No problem, report back with your results.
Most people use tinder nowdays but because I never wanted to attach a facebook or mobile number, I stick to pof and okcupid.
Dont underestimate how important your profile and pictures are. Especially if you arent a super model with six pack abs, you have to set yourself apart by making yourself seem like a fun, approachable person. Shirtless selfies probably wont work for you, so I suggest pictures of you doing fun stuff. Maybe a picture of you playing a guitar, picture of you rock climbing, basically doing whatever it is that makes you a rad person. Smiling helps, makes you look fun, approachable. What you write in your profile should reflect this as well. Don't just list off shit you like to do, make your profile unique and funny. These girls are showered with generic tools, make yourself stand apart.
Also, don't be afraid to kick it with a few heavier chicks you could never see yourself serious with. Just going out is good practice for when you get a better looking woman.
The "im going to take you out approach" is also quite successful. Some really hot girls get swamped with "lets fuck" messages, be that one guy who shows interest in her and wants to take her out and she may go out with you even though she has hotter options because shes sick of being used by scumbags. All you need is your foot in the door, even if it takes two dates to sleep with them its worth it. Espcially when you can date on the cheap like going for a walk around the lake with a beer or two. Avoid going out to eat, movies, etc the cliche bullshit. You just want a cheap, non committed place you both can talk. Fuck getting stuck with a bill somewhere if she ends up never talking to you again.
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