Morican said:

Haters will always hate on a player.

True that women don't like to chase but instead want to be thought of as a prize to be won, but there are those of us that get hit on enough to not have to chase. My ex-wife not only asked me out but also proposed to me, and she was a hot 19 year old and I a shubby, thuggy, 35 year old.
This one guy I worked with and whom had the hots for her back when I paid her no attenting and in fact was with another girl, actually got pissed that she just fell on my lap and was so into me.
He would constantly bring up the fact that he met her first and that I didn't even like her and would call her a b_tch. I didn't pay him any attention because I think haters just make them selves look pathetic by bitching and crying foul at others good fortune or whatever it is. One of our mutual female coworkers got fed up with his hating and told him to stop hating and congratulate me for my skills, that pissed him off, he didn't. Give me my props but did shut the ufck.
Haters just hate because of angrer at their own lack of ability to do what others claim do have happen so easily.
I say, whatever, others opinions don't help or hinder my game, so hate all you want.

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TBH Ive never had to chase girls and they tend to chase me. I mean I DO sometimes see someone sooooo attractive I chase her but that usually never works out...it's the ones that chase me that i actually end up with.
I cant go to the bar without getting hit on.
I am not even muscley or fit or all that good looking. OP could probably kick my ass but girls adore me.

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not to be gay, but...

you dun look 18, you look like 35.  also, shave your fuckn body and get a tan.

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hahahahahahaha. Well there's an oxymoron if I ever heard one. 

Me_Roy said:

You look like you really care about your physique.  You obviously also really care about how sexy you are. Both of these are points against you with many -- maybe most -- girls.  This is to the same point as your black friend's tip.

I get the impression that you think sexiness is a matter of muscle mass and definition.  I don't think that many women would agree with you.  Attitude, confidence, social status, expertise in some field all matter more, I think.

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ibetrippinballs said:

Me_Roy said:

You look like you really care about your physique.  You obviously also really care about how sexy you are. Both of these are points against you with many -- maybe most -- girls.  This is to the same point as your black friend's tip.

I get the impression that you think sexiness is a matter of muscle mass and definition.  I don't think that many women would agree with you.  Attitude, confidence, social status, expertise in some field all matter more, I think.

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i don't think sexiness is simply a matter of muscle mass and definition or even looks in general. when i say i'm sexy as fuck i'm just talking purely of my physical looks, which i've been complimented on many times.

i agree with you 100%. looks really are not that important when it comes to attraction. i find some average looking girls fucking sexy because of the way they carry themselves.

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