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OfflineK4Lic0
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I need some relationship advice..
    #3543211 - 12/26/04 12:30 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

I screwed myself over..:thumbdown:

I was dating this girl for two years (and I though she might be "the one), and we broke up a few months ago.. I met this girl, and we starting dating two weeks ago, and it turns out that her sister was good friends with, and had known my ex, since kindergarten.

Now, i'm still good friends with her, and she gives me a call and says she is coming over so we could exchange gifts.. well, now i'm really missing her (quite badly) and I know that she wants to get back with me.

Furthermore; the girl that I am dating now would get quite mad (and I don't know about her sister.) WHAT AM I TO DO? :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:


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InvisibleAbstractHarmonix
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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543220 - 12/26/04 12:34 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

You need to let your heart decide, haha. How corny does that sound? But no, honestly. Do you think she could still "be the one" ?...

If your girlie has a problem with you seeing her, then just explain whats goin on. Just dont cheat, mang. Im sure she will understand.


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OfflineK4Lic0
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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: AbstractHarmonix]
    #3543229 - 12/26/04 12:36 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

nah, I wouldn't ever cheat on anyone.. not my "style".. :smile:


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InvisibleAbstractHarmonix
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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543236 - 12/26/04 12:38 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Well I am definitely glad to hear that. That isnt my stylee either. So anyways, how exactly did you screw yourself over?


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A plethora of music aspirations control my temptations of future revelations beyond "now". The percussion, and the heart beat of my love and devotion. The rhythm goes beyond, prying into the third eye, releasing the creativity held so far inside. The melodicies, through the out of tune pianos and broken classical guitars...there lies a beauty. A beauty as prevelent as the fire inside. To release these energies is pure ecstacy, to deveop these gifts is sacred. The vocality, so pure as can be, shying away from herself, lies within me. For the underlying serenitity, this is what I live for. I plea for harmony, and nothing more. Music equals love. Creation of love leads to the procreativity of the World, and it's spirals and puddles prevailing.


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: AbstractHarmonix]
    #3543242 - 12/26/04 12:40 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

I feel as though I have dug myself into a hole, so to speak.. and its too deep to climb out of?

I dunno..


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543251 - 12/26/04 12:43 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

You never know, girls can be MIGHTY forgiving...


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A plethora of music aspirations control my temptations of future revelations beyond "now". The percussion, and the heart beat of my love and devotion. The rhythm goes beyond, prying into the third eye, releasing the creativity held so far inside. The melodicies, through the out of tune pianos and broken classical guitars...there lies a beauty. A beauty as prevelent as the fire inside. To release these energies is pure ecstacy, to deveop these gifts is sacred. The vocality, so pure as can be, shying away from herself, lies within me. For the underlying serenitity, this is what I live for. I plea for harmony, and nothing more. Music equals love. Creation of love leads to the procreativity of the World, and it's spirals and puddles prevailing.


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: AbstractHarmonix]
    #3543256 - 12/26/04 12:44 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

hmmm


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543267 - 12/26/04 12:48 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Just be straight up with both of them. Honesty is always the best policy. If your current girl gets mad about you seeing your ex, when its something innocent, thats her issue, not yours.


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: Liz]
    #3543272 - 12/26/04 12:50 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Damn, it is so much easier to think about than it is to just say it.. you know?


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543273 - 12/26/04 12:51 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

You should just stick with your current girlfriend since it sounds like everything is going well so far in that relationship.


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543277 - 12/26/04 12:52 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

haha, yeah, I definitely know. but I can tell you from experience that the girl might get pissed off at you for seeing your ex, but she'll be a hell of a lot more pissed off if you hide it, and or lie about it. Just tell her like its no big deal, and she'll appreciate your honesty.


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The gunpowder treason and plot.
I see no reason why gunpowder treason
Should ever be forgot.




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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: Kenny7822]
    #3543278 - 12/26/04 12:52 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

but, I don't know that it is going well.. with me thinking about my previous girlfriend often..


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543283 - 12/26/04 12:56 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

It depends on what made you two break up.  And if that issue is possible (or highly likely) to arise again, I'd say don't get back together. 

But if your time apart made you realize how right you actually were for each other, I'd say thats a good thing.

:flowers:


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: Boom]
    #3543295 - 12/26/04 12:59 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Well, the thing is (I forgot to mention this), before we broke up, she told me that she thinks it is possible that I am "the one"..


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543316 - 12/26/04 01:05 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Well I dunno then.:smile2:

:shrug: I guess whichever one you like better.


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: Boom]
    #3543320 - 12/26/04 01:05 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

:lol:


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Re: I need some relationship advice.. [Re: K4Lic0]
    #3543348 - 12/26/04 01:17 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Well, I just told the one that I dated for two years my situation.. so, we'll see what happens..


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