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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: Fliquid]
#1530658 - 05/08/03 12:05 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yup. i agree.
Here is the plan.
I'm going for surgery tomorrow ( sinus thing ). so we won't see each other this weekend. ( unless she drops in to say hi and make me soup!! )
But next time we meet, " I want to say this to her face to face and not on the ph for obvious reasons. i don't like talking on the phone about these matters.. drugs"
it will go like this:
" I'm really starting to care about you, and i need to tell you something i've been holding off on. I would have told you this before, however, i wanted to make sure that i wanted to be with you and have a relationship. Otherwise there would be no need for you to know.
We've known each other for over 3 months now, and i've gotten to know you quite well , and you are everything i'm looking for in a girl. Wich is why i feel i need to open up to you and tell you that i have a few hobbies that i feel you might not agree with.
As you know, i'm a bit ambitious, i brew my own wine, i make my own jerky, i love to build things and put things together, and at one point a few years ago, i grew my own pot.
While at work, bored, i fell open a website that talked about mushroom cultivation, and after reading on it, i found that you can grow magic mushrooms at home, so i've been playing with this as well.
that's it. I know you don't like drugs, i understand, i don't mean to make you change, but i feel that you should know this about me, if you'd rather not see me anymore, that's ok too, but if this is not a big deal for you, and i hope it's not, then we could have a really good thing going together.
what do you think? "...
how would that sound?
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1532972 - 05/08/03 11:59 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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good luck man, your going to need it!
ooh yeah, good luck with the surgery too.
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1533396 - 05/09/03 02:01 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Perfect, just remember to remain neutral during the conversation. And make sure you make it perfectly clear why you tell her this. Just say you had to tell her all this so it will not become a problem in the future. And that she will have to accept it because you enjoy it and you will not bother her with it in any way.
Face to face is the best for this, go to a cafe or somewhere else. A neutral place where you both are on neutral grounds. Your place will make it harder for her, her place will make it harder for you.
Now go tiger and do your thing. I hope she will understand, if not... Its her problem for not excepting you, not yours. Remember this, love blinds you and makes you weak..
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1535000 - 05/09/03 02:54 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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oh man this reads better than a good book im so nervous and anxious
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: CultyVader]
#1541429 - 05/12/03 10:22 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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sorry for the lack of updates lately,
Went for surgery on friday and have been dazed and confused. and in PAIN!
Been talking with her on the phone ( every day as usual ). Things have not changed.
Will be back with more info as it becomes available!!
stay tuned folks!
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1544178 - 05/13/03 02:16 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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But did you do what you were going to do yet?
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: Fliquid]
#1545596 - 05/13/03 03:15 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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no because we have not met as of yet.
I'd do this over the phone, but i think it's better face to face. this way i can see the reaction no her face..
I sometimes think i'm making too much of this.. it might be nothing at all.. but i could be very wrong... we shall see tho!
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1547226 - 05/14/03 01:24 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Don't think its not a big issue! Because it really is. It will bite you up the ass if you don't handle it.. It sounds like i'm more anxious about her reaction then you are.
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: Fliquid]
#1547577 - 05/14/03 07:31 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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oh.. i'm anxious, worried, freaked, uncertain, scared, itching, etc.......
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1547634 - 05/14/03 08:25 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Be happy you?re not gnomed..
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: Fliquid]
#1550670 - 05/15/03 10:34 AM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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ok..
This weekend i've got too many things that i could do.. below is an e-mail i just sent her: ps: This is after a few i sent earlier. back and forth.. -------------------------- -------------------------- oh.. i see.
now i have a dilema!!...
1- i miss you, and want to spend time with you this weekend.
2- Yearly tradition camping trip
3- A dog to take care of somehow ???
4- a very sore freakin.. nose. hihi..
What do i do???? ahhhhhhhh...
Do you know when the propane guy will show up? early. late? If we get together later i can leave sandy at home.. if i go early i need to take her with me ...
If i go camping she's comming along with me. ( wow.. just like having a kid!! haha.. )
What do you think.. HEEEELLLLLLP !!!
luv - U.
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She has a camper ( nice one too!! pretty big! ) wich she has setup yesterday for the summer at a beach resort close by, baught new propane tanks and has to have them installed.
Soooooo.. this translates to
1- Get together with her and hang out at the camper, get to talk with her about all in this thread...
2- Go with my friends and party, do shrooms, the great outdoors for 2 days.
What do you all think???
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1554082 - 05/16/03 12:53 PM (20 years, 10 months ago) |
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Well, last night plans were made,
I"m leaving early tomorrow AM to go camping with the friends, we will be back fairly early sunday AM, so i will go hang with her on sunday, and maybe monday. depends on how it all goes..
Life is well..... I'll be back on monday with results!
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1562540 - 05/20/03 08:33 AM (20 years, 9 months ago) |
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ok.. i'm back.
Had a real nice weekend. went camping. got drunk, partied .. ..
on Sunday and Monday hung out with chickie... and for fuck sakes. i just could not start the conversation going and tell her the speal.. WHYWHYWHY.....?????
Things were going well, we had fun, went for a few walks, assembled her new BBQ..
Wow.. i suck.
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1563152 - 05/20/03 02:07 PM (20 years, 9 months ago) |
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Then just don't use words, next time your taking a walk, pull a J out of your pocket and spark it up! then see what she says.
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: Sombie]
#1578043 - 05/26/03 09:40 AM (20 years, 9 months ago) |
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ok.. here's an update.
This weekend, i went over to her trailer with some of my friends ( and my dog ) and we made a fire, cooked some hot-dogs and some burgers.
My friends left around 11:30 or so, and i stayed over for the night.
Now, it don't get much more romantic than this, nice quiet secluded camping, just me and her. ( and my dog .. !! ) and still no sex.
I'm not even going to bother going into the drug story, it's not going to be needed, i'm just going to break it off now, and get it over with.
She's not into sex at all, and she's not a dog person, wich are 2 things that i need in a relationship, and the drug thing as important as it is, will just add to the problems later in life.
so. that's it! log completed!
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1580391 - 05/27/03 01:13 AM (20 years, 9 months ago) |
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Man thats such a chickenshit thing to do.. I thought you were one of the brave people.. If your that strong to kill the relationship, you might as well tell her the thing first.. You could always end it if she freaks out after that.
Am i right or am i right.
If you don't do it now, it will come back one day..
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: Fliquid]
#1580891 - 05/27/03 08:14 AM (20 years, 9 months ago) |
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Well , the thing is that i've come to the conclusion that we are not very compatible...
I'm a dog person, she's not. I love sex, she thinks it'd gross. I do drugs, she's against all it represents. I'm not pig, but i always have projects on the go with mean a certain amount of mess, she's a neat freak!!!
on the flip side.
we both find each other attractive both beleive in being faithful to eachother both low key ( ie: not the raging party-go'ers ) both want someone to be close to similar eating habbits
so basically we are both looking for the same thing, but are not compatible.
I don't want to tell her too much about the drug thing ( for legal reasons) once i break up with her, women tend to go hateful on you, and i feat she would start telling everyone that we broke up because i'm a drug fiend.... wich i don't want.!
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: PooPs]
#1582366 - 05/27/03 06:29 PM (20 years, 9 months ago) |
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Not a dog person and doesn't like sex, run man, run.
What kinda dog do you have?
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Re: The Girl.. the Weed... the Problem... [Re: Skikid16]
#1582444 - 05/27/03 07:12 PM (20 years, 9 months ago) |
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a 36 lb samoyed x golden retreiver.. mostly samoyed ( white husky looking dog)
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#1582448 - 05/27/03 07:14 PM (20 years, 9 months ago) |
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