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in love with someone i can fuck but not have...
    #3702269 - 01/30/05 01:01 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

ok so i met this girl and her boyfriend at a party. This girl is stupidly gorgeous. So we started hanging out as a group and the attraction just got out of control . I literally get like spasms in my body when i think of her sometimes, its like nothing ive ever felt before. I think about this girl at night and throughout the day...

ANyways were at my friends house and had a shroom trip, and towards the end of it we started to cuddle, and it was really intense, body exploration thing. Then later we made out, which was just unbelievable.

Its incredibly clear shes as into me as i am into her. Amazingly she told me she gets these same twitches when she thinks about me! and yeah shes emailed me saying to stay in touch and how hot she thinks i am.

man, one time we were on mush and we decided to have a staring contest, so we just locked eyes... the thing went on for about ten minuites. And it blew both of our minds, the connection was unreal.

So basically, amazing chemistry here, but, she has a boyfriend, and there an amazingly good couple who have been going out like 9 months and are really perfect together.

FOrtunaly there open minded kinda people and, as well as being allowed to make out and stuff, i can fuck this girl (she wants it) and her boyfriends is ok with that (as long as hes in the room... which im actually cool with...  :smirk: )

but, ive realized that my attraction to this girl is more than just sexual, like i have feelings for her, and also im worried that once i do have sex with her, the attraction is just gonna get stronger, and then i wont be able to have her again or develop the relationship anymore, which could kill me.

So , i dunno ive been told that having sex with this girl would just fuck me up emotionally cuz i cant have her like i want, but on the other hand how can i pass up the chance to make love to the most beutifull person ive ever met?!

:eek:

any advice greatly apreciated?

i dunno. chances are ill cave the second i get a chance at it anyways...


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: Moonshoe]
    #3702278 - 01/30/05 01:05 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

I'd go for it, you and her both seem open-minded about it, and stay really good friends with her. Chances are she won't be with her boyfriend forever, so if you just be patient and stay close, if she ever dumps him maybe she'll come to you.

At least you have it better than some people, you and her are good friends and open sexually to each other, even if you're not officially going out.


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: Moonshoe]
    #3702283 - 01/30/05 01:06 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

She's unavailable, even if she has a boyfriend that is cool with you messing around with her. Do you realize how much that would fuck with your head? She is someone else's girl and I think it would be smart to respect that and wait to see if you get your chance. Just think of all the jealousy and hate that could result from you seeing her.
If I were you then I would just be friends with this girl and wait to see what will happen.


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: InnerBeing]
    #3702296 - 01/30/05 01:11 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

too sketchy to me, sorry bro i aint got any advice about that. any dude watchin me bone someone is not cool with me

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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: KGB920]
    #3702301 - 01/30/05 01:12 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

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KGB920 said:
too sketchy to me, sorry bro i aint got any advice about that. any dude watchin me bone someone is not cool with me



Well said.


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: KGB920]
    #3702302 - 01/30/05 01:13 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

its not cool if she has a boyfriend :thumbdown:

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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: Rebirtha]
    #3702309 - 01/30/05 01:16 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

Think of it like this. Say you and this wonderful girl that you speak of are in a serious committed relationship and she tells you that she has these sexual feelings for another guy. She tells you that she wants him but does not want to break up with you. Will you sit in the room as she gets off with some dude. How would that make you feel?


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: Moonshoe]
    #3702319 - 01/30/05 01:20 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

it's up to you what you do with this when everyone involved is ok with it, but...

I know the temptation can be big for such things, but when you develop too much feelings for her stop doing it because if you don't it turns from a fun- to a fucked up :smirk: situation for you (emotion-wise).
If she's really in to you she'll break up with her boyfriend.

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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: Rebirtha]
    #3702322 - 01/30/05 01:21 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

first of all i cant believe he boyfriend was cool with you and her doing it. was he in his right state of mind when he said that? i wouldn't do it. if you do you'll see her with he bf later on and you'll get extremely emotional because after you have sex you'll want her even more, and not having her would be like having your heart ripped out and stomped on. just wait and see what happens if you are met to be it will happen.

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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: dressel11]
    #3702339 - 01/30/05 01:26 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

hey guy...

bad news bears.

stay away from that shit...

TRUST ME

or dont.

:heart:


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: InnerBeing]
    #3702348 - 01/30/05 01:29 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

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InnerBeing said:
Think of it like this. Say you and this wonderful girl that you speak of are in a serious committed relationship and she tells you that she has these sexual feelings for another guy. She tells you that she wants him but does not want to break up with you. Will you sit in the room as she gets off with some dude. How would that make you feel?





She's willing to fool around on her BF why not you too.


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: niteowl]
    #3702356 - 01/30/05 01:31 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

exactly.....she cannot be trusted.


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: InnerBeing]
    #3702365 - 01/30/05 01:33 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

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InnerBeing said:
She's unavailable, even if she has a boyfriend that is cool with you messing around with her. Do you realize how much that would fuck with your head? She is someone else's girl and I think it would be smart to respect that and wait to see if you get your chance. Just think of all the jealousy and hate that could result from you seeing her.
If I were you then I would just be friends with this girl and wait to see what will happen.

Think of it like this.  Say you and this wonderful girl that you speak of are in a serious committed relationship and she tells you that she has these sexual feelings for another guy.  She tells you that she wants him but does not want to break up with you.  Will you sit in the room as she gets off with some dude.  How would that make you feel?



Very well said! :handth:I say leave her alone until something happens between her and her bfriend. That just sounds like a trainwreck waiting to happen. Good luck!!


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: blissedout]
    #3702376 - 01/30/05 01:38 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

what makes you think your the only other guy with this "connection"?

you could have a connection with someone elses gonorrhea...

were you aware that there is about 5 different new strains of drug resistant gonorrhea?

you fuckin turd... i am normally not so aggressive, but this is really stupid!

goddamnit.


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: blissedout]
    #3702380 - 01/30/05 01:38 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

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blissedout said:
Very well said! :handth:I say leave her alone until something happens between her and her bfriend. That just sounds like a trainwreck waiting to happen. Good luck!!



indeed this sounds like the best solution :thumbup:

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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: stefan]
    #3702382 - 01/30/05 01:40 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

You know what you should do, now will you do it?


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: Todcasil]
    #3702385 - 01/30/05 01:40 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

Are you replying to me? I don't think you are, but the reply thing says you are. :wtf:


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: blissedout]
    #3702397 - 01/30/05 01:45 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

I think he is just putting in his two cents on the post. I don't think that was a response to you.


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: InnerBeing]
    #3702400 - 01/30/05 01:45 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

I reread it and agree. Sorry.


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Re: in love with someone i can fuck but not have... [Re: InnerBeing]
    #3702401 - 01/30/05 01:45 PM (19 years, 1 month ago)

I agree with everyone else....aviod this situation.

And unless you are OK with her cheating on you I would not try to pursue a relationship with her in the future. She sounds like trouble to me. If its OK with her to be banging other dudes while she is dating this guy then I gaurantee she'll feel the same if she's ever with you. Don't let your heart (and dick) think for you when your head knows this is a bad thing.


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