The_Red_Crayon said:

I say go for the other girl, why let some hag keep making you miserable, the kids are out of the house then do what makes you happy.

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best advice yet!

archangel0585 said:

niteowl said:

So it is your opinion that just thinking about having sex w/someone other than your spouse is cheating/having an affair........

What about masturbation........millions of married men masturbate..........are they cheaters too

Sounds like someone cheated on you and your feelings are on your sleeve about it.

You must be a Christian Fundamentalist. The worst kind of human on the planet.

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I assume you're not talking to me.

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CherryBom said:

This thread is fucked. 

I totally feel for this poor woman. I really, really do. 

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CherryBom said:

At least tell her that what your plans are. She deserves that much.

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mndfreeze said:

So obviously you should cheat on her.

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niteowl said:

I already told her that I'd be looking for some sex elsewhere if she didn't start putting out more than once every month or two.

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adrug said:

I do. Sucks for you!

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your parents have anal sex...whore  : Flaming in the Pub will not be tolerated. See you in 3 days.

coAsTal said:

Another blatant cop-out.

One doesn't have to be a christian fundamentalist to see that you're a slam-fucking piece of shit loser here.

Fucking disgusting.

You embarrass yourself more and more with each post, trying to dismiss the facts of my statements by assigning and attacking some imagined religious affiliation?

Blaming her at every breath for not making "you" happy.

You're a self-righteous asshole.

Your problem isn't that you fell out of love with your wife-- that happens without any fault to better people than you-- you're not wrong for that, assuming you made some kind of attempt to fix your relationship at some point (this doesn't include telling your wife she better "put out" either ).

You're wrong, and fucking disgusting, because you're giddily taking the creepy and pussy way out of dealing with your problems instead of ending a seriously dead marriage and the dealing with the consequences of doing that--accepting the pain and suffering, and most importantly, the RELEASE AND FREEDOM--for you and your wife-- the mother of your children.

No-- instead, you want to creep around with another person and violate every promise you've made to her and your children.

Your sanctimonious dismissals of every person's objections show you to be a heartless coward, who is perfectly OK with what you're doing.

Don't sit there in your chair and cower behind the "I haven't actually done it YET" bullshit.

You just told everyone, publicly, that you were meeting this love of your life to fuck. Where does that line count as crossed.

Any responsible person clearly sees that you have long-since crossed it.

Do your wife and children a favour-- leave your wife. Give her a chance to move on past your resentful, disrespectful, and self-centered ass. Being alone is better than being with a cheater.
If you're not sure, why don't you ask your wife if she would mind?

Do you think SHE would want you in her life knowing what kind of slimy infidelity you happily discussed on the internet to a bunch of people? I bet you don't give a fuck about that-- but I'm sure she would.

Why don't you be honest with everyone-- leave your fucking wife. You don't want her, and you can't have her be your ignorant safety net whilst fucking your dreamy girl for long. She will find out-- and you will be an adulterer, and you will pay her your income assigned by an unsympathetic court for the rest of your fucking life.

PS-- what it says about your fantasy woman *if* she's OK with you cheating on a marriage to be with her is telling of the company you keep.

Get pissed at this reality check, and make laughable assumptions about my spriitual ideology if you like, but you know I'm fucking right-- and you're a low-life asshole for this.

YOU POSTED THIS PUBLICLY, AND ASKED FOR OPINIONS-- DON'T CRY LIKE A BITCH WHEN YOU GET RESISTANCE TO YOUR DESPICABLE ACTIONS.

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Life_of_a_Cell said:

I've heard that sometimes when people are drowning and someone swims out to help them, the person in distress will be in such a state of panic that they latch on and thrash about and end up dragging their would-be rescuer down into the sea with them.

Sounds like this woman niteowl has spent the better part of two decades with is sinking fast, and all that's left for him to decide is whether or not he'll let his own lungs fill up with water too.

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