoughts, my questions, my feelings, my opinions on subjects ranging from philosophy to politics, events of my life, or even just a plain blonde joke, and people will react and relate to themselves. This is an internet community based solely on interaction with others.

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See, I know I am in real life so I don't need the false satisfaction of strangers like you all do! Bye! :smile: 




Satisfaction? I'm not looking for satisfaction. I like this place. I like other members. Why is it necessary to have met someone in flesh to talk to them, get to know as a person  and mabye even become friends?

Try writing down your thoughts or ideas on various subjects once in a while, and you'll see that your opinions will settle in like they had been binded in a brick of cement. 


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: violated]
    #1634014 - 06/15/03 12:11 AM (18 years, 5 months ago)

ahahahaha!!

read my post over again, because you obviously don't even know what i was talking about.

i was just saying that it didn't sound like she was upset over the whole thing. i read the conversation Meph had with her, and she did NOT sound upset at all. she's like "yeh, i got your email" blah blah blah. i don't call that remorse. maybe if you took the time to actually comprehend my posts, then you would understand. and i may not know you, but YOU don't know ME either.


and i don't need to justify my actions or words to you. you either have the itelligence to understand me or you don't, and if you don't then it's your own fault. i don't try to be someone i'm not, so don't try to generalise me and have the gall to say that i'm putting on this whole facad to be someone other than myself. what you see is what you get, i am who i am. deal with it.


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: Meph]
    #1645505 - 06/19/03 06:27 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

Ok, after carefully reading everything involving this post, I think that "Meph" is simply run down by the break-up. Although his girlfriend, seems to be taking if very well. Meph, if I were you, I'd still talk with her, don't be a bitch like mushimush or whatever her name is, and delete her, block her, or whatever. (And yes Mushi, you ARE hitting on him. Since he's in quebec, you just want a taste of him. Meph, just talk with her on a chat program and don't just talk with her about everyday society, talk with her like a friend. In the thread, you never DID mention how long you were with her. The time you went out is to the comparison of what you should talk to her. about.

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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: HuNgHiGh]
    #1649743 - 06/20/03 11:29 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

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HuNgHiGh said:
Ok, after carefully reading everything involving this post, I think that "Meph" is simply run down by the break-up.





Actually I'm glad I broke up, it was necessary. I'm not asking people here to do my psychoanalysis. I know how I feel. I know what is good for me.

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Although his girlfriend, seems to be taking if very well.





And you seem to have good references to jump to that kind of conclusions...

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Meph, if I were you, I'd still talk with her





I've been busy with exams for the past two weeks and hardly even talked to my close friends. I didn't have the time for drama.

Plus, her trying to conceal her thoughts behind an obvious mask last time we tried to talk for real does not give me the motivation I need to talk to her. I was ready to discuss the break-up with her but she pushed me away.

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don't be a bitch like mushimush or whatever her name is, and delete her, block her, or whatever. (And yes Mushi, you ARE hitting on him. Since he's in quebec, you just want a taste of him.





What does he have to do with anything? And yes, by the way, he's a guy, a very decent one too. So nobody's hitting on anybody.

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Meph, just talk with her on a chat program and don't just talk with her about everyday society, talk with her like a friend.





Talk to her about "everyday society"? I'd love to know what the heck you're talking about.

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In the thread, you never DID mention how long you were with her.





Read my first post, the email. It clearly says "After five months of being with someone, (...)".

Learn to pay attention to what you read, and then learn to pass comments.

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The time you went out is to the comparison of what you should talk to her. about.





Yes? Me talks girlfriend cuz breakup sucks! About the stuffs what I talk to her, is the time us go out with her together. Very comparatives conversation. Breakup is impossible to not happen when things don't take place very too much. about.

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Darkness slowly creeping
Im drowning in its smell
Slowly being suffocated
By this cold dark hell





Wow man, those cool rhymes multiply your credibility by a factor of 500%. You're so deep. The truth is in you, darkness slowly creeping.

By the way, I don't care that you gave me bad ratings twice, because I'm sure it was fun. Ratings are pretty irrevelant.


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: Meph]
    #1649839 - 06/20/03 11:54 PM (18 years, 5 months ago)

man i know exactly where you come from and i really hope you are doing better... i broke up with my 2 year g/f in november last year... and im still dealing with the consequences... its really weird how 2 years with a person can get you so close to each other... i can only imagine how it must be after a marriage... i guess what im trying to say is that you keep your head up... it will definitely get better in time... i wouldnt want anyone to be where i was a few months ago... a really friggin deep hole of confusion... but im getting out... little by little... i know i will have to talk to her again before i can completely let go... everything happened over email, phone & msn since she lives in ecuador and i live in germany... i haven't seen her in more than a year and yet i am suffering like someone who has been shot and the liver but won't die... heh... now look at me instead of helping you im rambling about my own emotional chaos... well i guess were in the same boat... i hope things work out for you... and obviously for me too...  :grin:

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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: violated]
    #1649861 - 06/21/03 12:01 AM (18 years, 5 months ago)

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violated said:
Hello everyone out there reading about Meph's story of a broken heart
and hello Meph

This is Stef, your ex's best friend. I found this site becuase you gave it to me a while back and I am verrrrry disturbed to see what you're doing here. If you wanna get feedback about your breakup, ask REAL people please. For god's sakes you could have even come to me. Or at the very least, described what happened, instead of intruding by copy pasting CONFIDENTIAL conversations. But instead you display not only your, but HER personal affairs on the fucking internet for strangers to see one side of the story and give you some form of satisfaction because they see her as the "big bad girlfriend" who treated you terribly. What they don't see is HER side and how she feels. You all get to comment on the whole situation behind her back, not even giving her a chance to defend herself. I bet you never thought she'd see this, but I think she has the right to know whats going on here, and that her personal space is being invaded. I know her side as well and I know that she was hurting for a while and she was contemplating breaking up becuase you had become dead to her. You act as though she hates herself and that you can't love someone who doesn't love themself. But from what I know (which i admit might not be accurate becuase I heard it through her, not you), it seemed like you weren't loving yourself! She said you acted like nothing in life mattered and that you always seemed bored. You wouldn't even come to the movies with us on a group date thingie. You acted anti social and 'blah'!!!

You and 'her' were always alone together, or when with people, you were with YOUR friends. You only saw ONE side of her. You can only 'really' know a person when you see them with their family, and best friends becuase thats where they are most comfortable. But you never bothered to be there for any of that. Instead she stayed in your freaking basment every single weekend and of course after a while that lifestyle can make a person 'dead'. So the relationship was slowly breaking down becuase of both of you. Not becuase She never loved herself, or never stood up for herself. Don't go begging redemption from strangers who don't know either of you, please. And I am telling her about this. I don't wanna take sides and I don't want you to hate me now or something because I don't really have anything to do with this, but I think you can understand that being her best friend I feel as though she deserves a little justice and of course I am going to stand up for her. So yah, all you little internet geeks out there who are all drooling and getting your panties in a bunch over someone elses problems, go outside and take a look at that big blue thing up there, its called the sky. You're probably not familliar with it becuase I know you all probably stay in your basments day in day out playing starcraft, jacking off to kiddie porn and posting on some kinda drug website. Whatever its all FREAK-AY to me. I'M OUT
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im sorry kind lady, but i have to deeply disagre with you... everyone needs someone that is not involved in the situation to get an OBJECTIVE view on what is happening and what could be a possible solution... of course meph could have talked to you about it, but you are not imparcial here... the insight you have about the relationship could be helpful for realizing some of the things, but it is a real problem when it comes to getting an objective view...
you say that it is unfair to post about this here because people only see his side of the story and thus flame his ex for beeing a bitch... well let me tell you something... after reading the whole thread i have not even once thought that she was evil... everyone commits mistakes and that includes meph... what you dont understand is that meph is dealing with HIS side of the story... with HIS mistakes and what he could have done differently... he is trying to re-arrange HIS life and not hers... so obviously he lloks for objective advice...


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Re: An email to my girlfriend [Re: In(di)go]
    #1649895 - 06/21/03 12:13 AM (18 years, 5 months ago)

I know what you mean. After a while of being close to someone (girlfriend or not), they become a part of you, in a way.

I catch myself missing her but I know it's only because I've gotten used to her presence in my life. She was pretty much the only person who took care of me, so now that I'm alone, it's a big change in the ammount of psychological support I get, and I end up wanting to go out with all girls because I need a shoulder to rest on. I know that being with someone is not just about not feeling lonely, but instantly starting to look for another partner is a reflex.

I don't plan on going out with anyone for a while though.

Good luck, it's always recomforting to know that others have been where I am now. Your experiences are of much help.


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