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Anonymous #6
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #11]
#7448162 - 09/24/07 03:47 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah, I didn't even think of that. With these nutty bitches sometimes they make up fake pregnancies to get attention. Also, if she is knocked up it could be some other dude's because nutty bitches are usually slutty too.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #5]
#7448691 - 09/24/07 06:38 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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ya know, i find it really funny that some women think the decision should be solely up to them. they are not the only person that contributed to a fertilized egg, nor should they have full control of decisions following said conception. yeah they may have to carry it for 9 months and lots of pain and blah blah fucking blah, but guess what, if the male says he does not want the kid and they decide to continue and keep it, they should be given full responsibility and sign a paper giving all legal action and monetary pursuit up. its fucked up how two people can make a mistake, yet only one gets to decide the fate of them both.
the bitches who decide to keep when the man says he doesnt want to, youre the ones who create woman beaters and murderers. god might rule some of your lives, but he does not rule everyones life.
as for advice for the poster of this topic, is there any way you could slip her some pennyroyal tea??
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Anonymous #13
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #11]
#7448757 - 09/24/07 06:57 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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good luck
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Anonymous #1
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#7449042 - 09/24/07 08:07 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Yeah, I didn't even think of that. With these nutty bitches sometimes they make up fake pregnancies to get attention. Also, if she is knocked up it could be some other dude's because nutty bitches are usually slutty too.
Btw, that wasn't the original poster. Also, she doesn't eat to well, but she doesn't drink. I dont know. I wished she lived closer, we have sort of made plans this weekend, where I will talk to her in person about all this. I am sure she is half expecting this. I just hope it goes well. I need her to at least explain to me why she wants to keep the child. I need to hear a reason, other than, the last abortion I had I was pressured, and I don't want to be pressured again.
Further, I didn't come in her. and at first we were using a condom, and than she said she was going to go back on the pill at which point I stopped using one, but didn't come into her until after a week of her being on the pill. Although, I guess it goes to show you don't need to actually cum. We only really saw each other on weekends, and this was over about a 3-4 week period.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7449050 - 09/24/07 08:08 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Also, thanks for all the support and input. The good and the bad, I need it.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7449058 - 09/24/07 08:10 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: but didn't come into her until after a week of her being on the pill.
The pill doesn't take effect until 1 month after a girl first starts taking it.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#7449107 - 09/24/07 08:22 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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really, she assured me that it was safe. Either way that doesn't matter. she tracks her cycles very thoroughly, and the week she wasn't on the pill, but I had stop using a condom she was the most fertile. So its more than likely that week.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7449154 - 09/24/07 08:33 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Yeah, I didn't even think of that. With these nutty bitches sometimes they make up fake pregnancies to get attention. Also, if she is knocked up it could be some other dude's because nutty bitches are usually slutty too.
Btw, that wasn't the original poster. Also, she doesn't eat to well, but she doesn't drink. I dont know. I wished she lived closer, we have sort of made plans this weekend, where I will talk to her in person about all this. I am sure she is half expecting this. I just hope it goes well. I need her to at least explain to me why she wants to keep the child. I need to hear a reason, other than, the last abortion I had I was pressured, and I don't want to be pressured again.
Further, I didn't come in her. and at first we were using a condom, and than she said she was going to go back on the pill at which point I stopped using one, but didn't come into her until after a week of her being on the pill. Although, I guess it goes to show you don't need to actually cum. We only really saw each other on weekends, and this was over about a 3-4 week period.
now is your chance push her down the stairs.
.. also, now who knows about the preggers test or not, but so far as her being late. couldn't her just starting back on the pill fuck her cycle up, depending on.. voodoo? I don't know, none of that shit makes the least bit of sense to me. just.... just go with the stairs.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #11]
#7449299 - 09/24/07 09:03 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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A girl has to be on the pill for 30 days for it to be effective. It can also cause a false positive reading on a test.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #8]
#7454235 - 09/26/07 01:13 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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wtf she told me everything was okay after a week. I was talking to another girl tonight who told me it had to also be a month. I'm started to feel taken, but that obviously doesnt matter anymore.
I'm seeing her on friday, and I wish it was now. I have a lot to say. I have very little actualy, but I know it will turn into a lot. She has a hard time listening to and following logic. I met a girl the other night. keep in mind I am not in any realtionship with this girl I have knocked up, and that her myspace profile is also listed as dating. Well I meet a friend in my buliding the other night, its a female friend. ANd she thinks i'm fucking her after meeting her 3hrs. I'm not and even if I am wtf! how does it matter. I finaly just said I'm not talking to you anymore tonight, after she demanded a play by play of the night. She responded with I HATE YOU and I'm a Liar. I am starting to hate her. I was really hoping she would be a friend. I have trouble getting close to people. But she apparently has trouble being reasobale with people. Its late and I'm rambaling, and I should use paragraphs. but this girl is pushing me harder than anyone has before in my life.
AND SHE WANTS TO HAVE MY BABY, wtf!!!!! she said the other day that she wants it simply because she doesn't want to be alone. I know she is at least 1,000 dollars in debt, if not more. She has no job, no work ethnic, and thinks her parents will pay for the kid if she has one!!!! wtf wtf wtf, she seemed so normal and intelligent when I met her! no one tell me I'm stupid, because i've been doing that all week.
sigh, goodnight.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7454500 - 09/26/07 05:45 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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don't worry, when I was a freshman in college I was with a bitch even crazier than that. luckily I didn't knock her up 
you should really tell her that having a kid won't mean she's not alone. it'll just mean she's alone with a FUCKTON of responsibility and work to do, all the time, for the next two decades. children are NOT company. they are work. if she wants company, she needs a pet.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #11]
#7454777 - 09/26/07 07:48 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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I really really really think this girl is fucking with you.
If she is on the pill an OTC test will not be accurate. I would tell her that I'm not talking to her anymore about it until she has a letter from the dr confirming the pregnancy.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7454895 - 09/26/07 08:33 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: wtf she told me everything was okay after a week. I was talking to another girl tonight who told me it had to also be a month. I'm started to feel taken, but that obviously doesnt matter anymore.
I'm seeing her on friday, and I wish it was now. I have a lot to say. I have very little actualy, but I know it will turn into a lot. She has a hard time listening to and following logic. I met a girl the other night. keep in mind I am not in any realtionship with this girl I have knocked up, and that her myspace profile is also listed as dating. Well I meet a friend in my buliding the other night, its a female friend. ANd she thinks i'm fucking her after meeting her 3hrs. I'm not and even if I am wtf! how does it matter. I finaly just said I'm not talking to you anymore tonight, after she demanded a play by play of the night. She responded with I HATE YOU and I'm a Liar. I am starting to hate her. I was really hoping she would be a friend. I have trouble getting close to people. But she apparently has trouble being reasobale with people. Its late and I'm rambaling, and I should use paragraphs. but this girl is pushing me harder than anyone has before in my life.
AND SHE WANTS TO HAVE MY BABY, wtf!!!!! she said the other day that she wants it simply because she doesn't want to be alone. I know she is at least 1,000 dollars in debt, if not more. She has no job, no work ethnic, and thinks her parents will pay for the kid if she has one!!!! wtf wtf wtf, she seemed so normal and intelligent when I met her! no one tell me I'm stupid, because i've been doing that all week.
sigh, goodnight.
Oh man. First of all, let me give you my condolences. Dealing with nutty and immature bitches SUCKS. I've been there. Everything you are telling me about this girl and what she's doing screams immature, fickle, selfish, stupid, and manipulative. Girls like this SUCK to have to deal with because they are fucking crazy and guided by whatever fickle desire and emotion pops into their head that day.
This situation totally sounds like the chick is bothered by the whole "sex and no love" situation. I've seen it before. I used to fuck this one chick and she couldn't wrap her little brain around the fact that I didn't want her, I didn't find her very physically attractive, and that I was just fucking her because she was the only vagina around at the time. She liked guy attention and she wanted guys to go all gaga over her and treat her like she was a queen so that she could have power over them. Ironically, the second that she had power over them she got bored with them. Go figure. Girls like this end up fucking a lot of guys because they are so promiscuous and they think that because they are getting such guy attention that they are hot, amazing, and desirable. In reality, us guys are just horny and we'll fuck anything that moves. Bitches like this are POISON, son. I'm almost 30...so I have been around the block a few times. Even though I'm a horny fucker I won't stick my dick in girls like this anymore.
You NEED to have this girl get an abortion (if she is even telling the truth about the whole pregnancy). Whatever you have to do you need to do it. Maybe go to her parents? Maybe play her game and act all caring to try to persuade her to go to the clinic? Whatever it takes you need to make sure it happens. Imagine dealing with this stupid bitch for the rest of your life. But, my one piece of advice is don't come across as pushy or desperate. If you come across as pushy with girls like this they just become stubborn. If you come across as desperate then they won't listen to you. You need another strategy.
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Anonymous #14
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7455431 - 09/26/07 11:42 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
AND SHE WANTS TO HAVE MY BABY, wtf!!!!! she said the other day that she wants it simply because she doesn't want to be alone. I know she is at least 1,000 dollars in debt, if not more. She has no job, no work ethnic, and thinks her parents will pay for the kid if she has one!!!! wtf wtf wtf, she seemed so normal and intelligent when I met her! no one tell me I'm stupid, because i've been doing that all week.
You, my friend, have knocked up the worst kind of girl
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Anonymous #6
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #14]
#7455450 - 09/26/07 11:46 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: You, my friend, have knocked up the worst kind of girl
Yep. Poor guy. I can't wait until the male birth control pill comes out.
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Anonymous #15
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#7456709 - 09/26/07 05:38 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's called a condom.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #15]
#7460857 - 09/27/07 03:35 PM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Damn bro.
I've had my experiences (am currently, as well) with nutty bitches. I know your situation and that terrible feeling of doom deep within your chest. Just hold on tight, you're going for a ride. You've done well getting a grip on reality and I'm sure the idea has already set in.
Bout a year ago (as of June) my girlfriend and I had an abortion. We were going through some pretty serious drug and alcohol benjes and we found out about two months after she got pregnant that she was. Seeing how a 2 month old baby who's had it's share of mushrooms, acid, cocaine, and alcohol would probably come out as scrambled eggs we made the responsible decision to not bring another "sped" into this world. Do I sometimes regret the decision? Definitely. I've spent a year in depression trying to deal with the bullshit, but I know it worked out better in the end for everybody involved (especially the child). However, in this situation all I did was tell my girlfriend that I would support her (and let her know my opinion about aborting it) and she made the decision on her own.
Give this girl some time. She's only just pregnant, you've got some time before you don't have a choice to have the baby. Well, right now you don't have a choice. The harder you press into her your opinion the harder she's going to resent you for it (if I know women). This chick knows she's in a serious situation and I'm sure she knows that she cannot afford to have this baby. Just let her come to the decision on her own, the last thing you want to do is persuade her into doing something she doesn't actually want to do. Regardless of how shitty it's life will be, if she dumps it and she isn't entirely sure for herself it's what she wanted there's a good chance it will seriously fuck her up. I don't care whether you want to continue a relationship with her or not, persuading her into doing it would be a bad, bad decision.
If anything express your concerns about the quality of life the child would have. Remind her that it costs roughly half a mill to raise a child to the age of 18 and that she's a broke ass hoe. She'll come to her senses, just give it time.
And if all else fails you could always try my "smoke it out" routine (my girlfriend is often times late on her period and I go through nervous spouts where I smoke an oz of kinebud with her a week until the baby drops out... plus she's a heavy drinker, chances are she's been pregnant a few times we haven't known about).
Oh yeah, just wait until she starts having morning sickness and see how badly she wants to have an eight pound screaming bowling ball drop out of her soon to be cavernous vagina. It won't happen.
Ss
P.S. W00T, my gf went on her period yesterday. *High fives*
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Anonymous #16
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #16]
#7469024 - 09/30/07 02:11 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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ps apparently the girl i posted about is no longer my gf.
suicide, anyone?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #16]
#7469042 - 09/30/07 02:34 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: ps apparently the girl i posted about is no longer my gf.
suicide, anyone?
That wasn't the original poster, and since this is all anonymous I have no idea who he is referring to.
Anyway, being the original poster let me give an update. I just got home (about 4:30am) from her place. Things are good now, I hope. For awhile. There was some fighting about other things, but before I left she admitted she was being very jealous, and that everything I said did make sense. Although, she did say that after I said I dont think we should be sleeping together anymore. Long, long story. She decided on an abortion. I guess its not 100% becuase she hasn't made an appointment yet, but I'm pretty sure she will follow through on it.
I told her why I didn't want a child, explained to her why I think it would be bad for a child right now for both of us. I didn't touch on her being slightly unstable emotionally, but focused on how she is sitll living at home, and just starting at a community college at 20. Meaning she has time to get out there and make something of herself. That life will get different, blah, blah.
I told her not to give me an answer today about whether she would keep it or not, and to think about what I said. But instead tell me why she wants a baby. She answered because I want one. which prompted me to say wtf, no thats what I asked you. She said because she didn't want to be a lone. Which prompted me to bring up the conversation we had about her barely getting out into the world... IDK, who needs to hear this. So far I think things are going to be okay for me here. I've learned a valuable lesson. Thanks for the support shroomery.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7469054 - 09/30/07 02:42 AM (16 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hey bro, i've been looking for an update.
glad things aren't as shitty as they seemed. good luck dealing with the abortion emotions, mine happened a year and a half ago and i'm still fucked up over it.
good luck, bro.
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