i try not to pass judgement, but i don't date obese girls.
i was the lucky one in my family: out of three children, i am the only skinny one. 5'8 140lbs, i could actually do with a little bulking up. my brother and sister are both fat though. they had to live most of their childhood without a father, while i at least had both parents until i was 12. i learned the fundamentals of eating healthy and exersising while i was young, but they really missed out on it. genetics does have a lot to do with it too. they tend to look a lot more like my dad, while i take more from my mother, who is the skinnier of the two.
i guess what i'm trying to say is that you can't always judge people based on body weight. like other people have said, there is often a story behind the person, and it's not completely their fault.
change is not impossible though. a lot of adults simply lack the willpower, which i do not respect at all.
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