mick said:

yep. communication or anal play are pretty much your two best bets.

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Crystal G said:

It would be different if it were a stranger, or if her boyfriend just shoved it in her while she was not ready at all.

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burningstar06 said:

Ok so the tiltle says most of. Ahead of ime Kim on k pins and weed exuse my prop a ably terrible writing

Anyways so yea how do I do that I feel like he doesn't really pay attention an is sort of selfish in bed most of the  time. I'm reallllly shy and not the dominant type at all and he knows that bug even so I've troed few times to make him happy. But take for instance last night. We havent had sex in quite I while (I'm not sure why it's not that I'm not attracted to him I just don't think about it!

So we were laying in bed and he only had his boxers on and we were cuddling with me behind him so I went in for a move and started to play with his boxer waist line. And beg and to play with him so I continued this for about five minutes I wont go into all the detail but I was playing with him anyways we was just laying there with his eyes closed not even paying any attention auto me so I kissed him and we mp kissed a few times and I was still playing with him I had to lead him to play with me and when he did he barely even tried like lazily tried to pleasure me and the he just stopped and I was still playing with him.

I tried to take it up a notch and blow him and he still wouldn't look at me or touch me. It makes me feel unwanted I dont  know . I feel like afterward I just did him a favor and got nothing from it when I wanted to f-*** and he always does this

WHYYYYY? How do I fix this? I'm very shy in bed I do like to get just a little kinky but only if I'm realllly into it but our sex just seems like it needs sone spicing up he's the only person I've ever slept with so its not like Ibe had practice or whatever with other people

Hellllp me please

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Chastity Psilocybe said:

Girl, I'm going to be brutally honest with you.  It's time to open your eyes.  He's fucking someone else.  If you're sucking his dick and he doesn't want to stick in you, move out and move on. Seems all he wanted was to pop your cherry and fuck you til you were loose.  Pack half your shit when he's at work, call your fiends and ask if you can stay at their place til you find one of your own, and once you do, finish packing your shit and leave it right in front of the door so he can see it as soon as he walks in.  When he does, don't tell him why you are leaving or where you are going.  Just give him your set of keys, grab your bags and just go.  If he goes after you and asks you what he did, tell him he did nothing.  Nothing to make you happy or be satisfied.  Than walk away and go to your friends house.  And don't even THINK about crying.  He's not worth your tears.

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That's pretty fucking extream

TheGreenArrow said:

You're lame.  They haven't even talked about it and you're projecting if you ask me.

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