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OfflineYeti_009
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Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? *DELETED*
    #1687957 - 07/05/03 02:14 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

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OfflineYeti_009
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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1687983 - 07/05/03 02:32 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

GUESS NOONE CARES>>
didnt think so.. well at least look at the pictures and tell me if we make a cute couple or not.!
I am anxiously waiting for someone to say something on this thread..
anything at all.. I have nothing better to do that keep refreshing this page..now that she is gone!!
should i kill her friends?


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1687999 - 07/05/03 02:40 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

ok man, im gonna be straight up with you

this girl is bad times. shes not good for you, no one who loves you should EVER make you stop talking to your friends, even consider it!

in all honesty, you should disassociate yourself from this person COMPLETELY.

hard pill to swallow, i know, but shes no good for you. i promise. ive been there ;p


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688006 - 07/05/03 02:46 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

This forum is kinda slow, but replies are usually worth the waiting.

I don't know you. I don't know her. So I can't give you an answer. I can still relate to my own experiences though.

Love makes people blind. I'll be upfront and tell you what I really think, no bullshit. Try to step out of your normal thought patterns for a bit, and ask yourself: "Is she really the girl I need? Does she deserve to go out with me if she doesn't seem to care about me as much as I need?"

It sounds like another breakup is coming. I think you know it. Personnally, I think you fell in her trap by going out with her even after she cheated on you. After a breakup, guys are especially unstable. You sound like a very emotional person, just like me. Resist the temptation of going out with her again. Resist the temptation of rebound relationships. It might seem like a good solution in the short-term, but in the long-term, you'll end up regretting it even more.

Keep in mind that it's really hard to trust someone who's betrayed you in the past. She's letting you down another time. Don't let her make you feel bad. If you miss her, it's only because you've gotten used to her presence. I think it's time for a change. Go out with your friends. You're free to start over again.

I had a breakup not too long ago. It was harsh. I'm the one who broke up, and I ended up missing the girl afterwards. But now that I look back, I know that I did the right thing.

Good luck. Drop me a PM if you need to talk in private.


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688010 - 07/05/03 02:52 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I'm sorry that you're in so much pain right now...I know how rough relationships can be. If your efforts to talk to her aren't working, then you should take that as a sign to take a step back for awhile and take a deep breath. Give her some time, give yourself some time, and see what happens. You have to decide to have faith that things will work out for the best, whether it ends with the both of you together, or apart.

I don't know the girl, but there are always two sides of the same coin. I'm sure that in her own way she is feeling just as conflicted, hurt and confused as you are at this time, but for her own reasons she has decided that it would be best to be seperated. You would have a better chance at soothing old wounds if you both have time to cool off and get things in perspective. It does sound like some time off would be best for both of you.

Please don't do anything that is rash in the heat of your depression and pain, because you will regret it. Try to get out of the house, work out at the gym, go shopping, hiking at the park, to the zoo, anything but sitting there brooding and remorseful over this turn of events. I know it is difficult to think of doing anything constructive right now, but it sounds like you really need to straighten things out with yourself first.

The most important thing is to remember that you are strong and tough enough to handle this. It may feel like you can't, but set your teeth, jut out your chin and rough it. Do things for yourself for a change. Get determined and get mean with life. You have to move out? Fine. You can handle it. You can show everyone that you are strong enough to take care of yourself. I know that you are able to do this, because I remember when I lost my first love I felt very much the same way as you are describing. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, trust me. And it is bigger and brighter then anything you will have ever imagined if you can just make things happen for yourself.

Hang in there, take care of yourself first and allow yourself time for emotional healing. It will get better.

truly,
Shade


Edited by EllemyshShade (07/05/03 02:53 PM)


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OfflineYeti_009
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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: MOTH]
    #1688017 - 07/05/03 02:56 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

thank you so much guys.. i 'preciate it!!
i am glad i finally started getting replies..

hopefully more...


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OfflineYeti_009
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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688068 - 07/05/03 03:35 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I think she is so FUCKING BEAUTIFULL>.. i love hispanic chicks..
She is so great.. we have so much in common. cept the fact that i dont cheat..
She has been the only girlfriend i have ever had.. and the only one i have been sexually involved with!
I love her!..
she says she loves me!
I dont know man.. i am trying to revive this thread so people post!
Please Post !!
Well i am drunk!
People are playing halo at my house.. maybe i should finish my beer and wine and play counterstrike!
Peace Yeti


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688088 - 07/05/03 03:47 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

LEAVE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!

get as far away from her as possible, seriously, I know it's hard just like everyone else said, but you've just gotta find someone who's better to you.


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OfflineYeti_009
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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Faaip_De_Oiad]
    #1688093 - 07/05/03 03:50 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

dont u think she is KEWT?
cant play counterstrike.. my dad is watching..finding NEMO on the comp..
THAT BASTARD!!!
she is really hot and has a nice body.. i really miss her!
i dont think she is going to call me anymore? i guess i am fucked..
Keep in mind.. I want to marry this girl!
I wanted her to be my wife.. I have to have her or someone equally as awesome! but i dont know where to look!
fuck that.. i have to have her! i need her.. she is my everything!!


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688101 - 07/05/03 03:54 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

The sooner you let go, the better off you'll be. I've been through shit like this before. I know how hard it is to let go of someone so special, but if you care about yourself, you must do it. You don't deserve someone so cold.

Alcohol will most likely make things worse. But go out, meet other people. You might just find someone waaay better.


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688103 - 07/05/03 03:55 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Here are some more pics of her beautifullness!
Damn dewds .. i am so attracted to her.. I think i am obsessed..
I am too the point where i am ready to say
"If i can't have you , noone else will"
"your gonna be mine and only mine"
yea man. i dont even know.. i want to play counterstrike and get my agression out
64.156.162.124 is the ip for the server.. come join and play.. my name is Magic_Mushroom_Consumer_Man
peace guys


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688133 - 07/05/03 04:11 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

get out while you can, she knows you're obsessed, and she's using it to her advantage to just treat you how she wants. just break it off now, and save yourself some pain


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688154 - 07/05/03 04:34 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

"We were doing great, she was a bit abusive, but i cant handle that."

you don't have to handle it - believe it or not, there are girls out there who aren't abusive and who would be even more compatible with you than this one.

I say move on.... the phrase "there are plenty of fish in the sea" comes to mind - when I was your age I didn't believe it either; it can seem like the girl you're dating is THE ONE, but as I get older I realize how much I was kidding myself back at that age when I thought I was in love, when I really just wanted some tail and somebody to hold :wink:


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Strumpling]
    #1688178 - 07/05/03 04:46 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Going through the same thing. 6 days now.


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Urb]
    #1688366 - 07/05/03 06:22 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

no worrity!
at Your age I didnt know what love is, though i was sure i did.
My advice would be this:
First read Shakespeares sonnets to get the right feeling. Then call her, say its very important and make a date with her in a quiet, surreal place (under a bridge, in a forest or on a roof - be creative to impress her :smile: ).  Tell her that its gonna last all night long, so better choose a weekend or a holiday. Then get a LOT of your favorite alcohol. A lot! And only alcohol!!! Buy some olives, cherries or smth else to eat.
Then meet her at the specific place at 11pm, go to that place. Make a "picnic". Both get totally drunk (avoid throwing up :smile: ). And its important You dont get drunk alone. But dont press her. Be a 19th century English gentleman. (Smoking and a nice hat'd be impressive).
From dusk till dawn. I bet You'll have a conversation You never had...
And hopefully You'll get to know alot more about each other and about Yourselves.
Sometimes it helps.
And dont forget to walk her home. As a gentleman.


lucks!!


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: ivi]
    #1688389 - 07/05/03 06:35 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

I had a girlfriend exactly like that. I thought that exact same way you did. It really sucked, she kept me on a hanging on a string for several months, even after we had broken up. Eventually I got fed up, and now I am with my lovely girlfriend of 10 months. Take your time moving on, but don't brood over things that aren't important. You are only 18, there are tons of people out there to meet and a whole life to live.


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: ivi]
    #1688392 - 07/05/03 06:36 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Thanks IVI.. i certainly like your idea much more than anyone elses.. She loves olives' as do i..
Sounds like a good plan. thanks 4 the advice.!!
Except one problem.. i can not get a hold of her!>. I dont know where she is.. and her friends wont let me talk to her!


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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: Yeti_009]
    #1688422 - 07/05/03 07:05 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)


use Your intuition...


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    #1688423 - 07/05/03 07:06 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1688511 - 07/05/03 07:52 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

no MAN.. I CANT.. I HAVE TO HAVE HER.. oR NOONE ELSE WILL..
CAN I BUY A GUN AT A PAWN SHOP? DO I HAVE TO REGISTER IT WHEN I BUY IT OR CAN I JUST GET IT AND RUN?
please help me out?
maybe i dont need a gun>? i need her..
I am obsessed?
I should kill all of her friends
and run away with her!
YEA>.. thats probably a good deal.. cuz then she will only have me left!
Damn i am so smart!!


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