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Finally a Relationship...
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well i have liked this girl for the past 2-3 months. have got really close with her and have become very good friends (friends for life). lately she has just told me how she realized she liked me instead of this other guy who she has been seeing kind of.

well now we're KIND OF together (developing a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship) and we have started hooking up. this girl means the world to me. she's like the girl i have been looking for forever, but haven't found because of the town i live in. i haven't even had a real relationship with a girl and i am 19. i don't really have much sexual experience or experience with relationships in general.

i wanted to seek some advice on what i should do to get her to know i like her a lot, both sexually and in general. i wanted to get her a gift for the hell of it, but i don't know what...

i finally have a girl that likes me as much as i like her and it feels great. any help would be appreciated as i want to win this girl's heart over.


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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Love is ephemeral, but pain is 4eva


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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mushiemountain said:
i wanted to seek some advice on what i should do to get her to know i like her a lot, both sexually and in general.


Insert your penis into her vagina.

Dont buy her any presents, that just makes you look lame. Take her out somewhere.

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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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well we discussed this in a thread before.

Assholes seem to get all the pussy.

which boils down to confidence. Just be yourself + confident, no advice is needed, you've obviously pulled her, now you just gotta reel her in + the best way, no matter what anyone says, is to just be yourself. Don't fuck around, Just keep on doing what you're doing and throw in a little affection :smile:

We'll make a man out of you :smile:

good luck man :grin:


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:sun: "...and I know that I have to keep breathing, as tomorrow the sun will rise, who knows what the tide will bring?" :sun:

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Send any spare spore prints you might have and help the distribution :grin:

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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: Cepheus]
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Oh and taking girls out on a dates is a great way to get in their pants.

I've received plenty of handjobs on the back row of a cinema :grin:


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"I only ever hope to reach equilibrium, in Nature's matrix, in line with the meridian" ~ Jehst

:sun: "...and I know that I have to keep breathing, as tomorrow the sun will rise, who knows what the tide will bring?" :sun:

Free Spore Ring Europe
Send any spare spore prints you might have and help the distribution :grin:

Open Source. Freedom.  GNU/Linux

Addicting is not a word.

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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: Cepheus]
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Enjoy and be happy :smile:  Savor it while you can while it lasts.  Who knows, you might get lucky.


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: Maverick]
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i just wanted to get her a little gift, and then a gift for her birthday coming up. first off i'm not going to be an asshole, and i'm not really even looking for pussy. i just wanted some advice.

and i have taken her out plenty of times to eat.


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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be honest about your feelings with her, that's the best road to take. If you want to buy her a gift keep it small and cute, buy something that means a lot to her or shows you've been paying attention to things she likes and dislikes. Sometimes just a nice date is more then enough, dinner and a movie works great but pick a film SHE wants to see and take her somewhere other then chain resteraunts (like fridays)and definitely to a place that requires you to wear more then a tshirt and jeans. Don't spend exorbitant amounts of money on someone in the first year of dating, trust me on that one, stick with small gifts for at least a year or two.


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i really am glad you came back to us instead of taking the other path. *hug*

-A_S (RIP your final words to me will never be forgotten)



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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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If her birthday is coming up, there's no need to give her any additional gifts. If you give her stuff all the time, she'll start to expect it.

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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: coda]
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Good advice there - get her something that shows you know what she likes. A lot of guys don't pay that much attention, so little things like that can make you stand out.

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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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mushiemountain said:
i wanted to seek some advice on what i should do to get her to know i like her a lot

i want to win this girl's heart over.


just spend time with her, not every waking minute but as mush as the two of you
can stand, dont be extravagant with anything, keep it modest and be yourself, you
dont have to impress her with anything, she'll appreciate you more in the long run


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: belligerent]
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just be open..... sexually mentally the works. remember that relationships have a unique opportunity for growth on both parts. open your heart and just love her. everything else will fall into place. remain open express concerns be real. relationships most of the time are based on fabricated misconceptions about the person. or self projected fantasy's. just be real. open. :heartpump:  :heartpump:  :heartpump: good luck


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: lsd25icu812]
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lsd25icu812, that fabricated misonception thing is very true for myself atm.

but a gift that isnt generic, like a fucking red rose, you wanna get her something for the relationship and friendship.

so something with both, something that interests her but shows the affectionate side.

and winning a girls heart over takes time, but its the little considerate things that go a long way.


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: lsd25icu812]
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Hold off on buying anything, taking her out somewhere sounds good. Basically, you wanna show her that you care about her but you don't want her to know how much you really love her. You don't want her to feel like you're her slave, or to have any sympathy for you. In my experience, that's always been a turn off. Girls and boys both want what they can't have.

"Keep it modest and be yourself" is great advice. It might sound cliched, but nobody is going to love you if you don't love yourself. Sympathy != love. Confidence is key.


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: Cepheus]
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aManEater said:
I've received plenty of handjobs on the back row of a cinema :grin:


No wonder theatre floors are always sticky...


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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Instead of asking the Pub for advice, just go straight for the anal and post about it afterwards.

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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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Solid advice has been posted.

"be honest about your feelings with her"


"[show her] you've been paying attention to things she likes and dislikes"


"... a gift for her birthday coming up"


"spend time with her, not every waking minute but as mush as the two of you can stand ... be yourself"


"Don't fuck around, Just keep on doing what you're doing"


Do not work to change yourself in ways defiant of your own personal intuition, or risk an internal conflict of tormentuous proportion. 
If this lady can't vibe with you as you are, at ease and in comfort, she is probably not the one you'll want to fall too hard for! :wink:

Good fortune :heart:


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: mushiemountain]
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mushiemountain said:
i wanted to get her a gift for the hell of it, but i don't know what...




jewelry.  we like jewelry.  and it doesn't have to be real expensive either.  a simple silver chain with a little heart pendant on it, or something like that, will put a huge smile on her face and a twinkle in her eye.  trust me... i have a vagina.

:wink:

good luck dude.


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: geokills]
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geokills said:
Good fortune :heart:



speaking of which... I'm gonna need a few speakers soon


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Re: Finally a Relationship... [Re: a2ndopinion]
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Uh, I have a vagina too and I would HATE jewelry as a gift.

Not all women like diamonds and flowers and lame meaningless crap like that.

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