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OfflineWeekapaugTweezer
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New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers
    #4090337 - 04/24/05 01:39 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Here is the deal. Started seeing this amazingly cool girl last friday. Ate food and watched a movie at my place. Hung out again on Tuesday, she fell asleep here and stayed, no messing around. Hung out Wednesday and just made out alot and she stayed again. Thursday we fucked a couple times and she stayed as well as the same last night. Now she tells me today she was seeing this guy, she called it "casual dating" with him until he moved to Maryland in February (we are in NC). She says she doesn't wanna have to choose b/w us 2 and she is confused what to do. I REALLY like this girl, so what would you guys do?? I think my option are:

A)Just stick it out and keep fucking her and try not to get emotionally attached cause she is still HOT (1/2 asian with a sick ass) and if she chooses him who cares it was good sex while it lasted

B)Be upset and quit on it (isn't probably gonna happen) and tell her get back to me if she is still interested after she decides

C)Tell her I will give her a certain period of time to decide, and if she can't decide by a so and so date then I am out. THERE IS A KICKER!!!

We straight up got on the topic of anal sex and that she has had it and doesnt mind it. I have never SIIHB so I really would like to, haha. does this change anyone's decision?? HAHA. Ok later


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: WeekapaugTweezer]
    #4090356 - 04/24/05 01:47 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)


Now she tells me today she was seeing this guy, she called it "casual dating" with him until he moved to Maryland in February (we are in NC).

Translated into English: This guy is her boyfriend. He moved away thinking she was going to be a good girl and she decided to go out and get fucked because she got bored and antsy.

I am willing to bet that she was just looking for some dick and things happened. Now she is feeling a little guilt and she is backpedaling. If you start being all clingy and pathetic she will drop you like a dead fish.

Hit it and quit it. Don't put much faith in anything long term happening with this chick.


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4090375 - 04/24/05 01:54 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

does it sound like she's girlfriend material? i certainly don't think so.


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: gbhtrfv]
    #4090446 - 04/24/05 02:16 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

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gbhtrfv said:
does it sound like she's girlfriend material? i certainly don't think so.




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Quote:

gbhtrfv said:
does it sound like she's girlfriend material? i certainly don't think so.




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[Just for emphasis]

C: as to your scope of options... you can put your dick wherever you want, still not going to change the situation.

-Sounds like casual sex to me... keep it that way, however as you've said you really like her go for C.


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: Psychoactive1984]
    #4090453 - 04/24/05 02:18 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

If she's into anal sex, fuck her in the dumper. case closed. Just don't get attached. And if she's that easy you might want to wrap your dick up......


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: dr_gonz]
    #4090457 - 04/24/05 02:20 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

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drgonz said:
If she's into anal sex, fuck her in the dumper. case closed. Just don't get attached. And if she's that easy you might want to saran wrap your dick up, then use a condom......




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"We may not be capable of eradicating the corruption of reason, but we must nevertheless counter it at every instance and with every means." Dan Agin
"Politics is the best religion and politicians are the worst followers."
-It's ok to trip as long as you don't fall.
-Substance over Style.
-Common sense is uncommon.


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: Psychoactive1984]
    #4090460 - 04/24/05 02:21 AM (11 years, 7 months ago)

touche!


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: WeekapaugTweezer]
    #4093275 - 04/24/05 11:29 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

A

and i think randal is right on the situation.


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: WeekapaugTweezer]
    #4094696 - 04/25/05 12:12 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

Just kinda had the same situation w/o knowing about the guy.

Took me a few weeks to figure out why she was running :smile:

ya, Randall wins, listen to him :P


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: Digs]
    #4094884 - 04/25/05 01:28 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

But if she was only out for dick, wouldnt she have approached him earlier than a few films?

Id confront here and tell here about your problem and that she has to decide, otherwise shell hurt your emotions too much. I reckon she should understand and be fair on you.
On the otherhand, I know out of my own experience, that forgetting completely about a loved ex(girlfriend in my case) is damn hard and takes time even if my new girlfriend is really nice.


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Re: New Girl Situation involving a "not quite dead" flame of hers [Re: WeekapaugTweezer]
    #4096691 - 04/25/05 09:18 PM (11 years, 7 months ago)

she sounds like a slag.

tell her you have aids and let her sweat for a while, she's not worth it.

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