Anonymous #1 said:

Last time i tried to help my mother she scammed me for about 3000$!!

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Anonymous #7 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

Last time i tried to help my mother she scammed me for about 3000$!!

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I smell bullshit. You call your mom "mum", so you're obviously from Europe. If you're from Europe, then she wouldn't have scammed you for $3000 (dollars) because Europe does not use the USD. Your story would have been more believable if you said she scammed you for €3000 (euros).



Fuck off, troll

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Anonymous #7 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

Last time i tried to help my mother she scammed me for about 3000$!!

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I smell bullshit. You call your mom "mum", so you're obviously from Europe. If you're from Europe, then she wouldn't have scammed you for $3000 (dollars) because Europe does not use the USD. Your story would have been more believable if you said she scammed you for €3000 (euros).



Fuck off, troll

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Anonymous #10 said:

I don't hold the old-fashion/religious beliefs that children need to respect their parents just because a man blew his load into a woman, and conception occurred. Neither of my parents seem remotely as disturbed as your mom OP, but they both have been married 4-5 times, never gave a shit about how their marriages affected me, and I never received support of any kind from either of them.  It's much more complicated than that, but my point is that I really don't care much for them. 

My first child is about to turn one year old and my parents have only served as an example of what not to do.  You seem like a loyal son so I'm guessing your mom has a fair amount of good in her?  Do you love her?  I don't know the lifetime of details that form your opinion of your mom, but I doubt I'd have much if any contact with her if I were you. 

Hypochondriac + Two Failed Suicides = I want attention! 

Breaking your arm and cutting yourself up on purpose is fucking just plain nuts.  There aren't any questions here about whether or not she's severely messed up.  If in 23 years she's done nothing to change herself then why keep bothering?  This will become an even bigger issue when you get married and have children.  Live your life man, and if she does nothing but cause you harm then I would move on... permanently.  Think about how her behavior has affected you, and not just emotionally but how it shaped you as you grew up.

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Anonymous #8 said:

if shes reached a point of wanting to killherself and is taking it seriously, theres nothing u can do. some people are that sick.put yerself in her shoes, what with all the medicines, the addictions to these medicines (both physical and psychological), the "diseases" shes carrys (wheter they are real or not), the loneliness, and the guilt of being a "failed" person to both her children and perhaps society (im assuming, sorry if im waay off, but based on what u wrote....).... if u were in that boat would u want to kill yerself too? when u get to be her age and u have been carrying that pain for years on end.... sometimes one just gets tired of it. its hard to be sick everyday.  its hard to be an addict. its hard to be alone..... and its even harder to be all 3 for years and years and years.

i doubt there is anything u can do to help her at this point. just let her know that u love her and that u are happy with what she has done for u. make her feel wanted the best u can. but if she offs herself, then its how it had to be. she knows her pain and she knows how heavy it is to carry all the time. onceu felt that pain to a point of becoming crippled in life, theres nothing anyone can say to "knock some sense into them"..... that concept is childish for someone so far over the edge.

then again she might be doing it for attention.ive known people like this and that really pisses me off. being someone who actually has wanted to kill myself for years on end, i hate people who not only threaten others with it for sympathy points but brag and gloat about it. the real suicidal fucks are the people who dont express too much outload. they keep that dirty little secret right next to their pain like a revolver.

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I dont blame her for being depressed, but it pisses me off cause i suspect she is doing it for attention, but thanks for the advice your right i guess there is nothing really i can do for her...

Anonymous #1 said:

Anonymous #7 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

Last time i tried to help my mother she scammed me for about 3000$!!

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I smell bullshit. You call your mom "mum", so you're obviously from Europe. If you're from Europe, then she wouldn't have scammed you for $3000 (dollars) because Europe does not use the USD. Your story would have been more believable if you said she scammed you for €3000 (euros).



Fuck off, troll

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Im european, overseas at the moment, as in the states, i have no problem converting the money so it makes more sense to the readers on here, if i said 30.000 krones, who the fuck would know how much that is??
Hence i did the convertion into dollars...

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