ok...basically i have an issue in that my best friend, a guy, wants to sleep with me (im a girl btw)
problem is he has a gf, who is also a pretty good friend of mine. he wants to sleep with me because she has refused to have sex with him for about 3 months, because shes stressed about stuff atm and it brings back her anxieties about sex caused by a relationship she had a few years ago where the guy basically blackmailed her into having sex with him and made her really unhappy
so my best friend is apparently really worries that hes gonna cheat on her with a succession of random sluts because he really wants some - so wants to sleep with me instead to stop that happening/ensure its kept totally secret so it wouldnt hurt her feelings. because as he says hes totally in love with her, he just has some physical needs.
i dont think i can do that to my friend tho, but its worrying me. i mean me and this guy would definitely be fuck buddies if it wasnt for his gf, but i dont think wed be an actual couple. but theres always been a lot of sexual tension weve just never actually been there. hes often telling me hed liek to have sex with me/has masturbated thinking of me. and argues that thinking about me in that way practically equates to cheating anyway as its not lusting after someone random but an actual person
oh god.
advice?
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