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InvisibleRandalFlagg
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Your opinion on marriage.
    #4732972 - 09/29/05 07:59 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Does it work? Does it not work? I am more interested in hearing from people who are or have been married.

Is it fun? Does it suck?


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4732974 - 09/29/05 08:00 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

id rather get married AFTER i get out of the military... and even then i might not get married cause im goin CIA :grin:

as for now, ima partier, i like to fuck random girls, drink, do a line, and fuck some more:doggystyle:


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4732982 - 09/29/05 08:03 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

its a prison to be avoided at all costs


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733025 - 09/29/05 08:16 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Ask Annie and oDin. They have the perfect marriage.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733034 - 09/29/05 08:18 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

It works and it's alot of fun.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: chinadoll]
    #4733052 - 09/29/05 08:23 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

whats the point in marriage? in actually signing a piece of paper registering that you are married, also registering your kids in ownership of the state and not you. What is the point? give them the opportunity to decide whether you are caring for your kids adequatly?

bad move


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: Silversoul]
    #4733073 - 09/29/05 08:27 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Paradigm said:
Ask Annie and oDin. They have the perfect marriage.




My dad went through three divorces in his life. The women in his life wore him down to a little nub. Every guy I see in a marriage is miserable.

Now...I have never been married, so I won't say it is like that for sure. Married people have much more room to speak than I do. But, it seems as if I have noticed these negative things over and over.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733090 - 09/29/05 08:31 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

My parents have never been divorced. I know quite a few other people my age whose parents have never been divorced. It seems to me that it depends on your attitude towards marriage. If you're both committed to making it work, then you can work things through.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733124 - 09/29/05 08:43 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

happily married for a year now. to tell you the truth...married life is just the same as when we weren't married


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: boO]
    #4733143 - 09/29/05 08:47 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Thanks for your reply. Just please don't beat me up.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733155 - 09/29/05 08:49 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Its always seemed like a worn out Puritan tradition to me. Though I've never been married myself, I've paid witness to many marriages that were disasters. Sometimes its obvious that both parties would be much happier on their own.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733157 - 09/29/05 08:49 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

If you can find the right partner, it can be the best thing that ever happened to you. It can also be the worst thing that could happen to you. Having been this close to being married, I speak from experience. Either way, it's definitely not something you want to rush into....


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733262 - 09/29/05 09:14 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

marriage can be amazing if your in love.

if your not in love it can be the most cumbersome force in your entire existance.

i was married 4 years.

and frankly i dont want to talk about it heheh :vomit:


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: Le_Canard]
    #4733280 - 09/29/05 09:16 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

My parents divorced when I was around 8. I was witness to TONS of fighting and things being thrown around.

The only two pieces of advice that my dad ever gave me were:
- Don't trust women.
- Never get married.

Not to say that I follow that advice. But, I'd have to say that marriage isn't for me. I really just don't see a point to it. If you actually love that person, why can't you just stick together instead of getting married?

My girl and I have already talked about marriage and know its not for us. She has the same views I do, so its great. Also, being that she's Muslim and I'm Catholic. So, marriages have two different meanings there.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: License_to_Chill]
    #4733296 - 09/29/05 09:19 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

"The horror of wedlock, the most appalling, the most loathsome of all the bonds humankind has devised for its own discomfort and degradation."


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: Todcasil]
    #4733298 - 09/29/05 09:19 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

17 years with what i thought was my soulmate (of which 8 legally married, coz we didn't wanna rush into anything). then i went crazy and she dumped me. so much for those empty vows (in health & sickness till death fucks us over). i guess it's better to have loved and lost then... all fucking lies! i'm looking into hate as a path to salvation now, by gawd, if love can transcend all, then so can hate!-)


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733323 - 09/29/05 09:25 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

RandalFlagg said:
Does it work?




if you and your partner are willing to make it work


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #4733573 - 09/29/05 10:18 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Just look at the divorce rate in USA. Marriage in different countries mean different things. But if you are talking strictly about the US its tough to make it work by viewing the statistics.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: novorua]
    #4733672 - 09/29/05 10:45 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

mariage now is a buisness. I mean people do marry out of love.... but it seems to happen a bunch where its more out of neccesity and desperateness... Then when they see it isnt al fun the throw in the towel and the women starts off with enough money taken from the mans life savings... cuz we all know when you get married all that you have of wurth you must shaire. So if two people are mature enough and inlove enough sure marriage is great. I just wouldnt do it till i KNOW whats up.


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Re: Your opinion on marriage. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #4733695 - 09/29/05 10:51 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

If it works it works for you great, if it doesn't, maybe you should not do it.. I might someday, I might not.. I have seen it work, but I see the downside of it too. I say stay with a woman atleast a year, if it is still working and you are honest with each other, it might work.
What do I know though? dont ask me i am lost, I have been out of the scene too long. I will get back though, being alone sucks and I miss foreplay as well as constant sex.


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