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InvisibleEgo Death
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Losing my girl & my mates, help!
    #1786162 - 08/06/03 08:42 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

OK so I started seeing this girl and it turns out shes just turned 16 and I'm turning 21 in Sept.

Basically it just happened and I thought nothing of it. So I introduce the new girl to my friends and to my shock they are like all behaving crazy!

1 of my m8s was flirting with her so I sent him messages l8r telling him I was pissed off and I didn't want him flirtin with her. N E way we had this huge row and he ended up blubin where he's under stress and he didn't want to lose me as a m8 n kinda sorted it out.

Then my m8 Franc phones like "Wat the hell u doin with a 15 year old man" I'm like "your girls 16 dickhead" (hes 19 though).
Then my m8 sam phones sayin "come over for a chat" when I get there hes like "she looks to young" i didn't think she did.
Then I see Matty who know her quite well and he's like "she cries wolf" I'm like wat, hes like, she tried gettin me done for rape wen I did'nt. Wether he did or not i don't know.

Now I just like met her dad an she really likes me, I like her but I don't wanna lose all my m8s. I can't believe all this shit man.

Wat the fck do, I do???


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: Ego Death]
    #1786284 - 08/06/03 09:17 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

It may be hard...but stick with your mates. If they're real friends don't give them up for a chick, it's not worth it.


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: trendal]
    #1786503 - 08/06/03 10:31 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Stick with your mates, don't lose them over some teenage girl who's hot in the biscuit.


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: neutralizer]
    #1786526 - 08/06/03 10:41 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Have you sat down and had a conversation with her and your friends? Or like, do they know her personality?

Did I understand correctly that one of you friends thinks that she is going to accuse you of rape? How does he know this? Is he just saying it to get you to break up with her? Why are your friends so concerned about YOUR girlfriend?

Do you think she's too young? Does she? What about her parents?

Is it such an issue with your friends that they are telling you its either them or her?


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: recalcitrant]
    #1787213 - 08/07/03 02:58 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

tell your mates to quit bitching and let you get with that barely legal chick.


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: zenmunk]
    #1787357 - 08/07/03 04:41 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

bro's before hoe's. It really is a good policy, really....Chick's are ruthless and will fuck you over quick enough, your bro's are longterm... i wish i listened when i was told..


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: PDU]
    #1787414 - 08/07/03 05:44 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

PDU said:
bro's before hoe's. It really is a good policy, really....Chick's are ruthless and will fuck you over quick enough, your bro's are longterm... i wish i listened when i was told..




True o so true


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: phobey]
    #1787577 - 08/07/03 08:16 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

>>Did I understand correctly that one of you friends thinks that she is going to accuse you of rape? How does he know this? Is he just saying it to get you to break up with her?<<<

He said she did this with him a couple of years ago. This friend I do not know really well and cannot tell if he's got some other motivation or lieing or what.

>>>Why are your friends so concerned about YOUR girlfriend?<<<
I really did not expect this. They think she is too young looking.

>>>Do you think she's too young? Does she? What about her parents?<<<
Personally 'No'. She doesn't care about numbers and her parents seem fine too!

>>>Is it such an issue with your friends that they are telling you its either them or her?<<<
Well no, but its starting to feel that way. I can't be with her around them, knowing what they all think. I could not involve her with my friends at all but it seems so sad that I have to.

What do you guys/gals think about the morales of just 21/just 16???


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: Ego Death]
    #1787581 - 08/07/03 08:19 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

I want to put my mates first but I think girls will always come first for any man, even them.

Anyone of them would fuck off if a babe with money offered to take them away they probly wouldn't even say bye.

None of them have a girl so maybe they want her theirselves.

Ahhhhhh, the paranoid crazy delusion of love. I've been blinded and cannot see the paths!!!


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: Ego Death]
    #1787684 - 08/07/03 10:00 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

You might need to find some better guys to call your mates...if you think they are willing to drop you like a hot potato for the first pretty pair of legs that comes their way  :smirk:

Honestly...stick with your friends before you stick with a chick. Do you think this is THE ONE? You might...although I'm willing to bet that it isn't "the one". Think of what happens tho...you give up your friends to stay with this girl...she "realizes" down the road that you two shouldn't be together for whatever messed up reason she dreams up...then she drops YOU like a hot potato, and you're left with neither friends or chick.

Not saying that this DEFINATELY will happen...but I've seen it happen WAY too many times to guys I know/have known to pretend this kind of thing doesn't happen. I'd say it happens MUCH more often than not.


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What you know you can't explain,
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That there's something wrong with the world.
You don't know what it is, but it's there....
Like a splinter in your mind...
Driving you mad.


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: trendal]
    #1790415 - 08/07/03 11:51 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

pals before gals.


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: Ego Death]
    #1791844 - 08/08/03 01:05 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Pals before gals, but make sure you tap that ass before you leave her


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: Azmodeus]
    #1792193 - 08/08/03 03:02 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Bros before hoes...

I read your post, but the grammar was pretty damn bad, so I only understood 1/2 the story. GL though.


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Re: Losing my girl & my mates, help! [Re: Zwieback0]
    #1798703 - 08/10/03 06:04 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Your mates are just trying to help you, I would serioulsy consider dumping her unless you like her alot, sounds like its cuzing probelms with your friends and plus she is kinda of young, anyways I know you will make the right choice.


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