first off, try to maximize foreplay. rub her down, go down on her (do some reading if you haven't done this yet - my main advice would be to tease the area and don't just start sucking the clit like a hoover), kisses and light touches along her body. all this will help get her in a more receptive, easier to climax state before you even begin.
then once the penetration begins, don't think about it. don't think "holy shit, i'm doing it, i'm having sex, oh this feels so good". just don't. that's how you work yourself up to the minute-man stage of arousal. think of other shit. think of fat bitches and dead puppies, or cartoons, or homework or whatever. count the dots on the ceiling or the lines on the wall. just put your mind some place else for a while to avoid early eruption.
but like everyone's saying, it's just sex. you'll have it again. best not to get yourself worked up over it.
oh, and lastly, if she can handle it, bring her knees to her ears and angle your guy upwards towards the mons. hello g-spot.
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