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I lost a loved one today
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The pain is immense. I am grateful for the opportunity to share the burden. If anyone has any song suggestions, I’m putting together a grieving playlist. I’ve found it helpful in the past. I would appreciate any recommendations. Right now I just want to hear sad stuff.


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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."

Judge Aaron Satie

Edited by vault123 (06/26/19 09:56 PM)

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123] * 3
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Hang in there friend. Life can be cruel and it hurts like hell -many including myself have been there. Take as much time as you need and do what you gotta do. I wish you the best... :heart:

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123] * 1
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10000 days tool it’s an album he made after his mom passed and it mostly all about how he felt and  dealt with it.. you have my condolences..


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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: scarabaeus] * 1
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Sorry for your loss! I've lost a few close people to me and Lord know it isn't easy to cope with. People say "time heals all wounds" but it takes a long time to get over some things. I lost my Grandma almost 10 years ago and I still think about her and all she did and taught me to this day.

We have a great community here filled with people who are available to talk you through this tough time, I wish you all the best and I hope one day you find closure my friend.


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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: FruitOfLife] * 1
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I've come to learn that heartache is a beautiful thing. It's a deep connection with love. Every time I think I've "lost" someone, I challenge that egotistical viewpoint. Peace.

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123] * 2
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My heart goes out to you brother. Just know that we're here for you. Sending love.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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Thanks. Thank you very much. You wouldn’t believe how happy this makes me. I can’t help but think. “Why am I still alive, when so many others I know aren’t?” It feels like we’re surrounded by death. Some how it hasn’t come for me yet.


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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123]
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I’m currently building a shrine in my yard out of rocks and other stuff lol. I’ll post a pic when I’m finished with it. I haven’t been sleeping very well recently anyways.


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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123] * 1
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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123] * 1
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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123] * 1
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vault123 said:
The pain is immense. I am grateful for the opportunity to share the burden. If anyone has any song suggestions, I’m putting together a grieving playlist. I’ve found it helpful in the past. I would appreciate any recommendations. Right now I just want to hear sad stuff.


I've never had to go through anything like that yet. But i know it's coming.

Duno what you're into. I'd probably be scoring opiates and playing nothing but classical for a few days.

Bitter:


Hopeful:


Wholeshabang:


I think the idea would be to allow whatever emotions to express themselves and meditate on the persons transition and life, trying to bridge the gap back to your own life as directly as possible, while reflecting on how you can enable a part of them to live on through your actions.


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The universe gives no fucks. And takes no fucks.
May His Circuits Ever Function

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123]
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in case anyone didn’t already know that I’m completely out of my mind. I’m sleeping by it. I just can’t do anything else right now. On the bright side. I was having some anxiety about death a few months ago. Right now that no longer bothers me. I feel like I completely got past that whole thing. Like jokeshop said I actually look forward to seeing what’s next. If it really is nothing, then I won’t care.


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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123]
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Who was it, tho?


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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: The_Ghost]
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That is beautiful, and very heartening. I will do just that. It sucked being out in public earlier because it’s embarrassing to see a grown man get emotional in public. I’ve got my shrine now though, and my playlist, and there’s no one else around.


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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."

Judge Aaron Satie

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: The_Ghost]
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I can’t say. It is not my information to share. Please be understanding.


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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123]
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vault123 said:
I can’t say. It is not my information to share. Please be understanding.


Of course. All the same to me. Was just curious, and didn't make sense off-hand to not be able to share that, but I can understand having personal reasons and whatnot. We're all cut from the same fabric ultimately. Grief is just as fundamental to the human condition as love. Soon enough the tide will turn.



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/ / / / / / / LISTEN TO MY MUSIC: E X E D / / / / / / /
The universe gives no fucks. And takes no fucks.
May His Circuits Ever Function

Edited by The_Ghost (06/27/19 01:03 AM)

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123]
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I thought these fit the mood pretty good too.





I have no idea what the artists intentions were in these songs. I would argue that it doesn’t matter.


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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."

Judge Aaron Satie

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: The_Ghost]
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Life is complicated.


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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."

Judge Aaron Satie

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: vault123] * 1
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This made me think some on the concept of shrines in general. By creating a material abstraction, one enacts both a sort of communion tether that people come to expect from such sites, but also helps shed oneself of direct unexpressed attachment to whoever the shrine is addressed-to; acting as a sort of ground-wire for what may otherwise turn into pockets of static that end up getting expressed with far less elegance.


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/ / / / / / / LISTEN TO MY MUSIC: E X E D / / / / / / /
The universe gives no fucks. And takes no fucks.
May His Circuits Ever Function

Edited by The_Ghost (06/27/19 01:43 AM)

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Re: I lost a loved one today [Re: The_Ghost]
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That is brilliant. You have got a talent for words.


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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."

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