Anonymous #5 said: this is very good advice. but this needs to be followed up with kino, or non-verbal game. so so important. you can know all of the above but if you don't know how to kino escalate you are seriously at a disadvantage.
The Di Carlo Kino Escalation Ladder
While these observations are generally true, I have to say that in my experience, the less "mind-games" you play, i.e. standing her-up for a party, the "push-pull" dance, or socially based games of control, the more women seem to become obssesed with you. I think this is because you appear mysterious, even though you in-fact, are being neutral on all counts.
Lol, I try to avoid any mind games beyond a light teasing, and since I've been observing the mating dance, I can't help but laugh at the ridiculousness of a lot of these motions.
I think "game" is a horrible misnomer however. Since it implies that you're faking these social interactions in some way. I've seen a ton of douchebags pull tons of fugly tail with all their "game", all the while being stunned at how I managed to bang the hottest chicks they've met, since I never have to fake being calm, outgoing, or in control. Infact, being a little goofy, and showing how "not-cool" I am, has gotten a lot of girls to hit on me inadvertantly.
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good luck fellas. The number one piece of advice, is to be yourself.
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