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Re: rlationship [Re: quarkyquasar]
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she doesnt want a divorce.  it would hurt us both financially...  im still going to be paying some of her bills, and it will be more than child support.

but thanks :smile:

long story..... my youngest daughter is not my biological daughter.  i stood by cindys side while she fought this guy because he wanted absolute full custody, he played dirty and used mind games and was an ass the whole time...

cindy did not once play dirty, she was fair the whole time and used not a single mind game..

she is a very "neutral" person after having her second child.  this is one of my problems... i stuck by her through every peice of shit shes waltzed over...

and i still will.  i love her.  no lawyer neccasery, at least not for a few years.

thanks, peace.


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Men look at themselves and they see flawed humans, we look at women and we see perfect
GODDESSES
Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud
GODS.


~Casil



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Re: rlationship [Re: Todcasil]
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Sorry to hear that you two will not be staying together anymore. I was actually hoping thing would work out for you. Sometimes lawyers are not needed, sometimes lawyers are necessary. that's to ensure both parties don't get screwed over.  This must be very hard for you. Stay strong and keep living. The kids are what's most important at a time like this, looks like you've got your priorites straight.

We are here for you. :heart:


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Re: rlationship [Re: Todcasil]
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The problem was that you got comfortable.

Girls go after mystery, exitement, etc.  This is a prime reason why lots of marriges/relationships fail a few years in.... the girl knows she won the guy.  There is no challenge.

It's probably a bit too late now, but beleive it or not, i salvaged a burning 4 year relationship because i changed the way i acted torwards her.  Break up was VERY close at this point, and she was on the brink of cheating.  The problem was that i was a 'nice guy'. 
I grew a set of balls and all is better now. 
Always have a personal goal, life. Never make the girl the center of your world.  If you feel this is not repairable, move on, never beg.

I never wanted to be an asshole, but a 50/50  between jerk/nice guy in your personality is a must if you want to keep a girl interested.............. and horny.  :wink:

Your wife sounds exactly like my gf sounded. She loved me, but wasn't 'attracted' any longer.  Since there was still love, i knew i could still fix the relationship.  I educated myself a bit.
And it worked. 


Good luck with your kids and your wife. I hope all works out.
I'll send a PM with some info.


:sun:


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~Happy sailing~

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Re: rlationship [Re: Todcasil]
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long story..... my youngest daughter is not my biological daughter.
i stood by cindys side while she fought this guy because he wanted
absolute full custody, he played dirty and used mind games and was
an ass the whole time...

cindy did not once play dirty, she was fair the whole time and used
not a single mind game..


Wait a minute....you were married to her the whole time...and you're
youngest daughter is not your biological child...and the whole time
you wanted to stay with her...and now she wants a divorce.

No offense, but this chick sounds like a fucking bitch that you
should hate, go after in court, and put behind you.

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Re: rlationship [Re: RuNE]
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Dude that is so true...

To keep a girl interested you have to have a difficult to master
mix that includes niceness, mystery, some asshole-like behavior,
and a little arrogance.

Beta males will spend their lives masturbating. Alpha males get
laid.

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Re: rlationship [Re: Todcasil]
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It sounds like you did everything you possibly could for her and the children. You sound like you are a very honorable and selfless man. I wish you best and hope this all rides out smoothly and you both can find what you are looking for wether it be in eachother or someone/something else.


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Re: rlationship [Re: RandalFlagg]
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Yes, true. These are very immature girls that have a lot to learn and a lot of growing up to do but I guess if you want that pussy then you can go by this. Otherwise you can just be patient and wait to meet a girl that isn't a complete stupid bitch that just wants games.


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Re: rlationship [Re: MobiusStripper]
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disenchanted....

i have exhausted all my angles of trying to figure out what she wants from life/love/god/men/friends.

she still will not tell me, or give me the clues i need.

it is over...  i cried for the loss of my children today, even though i will see them everyday. 

but i feel my crying for our relationship is over... i cried to much during.  i will not cry any more for the end.

tonight i told her that i hoped she would fall head over heels in love for someone, like she could not do with me. 

"i hope you fall in love with someone someday , deep love."

"i dont."



this phrase shows me she could have never loved me, and will never let herself be in love.

its is a shame, and painful to know this behavior exists... :frown:

and to know that my love couldnt create a love in her.

i learned that love is not the most powerful force in the world.


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Men look at themselves and they see flawed humans, we look at women and we see perfect
GODDESSES
Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud
GODS.


~Casil



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Re: rlationship [Re: MobiusStripper]
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Quote:
Yes, true. These are very immature girls that have a lot to learn and a lot of growing up to do but I guess if you want that pussy then you can go by this. Otherwise you can just be patient and wait to meet a girl that isn't a complete stupid bitch that just wants games.



Altho randalflagg hit the nail on the head, its a bit deeper than just 'getting laid by immature girls'.  Quite frankly (and this is not an insult) you girls simply dont know what you want.  If you do, and you're actualy honest, you will tell us in womans language, something guys simply don't understand.

Whom do you choose.
Woody Allen, or MAXIMUS from Gladiator?

Maximus was strong. He was loyal. He had heart, and courage.  He was not an asshole, and he was not a pussy.

You, speak of 'jerks'.  I speak of a gentlemen that knows how to stand up for himself, has goals and ambitions in life,  and knows when to step up and not take shit.

There is a difference.


Maximus will get the girl and keep her forever.
Woody allen (might) get the girl and she will either stay with him and cheat, or break his heart and throw him in the trash.  Or she might actualy love that nice guy deep down inside, but it just wont turn her on like a real man would.

Think about it a little.

Todcasil:  Apologies for the hijack.

:sun:


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