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what should i do?
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ok...basically i have an issue in that my best friend, a guy, wants to sleep with me (im a girl btw)

problem is he has a gf, who is also a pretty good friend of mine. he wants to sleep with me because she has refused to have sex with him for about 3 months, because shes stressed about stuff atm and it brings back her anxieties about sex caused by a relationship she had a few years ago where the guy basically blackmailed her into having sex with him and made her really unhappy

so my best friend is apparently really worries that hes gonna cheat on her with a succession of random sluts because he really wants some - so wants to sleep with me instead to stop that happening/ensure its kept totally secret so it wouldnt hurt her feelings. because as he says hes totally in love with her, he just has some physical needs.

i dont think i can do that to my friend tho, but its worrying me. i mean me and this guy would definitely be fuck buddies if it wasnt for his gf, but i dont think wed be an actual couple. but theres always been a lot of sexual tension weve just never actually been there. hes often telling me hed liek to have sex with me/has masturbated thinking of me. and argues that thinking about me in that way practically equates to cheating anyway as its not lusting after someone random but an actual person

oh god.

advice?

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Don't do it. If he's so horny after 3 months of no sex that he's willing to cheat on his gf that he loves apparently then he's a pig. Plus you'd ruin your friendship with your friend. Tell your friend that he told you he wants to fuck you. then she'll dump his ass. it's what he deserves. and later if you're still craving his dick fucking him in secret ain't as bad a month after they break up

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous #2 said:
Don't do it. If he's so horny after 3 months of no sex that he's willing to cheat on his gf that he loves apparently then he's a pig. Plus you'd ruin your friendship with your friend. Tell your friend that he told you he wants to fuck you. then she'll dump his ass. it's what he deserves. and later if you're still craving his dick fucking him in secret ain't as bad a month after they break up



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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #3]
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nahh, theyve been together 3 and a half years...my main like issue is whether to tell her or not i guess, not really with sleeping with him. if i was that desperate for cock i cud go out and find it. its just concerning me. especially as he has bipolar and can really flip out sometimes.

but hes always been such an amazing friend to me - and if i told her and they did split up i think he'd probably commit suicide. he does truly love her, u can see it in his eyes. and he's been near to suicide before.

im stuck coz i dont wanna lose my best friend, fuck up his relationship, or lose my other friend. but he is pushing a bit :S

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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No offense, but if you believe he cares about her and he wants to go BEHIND HER BACK to FUCK HER FRIEND then it sounds like you are both scum and made for each other and should totally go for it!:)

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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let the willy wiggle! :highfive:

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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He should dump his girlfriend.

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #4]
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ive never known any guy thats not cheated. not a single one. and not many girls. i personally never have cheated on anyone, incidently.

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Most guys don't cheat.  Kind of depends on what social circle you are in.  None of my friends cheat on their partners but out in the world I gather it happens kind of often.

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #3]
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You sound like your mind is already made up. You're just trying to justify it.

Bottom line is we guys are always doing this shit. We feed you some line about how we love our gf so we don't look like total losers. And then give a sob story about how our gf doesn't treat us right.

It's a very time consuming method but works every time with good "friends". This has got me laid with many of the girls I've been "friends" with. And thank god for girls like you. That can't seem to figure it out. Or maybe you do get it but you just want an excuse to to bang him.
Either way we don't care, same result in the end  :badslave:

Just go ahead and do it. Then brace for the eventual Jerry springer scene. Where everyones screaming and yanking on each others weave.

The truth will eventually come out. And you will be blamed for all of it. Good luck and again, thank god for girls like you

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Very insightful # 6

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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haha love it #6 thanks very much

dw ive already had plenty of scenes like that. ive just usually been the one crossed :P i did do some unfortunate things a few years ago tho, oopsie

genuinely tho, this is a bit different to the usual line i think. hes done it plenty of times with other girls - most notably a girl who my ex who cheated on me with my best friend also cheated on my best friend his new gf with, as well as his own ex from several years ago, who he never actually fucked, just got great excitement out of planning sex weekends away with.

maybe i shud get a new friend circle :P

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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You could be in my "friend" circle lol, Jk.
Seriously tho I hope what I said helps. He's most likely tried this with every one in your circle. Just ask around.

We're all pigs, this is not news to us.

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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that's fucked up you slut

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #7]
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Tell him to jack off. Physical needs my ass.

He should dump her or get the fuck over it.

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #8]
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Good point, its not a physical need, its an emotional need.

Physical needs can easily be solved by masturbation; this is why the number of sex crimes has gone down dramatically in areas that have a high rate of internet usage.

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Anonymous #5 said:
Good point, its not a physical need, its an emotional need.

Physical needs can easily be solved by masturbation; this is why the number of sex crimes has gone down dramatically in areas that have a high rate of internet usage.



Think of all the rape victims porn is saving!


0!
They'll just get so obsessed and bored with masturbating they cannot feed their sexual urges so they must have some physical contact.

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #9]
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you guys are a bunch of cock-blockers.

OP, you should let him have sex with you. it could be you two's fun little secret, and it would likely strengthen your relationship with him.

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #10]
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cock blockers???

do you think you're going to marry him???
why lose a good friend just to have sex with him??

if you don't have sex he's disappointed..so what???
if you do you lose a good friend...

dumb sluts these days
do whatever you want i'm just saying

just for considering it, you're a bitch
a dumb bitch

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Re: what should i do? [Re: Anonymous #7]
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you are a spiteful hater and a cock-blocker.

its a common myth that sex will destroy the friendship. its also retarded to think that the only time its appropriate to have sex is when the possibility of marriage exists.

OP, have some fun and give it a try. don't listen to these Patriarchal douches saying it will make you a slut. sex is fun and you know it. be safe about it and its all good. you know you've imagined sleeping with him before anyway.

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