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Just got invited to a sex party * 4
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My wife reconnected with an old friend from back in the day and he and his wife invited us to a swingers party at their house next week.  I hadn’t met them before (it’s someone who she knows from sober community) so we all went out to dinner last night, went great. 

This is pretty new to us; we’ve had threesomes and stuff but this sounds like it’s gonna be a fuck fest.  This couple who invited us seems to wanna swing more regularly than just parties too? Definitely has our curiosity piquing.

Any of y’all have experience swinging or lifestyle stuff?  Any tips?  I am not a terribly jealous guy and I can imagine turning any jealous feelings effectively into horny energy but you never know til it’s happening :shrug: but my wife and I have been together a long time, have great communication, and this has been a dream of ours that has basically been plopped right in our lap. I feel we would be fools not to go for it.


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb] * 1
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A Shroomerite got invited to a sex party :awemazing:


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb] * 4
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Psicomb said:
My wife reconnected with an old friend from back in the day and he and his wife invited us to a swingers party at their house next week.  I hadn’t met them before (it’s someone who she knows from sober community) so we all went out to dinner last night, went great. 

This is pretty new to us; we’ve had threesomes and stuff but this sounds like it’s gonna be a fuck fest.  This couple who invited us seems to wanna swing more regularly than just parties too? Definitely has our curiosity piquing.

Any of y’all have experience swinging or lifestyle stuff?  Any tips?  I am not a terribly jealous guy and I can imagine turning any jealous feelings effectively into horny energy but you never know til it’s happening :shrug: but my wife and I have been together a long time, have great communication, and this has been a dream of ours that has basically been plopped right in our lap. I feel we would be fools not to go for it.


I'm sure it seems obvious, but communication and trust are going to form the bedrock of enjoyment in any sort of non-vanilla sexual activity. This goes for dungeons, swinging, open relationships, you name it. Discuss it thoroughly beforehand. Don't take for granted that everything will go according to plan. Have an exit strategy. Given what you've said, this advice might be overkill, but it doesn't hurt. Bring some condoms, changes of clothes, and plenty of water.


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Mistakes] * 1
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:circlejerk:


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: KevinDontWave] * 9
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You are breaking forum rule #69:

"Forum members are at no point allowed to enjoy any kind of sex in the physical realm"


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: tomnl] * 9
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Any tips? Probably quite a few....also, DSHSB.


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb] * 1
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If your wife wants to be friends with her long lost friend and you in the same parties, hanging out....whatever, be CAREFUL

shit gets tense and its usually the women who are the ones to freak out.

I think its like a base human feeling of possessing someone/monogamous partners can be stronger when you throw another one or more new female friends that are like your wife as they are friends

then those thoughts about what if's creep in

shit can go to a dark jealous place, fast.


if you do it swing for the fences and don't bitch out..you may only get this chance once, maybe not....

tread lightly where angles dare not tread, brother.

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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb] * 2
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Advice would be to manscape, and wash your ass good b4 going

These kinda gatherings, never know what’s gonna find its way back there


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Mickalopagus] * 1
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:kaneclap::fuckinawesome::leocheers:


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb]
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Make sure to share your anal microbiome, if your healthy, to people of 'dubious health', but, not necessarily vis versa. :shrug:


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: deucedbi9] * 1
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Thanks for the advice people - I plan to DSESB


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb]
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Psicomb said:
Thanks for the advice people - I plan to DSESB


The Goog wasn't helpful. DSESB? Did you mean to 'Dry Smash Everyone's Shit Box'?

You got something against lube?

At least, become biome brothers with as many 'healthy individuals' as you can. :shrug:


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it's a bugger to cycle in.

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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: deucedbi9] * 3
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Erybodys shitbox is fair game to ol Psicomb

On an honest note, thanks in particular Mistakes.  Honesty and transparency are one of the major foundations of our relationship and we both are acknowledging that stepping further into swinging territory this is purely for the thrill and if/once things feel not-right we need to address it.  We both are very much in the swinging-but-not-open-relationship category and do not really picture it any differently.  We both are just high sex drive people who love to get freaky in all sorts of ways.

We have a couple nonverbal cues we are coming up with for bailing out of situations and we agreed that the others feelings always come first so if that means one of us can’t fuck someone that’s how it is

we are pretty far from vanilla, thankfully, so I expect our self-awareness, open mindedness, and good judgement to make this party a great experience.

Definitely bringing a lot of condoms, lube, water, mints, maybe some healthy homemade snacks to keep everyone fueled ..  not a drinker so imma take a 0.5mg Ativan and a light edible beforehand.  we are hsv positive but so are the hosts and I’m not expecting any convos around that during playtime to be super uncomfortable.  The hosts wife is hot and kinda negative and bitchy in all the sexy, right ways and I like that; I hope I get to fuck her while my wife watches.  The guy is hot too, he’s is an old hookup of hers from 20 years ago, so I’m excited that she will get her fill again too :smile: maybe even have a first DP wifey session in front of a crowd!


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Edited by Psicomb (08/15/26 06:16 PM)

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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb]
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Glad to help, as always. Edible and an Ativan? My man. Trying to put someone in a wheelchair with that combo. Swing for the fences, be safe, and have fun.


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Mistakes]
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I work in an adult sex club, what you describe is fairly common thing.  Swinger parties at peoples homes is often because clubs include strangers. Clubs host themes and it might not be what the parties involved are looking for ..

Ive attended many a party at peoples homes.

You can have BBQ, some of your own music, no strangers or unwanted players. Consent is key. But if you are open minded, bisexual, don't mind shapes and sizes, suck and fuck. Youll be fine.

I wouldnt be taking something to make sleepy like Atavan. Unless you are a bottom, and dont care what people do to your body.

Me Id rather pop a couple 20mg Cialis:retawed:


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: orison]
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Thanks man, I might tone it down to 0.25mg Ativan.  Just enough to shake off any initial jitters; I’m gonna be shaking like a tuning rod while trying to do my thing there at first.  Thankfully my wife always keeps me cool and relaxed, she’s the more outgoing one too, I can be smooth and social when the time calls, etc.. so Ativan or no Ativan it’ll be great. 

So about Cialis.  I normally have no erection issues but I guess my experience is hours long endurance-fucking sessions can sometimes make it harder to maintain one.  would it be useful to someone who generally can perform alright?  I’d need to get a script first too..


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb]
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Im 50 years old .. Assist for me to just play longer. You should avoid it, if you are much younger and havent issues.


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: orison]
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Okay good to know. I won’t worry about it for now then.  I’m 34 and, thankfully, in good health.  I have a feeling I’m gonna be the baby of this party.  General demographic seems to be a little bit older than me. Kinda exciting

The host timed the party for when their teenage son has to go out of town to visit family.  Being a responsible, degenerate adult is a funny thing and I’m here for it


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Edited by Psicomb (08/15/26 07:03 PM)

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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb] * 2
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Sounds like y'all want to do it. Have fun and be safe. That ain't my bag, baby.


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Re: Just got invited to a sex party [Re: Psicomb] * 2
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Sex party sounds like it has balloons, lazer tag and pizza, can't you just call it an orgy?!


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